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The Best Time To Marry In Nigeria As A Lady by olumyde(op): 12:21pm On Mar 29, 2019
Hey ladies! Based on the consideration of some factors, I have come up with the best time for a lady to marry if she wants to be educated and have a smooth launch to her career. This is just a theory and you can call it the Nigerian optimal female marriage time theory.

So, the best time to marry as a lady is in your final year at tertiary institution. Why do I say so?

If you marry at the beginning of your final year, chances are you already have your CGPA on lockdown. All things being equal, you should have given birth to your first child before NYSC. For NYSC, as a married lady, you will decide which part of the country you want to serve. They can't just post you anywhere. You will have enough time to take care of your baby because of the light workload of corp members and you'll be collecting a guaranteed allowance from federal government while doing so.

By the time you finish NYSC and you're looking for job, your first child should be close to 2 years old, an age when you can easily wean him/her and even drop at creche or kindergarten.

You and your husband can then suspend having another baby for the next four or five years to enable you focus your energy on getting a job and having a smooth uninterrupted start to your career life.

The success of this theory is based on a number of factors. One that getting married in your final year will not distract you and make you have an extra year in school. Two, that you conceive not long after you marry. Three, that you give birth successfully. Four, that you get a reasonable job after your NYSC. And finally, that family planning does not fail you.

Anyways, that's my theory. For those who have already graduated from tertiary institutions, sorry, my theory can not work for you �. For those who are still in higher institution, you can consider my theory, having it in mind that everything is ultimately in the hands of God.

What do you guys think? Kindly share your opinion and thoughts.

Disclaimer: This post was meant to stir our thinking and be a conversation starter. Do not take it too seriously. I do not take any responsibility, if you decide to follow the theory. You are responsible for your decisions.��
Re: The Best Time To Marry In Nigeria As A Lady by Nobody: 12:23pm On Mar 29, 2019
Las las, it is a man who is comfortable get married. This Buhari regime come add salt to.injury.
Re: The Best Time To Marry In Nigeria As A Lady by falcon01: 12:24pm On Mar 29, 2019
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Re: The Best Time To Marry In Nigeria As A Lady by Oblivionsmiles: 12:25pm On Mar 29, 2019
I was to type a long epistle discrediting your theory until I saw the last paragraph. So I'll just chill out.





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Re: The Best Time To Marry In Nigeria As A Lady by olumyde(op): 12:28pm On Mar 29, 2019
Oblivionsmiles:
I was to type a long epistle discrediting your theory until I saw the last paragraph. So I'll just chill out.





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I think it's a valid theory. What do you have to discredit it?
Re: The Best Time To Marry In Nigeria As A Lady by Jcole1985(m): 1:59pm On Mar 29, 2019
After secondary school next thing should be marriage to any Chief Omego that comes calling.SIMPLE!.
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