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edufreshy:
you have a point bro. So you suggest I should just 4get her and look for love elsewhere?

Like I said earlier, this is my own view. The choice is yours to make.

this one get as he be o. but if na me, i go first observe from far far before taking any step.

MhizzAJ:
What is wrong with nairalanders.
They don't even get to read the story before commenting, that's why most of them are in failed relationships especially the guys.

The lady in question didn't date the dead uncle, she wasn't a girlfriend to the dead uncle.

You can go ahead and marry her sir, there's nothing wrong as long as you both understand and love each other , there are a lot of problems in this life already for one to be thinking whether or not to date his uncles former girlfriend, why didn't the uncle get married to her in the first place, some men can do anyhow.

You have a valid point. I know I love her even before she told me about her past with my uncle. And I don't think I would want her past to come between our future but I'm just confused if this my decision is right. My uncle will get know one day for sure but I'm not worried about that since I don't depend on him on the choice of who to marry

flokii:
Like I said earlier, this is my own view. The choice is yours to make.

Okay I have heard what you already said and I'm giving it an honest consideration even though its not easy for me

anochuko01:
this one get as he be o. but if na me, i go first observe from far far before taking any step.

thanks . You have a valid point

someone saw your picture a d fell in love with you?... and you believe that?....is that how love works?....


the gal dated your married uncle and you are happy with that?...someone that can date a married man?



you have no shame...both you and the gal deserve each other

With the way women full ground na tokunbo you wan carry. Anyway, it might work it might not.

But how comfortable would you be if she tells you she's going to see your uncle or visit him?

What if she has to stay with him if she's in his town for something?

edufreshy:
Warning !!!

Please I want only honest and reasonable opinions, please if you dont have nothing reasonable to say just skip this thread. I don't want insults please.

Here is how my story started. It is a very short story but very confusing to me. I lost my uncle just two months ago, he was my best friend and we grew up together. I was so touched by his death that I decided to post a picture of me and him together on Facebook, I tagged some of our family members including one of another uncle whom I respect so much. Comments were coming in especially from my friends and family and from their friends also. few weeks after the burial of my uncle and my friend, almost when i have forgotten about his death I saw one comment from one pretty girl. I have never met this girl before and I have never seen her all my life. She was so pretty that I had instant crush on her so I decided to send her a friend request. she accepted and I decided to run some games on her. I tried to open her up as a stranget But something strange happened

The girl in question was madly in love with me already, she started asking me out and I was so surprised. I asked her to be my friend and she she said she was already my friend before i met her that she only wants to be my lover. I was like, this girl are you sure you are real, how can a pretty girl like you be so in love with me despite the fact that you have never seen me before. When I said this she said something that SHOCKED me.

She told me that she has already known me for a very long time through my uncle whom I respect so much. She told me that she was my uncle's former girlfriend and I was the reason why she broke up with my uncle because she loved me right from the day that she saw my photo on my uncles phone. She told me all her encounter with my uncle and am the only person who she loves and she really wants to settle down with me. She told me that she has been trying to find a way to reach me but all proved abortive not until she saw my post on Facebook which I tagged my uncle. She told me that her only fears was her past coming between us. But without her past I wouldn't have met her.

Actually I'm planning to settle down next year and I don't actually have a girlfriend. So fellow nairalanders is it wise for me to date or marry my uncles former girlfriend. One thing I'm certain about is that I didn't love her because she was pretty but because she has all that I seek in a woman. She is my spec and she has all that I want in a woman.

Note
She is not the girlfriend of my dead uncle, she is the girlfriend of my uncle who is still alive whom I respect so much. My uncle is now married

ur choice bro no one shud define who u shud marry or not
n anoda thing before i forget dont marry her if u dont love her, u will only waste ur tym n hurt her same tym

babyfaceafrica:
someone saw your picture a d fell in love with you?... and you believe that?....is that how love works?....


the gal dated your married uncle and you are happy with that?...someone that can date a married man?



you have no shame...both you and the gal deserve each other

when she was dating my uncle, my uncle was not married then. So save your insults for other members of your family

edufreshy:
when she was dating my uncle, my uncle was not married then. So save your insults for other members of your family

you deserve her...nansnense!!

Pls learnnto read before commenting.... It helps you understand better

Kusherman:
Na so e dey easy to love faa? Me I wouldn't date her, maybe if the said uncle was still alive and as you guys were close you would have spoken to him and he gives the go ahead then fine. But we're different ppl, so las las do what you want

;Dae

babyfaceafrica:
you deserve her...nansnense!!

If I'm your uncle I would disappear back to this Earth and sound you a very dirty slap...you did not even let his dead body to reach heaven in peace,you have started cheating on his boyfriend...this is heartless,haaaa people wicked gan ooo....
IN advance country like America, you can even be arrested for mansluagther self.Yes you can,since you are already loving your uncle's wife before he died.What manner of person is that,is that not a devil person?...

Please repent and ask her for forgiveness,go to your uncle's grave,kneel down and pray and also ask God for forgiveness so that your soul can be redeemed...

continue with ur relationship. in fact, on ur wedding day, make that ur uncle chairman of da day.

Starboytwo:
If I'm your uncle I would disappear back to this Earth and sound you a very dirty slap...you did not even let his dead body to reach heaven in peace,you have started cheating on his boyfriend...this is heartless,haaaa people wicked gan ooo....
IN advance country like America, you can even be arrested for mansluagther self.Yes you can,since you are already loving your uncle's wife before he died.What manner of person is that,is that not a devil person?...

Please repent and ask her for forgiveness,go to your uncle's grave,kneel down and pray and also ask God for forgiveness so that your soul can be redeemed...

now I know why you are starboy2 instead of one.

anthonyuncle:
continue with ur relationship.
in fact, on ur wedding day,
make that ur uncle chairman of da day.

Okay