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Re: Boyfriend And Family by sisisioge: 4:09pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
Boss13: Oga tinydeck...careful ok. I understand your struggle...a good soldier is always legit...foorkingmodafoorrker! |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by olas24u(f): 4:39pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
sisisioge:Why do you want to destroy other people with your opinion.i can imagine your personality.you were writing has if you were so sure. |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by sisisioge: 4:46pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
olas24u: Madam, you should be smart enough to know that the forum is opened to different opinions. Mine says watch girl...say yours without wondering about my personality. How about that? Thanks 3 Likes |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by CanadianNaija: 6:46pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
Dionne005: I read your post. Do what pleases you madam. |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by GHoJes: 9:32pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
@dionne005, do you have proof he is 29 i do not mean the age on papers he showed you. If she is a sibling, he automatically become at most an 'uncle' in addition to big brother. It is not the culture for elder ones to earn the title dad even if they takeover a deceased dad's responsibility. The whole family as someone already hinted may be in it to gain your trust for easy future manipulation. Your safest bet here is that he had the girl at an early age and do not yet know how to tell you he already has a child. 1 Like |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by Dionne005: 5:10pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
GHoJes: Thanks for being logical! Good thoughts! Yeah I have thought that things may have happened at a young age! As far as proof that he is or ain't 29....what else can I look for besides papers and what not. Black don't Crack but he don't look older. The girl looks too old to be our child. But like you said...he could have had her very young by mistake. I had talked to him about her calling me mom. I said I'm too young for a high school girl calling me mom. He said out of respect we call our seniors mom. And I have seen him do it myself. Yal she look too grown for me and I'm too young period. People already think I'm younger than what I am! Anyways I asked to be called Aunty. He said yeah that's fine but when we get married she will call you mom. I said I MIGHT be more understanding by then. I asked how would his mom feel about her calling me mom? How does the girl feel? |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by Dionne005: 5:55pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
I forgot to mention I told him about a friend of mine that recently told me he was adopted. I told my BF about it and he was feeling sad and said why would they tell the boy he was adopted. That's cruel. They should have just told him he is was their son and kept it at that. I said what's wrong with telling people they are adopted? He said in his country we try to make sure everyone has a father and mother. No one goes without even if it's not their mother and father. We take care of everyone. |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by Dionne005: 6:01pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
GHoJes: I met all his Nigerian friends in America and they are all our age or younger. We just all young folk. It just wouldn't make sense. When I first met him I actually was afraid he was too young. Not a minor but simply too young for my taste. So I know for a fact he is not older, if that's what you're trying to say. |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by Boss13: 8:19pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
olas24u: She is sad person. Her opinions depicts one undergoing excruciating sadness 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by GHoJes: 3:28am On Apr 25, 2019 |
Dionne005:Ok. |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by GHoJes: 3:36am On Apr 25, 2019 |
Dionne005:Your last questions has what you need to know. The girl and mum can never be comfortable with her calling you mum if they truly are mum and daughter with your boyfriend as their son and sibling respectively. |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by GHoJes: 3:44am On Apr 25, 2019 |
Dionne005:Believe whatever you like; he has not told you the truth. He played you mentally with the feeling sad 'act'. |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by bjjose: 5:54am On Apr 25, 2019 |
Madan you better run for your life, because you so call boy friend is a complete married man back home. |
Re: Boyfriend And Family by ThothHermes: 6:54am On Apr 25, 2019 |
Boss13:The family section is the place where miserable people come to spread their misery. I feel sorry for people that come here to ask for advice. I can always predict the outcome of every thread that is opened on here. They would just make blanket statements and begin to pat themselves on the back. Terrible lot. |
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