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Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by IkpuMmadu: 7:25am On Apr 21, 2019
stinflame:
You really have time to answer him. He speaks like an ignorant man and one who never passed through high school biology . Talking about purity of bloodline, he forget the fact that in this Morden days an average man must have slept with 2-3 human from other tribes and region. Aren't fluid been transferred and ur genes been altered unknowingly . Let me ask, are the east not dieing of AIDS, aren't they slowpoke in some homes, aren't they madness in some home aren't they some strange illness which never occurred before .. If you talk of the isrealite, as a law they won't sleep with other tribe, that's why even their soldiers don't. So my friend ur purity theory is all but nonesense in this contemporary society.

Let me ask you a simple question, you get married to a none virgin who grew up in the West region, and most of her ex where westerners, is there still purity as u claim In that blood.
The question is : why is it that it's the Yoruba men that always run to other tribes and leaving their women! 90% of those commenting here are Yoruba ! Are the yoruba women that terrible

One yoruba man said to me few days ago in Egbeda area that he can't marry a yoruba woman and he listed all the factors and he is right

But I would not say it here
Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by ZIMDRILL(m):
IkpuMmadu:
YOU CAN SEE THE DEMERITS OF INTER TRIBAL THING OUT WEIGHS THE METRITS

I DONE WANT TO TALK ABOUT DILUTING THE GENOME AND BRING IN FORIEGN DISEASE THAT IS FORIEGN TO A TRIBE


LETS FACE IT, CULTURALLY,ROMANTICALLY BIOLOGICALLY IT IS NOT ALWAYS RIGHT...BUT IF YOU HAVE STRAYED IN ANY WAY OUT OF YOUR TRIBE...PLEASE HONEY MAKE IT WORK DEAR
there is nothing wrong in being proud of your tribe and tradition

but this pure blood shit is rubbish, DNA knows no tribe

if you want pure blood then marry your cousin like pakistanis and indians and see what nature does to those kids


pure blood is self entitlement, to rule or look down on others

look deeper even with pure blood of the same tribe within the same tribe people are shun on each other based on social and economic status eg a king wont marry a woman from non noble family

look at the UK royal family, their are now moving with 21st century times and change 50 years ago Hurry would have not married a divorce and worse a black woman, are they maintaining the pure blood of old system ?

look at kings and queens of many years ago, they married other prince/ess from other nations it was more beneficial in trade, alliance in wars etc

they knew pure blood shit doesnt put food on the table, but hard working of a person outside the tribe pure bloold shit


colonisation played divide and concur while were busy fighting each they ruled us all, now we hate each other like cats and dogs and we pass on the hate on our kids, the hate and dislike of each other goes on for years after gaining self rule

we judge, vote and like someone based on tribe rather than one being a person and his qualification or good deeds
Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by IkpuMmadu: 12:11am On Apr 22, 2019
ZIMDRILL:
there is nothing wrong in being proud of your tribe and tradition

but this pure blood shit is rubbish, DNA knows no tribe

if you want pure blood then marry your cousin like pakistanis and indians and see what nature does to those kids


pure blood is self entitlement, to rule or look down on others

look deeper even with pure blood of the same tribe within the same tribe people are shun on each other based on social and economic status eg a king wont marry a woman from non noble family

look at the UK royal family, their are now moving with 21st century times and change 50 years ago Hurry would have not married a divorce and worse a black woman, are they maintaining the pure blood of old system ?

look at kings and queens of many years ago, they married other prince/ess from other nations it was more beneficial in trade, alliance in wars etc

they knew pure blood shit doesnt put food on the table, but hard working of a person outside the tribe pure bloold shit


colonisation played divide and concur while were busy fighting each they ruled us all, now we hate each other like cats and dogs and we pass on the hate on our kids, the hate and dislike of each other goes on for years after gaining self rule

we judge, vote and like someone based on tribe rather than one being a person and his qualification or good deeds
Bla bla bla
Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by Nobody: 12:31am On Apr 22, 2019
IkpuMmadu:
Bla bla bla
Obviously nothing go change Mmadu orientation. The issue here is this, u may have such orientation but ur kids may have otherwise. If they don't you grand children or great grand children may have otherwise. And the purity u so much believe in will be ruin, or better still u will dictate to them from the grave. So nothing like that nonsense In a contemporary society.
Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by IkpuMmadu: 12:42am On Apr 22, 2019
stinflame:
Obviously nothing go change Mmadu orientation. The issue here is this, u may have such orientation but ur kids may have otherwise. If they don't you grand children or great grand children may have otherwise. And the purity u so much believe in will be ruin, or better still u will dictate to them from the grave. So nothing like that nonsense In a contemporary society.
Bla bla bla .....are you done
Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by endureson: 5:44am On Apr 22, 2019
ERORR404:
I'm a product of one (North and south,edo to be precise) and i think i may also marry from the South. Do nigerians still shy away from intertribal marriage?
My family tried but I change am for them.
Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by teacherbim(f): 6:56pm On May 13, 2020
You are cheating on your husband.
with yiu grin
Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by excel1960(f): 7:09pm On May 13, 2020
It's no big deal
Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by Unik3030: 8:25pm On May 13, 2020
anthonyuncle:
some still forbid it.
but I see such persons as educated illiterates
oga don't call people names because of their choice,many are guided by experience.

I am educated n I will never support it based on my experience,just imagine d husband dies n d husband's relative used tradition to collect everything from d wife.All they were saying is "that's how we do it in our place" till they stripped her of all her husband's properties.

That can only b possible with marriage from another tribe,it can never happen in marriage from d same tribe......if I start to dey type wetin my eye don see u go understand well.

what if after marriage your partner tell u there's one deity in their village that u must pay homage to or else bad things will start happening....oga I can never support marriage outside my tribe
Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by anthonyuncle(m): 10:56pm On May 14, 2020
Unik3030:
oga don't call people names because of their choice,many are guided by experience.

I am educated n I will never support it based on my experience,just imagine d husband dies n d husband's relative used tradition to collect everything from d wife.All they were saying is "that's how we do it in our place" till they stripped her of all her husband's properties.

That can only b possible with marriage from another tribe,it can never happen in marriage from d same tribe......if I start to dey type wetin my eye don see u go understand well.

what if after marriage your partner tell u there's one deity in their village that u must pay homage to or else bad things will start happening....oga I can never support marriage outside my tribe
it's a pity that with all da education u have acquired, u still reason in a primitive way.

u won't support inter tribal marriage in Nigeria but u will be glad when ur brother/friend goes abroad and marries a foreigner
Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by Unik3030: 11:01pm On May 14, 2020
anthonyuncle:
it's a pity that with all da education u have acquired, u still reason in a primitive way.

u won't support inter tribal marriage in Nigeria but u will be glad when ur brother/friend goes abroad and marries a foreigner
u are a fool,they say experience is the best teacher n am trying to live my life based on what av seen n a nincompoop like u believe u get sense pass me wey don see things

I come from a reasonable n ok family so I am far from a gold digger or someone with low self esteem that sees d white as gods,I will marry someone from my tribe so nobody go use "that's how we do it" to outsmart me
Re: What Is Your Take On Inter-tribal Marriage. by anthonyuncle(m): 8:07am On May 15, 2020
Unik3030:
u are a fool,they say experience is the best teacher n am trying to live my life based on what av seen n a nincompoop like u believe u get sense pass me wey don see things

I come from a reasonable n ok family so I am far from a gold digger or someone with low self esteem that sees d white as gods,I will marry someone from my tribe so nobody go use "that's how we do it" to outsmart me
I pity those that have invested in ur acquisition of knowledge (coz it's da worst investment of dz generation).

who's interested in ur heritage? u are talking about ur family as if every other person here is from a charity home (even those from there will do better that a dingbat like u).

if u like, marry ur village chief priest.

talking about experience, men like u are da ones ladies pray not to marry & they even pray that God delivers that friends & siblings that are married to ur type
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