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Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by bigheadday: 10:42pm On Apr 25, 2019
Pls house how do I wed my American woman in court in Togo. Am Nigerian but I have lived in Togo for the last 6 years now. Pls anyone who has an idea should pls help me out as I don't know the process to undergo and she intends coming soon for our court wedding.
Pls help a brother out.
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by delishpot: 10:53pm On Apr 25, 2019
Ask Togo government na. They should know better.

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Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Poorboy: 11:14pm On Apr 25, 2019
bigheadday:
Pls house how do I wed my American woman in court in Togo. Am Nigerian but I have lived in Togo for the last 6 years now. Pls anyone who has an idea should pls help me out as I don't know the process to undergo and she intends coming soon for our court wedding.
Pls help a brother out.
are you doing Yahoo?
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by robinso01(m): 11:50pm On Apr 25, 2019
Poorboy:
are you doing Yahoo?
so any Nigerian marrying oyinbo Na yahoo abi?
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Poorboy: 12:03am On Apr 26, 2019
robinso01:

so any Nigerian marrying oyinbo Na yahoo abi?
you never Sabi anything
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Temple1288(m): 12:42am On Apr 26, 2019
Having lived there for 6yrs, I believe you're a citizen there. Right? If not, just get back to Nigeria, and make use of the High Court in Lagos.. Or didn't you tell the American you're Nigerian?

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Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Jayneek(m): 1:21am On Apr 26, 2019
bigheadday:
Pls house how do I wed my American woman in court in Togo. Am Nigerian but I have lived in Togo for the last 6 years now. Pls anyone who has an idea should pls help me out as I don't know the process to undergo and she intends coming soon for our court wedding.
Pls help a brother out.

Bro am in Togo as well and I think the best thing to do is find any of these Solicitors offices around and tell them to guide you. I would have helped you find out but I hardly speak the French and their language. Since you have been here that long I believe you could either speak French or their language so its best you enquire from a solicitor yourself so they guide you.
Meanwhile am still shocked oooo how you take catch American woman for this Togo so? You are lucky ooo most whites I see are French or Lebanese and this their language thing is just a big wahala. Though am trying to work out France papers for me and my Togolese baby mama to move out of here.

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Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by bigheadday: 7:32am On Apr 26, 2019
Poorboy:
are you doing Yahoo?

@Poorboy.. No sir
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by bigheadday: 7:33am On Apr 26, 2019
Temple1288:
Having lived there for 6yrs, I believe you're a citizen there. Right? If not, just get back to Nigeria, and make use of the High Court in Lagos.. Or didn't you tell the American you're Nigerian?

No I'm not just that she prefers us wedding here.
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Hadampson(m): 7:34am On Apr 26, 2019
robinso01:

so any Nigerian marrying oyinbo Na yahoo abi?

That's typical Nigerian mentality for you angry

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Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by bigheadday: 7:35am On Apr 26, 2019
Jayneek:


Bro am in Togo as well and I think the best thing to do is find any of these Solicitors offices around and tell them to guide you. I would have helped you find out but I hardly speak the French and their language. Since you have been here that long I believe you could either speak French or their language so its best you enquire from a solicitor yourself so they guide you.
Meanwhile am still shocked oooo how you take catch American woman for this Togo so? You are lucky ooo most whites I see are French or Lebanese and this their language thing is just a big wahala. Though am trying to work out France papers for me and my Togolese baby mama to move out of here.

@Jayneek. Thanks very much. Na like joke e take turn reality and she is even more curious than me. I wish u and ur baby mama all the best.
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Jayneek(m): 12:34pm On Apr 26, 2019
bigheadday:


@Jayneek. Thanks very much. Na like joke e take turn reality and she is even more curious than me. I wish u and ur baby mama all the best.

Okay bro nice one. Try to make enquiry from the solicitors around. My girl people told me to do the court wedding but I declined till further notice. If our movement to France is sure then I can do it before leaving.
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by bigheadday: 1:29pm On Apr 26, 2019
Jayneek:


Okay bro nice one. Try to make enquiry from the solicitors around. My girl people told me to do the court wedding but I declined till further notice. If our movement to France is sure then I can do it before leaving.

Don't you think it's best u do it even before the application process so you have a solid ground? I will make necessary enquiries with the solicitors around.
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Jayneek(m): 3:38pm On Apr 26, 2019
bigheadday:


Don't you think it's best u do it even before the application process so you have a solid ground? I will make necessary enquiries with the solicitors around.

I have actually done the traditional stuff sha, so I just wanted court wedding to be on one side but if need be that I have to do it for the papers to go smoothly then I will do the needful.

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Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by robinso01(m): 4:25pm On Apr 26, 2019
Hadampson:

That's typical Nigerian mentality for you angry
that is a bad mentality then
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Hadampson(m): 5:24pm On Apr 26, 2019
robinso01:

that is a bad mentality then


Bad is even an understatement. This mentality has turned many people to something else. Just look at what the SARS are doing. If they caught you chatting with oyibo, it means you are doing yahoo. Can you imagine angry
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by robinso01(m): 6:41pm On Apr 26, 2019
Hadampson:



Bad is even an understatement. This mentality has turned many people to something else. Just look at what the SARS are doing. If they caught you chatting with oyibo, it means you are doing yahoo. Can you imagine angry

same mentality that makes police to accuse young men driving car to be a Yahoo boy

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Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Hadampson(m): 10:12pm On Apr 26, 2019
robinso01:

same mentality that makes police to accuse young men driving car to be a Yahoo boy

Yes oo.. A young boy who drives a car is a yahoo boy in Nigeria
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by cookiejar99(f): 10:08am On Apr 28, 2019
Why not allow her file for the K1 visa for you...takes a few months to process...the marriage visa takes a longer time o
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Ugosample(m): 10:51am On Apr 28, 2019
robinso01:
so any Nigerian marrying oyinbo Na yahoo abi?
forget these PEOPLE
if she can visit you in Togo and you take pics and all..

Let her go back to U.S. and file K1 visa 4 u
it's faster than CR1 o
a word is enough 4 the wise
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Ugosample(m): 10:54am On Apr 28, 2019
Temple1288:
Having lived there for 6yrs, I believe you're a citizen there. Right? If not, just get back to Nigeria, and make use of the High Court in Lagos.. Or didn't you tell the American you're Nigerian?

togolese citizen

This is funny cheesy grin
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Temple1288(m): 11:54am On Apr 28, 2019
Ugosample:


togolese citizen

This is funny cheesy grin

Why's it funny?
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by cookiejar99(f): 7:31pm On Apr 28, 2019
Please how long does it take for a permanent resident to file for thier spouse...on the average...i need honest answers please.
My fiance is nt a citizen yet and we plan on getting married in july
Ugosample:


forget these PEOPLE

if she can visit you in Togo
and you take pics and all..


Let her go back to U.S. and file K1 visa 4 u

it's faster than CR1 o

a word is enough 4 the wise
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Beautyaddy: 7:54pm On Apr 28, 2019
cookiejar99:
Please how long does it take for a permanent resident to file for thier spouse...on the average...i need honest answers please.
My fiance is nt a citizen yet and we plan on getting married in july

If the paper work goes well it usually takes about 2 years.
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by cookiejar99(f): 8:21pm On Apr 28, 2019
I heard it takes a year shocked shocked
Can i apply for visiting visa after we get married What re the chances that id get it.. At least to visit my husband
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by Ugosample(m): 10:11pm On Apr 28, 2019
cookiejar99:
Please how long does it take for a permanent resident to file for thier spouse...on the average...i need honest answers please.
My fiance is nt a citizen yet and we plan on getting married in july

i dont know the exact time frame

BUT it's longer for legal permanent residents tho.

how long does he have bf he becomes a citizen?

But if it's a long time
you just have to do the needful and join the long queue.
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by bigheadday: 8:55am On Apr 29, 2019
cookiejar99:
Why not allow her file for the K1 visa for you...takes a few months to process...the marriage visa takes a longer time o

@cookiejar99... Can u pls throw more light on the K1 visa? I will be very happy to learn from you about it. Thanks
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by bigheadday: 8:56am On Apr 29, 2019
Ugosample:


forget these PEOPLE

if she can visit you in Togo
and you take pics and all..


Let her go back to U.S. and file K1 visa 4 u

it's faster than CR1 o

a word is enough 4 the wise


@ugosample.. Pls kindly share your experience with me as I know nothing about the K1 Visa.

Thanks
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by cookiejar99(f): 8:18pm On Apr 29, 2019
https://www.nairaland.com/4800968/usa-fiancee-k1-visa-thread
bigheadday:


@cookiejar99... Can u pls throw more light on the K1 visa? I will be very happy to learn from you about it. Thanks

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Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by cookiejar99(f): 8:19pm On Apr 29, 2019
All you need to knw about the K1 visa is on that thread...my fiance is not a citizen yet...cos getting married first takes a longer time
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by cookiejar99(f): 8:20pm On Apr 29, 2019
He said next year
Ugosample:


i dont know the exact time frame

BUT it's longer for legal permanent residents tho.

how long does he have bf he becomes a citizen?

But if it's a long time
you just have to do the needful and join the long queue.
Re: Help! Am Nigerian But Wants To Wed My American Woman In Togo. by good4all40: 10:29pm On Apr 29, 2019
Well from what l know, if you have a resident permit in Togo which l beleive you will, it will be easy, just approach any of their marriage registries tell them you want to get married, make sure you go there 3 weeks before the arrival of your fiance tell them your story but they may ask for more money if they know you are marrying a foreigner and to make it worst you are a foreigner yourself, l will strongly advice you go with a Togolese that you trust to their marriage registry it might make things easier for you. Don't forget your fiance does not require a visa to Togo it is Visa on arrival for most countries in the West including America but it is only valid for 7 days, l will suggest you ask her to get Togolese visa at their Embassy in Washington DC for a longer stay and multiple entries.

CR1 visa is slower in process than K1 visa, but l will advice you to go for CR1 visa because it's denial is so low compare to K1 visa. The whole process might take a year or more. If this is the first time your wife to be is visiting you, l will advice you to get married on her second or third visit as this gives you more chance of getting the visa without much complications, marriage at first visit for Nigerians, a country rated according to their immigration standard as high fraud country is giantly complicated and can leads to refusal. just take it easy my friend, it is better to wait longer for something that has highest percentage of success than rush and fail.

Take lots of pictures together and don't delete your chats except your very very private conversations l wish you success. [color=#000099][/color]

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