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My Girlfriend by Edelbriggs: 6:10am On Apr 28, 2019
I just found out my girlfriend of 3 years plus, who I’m planning on getting married to this year has been deflowerd by an average joe, who took her and her friends out. she’s a corper and I traveled last year August, came back Xmas, she refused to come see me when I called her.

I didn’t know she was receiving dick from someone else and got pregnant in the process, had an abortion

Now, she’s claiming the guy got her drunk and raped her. I dunno what to do anymore, I really loved this girl and have already told my mom and siblings that she’s the one that I’m getting married to....I’m confused, I don’t know what to do with her anymore

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Re: My Girlfriend by galadima77(m): 6:16am On Apr 28, 2019
Welcome to life... Give it time and you'd get over her.

There are good girls out there though

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Re: My Girlfriend by MaiGemu: 6:25am On Apr 28, 2019
Go ahead and marry her... Always find it in your heart to forgive her even when average Joe sleeps with her.

You love her and I've advised you accordingly
Re: My Girlfriend by Oluromantic: 6:52am On Apr 28, 2019
There's no need for confusion. Its painful I know but you have to release her and let her go. She'll do worse selfish things if you go ahead with her. Tell your parents its over and if they insist, tell them the reason. You'll see another good girl

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Re: My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:48am On Apr 28, 2019
Sorry bro, that's not a reason to throw it relationship away, we all make mistakes and at times are so greedy to taste life.. Can you say while u with her u aren't seeing other girls. Shit can get messier and remember those girl might be someone else's girlfriend. If truly she is sorry and remorse of her deed, take her back. It's believed a person whose secret u know will try to live up to ur expectation.
Gud luck.

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Re: My Girlfriend by shege45: 8:14am On Apr 28, 2019
Edelbriggs:
I just found out my girlfriend of 3 years plus, who I’m planning on getting married to this year has been deflowerd by an average joe, who took her and her friends out. she’s a corper and I traveled last year August, came back Xmas, she refused to come see me when I called her.

I didn’t know she was receiving dick from someone else and got pregnant in the process, had an abortion

Now, she’s claiming the guy got her drunk and raped her. I dunno what to do anymore, I really loved this girl and have already told my mom and siblings that she’s the one that I’m getting married to....I’m confused, I don’t know what to do with her anymore
rape ko
She willing bleep d guy joor. Ds one na format. I wonder how u guys even do ds no sex in a relationship thing

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Re: My Girlfriend by Edelbriggs: 9:11am On Apr 28, 2019
shege45:
rape ko
She willing bleep d guy joor. Ds one na format. I wonder how u guys even do ds no sex in a relationship thing
Baba, I have seen it all with women, I lived in Brazil, so sex no dey push me like that. I’m mad at her because, she refused to come see me after I came back to the country, while another guy was drilling her. After 3 years plus, she just allowed another guy pop her cherry.

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Re: My Girlfriend by Zombiekiller010: 11:07am On Apr 28, 2019
Everything she told you was a format , dump her b4 she ruin your life

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Re: My Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:22am On Apr 28, 2019
I hate to hear the word i really love, it sound like a word of a sisy man

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Re: My Girlfriend by Danny110(m): 11:38am On Apr 28, 2019
You don't know what to do?

Come and collect slap my man
Re: My Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:42am On Apr 28, 2019
At least she didn't tell you she fell on his diick, she's a liar with a conscience marry her bro.

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Re: My Girlfriend by Jokerman(m): 11:45am On Apr 28, 2019
Lol.... Long distance relationship again... grin
Re: My Girlfriend by Olanrefront3355(m): 11:48am On Apr 28, 2019
MariaLavina:
At least she didn't tell you she fell on his diick, she's a born again liar marry her bro.

grin. Rep have said it all...

Op, well many comments suggest you forgive and move on to marrying her.... Bro if you do not have the heart, don't do it, you will never last...

And one funny thing is you " can't " forgive and forget..

So you have your answer brother!
Re: My Girlfriend by olanshi: 11:50am On Apr 28, 2019


Wake up from your dreams bloke!
Re: My Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:52am On Apr 28, 2019
Olanrefront3355:


grin. Rep have said it all...

Op, well many comments suggest you forgive and move on to marrying her.... Bro if you do not have the heart, don't do it, you will never last...

And one funny thing is you " can't " forgive and forget..

So you have your answer brother!
grin grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend by Edelbriggs: 8:09pm On Apr 28, 2019
fakeprophet:
I hate to hear the word i really love, it sound like a word of a sisy man
don’t say that bro, this’s a lady I have known since she was 7 she has lived with my mom and sister before....you can see why I really loved her
Re: My Girlfriend by Edelbriggs: 8:10pm On Apr 28, 2019
olanshi:


Wake up from your dreams bloke!
I’m wide awake fam!
Re: My Girlfriend by J4JUVENTUS(m): 8:38pm On Apr 28, 2019
Move on bro....
She will do worst ,if you still go ahead with her.
Talking from experience,but God saved me later on.
The saying that a cheat will always remain a cheat ,no b lie o.
They hardly change bro...
Goodluck!

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Re: My Girlfriend by anthonyuncle(m): 8:49pm On Apr 28, 2019
hmm,
dz one hard o!
give urself some(private) time,
while u ponder on da whole situation & put it in prayer
Re: My Girlfriend by rockyh(m): 10:19pm On Apr 28, 2019
cry
Edelbriggs:
I just found out my girlfriend of 3 years plus, who I’m planning on getting married to this year has been deflowerd by an average joe, who took her and her friends out. she’s a corper and I traveled last year August, came back Xmas, she refused to come see me when I called her.

I didn’t know she was receiving dick from someone else and got pregnant in the process, had an abortion

Now, she’s claiming the guy got her drunk and raped her. I dunno what to do anymore, I really loved this girl and have already told my mom and siblings that she’s the one that I’m getting married to....I’m confused, I don’t know what to do with her anymore
never invest ur love on a lady not even your wife but ur family cos they will someday walk awy but ur family will always be by ur side

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Re: My Girlfriend by olanshi: 12:28am On Apr 29, 2019
Edelbriggs:
I’m wide awake fam!


Good. I know there is an active battle between what is going in your head and your heart. But trust me bloke, don’t ever go that direction! Respect is not served there no more, love is never enough fam!
Re: My Girlfriend by Edelbriggs: 8:06am On Apr 29, 2019
olanshi:



Good. I know there is an active battle between what is going in your head and your heart. But trust me bloke, don’t ever go that direction! Respect is not served there no more, love is never enough fam!
Thanks mate, I appreciate your contributions. I’m just taking my time to see how this pan out......I have been with a lots of women before, starting all over again man! Shit is very hard

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Re: My Girlfriend by olanshi: 9:18am On Apr 29, 2019
Edelbriggs:
Thanks mate, I appreciate your contributions. I’m just taking my time to see how this pan out......I have been with a lots of women before, starting all over again man! Shit is very hard



Everyone has been there before directly or indirectly, we didn’t fail in it but we learn few things from it in order to be a better man and to have a far much better relationship.

Don’t be trampled on.
Re: My Girlfriend by Edelbriggs: 3:54pm On Apr 29, 2019
rockyh:
crynever invest ur love on a lady not even your wife but ur family cos they will someday walk awy but ur family will always be by ur side
I didn’t invest all my love on her, she said she will understand if I decide to dump her. She keeps painting a different picture of how the whole thing happened.....I’m leaving this country again next week, will figure out what to do with her when I get there
Re: My Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:20pm On Apr 29, 2019
I feel like slapping this op, so we should tell you what to do after the lady you intend to marry Bleep another person and in the process got pregnant and she did abortion. that abortion means she has killed someone, in essence she can also kill you if she finds better dick that your own. personally, I think the government should ban the people that use the word "I love you" it is becoming irritating

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Re: My Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:52pm On Apr 29, 2019
All these I REALLY LOVE! I REALLY LOVE makes me wanna cry undecided undecided


Truth is, it's painful and it's normal to feel defeated. But whatever decision you chose to take its entirely up to you.

Remember that even if you still go ahead and marry her, this incident will always remain in your memory and will reduce the amount of respect you have for her.
Re: My Girlfriend by Edelbriggs: 11:48pm On Apr 29, 2019
Nnaabros:
All these I REALLY LOVE! I REALLY LOVE makes me wanna cry undecided undecided


Truth is, it's painful and it's normal to feel defeated. But whatever decision you chose to take its entirely up to you.

Remember that even if you still go ahead and marry her, this incident will always remain in your memory and will reduce the amount of respect you have for her.
You don’t have to blame me bro, she was a good girl till this last Christmas. I’m not holding brief for her, I’m just seeking other people’s opinions thats why I put this up here.
Re: My Girlfriend by Kearl(m): 2:28am On Apr 30, 2019
Edelbriggs:
You don’t have to blame me bro, she was a good girl till this last Christmas. I’m not holding brief for her, I’m just seeking other people’s opinions thats why I put this up here.

Bro, let her go. You’ll heal over time .
Re: My Girlfriend by Octopusssy(f): 3:04am On Apr 30, 2019
Would you have preferred an extraordinary Joe did the dirty?
Re: My Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:49am On Apr 30, 2019
Op don't listen to the comments, go to one bar and get drunk (keep your mobile valuables at home please) come back and smoke weed you'll Def forget about the bitch afterwards, it might hurt but you'll get over it, because if she can do that when you guys are not married yet then what about when you guys tie the knot? angry

Some of yall should just forget about relationships that thing is a very big scam engraved in our human mechanism to enable us mate, just be free and enjoy the single life, sleep in hotels, travel to amazing places, and forget about someone who doesn't give a chickens ass about you


Another idiot will still come to niaraland crying

Oh wait they're already in the next threads
Re: My Girlfriend by cooluzi: 8:59am On Apr 30, 2019
fakeprophet:
I hate to hear the word i really love, it sound like a word of a sisy man
iswear bro really love my foot... most Nigeria men act sissy tho

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