Oyindidi:
Thank God you're okay

Bossjakande:
did u think dis is right wat d wife did. Op pls do test for ur kids.

Oyindidi:
Thank God you're okay

donbachi:
some women can never change...they're the same yesterday,today and forever...and every new year,you hear them scream and shout new year new me everywhere...while the only renewable thing in their lives are all evil...God only mistake.

Bossjakande:
I prefer to trust snake dan to trust woman. same woman DAT born outside and make her hubby train dem. same woman DAT cheat at work and say she enjoy d sex. guys husband Neva trust a woman completely if you tried DAT is early death u are joking with. a woman who can do dis is worse Dan a demon.she will face pains and judgement. d only god women worship is money dey have no true love in thier heart. sorry guy may God heal u. pls take ur children to do DNA if she born dem for u cos I wont be suprised if dey are not.

Bossjakande:
did u think dis is right wat d wife did. Op pls do test for ur kids.

UjuJoan2:
Thank God for your life. Most people don't know the true meaning of the 'in sickness and in health' oath they take on their wedding day.

Sorry to say but your wife wasn't raised right. But I guess you knew that but still went ahead to marry her for God knows why.

But your focus now should be on your health. Avoid anything that will cause your stress . . . also monitor your blood sugar as the BP medication could lead to a high blood sugar.

You are one of the lucky few. A lot of people don't live to tell this story. It is well!

LordKO:
@OP

I wish you speedy and total recovery. You're just unlucky to have married a woman with bad character, one who isn't selfless towards you. There are still plenty of women around who're faithful in particular and good in general, so don't allow her small-mindedness to skew your perspective towards the female gender.

Acidosis:

When it comes to loyalty, give it to dogs. Get yourself a dog and forget that woman.

Btw, where are your parents? Aside dogs, parents are the most loyal and caring beings one can ever have.

Nothing beats selfless love; your story is a serious warning to those who underrate the influence or power of genuine love in relationships. Money can NEVER buy love.

grandlexuz:
As I look back at the last two years I acknowledge it's nothing short of a miracle to be alive. I got up on the morning of 2nd October 2017 feeling completely faint and light headed. Though I could get around I certainly could tell a whole lot was going inside me by the end of the day. Two days later when I couldn't take it any more I visited the hospital and behold my BP was 250/150. The terrified nurse in abit thought the BP monitor had malfunctioned..Lol With repeated readings revealing same numbers I was immediately placed on a Nicardipine iv drip..Whilst the Nicardipine drip was able to bring down my numbers, it bounced back to strastopheric levels as soon as it ran its course.. That was only the start of a long journey of consistently raised BP despite the best of treatments.

During hard times most folks would expect their spouse to be present lending emotional support and comfort. Quite frankly emotional support from loved ones during times of sickness is as good as the best medications. During my plight I hoped my wife and mother of our two sons will show me a tenth of the affection and attention I would readily give her had she fallen stead. How wrong I was!! I would describe my love for her in this way. If my wife had a kidney failure ( God forbid) and needed a transplant I would readily give of my one kidney without a second thought. If the operation wasn't successful and my second kidney was needed I would have given again. That is just how much I love(d) her.

To say I was abandoned by wife is an understatement. At the beginning of our relationship 11 years ago I knew she wasn't the most caring of women, but other things added up. Besides I wasn't looking for a Miss perfect and thus I indulged. One month after my health struggle I saw the true colours of the woman I had lived with for 10+ years... As I ran low on cash seeing different cardiologist so did my woman's attention diminish..Lol Infact her attention diminished faster than the cash.lol With a now restricted diet ( no salt, maggi, red oil, beef) I got up one morning to realise I had to go to the market buy food stuffs, cook them before I could eat. That was with Bp hovering around 220/130. As cash eventually dwindled I was now on my own. My life belonged to me alone and thus the responsibility to stay alive weighed heavily on my shoulders.. Shopping, cooking, doctor's visit alone, rushing to the emergency unit during points of heightened crisis etc.. I remember getting up at night with severe panic attacks, chest pain, shortness of breath to the attention of just my 5 years old son(God bless him mightily). Countless times I ferried my self to the emergency unit at odd hours unaccompanied..

By March 2018 my wife opted out of the relationship. I had taken 17 different medications over 6 months. Yet my wife didn't know the name of one..Medications that were scattered on the shelf of our room.. Fast forward to May 2019, my BP is now stable at 116/66.. That is after seeing 5 different cardiologist, 3 internists, 2 endocrinologists and 1 nephrologist.. I drink 5 medicines daily and its been a journey of extreme side effects getting to this point.. I now live with my two sons in a different town and despite the setbacks from the side effects life is still worth living and giving the best to my kids.. I still love my wife and is ready to take her back if there is a genuine repentance and willingness to make an effort in amending her ways.. Will I wait on her forever - No! If God brings a worthy woman into my life I will be willing to give love a try again..

P.S.. Blood pressure is measured in two separate figures.. The up known as the systolic ( pressure exerted on the artery walls when the heart beats) and the down known as the diastolic (Pressure exerted when the heart is resting between beats).. The systolic is expected to fall between 90-120 and the diastolic between 60-80. Thus the highest figure should be 120/80 now revised to 135/85.. Higher than that you are referred to as suffering from High Blood Pressure in different stages depending on your numbers.. High Blood Pressure is a silent killer and carries with it the risk of stroke, heart attacks, kidney diseases,coronary artery diseases, heart diseases etc.. So folks do well to check your BP regularly and get diet modification tips and or medications if appropriate..

grandlexuz:


Thank you Bro.. I certainly am one of the blessed few.. My Cardiologists couldn't believe how on earth I moved around with a BP that high.. It was secondary hypertension thought to be caused by either pheochromycotma of hyperaldosteronism..In the end we settled for Worst resistant Hypetension Ever..

donbachi:
some women can never change...they're the same yesterday,today and forever...and every new year,you hear them scream and shout new year new me everywhere...while the only renewable thing in their lives are all evil...God only mistake.

kafulka:
bla bla bla..... People will just come online with one sub story some people without critical reasoning will just swallow it and start condemning the woman you have not heard her own side of the story

You fell sick and your wife showed no concern, a woman with whom you have two kids

It's said that in any action, there's equal and opposite reactions, some men had lost the trust and love from their wives do to infidelity and other bad behaviors, you won't understand how pained she is bcs she is still under your roof
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