luminouz:

Why u dey quote her sef??
So if a girl gives me a peck or a kiss cuz she wan fvck me and I didn't give in...I will go straight home and tell my wife about it?? What am I,a sissy-ass parrot?? Naso I go dey report every time a girl crushes on me abi?? A matured man does what he needs to do to keep his marriage intact...n u did well...100% for me...that girl wanted u to say u gave her 5 slaps,10 kicks and then u pushed her outta the window to make her 100% grade.

I tire for the babe ooo.

JejeNaija:


Whatever dear... I believe when you get more matured you will understand the true meaning of cheating. What about married actors and actresses who kiss in some movies and their husband/wife has no problem with that? Do you call that cheating when their partner knows its nothing but just a simple movie and a professional act?

The husband and wives of actors accepts it cos he/she has been informed beforehand, doesn't correlate with yours, there is nothing like true meaning of cheating, cheating is cheating in any way.

JejeNaija:


I tire for the babe ooo.

Lol...that's women for you. Them no dey ever get satisfied...imagine if you had fvcked her...she would ask u to kill ursef na

luminouz:

Lol...that's women for you. Them no dey ever get satisfied...imagine if you had fvcked her...she would ask u to kill ursef na

Lol... The thing got me weak trust me

Biglittlelois:



If kissing is not cheating you won't be scared to tell your wife, you will convince her it's not cheating that it is just locking lips and exchanging of saliva, you did not resist 100%.

I am with you bro.

The guy cheated.


It's also possible he penetrated maybe, did not orgasm....

kings59:
Nice resistance.


Sometimes I would just put myself into temptation.

I would just go to a bar that I know ladies would be patrolling, I would just keep looking at them and controlling my mind. I would look at them and keep saying," devil is this all you can do, bring more"


Sometimes I go to a place I would see sexy/naked girls just to know how strong I am in spirit and my resistance accuracy.

I can remember 2016, I and my 5 friends went to a brothel/bar just for drink, we sat on the chair in our space and table, suddenly girls started coming out and started shaking their yash, both full naked and half naked, both the ones that wore transparent cloth/thighs .

Next thing, they all started falling, saying this girl ass is hot and soft, I go like enter dis and dat.

The temptation there was much and it takes a strong heart and spirit to refute the offer.

I was the last guy remaining after all had gone to their various choice.

A fair skinned lady of average height came and told me that all my friends had made their choice, that I should take her, I told her I don't do with prostitutes, she said ok then.

I was glad I didn't fall, it is just good to learn how to resist temptation.


I would advise the op to tell his wife about this, but he should skip the" she kissed me" part.

That way, your wife will trust you more and whenever she comes across what the husband experienced, she will also resist the man.

For ur mind now U get discipline and self control...

JejeNaija:


Hey kissing is not cheating. It happened very fast and I had to nicely stop it to avoid anything further. I can't tell my wife such a thing because she might see it in a different way. However I resisted it 100%

It actually is

As long as from the bus ride you suspected the woman's intent you shouldn't have even followed her to that hotel

You are playing with fire thinking you are strong.

A real seductress would have slept with you before saying jack.

She would know where to touch you to make you feel helpless.

Don't entertain such again once you start suspecting it.

generationz:


It actually is

As long as from the bus ride you suspected the woman's intent you shouldn't have even followed her to that hotel

You are playing with fire thinking you are strong.

A real seductress would have slept with you before saying jack.

She would know where to touch you to make you feel helpless.

Don't entertain such again once you start suspecting it.

Okay mummy, thanks for the advice.

there are various lessons to be learnt, the OP is also not claiming to be perfect because no one is. he got a temptation that, thank God wasn't bigger than him to handle. he failed in some parts, he got back on his feet.

truth is , there is nobody on earth, you tell this to that won't have some kind of hindsight to it but he came out of the situation before he was neck deep. just appreciate him and learn from the message and not flip the whole scenario upside down.

Na God save you.
Your wife did the resisting for you

Wow......dats a real man, a man who respects his marital vows. Such men are few, less than 1percent.

Biglittlelois:



My answer to your question is yes he cheated cos he kissed someone else


I'm glad you know the stupid kiss can destroy your marriage because that in itself is hurtful cos it is cheating.

I wonder why you are putting another people's problems on your head like this.

Chill and let it go

LilMissFavvy:
Wow......dats a real man, a man who respects his marital vows. Such men are few, less than 1percent.

If you think such men are that few, you need to go out with the right people.

generationz:


It actually is

As long as from the bus ride you suspected the woman's intent you shouldn't have even followed her to that hotel

You are playing with fire thinking you are strong.

A real seductress would have slept with you before saying jack.

She would know where to touch you to make you feel helpless.

Don't entertain such again once you start suspecting it.

A real seductress suck my diick but I still refuse s.ex

Sweet temptations

powerkey:


I am with you bro.

The guy cheated.


It's also possible he penetrated maybe, did not orgasm....

all these Muslims self, if kissing is cheating, then shaking hands with a female is cheating too because some men can cum from shaking hands

Obodo999:


I wonder why you are putting another people's problems on your head like this.

Chill and let it go

Hello, it's a public forum where people air out their opinion, do you see me physically to know his problem is on my head Buzz off if you have nothing worthy to type.

THANK GOD FOR THE GRACE OF RESISTING SIN.
DO NOT PLAY ALONG WITH TEMPTATION WHEN YOUR HEART IS CLEAR ON THAT ELSE YOU MIGHT NOT BE THIS STRONG TO RESIST IT.
GREAT GRACE!!!

JejeNaija:


So in all you have said even though you didn't answer my question, what is the point of igniting a situation that is not worth it when you have done what you could to resist it? Is a stupid kiss worth destroying the happiness of your home?

Mr man bear in mind that at some point you will still cheat on your wife...it's just a matter of time!

The reason why you were able to resist now is cos your marriage is still relatively new.

It's better to cheat with a married woman who will not want tibtrap you with a pregnancy and who is also less likely to infect you with a disease.

BareFacedLies:


Mr man bear in mind that at some point you will still cheat on your wife...it's just a matter of time!

The reason why you were able to resist now is cos your marriage is still relatively new.

It's better to cheat with a married woman who will not want tibtrap you with a pregnancy and who is also less likely to infect you with a disease.

Ur moniker has said it all!!!

But where is lalasticlala sef

kings59:
Nice resistance.


Sometimes I would just put myself into temptation.

I would just go to a bar that I know ladies would be patrolling, I would just keep looking at them and controlling my mind. I would look at them and keep saying," devil is this all you can do, bring more"


Sometimes I go to a place I would see sexy/naked girls just to know how strong I am in spirit and my resistance accuracy.

I can remember 2016, I and my 5 friends went to a brothel/bar just for drink, we sat on the chair in our space and table, suddenly girls started coming out and started shaking their yash, both full naked and half naked, both the ones that wore transparent cloth/thighs .

Next thing, they all started falling, saying this girl ass is hot and soft, I go like enter dis and dat.

The temptation there was much and it takes a strong heart and spirit to refute the offer.

I was the last guy remaining after all had gone to their various choice.

A fair skinned lady of average height came and told me that all my friends had made their choice, that I should take her, I told her I don't do with prostitutes, she said ok then.

I was glad I didn't fall, it is just good to learn how to resist temptation.


I would advise the op to tell his wife about this, but he should skip the" she kissed me" part.

That way, your wife will trust you more and whenever she comes across what the husband experienced, she will also resist the man.

For this modern life guy still dey go brothel when babies full everywhere...Abi u be security guard or bicycle repairer bros no vex oo u go done old well well sha

You try,

Biglittlelois:
You didn't resist the temptation 100%, you kissed her and flowed with the kissing for a while, that's cheating, you have to tell your wife cos you locked lips and exchanged saliva with another woman.

At least he tried small now...e no easy

Maybe because she's the one rushing you


I don't like bleeping a woman I confirm she's married

Guy, you really really _fucked up o!

Even god in heaven know say I can never miss such opportunity.

Can you imagine?!

Furiosa:
You cheated.
You deserve no accolade.
Kissing someone that's not your partner is cheating.

Unfortunately dear, I don't need an accolade. Those who really understand what I have said got the message properly. If you think your husband will kiss only you in his lifetime then its well but pray he is able to control himself when necessary.

Biglittlelois:
You didn't resist the temptation 100%, you kissed her and flowed with the kissing for a while, that's cheating, you have to tell your wife cos you locked lips and exchanged saliva with another woman.

Did u expect him to slap the woman when she grabbed him?
He have to use trick to calm her down so the woman won't feel ashamed of herself

@OP, I must sincerely applaud you for being wise and strong enough not to allow the act to extend into sex.

However, you kissed her.

FLEE fornication.. I'm certain deep within you, you had the feeling from the moment the lady asked you to change hotels to hers that something was up. At the point where she came into your room, I'm also sure you knew within you that she had a plan.

I dare not blame you for kissing her, after all she came on you and many men would have had sex without her, however I strongly believe that you could have avoided this situation from the beginning by not putting yourself in the position where she could force a kiss on you. Play the scenes again in your mind beginning from the conversation in the bus, I'm sure you'll see how you could have avoided this all together if you are honest with yourself.

I think you should tell your wife the whole truth. It will unburden you, and put a 'leash' on you.

You are a great and faithful man.. I pray God continues to bless you and your wife.

Biglittlelois:


Stir up distrust, moment of weakness, very good coming from a guy, so is it safe to say women or a wife can kiss another man cos it is a moment of weakness, then she shouldn't tell her man or husband cos it can bring distrust

Cheating is not only when sex is involved, it can be in any form, in this case he kissed her, willingly at a point, that is blatant cheating,

He didn't initiate the kiss. She took him unawares and though he allowed it for a while, he put a stop to it.

Most guys cannot even go back from that point. They must do o.

Op abeg don't be setting yourself up by yourself. You should have stayed in your own hotel. Not everyone respects the sanctity of marriage