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JejeNaija:
I want to share this story so that we guys should know that we can always resist temptation if we decide to because just few minutes or hours of fun can change your life and your home for good.

I took a bus from Lagos going to Asaba for a business and the bus with filled with really matured guys and ladies. As we proceeded in the smooth journey there was a beautiful and very good looking lady who sat beside me. There were two guys who were just gisting anyhow and showing themselves so everyone already knew they were car dealers. If they see some certain cars zoom pass they started talking of the time they went to deliver such car to heaven and earth (you know how Igbo guys boast sha lol).
Well at a point I think a lady called one of them on phone and that's how gist changed to sex and stuffs like that, before you know everybody inside the bus joined the gist both guys and ladies. I didn't say anything at first so I was just laughing at some things they said and I observed the Lady beside me would always laugh and either hit me or fall on my body somehow but I just overlooked it all and tried to enjoy the gist and the trip. At a point she started asking why am not saying anything or if I don't have a girlfriend or wife and then I told her I was married and she also told me she was married and it didn't mean I can't join the gist. I just told her I prefer to listen and laugh than talk so she kept smiling.
Getting to Ore we came down and because normally I don't like eating when travelling just to avoid stories of running stomach and begging driver to stop on the road, I decided to just buy a little suya and had a drink. At this point trust me I had no single thought of that lady in my head and from no where this lady just approached me and sat with me while we were waiting for the bus to load and move. We then started talking normally and got to properly introduce ourselves. Being that she stated she was married and I too had made it clear to her I felt a little comfortable that this won't go pass normal talk and as soon as we get to Asaba its all history. She was into wedding planning and wedding accessories so she said she was going to deliver a wedding gown to her client in Asaba. I also told her I was going to inspect a property for my client who wanted to buy and I will be staying for just two days. She said she will be leaving back to Lagos the next day. Then she asked where I will be staying and I told her I was given direction to a hotel I could lodge and she told me she was lodging in a better hotel which is also affordable and I can lodge there too being that she always lodge there when she goes to Asaba she knows the place is very safe and comfortable. Having the whole she is a married woman idea in my head, I accepted to lodge in the hotel since now she has made me understand that the place is okay compared to the one I was given which I didn't know what to expect when I get there.

Long story short, we took off from ore and almost through out the rest of the journey the lady and I never had any conversion again as she spent most part of the remaining journey sleeping. Arriving at Asaba we got a taxi that took us both to the hotel and I think her room had already been settled so it was just me. She then told them to show me the rooms first and she followed us to see the room and it was nice so I said I was taking it for two nights.
Now knowing she knows my room I became very uncomfortable but I just had to be a little smart and vigilant in case of anything. I later went out to inspect the property and being that am a very adventurous person I decided to go somewhere to chill out after I finished the inspection. I stayed there till a little late like 10pm and headed back to the hotel. Getting to the hotel I decided to relax somewhere at the pool bar till about 12am or so before heading to my room to sleep so all these while I had not seen this lady but my mind was telling me its possible she came to check on me but I was around. I slept very very well oooo until about 6am I heard a knock on my door ooo. Like if my mind just knew it must be this lady I quickly wore a short and singlet then opened the door and behold it was this lady. Thinking that she even just came to say goodbye because she was meant to leave that day according to her, I was shocked she wasn't dressed like who was ready to travel. So I asked her and she said she had to stay an extra day and in my mind I was like yawa don gas be this. I did all I could to be calm and mature about everything so she showed me pictures of her husband and two beautiful kids. No this is why I feel sorry for young ladies who go to marry old men just for money. This lady is so damn pretty and fresh it I had know doubt this lady is loaded so when I saw her pictures I already knew her husband being a very wealthy man would definitely be spoiling her with money. I then asked her why she didn't use a flight instead and she said she is not even sure if the Asaba airport is even functioning lol... That one really cracked me up and just like play she just said she felt like getting a little naughty and do something crazy. I was like how do you mean and the next thing this lady just grabbed me and started kissing me. At first I felt lost and was flowing with the kiss when the spirit of my wife came all the way from Lagos to give me one dirty slap. As in instantly my head reset and I came back to my senses that this is totally so so wrong. I had to stop her in a very cool manner and told her it's quite early and I have to go finish up my inspection then when I get back I think it will be so nice to go really naughty with her. I told her I guess that would be our own little secret and she was happy to hear that. So I took her number I told her I would call when I return.

My dear friends, immediately she left I jejely went to take a shower, packed my bag and baggages, deleted her number, checked out the hotel and off I went to another hotel. Stayed two extra days so that by mistake we will not meet in the park for any reason. Up till date we have never crossed path again and sometimes I the thought of it come to my head I would just laugh it off. But then I thought about it, what if I had fallen for the temptation, imagine she gave me a better sex than my wife, that would have affected me in some ways that sometimes I might be making love to my wife and seeing this woman's face and body.

My good friends, I can confidently tell you that resisting temptation is absolutely something you can control with your head and your heart. Do not destroy very good things ahead of you just for a short moment of pleasure.

Think Fast.

Young man,for you to have followed an nnknown married woman to an unknown hotel,you must have a very hidden agenda,so we charge you for cheating on your wife

Is there anything strange here? Afterall, it is a daily practice by some of the Afonja descendants.

Biglittlelois:
You didn't resist the temptation 100%, you kissed her and flowed with the kissing for a while, that's cheating, you have to tell your wife cos you locked lips and exchanged saliva with another woman.

I am very happy at this comment .. More also I will say kissing and having sex with each other is both the same. So if another person had sex with her , you guys are both in the same level ..

OP try abeg, the fact that he left the room and came back after 12am, stopped the kissing and later left the hotel to avoid further complications. Worst she came around 6am when his testosterone was high and he probably had his morning wood.

I know the last time a girl tried to seduce me, i fell like a felled tree

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Christafarian:
Believe this 'tory' at your own risk. Dude codedly advertising his biz.

Lol

Biglittlelois:
My answer to your question is yes he cheated cos he kissed someone else


I'm glad you know the stupid kiss can destroy your marriage because that in itself is hurtful cos it is cheating.

Shut up little girl. Anyone can get carried with a kiss, it's allowing yourself get carried away and going further that is the issue. Yes, I will forgive a partner for a kiss and not more. All these kids on NL who know nothing about life.

hopefulLandlord:
Biglittlelois is making a good point here that everyone else seems not to get because "its coming from a frustrated woman"

I feel the ad hominems thrown at her are done to avoid addressing her point head on

I disagree...
If he had initiated the kissing..I would have said he went too far but he was kissed and I know such stuffs might be so sudden it could take a while to recover before acting on pushing her away...had he continued with the kiss till he pulled his trouser BUT decided not to fvck the woman...he still didn't cheat...its all about INTENT bro! So why on earth does he have to tell his wife at home? Is he a sissy or a parrot?? Its stupid to me...even though y'all partners,yet u still have ur separate thoughts and some things are still your own stories, meant only for you. I see this as another avenue for women like Lois to domesticate or sissify a man all in the name of 'being truthful'. A man is being faithful to his wife by not fvcking another woman despite the temptation and Lois keeps hammering on the kissing aspect as cheating as though he initiated it...that's wrong. What more does a woman want? They dont ever seem satisfied I swear!
Personally,I have no qualms telling my wife another woman kissed me, why? Cuz she knows women always dig me. But so long she trusts me enough that I won't ever sleep with them,she will be ok. Now imagine a scenario where 10 girls kissed me in 6 months...do I tell her everything? Does that sound mature to you? Why not tell her when Iya basira,alhaja Kudi and my choir mistress also gave me a peck! Or when my boss secretary came in,locked the door and gave me a wet kiss,cuz its her birthday!!! I come off as weak to her cuz she expects me to deal with such on my own,as a real man. Not parroting away like a sissy.

zed7:
Shut up little girl. Anyone can get carried with a kiss, it's allowing yourself get carried away and going further that is the issue. Yes, I will forgive a partner for a kiss and not more. All these kids on NL who know nothing about life.

U nailed it bro...

This is very insightful. @OP, thanks for sharing.

What are some folks saying here? He said the woman grabbed him and kissed him unaware ,do you know what it means to encounter a sex staff desperate woman;make a noise and get embarrassed in that spot..I salute your wisdom and courage to disentangled yourself my brother,forget the self righteous hypocrites that didn't really know the trap you escaped . Happy for you for acting like a real man.

Biglittlelois:
You didn't resist the temptation 100%, you kissed her and flowed with the kissing for a while, that's cheating, you have to tell your wife cos you locked lips and exchanged saliva with another woman.

And give the poor woman HBP, I don't think you have brain.

U try, if only in what u are saying is true o... But if na lie u lie , ahhhhhh!!!!

Biglittlelois:
You didn't resist the temptation 100%, you kissed her and flowed with the kissing for a while, that's cheating, you have to tell your wife cos you locked lips and exchanged saliva with another woman.

Why should he tell his wife? How does it help? How is it wise?

luminouz:
I disagree...
If he had initiated the kissing..I would have said he went too far but he was kissed and I know such stuffs might be so sudden it could take a while to recover before acting on pushing her away...had he continued with the kiss till he pulled his trouser BUT decided not to fvck the woman...he still didn't cheat...its all about INTENT bro! So why on earth does he have to tell his wife at home? Is he a sissy or a parrot?? Its stupid to me...even though y'all partners,yet u still have ur separate thoughts and some things are still your own stories, meant only for you. I see this as another avenue for women like Lois to domesticate or sissify a man all in the name of 'being truthful'. A man is being faithful to his wife by not fvcking another woman despite the temptation and Lois keeps hammering on the kissing aspect as cheating as though he initiated it...that's wrong. What more does a woman want? They dont ever seem satisfied I swear!
Personally,I have no qualms telling my wife another woman kissed me, why? Cuz she knows women always dig me. But so long she trusts me enough that I won't ever sleep with them,she will be ok. Now imagine a scenario where 10 girls kissed me in 6 months...do I tell her everything? Does that sound mature to you? I come off as weak to her cuz she expects me to deal with such on my own,as a real man. Not parroting away like a sissy.
Where

I love your post.

yeye man, something wey u suppose do sharp sharp clean mouth.

SageMK:
So in summary, you kissed a married woman but refuse to have sex with her... Okay. Let's just leave that for another day. Anyway, I am glad you restraint yourself.

Self discipline is a virtue that many men lack.

You are a faithful man.

The question now should be, is his wife faithful

JejeNaija:
I want to share this story so that we guys should know that we can always resist temptation if we decide to because just few minutes or hours of fun can change your life and your home for good.

I took a bus from Lagos going to Asaba for a business and the bus with filled with really matured guys and ladies. As we proceeded in the smooth journey there was a beautiful and very good looking lady who sat beside me. There were two guys who were just gisting anyhow and showing themselves so everyone already knew they were car dealers. If they see some certain cars zoom pass they started talking of the time they went to deliver such car to heaven and earth (you know how Igbo guys boast sha lol).
Well at a point I think a lady called one of them on phone and that's how gist changed to sex and stuffs like that, before you know everybody inside the bus joined the gist both guys and ladies. I didn't say anything at first so I was just laughing at some things they said and I observed the Lady beside me would always laugh and either hit me or fall on my body somehow but I just overlooked it all and tried to enjoy the gist and the trip. At a point she started asking why am not saying anything or if I don't have a girlfriend or wife and then I told her I was married and she also told me she was married and it didn't mean I can't join the gist. I just told her I prefer to listen and laugh than talk so she kept smiling.
Getting to Ore we came down and because normally I don't like eating when travelling just to avoid stories of running stomach and begging driver to stop on the road, I decided to just buy a little suya and had a drink. At this point trust me I had no single thought of that lady in my head and from no where this lady just approached me and sat with me while we were waiting for the bus to load and move. We then started talking normally and got to properly introduce ourselves. Being that she stated she was married and I too had made it clear to her I felt a little comfortable that this won't go pass normal talk and as soon as we get to Asaba its all history. She was into wedding planning and wedding accessories so she said she was going to deliver a wedding gown to her client in Asaba. I also told her I was going to inspect a property for my client who wanted to buy and I will be staying for just two days. She said she will be leaving back to Lagos the next day. Then she asked where I will be staying and I told her I was given direction to a hotel I could lodge and she told me she was lodging in a better hotel which is also affordable and I can lodge there too being that she always lodge there when she goes to Asaba she knows the place is very safe and comfortable. Having the whole she is a married woman idea in my head, I accepted to lodge in the hotel since now she has made me understand that the place is okay compared to the one I was given which I didn't know what to expect when I get there.

Long story short, we took off from ore and almost through out the rest of the journey the lady and I never had any conversion again as she spent most part of the remaining journey sleeping. Arriving at Asaba we got a taxi that took us both to the hotel and I think her room had already been settled so it was just me. She then told them to show me the rooms first and she followed us to see the room and it was nice so I said I was taking it for two nights.
Now knowing she knows my room I became very uncomfortable but I just had to be a little smart and vigilant in case of anything. I later went out to inspect the property and being that am a very adventurous person I decided to go somewhere to chill out after I finished the inspection. I stayed there till a little late like 10pm and headed back to the hotel. Getting to the hotel I decided to relax somewhere at the pool bar till about 12am or so before heading to my room to sleep so all these while I had not seen this lady but my mind was telling me its possible she came to check on me but I was around. I slept very very well oooo until about 6am I heard a knock on my door ooo. Like if my mind just knew it must be this lady I quickly wore a short and singlet then opened the door and behold it was this lady. Thinking that she even just came to say goodbye because she was meant to leave that day according to her, I was shocked she wasn't dressed like who was ready to travel. So I asked her and she said she had to stay an extra day and in my mind I was like yawa don gas be this. I did all I could to be calm and mature about everything so she showed me pictures of her husband and two beautiful kids. No this is why I feel sorry for young ladies who go to marry old men just for money. This lady is so damn pretty and fresh it I had know doubt this lady is loaded so when I saw her pictures I already knew her husband being a very wealthy man would definitely be spoiling her with money. I then asked her why she didn't use a flight instead and she said she is not even sure if the Asaba airport is even functioning lol... That one really cracked me up and just like play she just said she felt like getting a little naughty and do something crazy. I was like how do you mean and the next thing this lady just grabbed me and started kissing me. At first I felt lost and was flowing with the kiss when the spirit of my wife came all the way from Lagos to give me one dirty slap. As in instantly my head reset and I came back to my senses that this is totally so so wrong. I had to stop her in a very cool manner and told her it's quite early and I have to go finish up my inspection then when I get back I think it will be so nice to go really naughty with her. I told her I guess that would be our own little secret and she was happy to hear that. So I took her number I told her I would call when I return.

My dear friends, immediately she left I jejely went to take a shower, packed my bag and baggages, deleted her number, checked out the hotel and off I went to another hotel. Stayed two extra days so that by mistake we will not meet in the park for any reason. Up till date we have never crossed path again and sometimes I the thought of it come to my head I would just laugh it off. But then I thought about it, what if I had fallen for the temptation, imagine she gave me a better sex than my wife, that would have affected me in some ways that sometimes I might be making love to my wife and seeing this woman's face and body.

My good friends, I can confidently tell you that resisting temptation is absolutely something you can control with your head and your heart. Do not destroy very good things ahead of you just for a short moment of pleasure.

Think Fast.

You kissed her and still had the guts to claim you resisted temptation! So you think kissing someone who isn't your wife is not cheating? LOL.

You should have fcked her as well!

Biglittlelois:
My answer to your question is yes he cheated cos he kissed someone else


I'm glad you know the stupid kiss can destroy your marriage because that in itself is hurtful cos it is cheating.

Anything can destroy a marriage. It is not only cheating alone.

I wouldn't judge his own part of the deal. However, I would chide him for not fleeing from the temptation earlier. He had enough time to flee, but yet he allowed himself to fall into the woman's trap. If it were me, I would have devised a break right from inside the bus. When she wanted to know about where he was staying and all that, he should have fled from the temptation by politely refusing to reveal anything.

lakkyflow:
I am very happy at this comment .. More also I will say kissing and having sex with each other is both the same. So if another person had sex with her , you guys are both in the same level ..

Look at this wan!!!
Kissing and having sex is the same?? Jesus!!!!

You want us to clap for you that "resisted temptation" When you've already cheated? Kissing IS cheating.

Men doing the bare minimum as usual (this isn't even bare minimum, less than bare minimum) and yet still expecting trophies and praise

If it was a guy (who you suspected to be gay,) or lady you didn't feel sexually attracted to in the least who was falling on you anyhow in the bus wouldn't you Have told him/her to sit well?
If it was a guy (or the above mentioned lady) who grabbed you & attempted, (just attempted) to kiss you, would have gotten lost in the kiss or would you have pushed him/her away immediately he/she attempted to try it and told him/her to leave your room?

So many instances that showed you knew what was going down yet you stayed and allowed it to develop into kissing (where you lost yourself, mtcheeeww)
Now you're praising yourself when you've already cheated.

I ReSisTEd TeMPtaTIoN indeed

Cheater.


I like the way you write though.

Biglittlelois:
You didn't resist the temptation 100%, you kissed her and flowed with the kissing for a while, that's cheating, you have to tell your wife cos you locked lips and exchanged saliva with another woman.

What matters is that he realized and made a U-turn immediately. That's what the bible calls FLEE

JejeNaija:
I want to share this story so that we guys should know that we can always resist temptation if we decide to because just few minutes or hours of fun can change your life and your home for good.

I took a bus from Lagos going to Asaba for a business and the bus with filled with really matured guys and ladies. As we proceeded in the smooth journey there was a beautiful and very good looking lady who sat beside me. There were two guys who were just gisting anyhow and showing themselves so everyone already knew they were car dealers. If they see some certain cars zoom pass they started talking of the time they went to deliver such car to heaven and earth (you know how Igbo guys boast sha lol).
Well at a point I think a lady called one of them on phone and that's how gist changed to sex and stuffs like that, before you know everybody inside the bus joined the gist both guys and ladies. I didn't say anything at first so I was just laughing at some things they said and I observed the Lady beside me would always laugh and either hit me or fall on my body somehow but I just overlooked it all and tried to enjoy the gist and the trip. At a point she started asking why am not saying anything or if I don't have a girlfriend or wife and then I told her I was married and she also told me she was married and it didn't mean I can't join the gist. I just told her I prefer to listen and laugh than talk so she kept smiling.
Getting to Ore we came down and because normally I don't like eating when travelling just to avoid stories of running stomach and begging driver to stop on the road, I decided to just buy a little suya and had a drink. At this point trust me I had no single thought of that lady in my head and from no where this lady just approached me and sat with me while we were waiting for the bus to load and move. We then started talking normally and got to properly introduce ourselves. Being that she stated she was married and I too had made it clear to her I felt a little comfortable that this won't go pass normal talk and as soon as we get to Asaba its all history. She was into wedding planning and wedding accessories so she said she was going to deliver a wedding gown to her client in Asaba. I also told her I was going to inspect a property for my client who wanted to buy and I will be staying for just two days. She said she will be leaving back to Lagos the next day. Then she asked where I will be staying and I told her I was given direction to a hotel I could lodge and she told me she was lodging in a better hotel which is also affordable and I can lodge there too being that she always lodge there when she goes to Asaba she knows the place is very safe and comfortable. Having the whole she is a married woman idea in my head, I accepted to lodge in the hotel since now she has made me understand that the place is okay compared to the one I was given which I didn't know what to expect when I get there.

Long story short, we took off from ore and almost through out the rest of the journey the lady and I never had any conversion again as she spent most part of the remaining journey sleeping. Arriving at Asaba we got a taxi that took us both to the hotel and I think her room had already been settled so it was just me. She then told them to show me the rooms first and she followed us to see the room and it was nice so I said I was taking it for two nights.
Now knowing she knows my room I became very uncomfortable but I just had to be a little smart and vigilant in case of anything. I later went out to inspect the property and being that am a very adventurous person I decided to go somewhere to chill out after I finished the inspection. I stayed there till a little late like 10pm and headed back to the hotel. Getting to the hotel I decided to relax somewhere at the pool bar till about 12am or so before heading to my room to sleep so all these while I had not seen this lady but my mind was telling me its possible she came to check on me but I was around. I slept very very well oooo until about 6am I heard a knock on my door ooo. Like if my mind just knew it must be this lady I quickly wore a short and singlet then opened the door and behold it was this lady. Thinking that she even just came to say goodbye because she was meant to leave that day according to her, I was shocked she wasn't dressed like who was ready to travel. So I asked her and she said she had to stay an extra day and in my mind I was like yawa don gas be this. I did all I could to be calm and mature about everything so she showed me pictures of her husband and two beautiful kids. No this is why I feel sorry for young ladies who go to marry old men just for money. This lady is so damn pretty and fresh it I had know doubt this lady is loaded so when I saw her pictures I already knew her husband being a very wealthy man would definitely be spoiling her with money. I then asked her why she didn't use a flight instead and she said she is not even sure if the Asaba airport is even functioning lol... That one really cracked me up and just like play she just said she felt like getting a little naughty and do something crazy. I was like how do you mean and the next thing this lady just grabbed me and started kissing me. At first I felt lost and was flowing with the kiss when the spirit of my wife came all the way from Lagos to give me one dirty slap. As in instantly my head reset and I came back to my senses that this is totally so so wrong. I had to stop her in a very cool manner and told her it's quite early and I have to go finish up my inspection then when I get back I think it will be so nice to go really naughty with her. I told her I guess that would be our own little secret and she was happy to hear that. So I took her number I told her I would call when I return.

My dear friends, immediately she left I jejely went to take a shower, packed my bag and baggages, deleted her number, checked out the hotel and off I went to another hotel. Stayed two extra days so that by mistake we will not meet in the park for any reason. Up till date we have never crossed path again and sometimes I the thought of it come to my head I would just laugh it off. But then I thought about it, what if I had fallen for the temptation, imagine she gave me a better sex than my wife, that would have affected me in some ways that sometimes I might be making love to my wife and seeing this woman's face and body.

My good friends, I can confidently tell you that resisting temptation is absolutely something you can control with your head and your heart. Do not destroy very good things ahead of you just for a short moment of pleasure.

Think Fast.

u try o if na me I go lash her.if u come to Asaba again hit me up.we fit run thgs

DedeNkem:
You kissed her and still had the guts to claim you resisted temptation! So you think kissing someone who isn't your wife is not cheating? LOL.

You should have fcked her as well!

Why won't u read biko??
Did he initiate the kissing? No
Did he stop kissing her? Yes
Did he fuq her? No

Conclusion:
Did he cheat on his wife: NOOOOOOOOOOOO

Now dede or whatever u call ursef, now run along....

Niceone @OP

But all these guys saying the guy didn't cheat, at what point would you consider it cheating? Until the d enters the v? How would you feel if you saw your babe kissing another guy even if it's for a millisecond? OP made it clear he played along for a while before coming back to his senses so what's all this with it being sudden? He kissed another woman! His wife wouldn't like it; he wouldn't want his wife to do it with another man and as such, it's cheating and we all know these that is why we (including myself)believe it is better the story is kept far away from wify. Some even compare him with men who would have falling flat for it; that others do worse does not make his own less cheating. Obviously, some of don't know that s4x may or may not involve an intercourse.

Having said that, Kudos to OP for not going all the way with the lady. I believe next time, you won't even create room for such to happen cause you're smarter now. And like I said, you're not obliged to share this with wify. You know her better and you know how she'd handled it.

Great one.

Thank God for the spirit of his wife that came all the way from Lagos to reset his senses .

Nice act OP.

You need to be careful, if not you may not escape the next

Thy sins are forgiven you Go and sin no more

Daeylar:
You want us to clap for you that "resisted temptation" When you've already cheated? Kissing IS cheating.

Men doing the bare minimum as usual (this isn't even bare minimum, less than bare minimum) and yet still expecting trophies and praise

If it was a guy (who you suspected to be gay,) or lady you didn't feel sexually attracted to in the least who was falling on you anyhow in the bus wouldn't you Have told him/her to sit well?
If it was a guy (or the above mentioned lady) who grabbed you & attempted, (just attempted) to kiss you, would have gotten lost in the kiss or would you have pushed him away immediately he attempted to try it and told him to leave your room?

I ReSisTEd TeMPtaTIoN

Cheater.


I like the way you write though.

Lol,why e come pain u like this naaaa?
NL women are always emotional...take deep breaths and reread the post again..OK
For me,that guy no cheat oooo...

OP, don't listen to those sanctimonious children telling you to confess to your wife. It's an error and you managed the situation well. If you had used force to resist, the woman could say you tried to rape her and no one will believe you. Then you will be condemned as a rapist with all the consequences and your name will be soiled for life.

It's not everything you talk about, it is called COMMON SENSE.
To successfully manage a relationship, it is necessary to understand STRATEGIC COMMUNICATION... when to talk and when not to; When to tell the truth and when to say only what is necessary... Lying is also part of it oooo.
If you like tell your wife that she looks ugly with the new makeup and sleeping in the parlour shall be your portion
In other words, you no go see Toto chop for a long time.. and you fit come dey chop public toilet aka Ashawo

Every wise married man knows what I told you... Wife no be girlfriend ooo, especially if children are involved!!!

luminouz:
Why won't u read biko??
Did he initiate the kissing? No
Did he stop kissing her? Yes
Did he fuq her? No

Conclusion:
Did he cheat on his wife: NOOOOOOOOOOOO

Now dede or whatever u call ursef, now run along....

He suppose fuk am oh

U did very well by resisting the temptation, I mean u deserve some accolades. Not all the married men will act like that... perhaps some will see it as an opportunity knowing fully well that she's loaded.....

Lesson to learn to all the single ladies :Don't marry for money and wealth cuz u will definitely reglect it at the end. Money is everything but Happiness and love are....

Regina Daniel don't know what she's doing to her self now.