folake4u:


I'm sorry but I have to say this.
You shouldn't advice him to "marry and have a kid or two...I know those kids will always heal your pain etc". It is so wrong! A broken man should heal first before he even considers all those things you mentioned otherwise he'd be seeking solace in the wrong place.

Heal first should be his top priority and every other thing shall be added unto him

its OK then, but I think he is fed up and not sure of any healing process in his own case. I was moved by his story and I think he fears his lifespan will expire soon and that why I made my suggestions.. Nice write up though

KingBaba1:
its OK then, but I think he is fed up and not sure of any healing process in his own case. I was moved by his story and I think he fears his lifespan will expire soon and that why I made my suggestions.. Nice write up though

Yeah I know but we all know life isn't a bed of roses.

I think you should read my story I shared up there(slightly up).

Thank you.

After going through the pain and learning from it, always take the time to reflect (never regret)...just reflect, learn and build yourself!
The most painful lessons to learn are those where you need the serenity to accept the things you cannot change.

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I'm a sickler and I know exactly what pain is. I relate to what your sisters have been and going through. I can't narrate my ordeal, is it the leg ulcer or the broken hip, where should I start?

As what the writer said, there's always a lesson to learn from every challenges so I've learnt not to use my situation as an excuse. I'm looking forward to complete my education and make my days on earth meaningful.

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Sshhh... You do not know what he is going through. What have you added to his life by what you just wrote? God you are defending didnt ask you to, He can defend himself. Infact, I think God will be angry at you by your response- you did not add anything positive or encouraging to a person He created going through pain.
I am a sickler myself and I must tell you that he is very right in his feelings. In fact, the title of this post is enough for any sickler to want to click & read it cos it says "Pain" and these people know about it more than any other people cos they experience the various types of pain- physical, emotional, financial, mental, just mention any, Sicklers have been there. In fact, I don't think there is any adult sickler that has not prayed/begged for death to come & stop the pain.

In Any Condition U Found Urself Praise God. Don't Try 2 Question Him Or Ad Any Odd Talk Against Him Ok.

Every negative thing that happens to you is for your own good.

Good people will run to you once you maintain your composure in the face of obstacles.

That is how good events also locate you.

It's all a learning process.

We all suffer due to our inability to learn.

God did not create man to suffer. That is my position in life.

I work everyday to get it right.

Adam was created to dress Gardens not to suffer. In all things, I give thanks.

Nelsonmoney:


I'm a sickler and I know exactly what pain is. I relate to what your sisters have been and going through. I can't narrate my ordeal, is it the leg ulcer or the broken hip, where should I start?

As what the writer said, there's always a lesson to learn from every challenges so I've learnt not to use my situation as an excuse. I'm looking forward to complete my education and make my days on earth meaningful.

Hmmm I understand. God will see you through .

Yes, we shouldn't use our situation as am excuse. I'm glad you have that mindset.
Cheers bro! E go better

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Bmaster:
Mr.op , i'm a guy of 27. Intelligent and hard working, looking cute and fearless.
but i'm a sickler.
i couldn't go to uni due to fact that i do have severe painful crises many atimes.
my people do spend nearly #200,000 on me during each year for almost 21 years on blood transfusions which i go through at least 3 times a year.
the painful episodes of severe crises i past through makes me hate GOD.
NOW, tell me what do i learn from all this
Modify:
mr. Op, pain is not suffering,its not hardship, its not even being poor.
if i can't get total freedom from pain, i must be compelled to learn being bittered.

I so feel your pain, people actually face things: Since medicine have failed you, I'd advise you hold on to God - Miracle works! Trust in God with faith, I'd suggest you try and attend Healing and Deliverance service in Dunamis Glory Dome Abuja, I can attest, if God wills and your word comes, you'll be amaze. May God comfort you