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faithfull18:
I am not perfect but I have learnt to discipline my flesh so it can't be me. Like he didn't know what the consequences of his actions could be, it's even the fiancée I pity in all of this.

It is well sis

Gabson006:
How much does it cost to carry out all this test Sir?

Wasn't more than 9k
The most expensive is that liver function test, about 5k

Ninethmare:
I returned back to the east after NYSC on December 2018, but instead of going home I got a place to stay in Anambra state.

The girls in Anambra are just beautiful that it will be hard for you not to take a second look

I sworn that I will never cheat on my Fiancé cause I love her so much and wouldn't want to hurt her


After like three weeks in Awka konji was killing me, Meanwhile babe is somewhere very far doing a program in her field

On January 23rd A friend came around and was suggesting us visiting one of the brothels in Awka. I was initially not interested, so he suggested I just escort him there and sit at the bar until he was done. I said cool that's fine.

So he went in with one of the girls, I was just taking some drinks when a very beautiful prostitute passed, instead of John Thomas to relax, him foolishly stand.

After negotiations we entered

Just because it's be quite a while I just dey use my power on the babe, all of a sudden what I noticed was "Condom done burst"

I noticed late and believe me the girl wasn't bothered, I was like "you carry anything? ".

She was like no I am fine. for my mind I was like "even if she get she will still say no"

I immediately ran to a chemist and asked for Ciprofloxacin, bought it then I left leaving my friend behind cause that dude can taste like three different girls in one night

Two weeks later I was sick of fever, that same week joint pains, fatigue, headache, in fact my neck was hurting.

I opened goggle searched about symptoms of HIV, what I was got me more scared. I was like so this girl dash me HIV free of charge, no wonder she wasn't feeling remorsed when the condom busted.

Fear gripped me, I started thinking Lord what have I done.
Lord I am sorry
Forgive me and don't let me pay so heavy for my mistake.

Fast forward till 10th May 2019

I went to the hospital to do some test

I did hepatitis, Liver function test, typhoid, malaria, I wanted to do HIV but I was scared I decided not to.

Two days later I went back to get the test result.

Hepatitis-Negative
Malaria-positive
typoid-Negative
Liver function test - A little above normal(doc said no need to worry)

20th May I decided to go to Owerri to do the HIV test in case I was positive so nobody will know me. in fact I didn't use my real name when filling the HIV form.

After the long discussion the counselor will give, then it was time to Carry out the test.

My hands and feets were shaking. the counselor noticed and he said even if you have it there are ARVs for you to live healthy (I was like God just forgive me, I know I have failed)

As soon as he took my blood, I stood up wrote my number on a shot of paper and said Sir please send the result to me via sms, he was just staring at me while I left.

I left and went to a bar sitting and waiting for the result via sms

After 20mins I got a test. my heart was beating when I opened it what I saw was "Your HIV test result says you are negative, always protect yourself but remember abstinence is the best".

I was so happy but I Needed to confirm it again, so I returned back to Awka that same day.

Today being 22nd May 2019, I went to Medical Center Amaku to confirm.

I went in after every every I was confirmed negative. happiness from no where came over me.

As I was leaving I looked towards the special clinic and saw crowd of HIV positive persons waiting to get ARVs, and I was like what if I had tested positive is this how I will disgrace myself and my family.

I opened a trend previously asking if HIV persons can join the military. This is because my uncle is making sure I join the Nigeria Prison service. I would have been disgraced if I tasted positive.

I have sworn that from this day I will never have sex till I get married. cause I am planning to get married next year God willing.

So my friends try to know your status today.

You might be scared but just know that only test can confirm your status.


So when last did you check your status?

I know the feelings. Play safe bro

Akanoomobowale:
Na weaken dey Bleep osho..those who can't face a lady.. pussy plenty out there.....I don't do public toilet.....clean up, have money in ur pocket and be educated....they will fall on ur lap.

Wat exactly av u done before

Ninethmare:
I returned back to the east after NYSC on December 2018, but instead of going home I got a place to stay in Anambra state.

The girls in Anambra are just beautiful that it will be hard for you not to take a second look

I sworn that I will never cheat on my Fiancé cause I love her so much and wouldn't want to hurt her


After like three weeks in Awka konji was killing me, Meanwhile babe is somewhere very far doing a program in her field

On January 23rd A friend came around and was suggesting us visiting one of the brothels in Awka. I was initially not interested, so he suggested I just escort him there and sit at the bar until he was done. I said cool that's fine.

So he went in with one of the girls, I was just taking some drinks when a very beautiful prostitute passed, instead of John Thomas to relax, him foolishly stand.

After negotiations we entered

Just because it's be quite a while I just dey use my power on the babe, all of a sudden what I noticed was "Condom done burst"

I noticed late and believe me the girl wasn't bothered, I was like "you carry anything? ".

She was like no I am fine. for my mind I was like "even if she get she will still say no"

I immediately ran to a chemist and asked for Ciprofloxacin, bought it then I left leaving my friend behind cause that dude can taste like three different girls in one night

Two weeks later I was sick of fever, that same week joint pains, fatigue, headache, in fact my neck was hurting.

I opened goggle searched about symptoms of HIV, what I was got me more scared. I was like so this girl dash me HIV free of charge, no wonder she wasn't feeling remorsed when the condom busted.

Fear gripped me, I started thinking Lord what have I done.
Lord I am sorry
Forgive me and don't let me pay so heavy for my mistake.

Fast forward till 10th May 2019

I went to the hospital to do some test

I did hepatitis, Liver function test, typhoid, malaria, I wanted to do HIV but I was scared I decided not to.

Two days later I went back to get the test result.

Hepatitis-Negative
Malaria-positive
typoid-Negative
Liver function test - A little above normal(doc said no need to worry)

20th May I decided to go to Owerri to do the HIV test in case I was positive so nobody will know me. in fact I didn't use my real name when filling the HIV form.

After the long discussion the counselor will give, then it was time to Carry out the test.

My hands and feets were shaking. the counselor noticed and he said even if you have it there are ARVs for you to live healthy (I was like God just forgive me, I know I have failed)

As soon as he took my blood, I stood up wrote my number on a shot of paper and said Sir please send the result to me via sms, he was just staring at me while I left.

I left and went to a bar sitting and waiting for the result via sms

After 20mins I got a test. my heart was beating when I opened it what I saw was "Your HIV test result says you are negative, always protect yourself but remember abstinence is the best".

I was so happy but I Needed to confirm it again, so I returned back to Awka that same day.

Today being 22nd May 2019, I went to Medical Center Amaku to confirm.

I went in after every every I was confirmed negative. happiness from no where came over me.

As I was leaving I looked towards the special clinic and saw crowd of HIV positive persons waiting to get ARVs, and I was like what if I had tested positive is this how I will disgrace myself and my family.

I opened a trend previously asking if HIV persons can join the military. This is because my uncle is making sure I join the Nigeria Prison service. I would have been disgraced if I tasted positive.

I have sworn that from this day I will never have sex till I get married. cause I am planning to get married next year God willing.

So my friends try to know your status today.

You might be scared but just know that only test can confirm your status.


So when last did you check your status?

Craze dey worry you. Becos you've tested negative and you're very happy.You've turned yourself to special advicer on konji/HIV affairs. By strength shall no man prevail. your ability and strength cannot save you from doing the wrong things. Get Jesus and stop all this backsliding today and frontsliding tomorrow

gypsey:
You didn't Answer My questions, but you want to Advice me? start by Answering my questions rather than keep quoting your bible, Tell me, do you Abide by All the rules in the bible? or you pick and choose the ones to Abide by? and leave the other rules because they are either unachievable or difficult to Abide by.

With all honesty, I practice what preach and put my body under subjection that I may not become a cast away after leading others to the right path of life.

For none God's command is unachievable as along as the holy spirit abides in me!

Guy thank your stars that nothing happened to you. Leave oloshos alone

pappy0080:
After reading his narration, I think this guy didn't use condom. The usual excuse of "Condom Burst" was just a cover up. Recent research shows that over 80% of Nigerian men do not use condom. How could someone in his right senses sleep with a "prostitute" without protection? By quickly visiting the chemist to buy ciprofloxacin will not save you from contracting HIV or other STDs, some sexual infections may be resistant to cipro. Stop gambling with your life, know the status of any girl/lady/woman before engaging in unprotected sex. I know you will still take another risk next time since you are still a young man, but have a rethink and don't allow few minutes fun ruin your life. Careless sexual practices may get you totally wasted. Some people are living to regret their indiscriminate sexual acts, be careful and stop careless sexual practice! HIV/AIDS is real!!!

I'm suspecting same thing

gypsey:
Sex is good, ask your doctor.
Why did God create sex? as we were told, if sex is a sin?
How do people who call themselves Christians or you have or had children if sex is a sin?


You need to wake up from your religious slumber.

Sex is meant for procreation between legally married couples. Fornication is working against God's ultimate plan and there are serious consequences either now or latter.

It is not a matter of religious belief's for society frown's against such, and it is morally wrong.

But if we were properly judging ourselves, we would not come under the judgment of God.--1 Corinthians 11:31

BLUEJAYY:
People who feel they're morally upright have this false sense of superiority and jealousy towards the 'sinful' people.

They believe the sinful ones deserve punishment for their wayward lifestyle even though such lifestyles are generally lawful.
They forget they are humans too and make mistakes.

I guess they are envious of the so-called immoral lifestyle they have deprived themselves as a result of the bondage of religious morality.

On the contrary, religion itself encourages forgiveness and reaching out to immoral souls to help them change their ways but I suppose Nigeria's religious people are different.

you have said it all

Levant:
Seun, your mods do not read posts before they send to FP.

The OP mentioned disgrace twice. He is spreading stigma, which is very unjust. So those who weren't as lucky as he is are in disgrace? What sort of stupid backward thinking is that? He said if he has HIV and his uncle knows when asked to join the police, it will be disgrace. To collect ARVs is also disgrace. Very stupid. Next time he should go have unprotected sex with whoever and then come here to type rubbish. He is also associating HIV with prostitutes.

don't mind the guy...

his mindset is somewhat troublesome

faithfull18:
I ain't a zombie and I won't keep quiet in the face of wrongdoing.

i ain't zombie-cho cho cho..... i don't blame you.majority of women are like that.they will stand at their toes ,to be at the same height with a man.but when the cookies crumble,they will cry,curse and complain like tonto dikeh.

brainpower:
Congrats bro. But I have one problem with your decision not to have sex again till you get married.

That is, HIV isn't transferred through sex alone, secondly, what if you get married and your wife secretly keeps multiple sex partners?

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It's best for him to get married than for him to continue bleeping around. There are low chances that he could contact Hiv virus from a cheating spouse. Within time he could detect it and have her thrown out of his life than patronising sex workers

hw much is it

Abcruz:
With all honesty, I practice what preach and put my body under subjection that I may not become a cast away after leading others to the right path of life.

For none God's command is unachievable as along as the holy spirit abides in me!

Is this supposed to make sense?, This sounds like Gibberish to me.

Abcruz:
Sex is meant for procreation between legally married couples. Fornication is working against God's ultimate plan and there are serious consequences either now or latter.

It is not a matter of religious belief's for society frown's against such, and it is morally wrong.

But if we were properly judging ourselves, we would not come under the judgment of God.--1 Corinthians 11:31

Rubbish!

Ikpongiton:
God go catch you one day

God doesn't exist.

gypsey:
Yea well...that deosn't mean you might still not die of accident, malaria fever, ebola, cancer, starvation or otherwise.

FYI, most prostitutes are HIV free, One of my friends had sex with Hundreds of prostitutes without condoms he didn't contract HIV, but when he finally settled down and got married with 4 children, that's when he was infected with HIV, by guess who?











His precious So called Innocent Born Again wife!

liar ! agent of darkness

Ikpongiton:
i ain't zombie-cho cho cho..... i don't blame you.majority of women are like that.they will stand at their toes ,to be at the same height with a man.but when the cookies crumble,they will cry,curse and complain like tonto dikeh.

Lol, story. Respect is earned not demanded.

you are not completely free from it for now. check in 3months to get final result.

faithfull18:
It's mostly men who pass it around because they won't stop sleeping around.

Sleeping around with who? With women of course

Some peeps are saying men don't easily contract HIV. I pity you.
Who do the females get the disease from if not gotten through any other means?

I am disgusted at the op's post.

He has not learnt his lessons. He will repeat the same mistake again even after marriage. I just pray he carry's his own load when the time comes.

Foolish thing.

faithfull18:
Lol, story. Respect is earned not demanded.

So many men can simply earn respect from their wives by taking good care of their families,and by doing well in the bedroom.but for others,turning a sahara desert to a stream of water,will be a preface

OgbanjeProphet:
I love what God is doing in Africa with HIV. All of them witches wey dey suck blood anyhow go soon learn to drink only water and herbs. Even spirit husbands and spirit wives go fear soon.

bro you won't make heaven

gypsey:
Is this supposed to make sense?, This sounds like Gibberish to me.

The natural man does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God. For they are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned.--1 Corinthians 2:14

gypsey:
Rubbish!

The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.--proverbs 12:15

Prognose:
Very engaging read.

Congratulations brother.

thank God for you shaaa... I'm happy for you at last but when reading it I was already scared for you and me cuz I did similar thing as such last two weeks though my own condom never boast ooh���

jibrilELsudan:
WELL FORTUNATELY FOR YOU, IT TAKES 6 MONTHS FOR HIV TO MANIFEST ITSELF. SO GO DO A TEST AFTER 6 MONTHS TO KNOW IF YOU ARE SAFE.


CONTRARY TO IGNORANT BELIEF, HIV DOESN'T JUST MANIFEST IT'S SYMPTOMS RIGHT AWAY EVEN IF YOU GET INFECTED BY AN AIDS PATIENT.

THERE ARE LOTS OF PEOPLE WHO ARE CARRYING THE VIRUS AND DON'T EVEN KNOW. IN SOME PEOPLE IT TAKES DECADES FOR IT TO MANIFEST.


SO DON'T CELEBRATE YET. YOU MAY HAVE HIV ALREADY.


HIV ISN'T A DEATH SENTENCE.

Who is telling u guys all these nonsense why not make research and ask most doctors
Some 4th generation test kits can dicta HIV even within 3-4 weeks

Boyooosa:
That was what he mentioned that he first did. Don't u read before posting?

guy stay in your zone and stop poke nosing all in the name of commenting.

Rhymez:
I don't know about you but I am afraid to even speak with a prostitute. If there is anything like WHOREPHOBIA, that is my fear.

Bro me too, Ashawo no dey give me appetite. I travel alot and drink out alot, but they no dey move me one bit.

;DRreminds me of when I did mine

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
I wish it was positive

idiot fucklicant

dirty fool

Be careful what you wish for Sis!


Your "trusted" lover/partner makes the same mistake
You wish comes true and he contacts the HIV thing
Months later both of you have some lovey-dovey retreat under da duvet
And Binnnnnnnnnngo, your wish comes home to roost.

Be careful what you wish for Sis!