Amhappy:
Nice. I love this move. I remember when we are growing up, the children living next to us lost their mum. Things turned very bad for them after then and me and my siblings were making fun of them. The day my mum caught us,she gave away half of our Christmas purchases to them and mandated us to share even our Sunday rice with them. I think that was how I learnt a bit of kindness.

A bit of kindness?.. Hmmmmm na wa oh.
That mean say u no kind. I fear u oh.

JastSiryin:
My dear nobody's saying what he did was wrong but he's clearly clout chasing... And clout chasing is the fly in the ointment of every good deed. The peeps of this age we live in are severely addicted to seeking clout, and it's just sad.

You say?...

thelastorca:
your son is your mirror image
he just imitated what he sees his father do all the time.
guess the man didn't like what he saw.

I guess u are your father mirror image to.

Amanee:
You're a failed parent for him having those thoughts in the first place and it's not hard to see where he got his arrogance from...


Now you've locked up his shoes and declared yourself a responsible parent, what do you want from us?

He is not a failed parent. He is an observant, caring and conscientious parent. He observed his son’s lack of empathy and went ahead to correct it.

Smithwilliams826:

Mr man, it is better than beating his son. He is not to be blamed either, neither is he guilty. Or will you just leave your son when he laughs at someone who doesn't have what your son have?

A) There are many ways to educate a child other than beating him...
B) who else is to blame for child's failed state of mind then...?
C) what father though his son (all these years) about being humble/having compassion?

JasonScoolari:
So we should recommend you for the GCON title? All these just for "LIKES and RETWEETS"

Keep some certain things to yourself.

Shut up...mumu

lomprico:
Why dafuck are you telling us?

Who cares!

If u don't care u will just pass...mumu

SimSify:
Most of you here have nothing reasonable to say.. instead you to applaud the man for dealing with his son..for checking his attitude you spewing thrash..

But you will be the first to insult lai Mohammed and other irresponsible politicians when they speak arrogantly.. you forget that you train and bring up a child in the way you want him to grow..

Kudos to the man because he wants other indomie parents to learn how to deal with their children or wards..

I tire for them o...sometimes I wonder if this guys have brains at all

angelo5uk:
So you had to put it on social media to let the whole world just for likes and even hashtagged #responsibleparenting. Now we truly know where your son got that character from....Even me self I'm typing this message because of likes....it's all about the fake likes...fake world...lolz

Shut up if u don't see sense in what he did and learn from it...it's not by force to comment

angelo5uk:
So you had to put it on social media to let the whole world just for likes and even hashtagged #responsibleparenting. Now we truly know where your son got that character from....Even me self I'm typing this message because of likes....it's all about the fake likes...fake world...lolz

He represents important values.

MrBrownJay1:


A) There are many ways to educate a child other than beating him...
B) who else is to blame for child's failed state of mind then...?
C) what father though his son (all these years) about being humble/having compassion?

He gave is son the right lesson and punishment. And its not all child DAT has same character as any family member. Characters, behaviors, humbleness, etc can be created by oneself. There are a lot of fathers I know who trained their kids right but kids of now are days want to b indomies so and want to do things their own way.

Sanctimonious NLanders do not recognize important values when they hit them in their face. Open a thread about women's sexual liberation or homosexuality and they will be quoting the Bible up and down all day every day.

MrBrownJay1:
Shouldn't he blame HIMSELF for instilling the wrong values into his kid's brain? He is just as guilty as his son!

Parents are not the only people who shape a child's character. The boy might have picked up the behavior from the media or his peers. Almost every teenager compares himself/herself with others based on what they have. It is a stage most of them go through and the father used it as a learning opportunity. I applaud him for that.

felinko:

Shut up if u don't see sense in what he did and learn from it...it's not by force to comment

Can't you see I was just joking... You don't have to be abusive.. People like you are all over the internet looking for people to insult...

sweetrace:


He is not a failed parent. He is an observant, caring and conscientious parent. He observed his son’s lack of empathy and went ahead to correct it.

Exactly.

angelo5uk:

Can't you see I was just joking... You don't have to be abusive.. People like you are all over the internet looking for people to insult...

Didn't you insult the father who was trying to set a good parenting example? And now you are complaining that you got a taste of your own medicine?

thelastorca:
your son is your mirror image
he just imitated what he sees his father do all the time.
guess the man didn't like what he saw.

Nonsense!
Please read some books on child development before you decide to have your own.

phonemakemoney:
He should have made his son swallow his pride and apologize to the boy he mocked and they buy the boy a nice pairs or shoe and let his son wear the sandals for a month.

Yes ooo!

visijo:
How lucky I am! Just married a girl who's already pregnant..

Brother who impregneted her

felinko:


Shut up...mumu

Dear Felix Clement,

Stop mistaking me for your father.

Thanks.

See below

Mindfulness:


Nonsense!
Please read some books on child development before you decide to have your own.

hello, i actually have three kids, boy girl boy

11, 9, 3

my 11 year old has a lot of my habits and attitudes, some that i remember from my childhood.

my wife is a tiger mum who is always trying to discipline some things out of him so its kind of funny for me.
i grumble about corruption, crooked police and the boy does the same.
i wake up at night to work, and he wakes up at night after everyone is asleep to steal time on unlocked pcs.
i am pretty dull and conservative ish as i have grown older, but when i was young i used to be called ako boy among other things, and my son, for better for worse is also an ako boy.

some things are definitely from his peers - eg after we changed schools he has started showing an unhealthy level of sexism, no doubt lifted from his classmates/buddies.

but as of today, most of him is from me. his mother complains about his short attention span, that is me to a tee, though she doesn't seem to realise it. he sometimes rushes through his books instead of concentrating - that was me when i was younger. he wants to to too many things at once without considering his limits - thats his mum and i try to suppress that.

your attitudes and habits will be mirrored by your kids. sometimes in embarrassing and funny ways.

We have a close maiguard who i call by name, my son was doing so too until i noticed and put a stop to it immediately.that was him observing the dynamics in my relationships with different people and copying same.

i have always been a person who can unconsciously pose majestically when sitting down, much to the annoyance of my teachers when i was in school, and the other day i saw my three year old doing the same. it was weird.

good to see you again

felinko:

If u don't care u will just pass...mumu

Fuçk you!

thelastorca:


hello, i actually have three kids, boy girl boy

11, 9, 3

my 11 year old has a lot of my habits and attitudes, some that i remember from my childhood.

my wife is a tiger mum who is always trying to discipline some things out of him so its kind of funny for me.
i grumble about corruption, crooked police and the boy does the same.
i wake up at night to work, and he wakes up at night after everyone is asleep to steal time on unlocked pcs.
i am pretty dull and conservative ish as i have grown older, but when i was young i used to be called ako boy among other things, and my son, for better for worse is also an ako boy.

some things are definitely from his peers - eg after we changed schools he has started showing an unhealthy level of sexism, no doubt lifted from his classmates/buddies.

but as of today, most of him is from me. his mother complains about his short attention span, that is me to a tee, though she doesn't seem to realise it. he sometimes rushes through his books instead of concentrating - that was me when i was younger. he wants to to too many things at once without considering his limits - thats his mum and i try to suppress that.

your attitudes and habits will be mirrored by your kids. sometimes in embarrassing and funny ways.

We have a close maiguard who i call by name, my son was doing so too until i noticed and put a stop to it immediately.that was him observing the dynamics in my relationships with different people and copying same.

i have always been a person who can unconsciously pose majestically when sitting down, much to the annoyance of my teachers when i was in school, and the other day i saw my three year old doing the same. it was weird.

good to see you again

Your children have your genes and imitate you but they are not your mirror image. They can't be, if alone for the fact, that they have a different set of genes from their mother. Moreover, children are also shaped by the zeitgeist, the media and like you have pointed out by their environment. The younger they are, the more important their parents are but as soon as they become teenagers, they will look up to their peers more, which makes matters more complicated and more challenging as the father's experience shows. No parent is responsible for what kids pick up outside of the home. They can only try to correct it, which the father beautifully did.

As for the short attention span, it is not a behavior typical of you and your son. In fact, most young boys have a rather short attention span. It is part of the natural development. And you mention the term tiger mum like it is a positive thing. I disagree.

Lizzysamuel:
A Man has revealed how he dealt with his son for mocking a boy.

According to the man, his son had mocked a boy who was wearing rubber sandals and to punish him and make him ‘have sense’, he bought two of rubber shoes for his son and hid all his fancy shoes.

The man who shared the story wrote;


See more: https://zenithnaija.com/man-reveals-how-he-dealt-with-his-son-for-mocking-someone/

My broda, u did well. Forget all those yahoo yahoo ppl wey dey sagg. They don't give a damn about how their children behave. Na dem go encourage their children to go make money any how

it is too late to bend him now.you did not start early,and now the boy will think that you're wicked and start being rebellious.

hello, i actually have three kids, boy girl boy11, 9, 3my 11 year old has a lot of my habits and attitudes, some that i remember from my childhood.my wife is a tiger mum who is always trying to discipline some things out of him so its kind of funny for me. i grumble about corruption, crooked police and the boy does the same. i wake up at night to work, and he wakes up at night after everyone is asleep to steal time on unlocked pcs.i am pretty dull and conservative ish as i have grown older, but when i was young i used to be called ako boy among other things, and my son, for better for worse is also an ako boy. some things are definitely from his peers - eg after we changed schools he has started showing an unhealthy level of sexism, no doubt lifted from his classmates/buddies.but as of today, most of him is from me. his mother complains about his short attention span, that is me to a tee, though she doesn't seem to realise it. he sometimes rushes through his books instead of concentrating - that was me when i was younger. he wants to to too many things at once without considering his limits - thats his mum and i try to suppress that. your attitudes and habits will be mirrored by your kids. sometimes in embarrassing and funny ways. We have a close maiguard who i call by name, my son was doing so too until i noticed and put a stop to it immediately.that was him observing the dynamics in my relationships with different people and copying same. i have always been a person who can unconsciously pose majestically when sitting down, much to the annoyance of my teachers when i was in school, and the other day i saw my three year old doing the same. it was weird. good to see you again