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Offpoint1:
lol, you guys are full of surprises... now it stops people from having babies Hahahahaha Hahahahaha

Lefulefu do you see this?

maybe the next guy will say it cause premature dead

For those addicted to masturbation, let say such a person self-services once a day, EVERYDAY for 7-8 years and above, it will lead to low sperm count / watery sperm

U started it and ur d only one who can stop it, if u like pray and fast from not till next year if ur not ready to stop it u will continue doing. The fastest way to stopping it is to engage urself with something doing and avoid being alone, again cut d way u watch porn and also d way chat with ur lovers. If ur matured enough to keep a woman get one around u. All d best

...and do not take your smartphone with you to the restroom

vicomonode:
Hello, you can actually stop it if you want to. It's a habit, you were not born with it, you acquired this habit along the way in your life. You can still drop the habit.
Firstly agree to stop it in your mind
Create an habit tracker on a daily basis
Discipline your self to keep to the daily tracker for atleast a month.
Remember because you said you want to stop, does not mean it will automatically stop You must participate in your rescue.
The urge will come but self discipline is what will keep you from it.
You can avoid been alone for some time, when you have the urge for it go out to were you have people.
Also always distract yourself when you have the urge, get more activities around you.
Above all trust God for a change.

How can you distract yourself when you are alone with your phone and data around 12midnight with a powerful hard on and xxxvideos be looking at you like,,,, brother just type this three alphabets lets get it over with...

greypencils:
For those addicted to masturbation, let say such a person self-services once a day, EVERYDAY for 7-8 years and above, it will lead to low sperm count / watery sperm

Biologically and medically, how many sperms fertilize an egg?

To be honest with you, you can't do it on your own, you need God to help you
Look for a Lords chosen Christmatic church, try and attention the church for 1 month, I promise you will find the answer to your questions. Believe me or not that's where I got my answer, it's not magic, be dedicated to it just one month, you will see yourself stopping it, you won't even know how
God is God
No fear he knows you better

VicYo:
i experience something last night.... moment i was trying to control my thought... then the urge for it + pleasure start rising and my phallus begin to erect then old pictures of the girls have bleeped begin to come in my head.. the way each one of them handle me....
situation like this cant someone weave it?
how do it stop... tho right now am single which is unlike of me like before

I will advice you to you to use the what I call the snap out or I quit method.
like when you when mind is drifting towards that end, there will be this internal argument of I don't want to but I can't stop it, or let me just do it this last time. that what you what you always tell tell yourself just this last time, but you can snap out of it instantly telling yourself nope I am not doing it.
yes I quit no more, say it like its a decision and move on to another task

greypencils:
For those addicted to masturbation, let say such a person self-services once a day, EVERYDAY for 7-8 years and above, it will lead to low sperm count / watery sperm

same thing for those who also engage in excessive sex

blissgregory:
Yes am ugly..tanks

ya welcome, the lord is your strength

Eberejesus111:
One avoid condemning yourself, yes because when you condemn yourself( the devils tool) this would tend to make you want to do more of it.

Read the Bible because it has all the answer you need even about mastrubation.

Delete Pornographic videos from any where around you and even if you want to watch a movie and you see them doing something that moves you, at least close your eyes and don't say I'm an adult. You're protecting your spirit and what you take into the mind goes right in, so guard your mind. The Bible says "as a man thinketh so is he"

Pray in the morning, in the afternoon and in the night. Jesus is the only way to be saved.


And lastly, enjoy your life and be joyful and do motley your mind condemn you when perhaps you mistakenly do it, just pick were you stopped and continue harder till the inordinate desire dissipates from you.

God bless you and Jesus loves you so much.

thank u my dear,
u are truly an encourager not all those ones that add salt to our wounds

VicYo:
i experience something last night.... moment i was trying to control my thought... then the urge for it + pleasure start rising and my phallus begin to erect then old pictures of the girls have bleeped begin to come in my head.. the way each one of them handle me....
situation like this cant someone weave it?
how do it stop... tho right now am single which is unlike of me like before

Give your life to Jesus, you are not safe until you are saved by Jesus Christ.
Masturbation is caused by Satan thru his evil spirits.
You can not overcome it by your own power.
Bible says in John 10:10 that satan comes to kill, steal and destroy , one of the ways he uses is sins of masturbation,
That's why the Word of God says in 1 John 3:8 that Jesus was manifested to destroy the work of the devil like masturbation

Dear Poster contact me here let's talk .I will pass a little message 07033624511

D Lord is ur muscle

Forreellinc:
ya welcome, the lord is your strength

come make I help u na if u see my body u no go gree touch itself again hope ur dick never shrink oh cos I like it..............

VicYo the baffling part her is that you didn't remove ir profile pic, don't you know friends and family would see this


Ro your question, start by having a girl friend and have lots of sex stop watching porn, stop staying alone

blissgregory:
D Lord is ur muscle

the lord is your make up

MissRaine69:
Replace your hand with a real live vagina. All the stress & histrionics that come with a live vagina will compel you to forget your ritual of self gratification.

I don't think so dear, the stress and histrionics involved in it will actually make him go back more than before

prince3009:
Wrong! The skin on the penis is very delicate. The texture of your hand is way different than the texture of a wet vagina! The hand (palms) are harder and rougher and so constant wanking will harden the skin of the phallus and desensitize it and when you put your d*ck into a pussy, you feel almost nothing and it would take a very long time to cum.

I think it works in the opposite direction..constant masturbation will make your skin nerves more sensitive and that might lead to heightened sensitivity and quicker ejaculation.

icon91:
I don't think so dear, the stress and histrionics involved in it will actually make him go back more than before

Stress affects libido I know what I am on about

franklingud:
Both.

I just minimise when I do it.

Believe me it's unstoppable.

Lol. Good for you though.
Some cannot control the urge.

MissRaine69:
Replace your hand with a real live vagina. All the stress & histrionics that come with a live vagina will compel you to forget your ritual of self gratification.

Histrionic

Queenkofoworola:
gave my life to Christ 40 times still nothing changed

You didn't do it Genuinely, definitely...

Queenkofoworola:
big, fat lie!!!!!!!!!!!
Masturbation doesn't kill anything.
I have given my life to Christ severally, they have done deliverance for me severally but nothing changed

This guy expect only faith to function without work!! Discipline your body please. Stop blaming prayer and deliveranve for everything

Iyke3522:
Someone please help me.. its 6 years already.. I want to stop it.. in this space of 6 years have been A youth secretary general, Vice president and ministry music director yet this thing has plagued me.. I once told a female friend who I see as a senior in spirituality but den she started avoiding me like a disease since den I have kept it to myself and try battling it out.. I really want to get out....

Discipline your mind.
And, never share such explicit part of you with any stranger. See a therapist. You might be addicted...

Marriage and Histrionic partner( ) is the solution tho..

Queenkofoworola:
I have attended several vigils still nothing changed

You have not met your own prophet

NSK4U:
senior in spirituality?

minister or commissioner on spiritual matters?

E get as e be!!!

Queenkofoworola:
I used this same method, by learning 6 programming languages, graphics design, many more but masturbation became worst

You need a more strenuous job, why settling for the less
You need a dramatic wife, why settling for the meek type...

Your problem must be solved by force, by fire...

Queenkofoworola:
any little time I m free in my house.
I have only 3 hours sleep, I m a software developer with lots of work to do.

Poor Discipline...

Wow!!

I think it is high time I worked together with my Pharmacst friends to work on a drug that can lower Masturbation Urge.

Male type and a female type.

This is an opportunity to boom.. This addiction is like that of nicotine.

Many Nairalanders(males and females) will surely patronize me...

Eureka!!!

BandAid:
Nothing. It is a relaxing form of exercise. I don't know why most people feel upbeat about it. Anyway, with Nigerians, trivialities and hypocrisy are inseparable.

I swear. These people are hypocrites; they don't see anything wrong in fornicating there and about but will bash the bash the act of masturbating all day and night.

I'm not ashamed to say I've been masturbating for God knows how long, and sometimes, I even do it in excess, like 4-5 times in a day; but other times, I may go as far as a month without masturbating. It all depends on how busy I am, yet I haven't seen any side effects. My díck still stands in ovation when I'm with a woman, and I've never experienced erectile disfuntion or whatever that deluded, cretinous being on the first page called it.

Nigerians are hypocrites. Masturbation is very healthy and has no side effects whatsoever. As a matter of fact, whenever I'm about to work for long hours on my laptop, I masturbate first to ease any preceding stress; in this manner, I will be able to work faster and efficiently.

CaesarDon:
VicYo the baffling part her is that you didn't remove ir profile pic, don't you know friends and family would see this


Ro your question, start by having a girl friend and have lots of sex stop watching porn, stop staying alone

i guess when am being real... removin my pict should be a freak...
no one with a but, i claim to ignore and also to accept the fact am a victim...
let someone decide to be like me too, trust will reign... my account is real

blissgregory:
Ur sista first

I don't have any, I'm the only child so please help him biko