Some people need to receive sense ....haba!...when you are not animal

Sorry en ! I know there would be a time when a man with kind heart was wooing you. But you said yes to that beast . Marriage sometimes is a one Chance bus. You wouldn’t know the best one. May God grant you quick recovery . Split for your Life. Biko

lilyheaven:
Maybe she was sex starving her husband
She didn't say what she did before the rape

It still doesn't justify his action oga

showafrica:


From the same legal point of view, a woman does not have the right to deny a husband who legally married her sex. The story looks like the man wanted sex but the woman was not in the mood and he forced himself in, it's difficult to call it rape.

Professor it's called what

Hotzone:
Rape is not defined in marriage......u can't charge him shiit!
Failure to deliver when necessary is an offense legally

Use Google u will see u can be locked up

seangy4konji:
What is rape his wife.

Wife using sex as a tool to punish a legal husband while giving a mechanic..she deserves beating.

A man that beats his wife is a COWARD. If the wife na black belt will he touch her in the public. Don't we men use tools . Uv a sisters,daughters and mother talk smart

fredrick9:
it's funny to note how everybody is calling the man a monster
my question is what really transpired
please fellow Nigeria don't just talk when the whole event have not been unfolded and nairaland should always update concrete and full detailed information please.
raising your hand upon anybody is bad be it male or female... are you a bully. !!kia to fellow quick judge!!!! When a woman beats her husband the the man is a weakling but when the it reverse the man is a monster kia nigeria. blind leading the blind

A man should not hit his wife period That's why I advocate women go for self defense classes so let's see how manly a coward will be

chinedumoooo:
Op wrote the man rape his wife,the man has full right to sleep with his wife without any restrictions because he spent his hard earn money to fulfill the traditional rite of the woman before he can call her my wife.
We should not impose Western culture on us because we are completely different from them and God Almighty know why.

Hope when your sister or daughter complain u will man up and tell them it is African culture

For the beating I condem it totally, but for sex wetin make they buy monkey? Na for play.

Don't cry pls, he doesn't deserve you

Just walk away its better than staying and dying in silence

showafrica:


From the same legal point of view, a woman does not have the right to deny a husband who legally married her sex. The story looks like the man wanted sex but the woman was not in the mood and he forced himself in, it's difficult to call it rape.

He forced himself on her and you cant call it rape? God forbid your type of person.

showafrica:


May be u no dey 9ja, Nigerian women too like shakara. If you no add small pressure, you no go fit enter oo. In the case of this woman, she is not in the mood is simply bc the man no hold money now, nothing else. Make the man turn to Ned nwoko now, you go see the mood the woman go dey. She go even turn porn star overnight.

So if she doesn't agree the solution is to rape her?
If he cannot work then he should not expect to "chop".

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Hope when your sister or daughter complain u will man up and tell them it is African culture[/quote
In the ancient time,men marry many wives and their will live peacefully and focus on their farming to feed their children.
But we learn from the white men how to marry one wife and accomplish it with white wedding but despite all the huge spending the woman will still starving the man and divorce him.
What a shame Western culture.

kmcutez:


I was also shocked, at some posters asking how a man can rape his wife. Very surprising to me. I’m not sure what kind of men we have in this country.

Maybe it’s due to lack of education as the illiteracy rate is high in Nigeria.

But with all your education you still don't know that there's nothing like marital rape in Nigeria? Who is the illiterate now?

REDBUNNY:
No, it's not illiteracy.
I'm sure they are learned and graduates.
Nigerians hate to unlearn, that's our biggest problem. I feel sorry for the future of this country if we have youths like this

We are all illiterates one way or the other though. An illiterate is a person who is unable to read and write. It could be English or your dialect.

bukatyne:
In a Christian marriage, everlasting consent has been given on the wedding day so ideally, there is nothing like rape.

A man can be a selfish lover, a poor lover, an inconsiderate lover, bodily harm his wife, be violent etc.

However to rape his wife as we define rape, no.

@Beating: if she is tired of it, she should seek a redress. We all have the gift of self-preservation, she should use it.

Not only in Christian marriage, in Nigeria generally, a husband cannot rape his wife. It is assumed that the wife gives implied general consent to sexual intercourse with her husband upon entering the marriage contract.

The man na useless he goat, The fool don use sex to make the woman old see how 39 yrs old woman cum b like 50yrs old after 5 children

numen:
Don't even bother them with a reply. Just click report type "4" and submit.

Chikena!

The post go just vanish like rapture

Dont get it wrong, it's a trick... Reporting a post only vanishes for you the reporter... The post is still very much alive for other users to see

Tallesty1:
But with all your education you still don't know that there's nothing like marital rape in Nigeria? Who is the illiterate now?.

Even if there is no law in regards to marital rape in Nigeria, rape is rape, whether marital or not.

Even your conscience should let you know that it is wrong and morally repugnant to force one to have sex with you, whether spouse or no spouse, but what do I know.

Odogu9195:
Believe it or not, this has everything to do with culture. That ideology that says no woman is complete without a husband. For heaven sake is this one a husband?? And don’t be suprised one idiot will be advising her to still stay with the man, some will say pray over it and stay with your husband, and try to bring your family together. A lot of people have died because of this. One time a lady even when pregnant the husband keeps beating her, during labor it was discovered the baby’s was already dead. The lady died as well. The husband is now Mad! He always screams the wife is tormenting him lol. Last I heard he was taking to his village hahaha. The day you lay a hand on a woman is the day you stop been a man. My in-law I told him straight up, the day he will lay hands on my sister, that is the day I will kill him hahhahahhaha, baba is still sacred of me till today. No one on this earth would do that to any of my sisters. That’s a fact, we go kill ourself

"...any of my sisters.. "

There a number who would do it as well as beat the shit out of u or even kill u..

careful what u wish for

This story is not complete. I don't see the reason for the man to pick his own pocket, the underskirt asset is his why steal it unless he was denied access.

You’re thinking what am thinking man, these wives starved their husband sex and they think it’s funny .

showafrica:
Husband rape wife how come..? May be they had a rough sex but it cant be rape. Women always playing victim

But madam, why you no agree give am jejely?

He come dey beat like this. That man sef na fool

kennygee:
Awon Ruth, aboko ku.

Aato e ti, ile oko niwon na nlo yen. Waa ri boshe rorun to. May God make it easy for you. Sope Amin

dustydee:

So if she doesn't agree the solution is to rape her?
If he cannot work then he should not expect to "chop".

Lol, na lie oo man no go steal but man must pour. Money comes and goes but women no dey understand. To go outside go pour is even more risky, the best option is to force it in, of course is not rape. Just that heaven sufferet violence and you taket it by force.

ireneidiva:

He forced himself on her and you cant call it rape? God forbid your type of person.

My dear is safer oo, don't even allow your husband carry Konji commot. There is a type of Konji that is so bad that even a she goat is in trouble. If he force am in, it's better and safer. Sometimes, na him sweet pass self at least you are sure you are the only one he is digging.

betatalk:


Professor it's called what

It's called 'unwanted sex' similar to unwanted pregnancy, just like the story of the big bang theory.

lilyheaven:
Maybe she was sex starving her husband
She didn't say what she did before the rape

Many women do dat when de are angry. Or wen u don't give dem money. My neighbour was jst discussing his experience with his wife with me dat I should advice him on Wat to do. N I told him it all depends, if he doesn't want to cheat or spend much money he should masturbate. Buh if he sees something wrong with dat he should visit Olosho place wen ever conji comes., it jst 1k. Wen he does dat there will be peace at home. No domestic violence or something of such.

showafrica:


My dear is safer oo, don't even allow your husband carry Konji commot. There is a type of Konji that is so bad that even a she goat is in trouble. If he force am in, it's better and safer. Sometimes, na him sweet pass self at least you are sure you are the only one he is digging.

Are you sure that you are okay? Do you think rape is a joke?

Yea I know. I've been enlightened on that. Although I truly want to believe a report-count can trigger a ban or at the very least a MOD scrutiny/investigation. That's why it would be nice if alot of people report the same post in-order to trigger a flag.

dazzlingd:



Dont get it wrong, it's a trick... Reporting a post only vanishes for you the reporter... The post is still very much alive for other users to see

ireneidiva:

Are you sure that you are okay? Do you think rape is a joke?

Well, until you understand what rape is.. For now, you don't understand.

Ategberoson:
why always Igbo?


it was one ikenna at pH beating his wife because of sex, another one raping his step daughter now this?


well! I'm not surprise, if these beeasst can support Regina marrying that ugly monkey then I don't need to be surprise. ladies remain an inferior tools in Igbo land, many sensible Igbo ladies are running to marry out of Igbo land presently

Regina is fulfilling her mothers wish. We don't know how much Rite is owning Ned that she has to pay with her daughter