Ardar:


The fault is from you oga, It's quite obvious she has not had good sex in a long time. You guys should improve on your sex life [/i]and watch as things go. Who knows sef, the porn might be of good help for the both of you.

kulionam:
Hello People,

Please, I am very confused right now, I just came home and met my wife watching porn comfortably in the living room, I walked in and she acted as if nobody entered, she was feeling completely relaxed.

However, for the past three years, we have been having one misunderstanding or the other, each time I am the one that initiates the settlement- And in most of the cases, she never allow me close to her or sleep together in our room, I always go to the other room to avoid trouble. We live in Europe.

Three weeks ago she started again, and she repeated send me to the single room, I left her, and I did not try to settle unlike before.

I came back home now to meet her watching porn.
I don't even know if it is her right, or I should ask why or just ignore her.

Thanks

doggedfighter:
Watching porn is a symptom of an underlying issue. Tackle the real problem. Watching porn is no big deal

breakerofchains:


Nigerians make me laugh!

Did you just say any women using intimacy gadgets is possessed?

Lmao...

Research shows that heterosexual women are the least likely to orgasm during sex. What this means is the highest percentage of women who actually get to climax during sex are lesbians...yup, you read that right.

Now here you are saying this... Like seriously now?

The least they can do is get intimacy gadgets, in fact, I encourage every woman, especially heterosexual women ( because let's face it, you need sexual assistance as some dicks can be useless) to invest in quality intimacy gadgets.

Don't listen to men who can't even get you to bust a nut.

IamSoProlific:


Inasmuch as I could figure out your unproven point, I feel you failed a better understanding of what I wrote. When I say possessed, you should have have been wise enough to understand what I mean by that cus in actual sense I might be talking about addiction or something of such nature and not necessarily the "possessed" your mind is telling you.

I wouldn't want to magnify your last two lines by reading meaning into it in respect to the poster cus that will be very insensitive of you to assume such where the Op is.

breakerofchains:


Nigerians make me laugh!

Did you just say any women using intimacy gadgets is possessed?

Lmao...

Research shows that heterosexual women are the least likely to orgasm during sex. What this means is the highest percentage of women who actually get to climax during sex are lesbians...yup, you read that right.

Now here you are saying this... Like seriously now?

The least they can do is get intimacy gadgets, in fact, I encourage every woman, especially heterosexual women ( because let's face it, you need sexual assistance as some dicks can be useless) to invest in quality intimacy gadgets.

Don't listen to men who can't even get you to bust a nut.

MiddleDimension:


can women make men get there?

breakerofchains:


Whatevs.

Billy0naire:


Nothing is wrong in watching Porn.

If you are the one leaving the bedroom to guest room, you are the wife and she is the husband of the house. Always know that weakness is not civility, so you are simply a weak man. Sorry, but a real man does not leave bedroom for wife, it is wife that leaves bedroom.

Again, why are you so jealous? it is actually your possessive attachment to the woman that makes her treat you the way she does.

Solution:
Create Artificial Scarcity to increase your market value, and stir up competition in the minds of your partner.

What I mean in essence is, leave home for a week or so and deny her or your kids full access to you. And occasionally let her see you chat with a female. It will reset her a little bit and you can step in and exert your authority as a real man. Stop being a snowflake. Life was not designed to be fair. It is an evolving game. You must learn to lose what you have and have what you lose, it is the fun of the game.

At the end, if you divorce, will life not go on? Expect the worst and do your best.

Acidosis:

Wtf!

Bro, you're the wife, she's the husband. When you tell a woman "sorry" and then continue to initiate settlement all the time, even when she's wrong, just forget it! You're fcked!

What to do?! Man up, man up man!! Thunder fire settlement. If it takes 30 years for her to admit her mistakes, then so be it! If you continue to act the way you do, nothing will change.

You have lost every ATOM of respect in that house. Sadly, you will never regain the respect you deserve, until you repeat and act on these words * Thunder fire Settlements."

Retrieve your respect and your worries will become testimony. Joke with it, and watch her sleep with another man right under your nose. The porn is just a rehearsal.

budaatum:

Did you miss the bit where he said he's in Europe and not in the jungle?

Well, I know he smart pass. He knows if he touches her he'd be saying byebye to the spare room and hello to a bench in the park!

breakerofchains:


Even hole can make men get there and I mean any hole.

kulionam:
I am glad someone understands.i mentioned we live in Europe so that guys will understand the complexity, but most people did not. But at least you did. Thank you

emmykk:
lie kill you there

pride4legacy:
bringing it to nairaland big mistake we are mostly Nigerians
#

kulionam:
Hello People,

Please, I am very confused right now, I just came home and met my wife watching porn comfortably in the living room, I walked in and she acted as if nobody entered, she was feeling completely relaxed.

However, for the past three years, we have been having one misunderstanding or the other, each time I am the one that initiates the settlement- And in most of the cases, she never allow me close to her or sleep together in our room, I always go to the other room to avoid trouble. We live in Europe.

Three weeks ago she started again, and she repeated send me to the single room, I left her, and I did not try to settle unlike before.

I came back home now to meet her watching porn.
I don't even know if it is her right, or I should ask why or just ignore her.

Thanks

MiddleDimension:


but why can't you European men do something about those laws?
@sagamite

MiddleDimension:


no.

but I don't think men are responsible for getting women there. men get themselves there, women should do the same.

enemyofprogress:
That's what happens when your pick is like that of a 3 month old baby


Ajepako how far nau

kulionam:
Hello People,

Please, I am very confused right now, I just came home and met my wife watching porn comfortably in the living room, I walked in and she acted as if nobody entered, she was feeling completely relaxed.

However, for the past three years, we have been having one misunderstanding or the other, each time I am the one that initiates the settlement- And in most of the cases, she never allow me close to her or sleep together in our room, I always go to the other room to avoid trouble. We live in Europe.

Three weeks ago she started again, and she repeated send me to the single room, I left her, and I did not try to settle unlike before.

I came back home now to meet her watching porn.
I don't even know if it is her right, or I should ask why or just ignore her.

Thanks

kulionam:
I am glad someone understands.i mentioned we live in Europe so that guys will understand the complexity, but most people did not. But at least you did. Thank you