budaatum:

Did you miss the bit where he said he's in Europe and not in the jungle?

Well, I know he smart pass. He knows if he touches her he'd be saying byebye to the spare room and hello to a bench in the park!

Hahahhaha... I tend not to jump to conclusions when i see an OP like this. What if the origin of the problem is from the guy? The lady watching porn isn't the problem, after all alot of married men do that secretly(even thoughnthey are not aware the wife knows.lol).
OP abeg give us the full gist..was she the one who took you to europe? How did you meet her? When did thisnproblem start? Why did she start ignoring you? Has she caught you being unfaithful? Has she complained to you about something that you have ignored or failed to come up with a solution? Did you woo her by making "I've got amazing plan" statements like other broke guys trying to date a girl above their class do? Have you asked yourself if You are the problem and not her?
Are you saying you are perfect and any err in the marriage is her fault??

Please dont give us stories that would make you look the victim and her the tyrant. Tell us what really happened.

Budaatum, yep he isnt in thr jungle. But your comment insinuates that "discipline" is okay in a sort of way..kindly avoiding using cryptic words like you do in the religion section. Not every body can grasp your message you know.

JoannaSedley:
. You saw her watching porn and ran to nairaland to narrate the tale instead of joining the game. For her to relax when you came in shows she wants action.

You are a disappointment.

thats exactlynwhat i thought.. The lady was Hot nd the dum guy didnt catch the signal. He missed his oppurtunity for a good smash

kkins25:


Budaatum, yep he isnt in thr jungle. But your comment insinuates that "discipline" is okay in a sort of way..kindly avoiding using cryptic words like you do in the religion section. Not every body can grasp your message you know.

"Discipline" is okay! At least I think it is, even in a jungle. Or do you think baboons don't do discipline in the jungle? In fact, if some animals don't do discipline in the jungle lion will just eat your undisciplined ass for dinner!

That said, we are humans. And I don't think we live in jungles. But if one is to be undisciplined the jungle might just be the best place for it I would think. Lions, after all, should not starve.

Let those who don't understand buda ask questions. buda will gladly respond to intelligent disciplined thoughtful questions.

Duggedised12:
just like your mama I am sure that is why you assume every lady out there is like her my Mother,aunties have been married for years ,just cos your family is cursed doesn't mean others are not flourishing in their marriages .

Instead of going to look for how to break the chain in your family ,you are coming online to genralise that Bini women dont stay in their husbands house. Nonsense.Just say the women in your family dont marry one husband ,dunderhead!

words from an Edo whóre. Casted

Duggedised12:
just like your mama I am sure that is why you assume every lady out there is like her my Mother,aunties have been married for years ,just cos your family is cursed doesn't mean others are not flourishing in their marriages .

Instead of going to look for how to break the chain in your family ,you are coming online to genralise that Bini women dont stay in their husbands house. Nonsense.Just say the women in your family dont marry one husband ,dunderhead!

lalasticlala

forget her and move on, to guys who carry their wives abroad, be careful, some are just waiting for the opportunity to unleash the demons inside them cos they know they can't do that in naija

kulionam:
Hello People,

Please, I am very confused right now, I just came home and met my wife watching porn comfortably in the living room, I walked in and she acted as if nobody entered, she was feeling completely relaxed.

However, for the past three years, we have been having one misunderstanding or the other, each time I am the one that initiates the settlement- And in most of the cases, she never allow me close to her or sleep together in our room, I always go to the other room to avoid trouble. We live in Europe.

Three weeks ago she started again, and she repeated send me to the single room, I left her, and I did not try to settle unlike before.

I came back home now to meet her watching porn.
I don't even know if it is her right, or I should ask why or just ignore her.

Thanks

NLModsAreStupud:
words from an Edo whóre. Casted

so is your Edo mother

sisisioge:


She might be trying to set you up...you too turn the table on her by pretending it was a regular movie she was watching. Don't even fuss about it.

As per your quarrels, na wa fa.

Hmmm

Get a divorce..

tohyorsih2:



You've done a very wonderful thing....you deserve a degree in womanology

i said too much

winitemp:
apology not accepted, you already exposed too much

+234808658889 let's chat don't call am not in Nigeria at the moment

tohyorsih2:



You've done a very wonderful thing....you deserve a degree in womanology

+2348088658889 let's chat am not around for now so no calls

She has lost interest in you maybe there are certain skills she is missing when she was having sex with u.

Duggedised12:
so is your Edo mother

you won't even mother a child. Barren fool

kulionam:
Hello People,

Please, I am very confused right now, I just came home and met my wife watching porn comfortably in the living room, I walked in and she acted as if nobody entered, she was feeling completely relaxed.

However, for the past three years, we have been having one misunderstanding or the other, each time I am the one that initiates the settlement- And in most of the cases, she never allow me close to her or sleep together in our room, I always go to the other room to avoid trouble. We live in Europe.

Three weeks ago she started again, and she repeated send me to the single room, I left her, and I did not try to settle unlike before.

I came back home now to meet her watching porn.
I don't even know if it is her right, or I should ask why or just ignore her.

Thanks

First thing first identify which type of porn she was watching when u met her... i.e lesbian, anal, etc from there u may get clue.
On the other hand it mayb nothing o, some years back i was watchin porn and then slept off only for me wife to picked the phone alas! ( then i was i experience, i wanted to explore some positions etc)

NLModsAreStupud:
you won't even mother a child. Barren fool

I have been reading your stupidity , this is 2019 bro,there is nothing like barren when we have ivf and surrogacy, geez ,such a mor0n you are , seems your sisters are the type that have 3 kids for three men, I think your sisters needs hysterectomy, instead of littering the place with bastard kids from different daddies. ,

The op asked for A only for you to be saying B , stop being such a sissy, its obvious you were hurt by someone from that tribe, take your grievances to the source and stop disturbing cyber space with your toxicity. Be a man and stop nagging . .

blindjustice13:
I have been reading your stupidity , this is 2019 bro,there is nothing like barren when we have ivf and surrogacy, geez ,such a mor0n you are , seems your sisters are the type that have 3 kids for three men, I think your sisters needs hysterectomy, instead of littering the place with bastard kids from different daddies. ,

The op asked for A only for you to be saying B , stop being such a sissy, its obvious you were hurt by someone from that tribe, take your grievances to the source and stop disturbing cyber space with your toxicity. Be a man and stop nagging . .

you're just another fool

Is your wife a Benin or Edo girl.

Rhea:


Did she find the password to your phone?
Just wondering if she's playing tit for tat

I don't watch porn

Akoja360:
its a shame u dnt knw how lucky u are

sorry, but I don't understand

kkins25:

Hahahhaha... I tend not to jump to conclusions when i see an OP like this. What if the origin of the problem is from the guy? The lady watching porn isn't the problem, after all alot of married men do that secretly(even thoughnthey are not aware the wife knows.lol).
OP abeg give us the full gist..was she the one who took you to europe? How did you meet her? When did thisnproblem start? Why did she start ignoring you? Has she caught you being unfaithful? Has she complained to you about something that you have ignored or failed to come up with a solution? Did you woo her by making "I've got amazing plan" statements like other broke guys trying to date a girl above their class do? Have you asked yourself if You are the problem and not her?
Are you saying you are perfect and any err in the marriage is her fault??

Please dont give us stories that would make you look the victim and her the tyrant. Tell us what really happened.

Budaatum, yep he isnt in thr jungle. But your comment insinuates that "discipline" is okay in a sort of way..kindly avoiding using cryptic words like you do in the religion section. Not every body can grasp your message you know.

I have said all that happened,

kulionam:
I don't watch porn

ok

kulionam:
sorry, but I don't understand

dont waste time trying to understand you have an awesome wife thats in need for some really good sex from you, possibly she is bored with routine and wants you guys to spice things up a bit and she may not want to let you know verberly thats why she opted to leaving you clues by letting you catch her watching porn. mind you she could easily do it without you finding out or even cheat on you with some other guy but she loves you and badly wants you to fvck her like a poornstar. so dont see this like a problem see it as an opportunity to experience something new and essentric with your wife , go with the flow, do some role play make her feel comfortable with you dont chastise or condem her for it as it would only hurt her feelings, making her ashamed and angry at you this wont go well for you .. instead next time you catch her playfully act like you angry tell her she has been a very naughty girl and daddy is gonna teach her a lesson , by now she would know her coded message has got to you, and trust me she would be seriously wet and ready to get wild and dirty with you, give her the hottest fvck of your life , be nasty ,raw and rough bt not too rough o we dont want to read your story on nairaland tomorow how you fvcked your wife to coma and say its me that advice you.. jus watch some xvideos on a littleBDSM and role play , save your marraige bro...

you're just another fool

you need a therapist ASAP.

Akoja360:
dont waste time trying to understand you have an awesome wife thats in need for some really good sex from you, possibly she is bored with routine and wants you guys to spice things up a bit and she may not want to let you know verberly thats why she opted to leaving you clues by letting you catch her watching porn. mind you she could easily do it without you finding out or even cheat on you with some other guy but she loves you and badly wants you to fvck her like a poornstar. so dont see this like a problem see it as an opportunity to experience something new and essentric with your wife , go with the flow, do some role play make her feel comfortable with you dont chastise or condem her for it as it would only hurt her feelings, making her ashamed and angry at you this wont go well for you .. instead next time you catch her playfully act like you angry tell her she has been a very naughty girl and daddy is gonna teach her a lesson , by now she would know her coded message has got to you, and trust me she would be seriously wet and ready to get wild and dirty with you, give her the hottest fvck of your life , be nasty ,raw and rough bt not too rough o we dont want to read your story on nairaland tomorow how you fvcked your wife to coma and say its me that advice you.. jus watch some xvideos on a littleBDSM and role play , save your marraige bro...

Thanks very deep

kulionam:
Hello People,

Please, I am very confused right now, I just came home and met my wife watching porn comfortably in the living room, I walked in and she acted as if nobody entered, she was feeling completely relaxed.

However, for the past three years, we have been having one misunderstanding or the other, each time I am the one that initiates the settlement- And in most of the cases, she never allow me close to her or sleep together in our room, I always go to the other room to avoid trouble. We live in Europe.

Three weeks ago she started again, and she repeated send me to the single room, I left her, and I did not try to settle unlike before.

I came back home now to meet her watching porn.
I don't even know if it is her right, or I should ask why or just ignore her.

Thanks

With my little experience in Marriage, I think communication is the big issue here. You should not just settle matters and quarrel again, although misunderstanding is sure going to ensue between two imperfect persons living together...…. But you need to talk to your wife. What is REALLY the problem? What is she going through or experiencing that makes are angry? Calm her down, take her out, talk to her and know how to adjust the situations as it depends on you because you are the head of the family.

MiddleDimension:


but why can't you European men do something about those laws?
@sagamite

Because they are sissies that accepted the feminist crap and even started calling themselves "feminists". They wanted to be patted on the back as "Real Men".

They took their own hands to cut off their own balls and are not ball-less.

MiddleDimension:


but why can't you European men do something about those laws?
@sagamite

I even said it here earlier:

https://www.nairaland.com/2015180/mgtow-new-movement-result-feminazism#28355530

Bossjakande:
later some useless pple will start jumping as parrot DAT he rape his wife she admire dose men DAT act porn over her hubby. o.p if I were u I will dicipline her. cos is insult to deny me sex yet watch nauthy film

Sex keel you there

ahnie:

Sex keel you there

hahahaha mama z why will my wife do dis rubbish. its wrong and any man will react

Bossjakande:
hahahaha mama z why will my wife do dis rubbish. its wrong and any man will react

Mo trust yen gan ....some men and sex seff.
Anyways how're' your kids ? Iyawo nko..se 'owa 'pa?

ahnie:

Mo trust yen gan ....some men and sex seff.
Anyways how're' your kids ? Iyawo nko..se 'owa 'pa?

hahahaha mama u no serious kids are still in heaven wife know were she dey oh