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Textra:
Giving birth early or later should be decision of the new couple not pressure from family.

Giving birth early and making too many children even when they should be working together to plan their finance and a beautiful future for their wards.

See celebrity marriage crashing before it clocks 2yrs leaving most kids to grow up in broken home. this could have been avoided.

That is not an excuse, what of those people wey divorce 10 years after their marriage,
some tragedy can not be averted, wetin go happen go happen.

Textra:
I think one of the major reason for break up is because we have given too much priority to Procreation.... given birth, rather than building a partnership first.
I think couple's should wait at least 2 to 4 years before allowing a kid to come in between them. Build your finance and grow your love.
Women are meant to be help meet.
What do you guys think?
Happy New Month.

You mean after marriage I should be using condom with my wife for 2-4 years so because I can build finance?

Or I should just b fingering her while she rubb me with her hands too?
What if even after 5 years they couldn't build finance beyond moderate level?

Did they marry the sameday they met?

Textra:
I think one of the major reason for break up is because we have given too much priority to Procreation.... given birth, rather than building a partnership first.
I think couple's should wait at least 2 to 4 years before allowing a kid to come in between them. Build your finance and grow your love.
Women are meant to be help meet.
What do you guys think?
Happy New Month.

....when d both of u want.. Very simple

Textra:
I think one of the major reason for break up is because we have given too much priority to Procreation.... given birth, rather than building a partnership first.
I think couple's should wait at least 2 to 4 years before allowing a kid to come in between them. Build your finance and grow your love.
Women are meant to be help meet.
What do you guys think?
Happy New Month.

Build finance to which extent self?
Those anyone force them to marry without loving eachother in the first place.

Na God they give children. We keep having sex and prayers till God say Amen and give us children.

Zane316:
Agree-ded.

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Textra:
I think one of the major reason for break up is because we have given too much priority to Procreation.... given birth, rather than building a partnership first.
I think couple's should wait at least 2 to 4 years before allowing a kid to come in between them. Build your finance and grow your love.
Women are meant to be help meet.
What do you guys think?
Happy New Month.

i stand with you on this ,it is a pity many nigerian men allow their women to manipulate them .A woman manipulates you into doing a big wedding (all sponsored by the man with little coming from the woman),the man is yet to recover from these wedding expenses now she tries to manipulate him into child bearing .Most naija ladies are lazy be very very careful when dealing with them stand your ground make sure you guys are financially buoyant before child bearing .Most ladies put this child bearing as a priority but it is just an excuse to be lazy and dependent on the man .

Fhowe:
i stand with you on this ,it is a pity many nigerian men allow their women to manipulate them .A woman manipulates you into doing a big wedding (all sponsored by the man with little coming from the woman),the man is yet to recover from these wedding expenses now she tries to manipulate him into child bearing .Most naija ladies are lazy be very very careful when dealing with them stand your ground make sure you guys are financially buoyant before child bearing .Most ladies put this child bearing as a priority but it is just an excuse to be lazy and dependent on the man .

You nailed it bro!

Hurrikane3000:
If not for procreation why will I get married, I will just leave a free life, date like 5 girls, go where I want, and do what I feel like, no much responsibility on head.
I observe that ladies here are against early childbirth, because they are afraid of losing their shape, but they forgot that giving birth early shuts all critics.

you spoke my mind

Textra:
You nailed it bro!

you know the Herculean task ahead of you guys ,so it is better to prepare .Not everyone can withstand pressure most broken marriages today the major cause underlying many is finances

Fhowe:
you know the Herculean task ahead of you guys ,so it is better to prepare .Not everyone can withstand pressure most broken marriages today the major cause underlying many is finances

Exactly!
One should tread carefully, there is no point bring kids when the finance isn't there yet.