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nwanneni:
since when did women start building men?
I don't know where you got that from

BUILD is relative. The problem is, SOME men have been so deluded into thinking BUILD is just finance. Whereas lots of them move about with psychological, emotional, moral and social deficiencies.

pocohantas:
BUILD is relative. The problem is, [b]SOME men have been so deluded into thinking BUILD is just finance. [/b]Whereas lots of them move about with psychological, emotional, moral and social deficiencies.

let's tell ourselves the truth here.
Would you marry or be with a man that has all those qualities you put up there but fails woefully in being a bread winner?
A man can learn all of that in a jiffy but knowing how to make money takes a lifetime

nwanneni:
let's tell ourselves the truth here.
Would you marry or be with a man that has all those qualities you put up there but fails woefully in being a bread winner?
A man can learn all of that in a jiffy but knowing how to make money takes a lifetime

Thinking those qualities are mutually exclusive is another problem, one that needs building too.

AntiBrutus:
Thinking those qualities are mutually exclusive is another problem, one that needs building too.

of course you know this isn't true!
A man can be all that and can't make any money.
As a matter of fact,men that don't make money are the champions in being all of that.real talk.
So Yeah,they can be "mutually exclusive"....
By the way that was a smart way to pull out of the real question.
I'll ask again,would you marry or be with a man that is all of that but can't make any money?

nwanneni:
I wonder where you got all that crap from.maybe that is something you would do,I wouldn't!
You just don't come and start nagging me,insulting me,making me feel less human and so forth in the name of "independent woman"....I won't take that!that is what I meant.
And Yeah,it happens all the time,that is why brothers don't bring women over here no more!
You ain't smarter than all of the guy d here na even doctors here and well to do guys no longer import women from home in the name of marriage,check the stats!

every post you make continues to highlight the flaw in your reasoning. maybe you are not misognystic [so you claim] - but you are clearly contemptuos of women, and it continues to show. ïmport women from home. basically, to take your own statement, you get a mail order bride - preferably one as unemacipated as possible, because you don't want to deal with akata/oyibo woman wahala. you want a woman from home who knows her place. of course you all keep forgetting the calculation that people will change according to their environment. the woman is no longer in nigeria where her mother, pastor , friends, sister and coworkers will tell her she must endure; it is her fate. sh is in america working with emancipated women. when those ones hear of her troubles they will tel her hit the road. they will tell her to ride the prick and cu-m first. import all you want, unless you can lock your import in your yard, story will still change.

funnily enough, a lot of my friends are in obodo oyibo with ladies they wifed from naija. my sis is in yankee with her husband. she is a doctor and almost certainly earning more than him. none of these people have any problems.

ornicus:
every post you make continues to highlight the flaw in your reasoning. maybe you are not misognystic [so you claim] - but you are clearly contemptuos of women, and it continues to show. ïmport women from home. basically, to take your own statement, you get a mail order bride - preferably one as unemacipated as possible, because you don't want to deal with akata/oyibo woman wahala. you want a woman from home who knows her place. of course you all keep forgetting the calculation that people will change according to their environment. the woman is no longer in nigeria where her mother, pastor , friends, sister and coworkers will tell her she must endure; it is her fate. sh is in america working with emancipated women. when those ones hear of her troubles they will tel her hit the road. they will tell her to ride the prick and cu-m first. import all you want, unless you can lock your import in your yard, story will still change.

funnily enough, a lot of my friends are in obodo oyibo with ladies they wifed from naija. my sis is in yankee with her husband. she is a doctor and almost certainly earning more than him. none of these people have any problems.

Did the husband make/train your sister to be a doctor?
If not,oops!you missed my point again.
We are humans and we expect courtesy from wherever we make investment.
If I made your sister a doctor,do you think I will be happy if she files for divorce because I litter our house with my dirty clothes or don't replace the butter knife on the shelf?

nwanneni:
since when did women start building men?
I don't know where you got that from

i have an example from friends who are now divorced. the guy was passed over for a promotion in the office, vexed, and resigned. the wife was in pwc, and she connected her husband to a client who was looking for a legal head. end of story, the guy was hired as the head of legal in that company. unfortunately, the same ego that [imho] messed up their marriage messed up his job. he is on his own now. the ex-wife's career has soared since then.

either husband or wife can build the other by trying to funnel opportunities to each other.

ornicus:
i have an example from friends who are now divorced. the guy was passed over for a promotion in the office, vexed, and resigned. the wife was in pwc, and she connected her husband to a client who was looking for legal head. end of story, the guy was te head of legal in that company. unfortunately, the same ego that [imho] messed up their marriage messed up his job. he is on his own now. the ex-wife's career has soared since then.

either husband or wife can build the other by trying to funnel opportunities to each other.

one out of 1 billion.
Poor stats again!
And would you say this woman built that man?
It was a job connection,not like she built him na.
Would the new company make the man their legal head if he didn't possess the values someone competent enough to occupy that position should?

nwanneni:
Did the husband make/train your sister to be a doctor?
If not,oops!you missed my point again.
We are humans and we expect courtesy from wherever we make investment.
If I made your sister a doctor,do you think I will be happy if she files for divorce because I litter our house with my dirty clothes or don't replace the butter knife on the shelf?

my sister went to america as her husbands wife. it was his visa. they even gave them tough time in embassy. basically had to do wedding twice so there would be evidence. when she came in she had to take exams before she could practice. so on whose dime was the initial investment?'

do you think I will be happy if she files for divorce because I litter our house with my dirty clothes or don't replace the butter knife on the shelf?

please stop being ridiculous. you think it is actually such frivolous things people get divorced for?

ornicus:
my sister went to america as her husbands wife. it was his visa. they even gave them tough time in embassy. basically had to do wedding twice so there would be evidence. when she came in she had to take exams before she could practice. so on whose dime was the initial investment?'



please stop being ridiculous. you think it is actually such frivolous things people get divorced for?

you took my example so literal.
Your sister must be a rare gem.
Do you still have more sisters?
I'm interested please

blasted spambot. i do not understand

nwanneni:
one out of 1 billion.
Poor stats again!
And would you say this woman built that man?
It was a job connection,not like she built him na.
Would the new company make the man their legal head if he didn't possess the values someone competent enough to occupy that position should?

the wife used her network to provide her husband with a career boosting opportunity. what some people call Godfathering.

nwanneni:
you took my example so literal.
Your sister must be a rare gem.
Do you still have more sisters?
I'm interested please

there are plenty of them everywhere. it depends on the circles you run in. the word you are looking for is aje-buta. it is all these pako [broke] chicks and guys who have been in want all their lives who see everything in purely transnational [poverty mentality] terms - be it sex, marriage, etal

thelastorca:
blasted spambot. i do not understand

the wife used her network to provide her husband with a career boosting opportunity. what some people call Godfathering.



there are plenty of them everywhere. it depends on the circles you run in. the word you are looking for is aje-buta. it is all these pako [broke] chicks and guys who have been in want all their lives who see everything in purely transnational [poverty mentality] terms - be it sex, marriage, etal

BUILD has now become a very confusing term for y'all.
I won't go back and forth on this but that woman did not build that man.i wonder why it is so hard for you guys to see.
Also,I wonder where you got the poverty mentality talk from.
Don't àssume too much,you might be wrong most times.

pocohantas:
BUILD is relative. The problem is, SOME men have been so deluded into thinking BUILD is just finance. Whereas lots of them move about with psychological, emotional, moral and social deficiencies.

nwanneni:
BUILD has now become a very confusing term for y'all.
I won't go back and forth on this but that woman did not build that man.i wonder why it is so hard for you guys to see.
Also,I wonder where you got the poverty mentality talk from.
Don't àssume too much,you might be wrong most times.

i have spent the last month or so investing myself into my kids STEAM skills.
changed their laptops, bought hardware, bought lapdesk.

last weeked i was up from 11pm configuring and setting up their systems
this weekend i was up setting up accessories
I and my son were up at one am yesterday trying to get krita to work with his wacom tablet. [he has a clear drawing talent]
i am going to see how i can sort out their mbot

what am i trying to do - i am trying to build them based on skills i have seen they have, and resources available to me[disposable income and IT skills]. basic finance is easy peasy - pay for school fees and you're done.

the same applies to husband/wife etal. there are things you can do/invest yourself in that can boost your spouse profile. it is not just injecting money. i could have spent the weekend watching some of my five year movie backlog, or playing games, or being at work in the field

right now, i am downloading and organizing tutorial videos

nwanneni:
of course you know this isn't true!
A man can be all that and can't make any money.
As a matter of fact,men that don't make money are the champions in being all of that.real talk.
So Yeah,they can be "mutually exclusive"....
By the way that was a smart way to pull out of the real question.
I'll ask again,would you marry or be with a man that is all of that but can't make any money?

I will marry a man that is all of that with money. They exist, I know some.

AntiBrutus:
I will marry a man that is all of that with money. They exist, I know some.

Goodluck to you then.
Please do send me an invite when it eventually happens so that I go come with my guys come shake waist
But wait o,na you dey marry man or na man dey marry you?
Cos I'm shocked at your confidence.How would you know if a man that's all of What you listed will pick you out of the multitude of good women screaming for his attention?
If I had half of your confidence,I might get married to Zahra Buhari oo
Just curious.

not again ...

Mindfulness:
not again ...

i did want to post that i hope this will be the last chapter in this story, but i guess not.

I'm happy for you too, Even if I don't know you I wish you the best and your kids and your Ex husband,And find love soon, REAL LOVE.

Congratulations
Now, move on with your life and try to stop bringing your issues on NL. This rebuttal was not necessary as it serves no purpose other than to tell NLers that you have your papers now.
However, don't forget nobody cares, unless you equally derive joy from the drama. See it all as water under the bridge.
It is left for you now to raise your children properly. If i remember correctly from the last thread opened by your friend, your ex husband has also equally moved on with his life and is possibly remarried to another woman from another African nation. Why do you still then care about this dissolved union/ex that you keep making referrals to it? You don't need validation from nobody on NL. Las Las, everybody go dey alright

thelastorca:
i did want to post that i hope this will be the last chapter in this story, but i guess not.

*Hissing in Greek*

Nairalanders and their unwarranted obsession with keeping up with the *fill as appropriate*.

Met on NL, married on NL, marital crisis on NL, infidelity with a NL-der(self-proclaimed equality advocate) who already has a child for another NL-der(according to bush radio), fighting on NL, everyone dropping their own version on NL, marriage finally over on NL, I have moved on and have my papers on NL, and so on and so forth...

Una no get social life.

*Hissing in Greek again* x2

pocohantas:
Yea right, Like we are the ones causing 99.99999% of the world's problem.

Mojisola aya LuciferMessiah, stop defending all the women in Nigeria.

You're not the Iyaloja of Gbogbo Runsgels.

Don't hide my comment again. It is very petty.

Coolesther:
Thanks so much

Anytime. Stay strong.

crackhaus:
*Hissing in Greek*

Nairalanders and their unwarranted obsession with keeping up with the *fill as appropriate*.

Met on NL, married on NL, marital crisis on NL, infidelity with a NL-der(self-proclaimed equality advocate) who already has a child for another NL-der(according to bush radio), fighting on NL, everyone dropping their own version on NL, marriage finally over on NL, I have moved on and have my papers on NL, and so on and so forth...

Una no get social life.

*Hissing in Greek again* x2

Will you keep kwayet.

Waka pass is alllwed if e no interest you, us we can’t do without the juicy amebo

freecocoa:
Will you keep kwayet.

Waka pass is alllwed if e no interest you, us we can’t do without the juicy amebo

No worry, more juicy sturvs on the way..

Second husband & marriage loading on NL, another NL-der.

ifyalways:
This is horrible If true. Considering she also had a child for another NLDER, dude bailed on her and all.

All those meet up and too much familiarity;- never ends well. Play on NLD, SAY your hi on NLD, shut down you laptop shut out all the "friends" .


People don't learn. They keep comparing their real and probably good life with the lies and fantasy spewn here. Anyways that era of NLD is gone.

Esther, stay safe is all. Take care of your children. Be happy . You dont need to validate yourself really but if you wish, the floor is yours. Truth is none of us actually truly care, whatever u write here will only be weekend cheap entertainment.

dont say DAT dear we are all matured most of d people u meet in life are also on internet so who is who. why say dis. wat will u say of those who meet here and dey are married today.some are in serious relationship about to wed d fact it never work for u Neva mean it wont work for others. as dey are bad pple on internet so are dey in real life. so wat will u do about dose in real life or family members.I hate statement like dis DAT stop people from getting lucky. some got wife, job,best friend or gift in internet. dont generalize dear

Bossjakande:
dont say DAT dear we are all matured most of d people u meet in life are also on internet so who is who. why say dis. wat will u say of those who meet here and dey are married today.some are in serious relationship about to wed d fact it never work for u Neva mean it wont work for others. as dey are bad pple on internet so are dey in real life. so wat will u do about dose in real life or family members.I hate statement like dis DAT stop people from getting lucky. some got wife, job,best friend or gift in internet. dont generalize dear

nwoke go find woman marry for God's sake!
Wetin dey worry you sef?
Every time dear this,dear that.....one day you go call your grand mama dear.
Annoys me badly
Spits

nwanneni:
nwoke go find woman marry for God's sake!
Wetin dey worry you sef?
Every time dear this,dear that.....one day you go call your grand mama dear.
Annoys me badly
Spits

Oga come back to Merc thread

weyreypey:
Oga come back to Merc thread

on my way baba

crackhaus:
*Hissing in Greek*

Nairalanders and their unwarranted obsession with keeping up with the *fill as appropriate*.

Met on NL, married on NL, marital crisis on NL, infidelity with a NL-der(self-proclaimed equality advocate) who already has a child for another NL-der(according to bush radio), fighting on NL, everyone dropping their own version on NL, marriage finally over on NL, I have moved on and have my papers on NL, and so on and so forth...

Una no get social life.

*Hissing in Greek again* x2

and followed avidly throughout by Crackhaus who knows the entire story

thelastorca:
and followed avidly throughout by Crackhaus who knows the entire story

Lmao..

Most of the things I know about old users of this forum isn't even from reading threads.
If I was the type of person to come here to start cutting some people to size, I would have been doing so already. I got enough ammo & still know exactly where to get my refills.
But who cares?

Which is why I wonder why some will just willingly bring their private business online for public consumption when they are not celebrities.