₦airaland Forum

ngwababe:
Not dropping them, but I'll distant myself. No matter how you want to see it, my dear within ourselves, we know things will always go wrong. Men matter is different. Man can go out with his single friends but will never forget home, it's unless there's more. But a woman, hmmmm, we too dey lost! What advice would a single lady give a married woman? What even advice will a married woman give a single lady?

You are truly a wise woman. I envy your husband.

babyfaceafrica:
I didn't hear u say anything concerning the man that was abused by his wife thread yesterday

I bet no woman has assaulted u before.......I bet u if we do a study here on nairaland 1 in every 3 ladies here have been assaulted by a man at one time or the other ...

nairalanduseles:
I bet no woman has assaulted u before.......I bet u if we do a study here on nairaland 1 in every 3 ladies here have been assaulted by a man at one time or the other ...

you can bet no lady has assaulted me?..lolz....oga kip ur money...

woe unto any man that thinks he can beat me and go free. hmmm ( I laugh in witchcraft).
sorry for you if we are in a relationship. we go settle the matter o, I go cook food give you chop, you go con sleep. nah better hammer I go use dislocate your knee, after I am through with you nah you go dey use police find me.

Psoul:
U called abandoning a 5 month old baby to go and club with prostitutes that will assign a man to the woman for sex a menial and irrelevant offence?

Well, u are not married and don't even knw what it means to have children. When u get to that level, u will understand the man's feeling, that is, if u will chose to be a responsible parent.

Don't you see her monika?

ngwababe:
Not dropping them, but I'll distant myself. No matter how you want to see it, my dear within ourselves, we know things will always go wrong. Men matter is different. Man can go out with his single friends but will never forget home, it's unless there's more. But a woman, hmmmm, we too dey lost! What advice would a single lady give a married woman? What even advice will a married woman give a single lady?

There’s so much more to life than marriage...
Accordingly, some of us don’t limit the definition of people to “married” or “single”.

Agree you should distance yourself from anyone that may disrupt your marriage...
But that should be the case regardless of whether such a person is single or married.

Meanwhile, there so much more to learn about other aspects of life...
And I could only imagine how tideous life would be if friends only met to discuss marriage.
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After a careful perusal of most comments here, I realize most young men here are not against domestic violence or wife battery... A man that batters his wife like a thief, posts it on social media is receiving accolades?... Okay.

Never knew the law recognized parental negligence as veritable ground for domestic violence.

When I say intelligence is fast declining among our youths, some people will call me arrogant. Y'all deserve Buhari as a president.

a leopard never loses its spot




that was wat she was doing before now

stanliwise:
I pity your wife. so sorry for her.

Don't waste your little pity on others when your miserable life in dire need of some

babyfaceafrica:
why should u get married to someone who can't be ur friend?

Apparently the same reason that people get married to bums who will bust their face and brag about it on social media...
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stanliwise:
your type are cooling off in Panti maximum prison. I pity your wife in advance.

my wife knows I’m a beast so she Dey package.

Okayoo:
is English your mother tongue? Smh

then he should have written in is mother tongue instead

BuhariAdvocate:

bros what?

Hmm inside laugh abeg mk una no laugh the man may be him na stammer

donbachi:
Domdomigos

Domingos that year for Warri na blast. Boys Warri that school well well

Okayoo:
wife beater

prostitution solicitor

SURElee:
As much as I'm against men beating their partners, this is a well deserved panel beating. What sort of a woman or wife abandons her baby and family to go out on a night of skimpy and booze?

If you never ready to leave some shenanigans lifestyle remain you father house or your single girl apartment.

Looks like the dude could be single soon...
Jump on his DM, as you both seem a match!
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nairalanduseles:
No bro am just a very logical person who does not let emotion becloud my judgement......violence never solves anything

U have no right to hit any one .....learn to be civil .....violence is not acceptable.....he should be in jail and she should get an AVO against him..... only animals hit people not to talk of hitting a woman no justification what so ever

nairalanduseles:
I fear for this country when people like comments like this
.....if she had a black belt will he touch her or if she was a personal .....he is very wrong he can file for divorce if he is fed up......NEVER HIT A WOMAN ....NO EXCUSE

story

dat severs her rite

this must be a Benue man.. living in delta state.. becos some how that is Benue English spoken by a Benue teacher, who is using Benue dictionary.. (quote me an see ur testicle remove)

SPOILT9JAOLOSHO:
Nah, woman beating is not in my dictionary and not permitted

yeah no man pray to beat his wife.. And for me I don’t like it I rather walk away go out and get some bottles of beer come house eat and sleep ... But some women can be annoying at times , na so dem go da do like witch up and down ...

9jaRealist:
Apparently the same reason that people get married to bums who will bust their face and brag about it on social media...
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then a lot of people should stay single

nairalanduseles:
I fear for this country when people like comments like this
.....if she had a black belt will he touch her or if she was a personal .....he is very wrong he can file for divorce if he is fed up...... NEVER HIT A WOMAN ....NO EXCUSE

And you said that you're a logical person? You're a sexist bro.

ngwababe:
Sometimes, I wouldn't know what a single lady will be doing with a married woman. What type of relationship/friendship are they even keeping?

So singles cannot have married friends according to you

chloride6:
But you can be married and still go clubbing..

Why do you expect her clubbing to just switch off when she gets married?

At no point was it written in the post that the man was aware of her clubbing lifestyle before marriage. So that's a story for another day. But I don't know how we Nigerians don't like accepting who we are. We aren't Americans and no matter how exposed we are, some things just won't add up. The guy is wrong for battering her, there are many ways of dealing with a woman which is more painful than beating. We aren't Kanye west and Beyonce or Bonny and Clyde we are Africans. A married woman leaving a 5month old baby to club? If ur husband isn't the type that club I don't see any reason for a responsible married woman to go clubbing.



Some feminist may decide to start say blah blah about gender equality cos men go clubbing, but the fact is nothing like that exist in marriage. Since when bogus bride price and dowry has become a must for a man to pay before getting a wife. Everything about equality in marriage failed

grayht:
Inconclusive English ..

Lolz.. We will not take this. A 3-man English panel will be set up to check for the grammar discripancies..

Psoul:
U called abandoning a 5 month old baby to go and club with prostitutes that will assign a man to the woman for sex a menial and irrelevant offence?

Well, u are not married and don't even knw what it means to have children. When u get to that level, u will understand the man's feeling, that is, if u will chose to be a responsible parent.

So why did the man not “choose to be a responsible parent” and sit his own behind at home?
Perhaps because he himself was at a club with gigolos that “will assign a woman to a man for sex”?

Misogynistic Nigerians trying to pass off their misogyny as “responsible” parenting...
What sort of supposedly “responsible” parent BATTERS the mother of his still weaning baby? SMH
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nairalanduseles:
U sound biased i am commenting on the information i was given on here and also the comment someone made based on the info...........so why are you trying to justify violence ....read my comment i don't support violence......violence has never solved issues .......And I have a soft spot for women cos i have a mother and a sister and a wife and a daughter......women re to precious to be hit......I stand by my word any man who hits a woman should be jailed

Peter's voice: And father and brother you've not?

babyfaceafrica:
then a lot of people should stay single

Definitely agree...
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Beedude:
At no point was it written in the post that the man was aware of her clubbing lifestyle before marriage. So that's a story for another day. But I don't know how we Nigerians don't like accepting who we are. We aren't Americans and no matter how exposed we are, some things just won't add up. The guy is wrong for battering her, there are many ways of dealing with a woman which is more painful than beating. We aren't Kanye west and Beyonce or Bonny and Clyde we are Africans. A married woman leaving a 5month old baby to club? If ur husband isn't the type that club I don't see any reason for a responsible married woman to go clubbing.

Some feminist may decide to start say blah blah about gender equality cos men go clubbing, but the fact is nothing like that exist in marriage. Since when bogus bride price and dowry has become a must for a man to pay before getting a wife. Everything about equality in marriage failed

Not that it’s really relevant, but...
In that case, he didn’t know her well enough to marry her. Still his fault!
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nairalanduseles:
Because i spend most of my time with my wife and I love her so much.....And I appreciate every womans beauty ......I think every man has a soft spot for a woman

The soft spot beclouds your judgement