Funnily and unsurprisingly, THE MEN have decided to clamp-up and not share their own sexual harrassment/rape experience.
Not a single one of them said anything or are we to beleive they dont have such bad experiences?
You see why l so much believe that Men and Women are different?

dachilino:
Nollywood actress Helena Nelson who shared a post to encourage Nigerian women to share their sexual abuse story as a child, revealed that she was sexually abused by her mother's boyfriend for 3 years. 

The Shuga actress further revealed that there were some older family members and friends of family members that would touch her newly formed breasts at 15. Helena Nelson who revealed that she was sexually abused by her mother's boyfriend for 3 years, further revealed that most of the men that sexually abused her were already married with kids. 

She wrote; 

https://unclesuru.com/2019/06/26/i-was-sexually-abused-by-my-mothers-boyfriend-for-3-years-actress-helena-nelson/

STORIES THAT TOUCH !

It is well !

IT IS WELLA !

Mr man..what i am trying to say is that havin gone true such an expereince doesnt permit one to go into immoralities....hence she should define the category of acting she is into..tor!

trapQ:
Like your mother?

Oh, that's after your own mother raised alarm too. Akuya mumu

And after all those years you decided to discuss about something like this now ahh ahhn what will we not see

Daboomb:
Funnily and unsurprisingly, THE MEN have decided to clamp-up and not share their own sexual harrassment/rape experience.
Not a single one of them said anything or are we to beleive they dont have such bad experiences?
You see why l so much believe that Men and Women are different?

Stereotypes are real my brother

mhizdebbygold:
Parents should stay woke...don't let your baby girl out of your sight easily everyone should be a suspect....
Imagine what this women has gone through none of them was raped above 15, that means most of our little
girls are passing through rape as we speak.

And to the men that do this to innocent girls the moment u set to touch and defile any girl your purpose and destiny in life shall be ripped out nemesis will catch up with you, you will look for death and it won't come until you are miserable and lastly your death shall be slow and painful.

Well said. However, I see you going on about girls only. You will be shocked to know that a huge number of boys go through the same experience. Most end up not talking about it at all. Parents need to do their job, develop a good relationship, know and listen to their children. It’s not just about providing food and shelter.

DirtyGold:
I don't understand how or why every woman seem to have an abuse story.
Are the men that terrible or women just love to use their overactive imagination to conjure up fake tales for attention sake? Ayam not understanding at all

What's tha business?

in a nation of over a hundred million people, u think all the men are saints? Trust no one my dear

jaido09:
Well said. However, I see you going on about girls only. You will be shocked to know that a huge number of boys go through the same experience. Most end up not talking about it at all. Parents need to do their job, develop a good relationship, know and listen to their children. It’s not just about providing food and shelter.

Yeah I have a very close friend of mine a guy who was also raped and sexually abused by his aunt to the extent that she use to also come with her friends to have sex with him, it so much got to him that he became a sex maniac not until he underwent through some counseling.

Jmk9292:
Too bad....The point is that most us at one point or the other were molested as kids...... Our society is mostly interested in cases where women are the victims...... Most male children are also victims from maids and some so called aunties...

You're very correct brother.
I experienced worse a kid. Between 4n5. This lady(younger sister to my brother's wife) would play with my penis until it's hard and would push it into her oversize Vagina. There was a times she came home with friends and they took turn, I was taken to chemist that evening cos of high temperature... I have kept all these to myself.
It affected me a little but thank God I have self control in abundance.

olatunjithomas:


You're very correct brother.
I experienced worse a kid. Between 4n5. This lady(younger sister to my brother's wife) would play with my penis until it's hard and would push it into her oversize Vagina. There was a times she came home with friends and they took turn, I was taken to chemist that evening cos of high temperature... I have kept all these to myself.
It affected me a little but thank God I have self control in abundance.

It's terrible....

DirtyGold:
I don't understand how or why every woman seem to have an abuse story.
Are the men that terrible or women just love to use their overactive imagination to conjure up fake tales for attention sake? Ayam not understanding at all

What's tha business?

It's not only women. Ask men. I'm a man and I had a narrow escape when I was around 10. Sexual abuse is very common. If you have kids, watch them like a hawk.

chimjoshjuan:
This is gross and bad, Nigerian men ooooo

Do you know how many women (housegirls, aunties, step mothers, mum's apprentices) try to rape boys and destroy their innocence? Stop making daft and myopic comments. The evil of rape goes both ways.

na today?

mhizdebbygold:
Parents should stay woke...don't let your baby girl out of your sight easily everyone should be a suspect....
Imagine what this women has gone through none of them was raped above 15, that means most of our little
girls are passing through rape as we speak.

And to the men that do this to innocent girls the moment u set to touch and defile any girl your purpose and destiny in life shall be ripped out nemesis will catch up with you, you will look for death and it won't come until you are miserable and lastly your death shall be slow and painful.

my friend, it wrong use of word. Not rape but defilement! From 18 below is defilement, from 18 above is rape. Thank me later

I was in primary school then ,we the little ones usually come back home early so we always stay with our neighbor till our elder brothers comes back. I instead of going to toilet to ease myself I usually urinate at d back of their drinking water drum in the kitchen, that faithful day ,she caught me and request for knife to cut off my dick.she ordered me to pull my nicker,unfortunately for me I have a large one, on seeing it she change her mind and send all d children to play outside ,she took me to their inner room,ordered me to close my eye and she raped me. I think today itself I will inform my family . its over 20yrs I only ever told my wife. Take care of even r male children not just d female ones.

That your mother is an olosho doesn't mean every woman is one.

brenister10:


Oh, that's after your own mother raised alarm too. Akuya mumu

Ehya. Sorry about that.

olatunjithomas:


You're very correct brother.
I experienced worse a kid. Between 4n5. This lady(younger sister to my brother's wife) would play with my penis until it's hard and would push it into her oversize Vagina. There was a times she came home with friends and they took turn, I was taken to chemist that evening cos of high temperature... I have kept all these to myself.
It affected me a little but thank God I have self control in abundance.

Damn, that's really tragic. Some women are equally terrible.

mhizdebbygold:




Yeah I have a very close friend of mine a guy who was also raped and sexually abused by his aunt to the extent that she use to also come with her friends to have sex with him, it so much got to him that he became a sex maniac not until he underwent through some counseling.

Does time erase an offense which has been committed? Did Bill Cosby not go to jail for rape crimes he committed decades ago?

Ausrichie:
And after all those years you decided to discuss about something like this now ahh ahhn what will we not see

trapQ:
Does time erase an offense which has been committed? Did Bill Cosby not go to jail for rape crimes he committed decades ago?

True sha but the authorities are there let her go and report it to them then.

trapQ:
That your mother is an olosho doesn't mean every woman is one.

It takes a semi-demented fool like you who has been trapped in the web of an olosho to speak uncouthly. And it's so clear that you do not have a mother or perhaps, she's not presentable.

Quote me again and expect the unthinkables

Lo and behold, your moniker says you have been trapped. It really speaks volume about how dull and helpless your thinking faculties and the output from your docile brain is

story for the gods hey what would men do now that you are abusing them?

When I was young between the ages of five to seven, I had sex severally with some girls about that same age.

We were always careful in making sure our elder ones didn't catch us in the act.

I must say it was very enjoyable.

But since everyone is now talking about being abused, let me also claim that those girls really abused the hell out of me.

Blyzz:
my friend, it wrong use of word. Not rape but defilement! From 18 below is defilement, from 18 above is rape. Thank me later

Thank you ma/sir.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FqieiU6JrVo&t=5s

She looks so dirty

mhizdebbygold:
Parents should stay woke...don't let your baby girl out of your sight easily everyone should be a suspect....
Imagine what this women has gone through none of them was raped above 15, that means most of our little
girls are passing through rape as we speak.

And to the men that do this to innocent girls the moment u set to touch and defile any girl your purpose and destiny in life shall be ripped out nemesis will catch up with you, you will look for death and it won't come until you are miserable and lastly your death shall be slow and painful.

Pls do not be gender biased even baby boys also suffer rape and sexual abuse

Jmk9292:
Too bad....The point is that most of us at one point or the other were molested as kids...... Our society is mostly interested in cases where women are the victims...... Most male children are also victims from maids and some so called aunties...

I agree with you on this...we should protect the child and not make it gender based

nairalee:
Sexual harassment come be like handshake these days.

It'll soon be breaking news to see a girl that has never been sexually harassed in her life

Just that most females still can't come out and narrate their experiences due to stigma

I wasn't abused as a child oooo...my mum was protective

mhizdebbygold:


Thank you ma/sir.

I never marry oh, na 28 I dey oh. Make ground level, man go marry

mhizdebbygold:
Parents should stay woke...don't let your baby girl out of your sight easily everyone should be a suspect....
Imagine what this women has gone through none of them was raped above 15, that means most of our little
girls are passing through rape as we speak.

And to the men that do this to innocent girls the moment u set to touch and defile any girl your purpose and destiny in life shall be ripped out nemesis will catch up with you, you will look for death and it won't come until you are miserable and lastly your death shall be slow and painful.

Boys are also abused too, though girls tend to fall victim than boys.