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This issue has been trending on the cyberspace since morning. It appears some persons are defending the pastor while some support Mrs Dakolo. However, I will like to know nairalanders opinion on this. Do you think pastor Biodun is guilty and why? Do you think this is a plan by the devil to tarnish the image of a "man of God"


Lalasticala mynd44 seun

1. Her story simply didn't add up. Reno Omokri logically broke it down.

2. Why did she wait this long to come out. Ese Walter saga should have emboldened her to speak if she was truly raped.

3. She claimed she was raped multiple times. This was her biggest flaw. If the first one was rape, the rest wasn't as long as she wasn't living with the man. She was at least 17 and can reason.

4. Why didn't she report to her parents. At least to her mother if she was shy.

5. How could he rape her in her own parents house with relatives present and there was no ruse.



MY CONCLUSION:

She wasn't raped. She "unwilling" allowed him to have sex with her multiple times but she was disappointed with him as a so called pastor.

It haunted her and she felt so ashamed and chose a rape claim as escape route.

Pastor Fatoyinbo is innocent until proven guilty.

Mrs. Dakolo's touching story and the support of the majority does not validate her claim one bit. Evidence and strong logical basis is needed here.

As long as Mrs. Dakolo doesn't go to court and there are no evidences to back up her claims, Pastor Fatoyinbo is innocent until proven guilty.

Just like Beer advert said "Drink responsibly"

Fvck responsibly if you must fvxk...

Fatoyinbo is not been finding it funny since morning...

Pray for the pastor , pray for the woman.

What I can say is this

Biodun Fagoyinbo took advantage of her innocence, her naivety, her inexperience. This man is like next to God figure in the heart of these women, married, single... And he being a sharp guy knowing fully well that he is tall, charming, handsome and very successful, knows very well that he can easily have his way into the pants of these powerless women who have been admiring secretly him all along. So in a way I won't call this a rape but I know it was not a mutual consent thing. They definitely felt used, abused, disappointed, abused, taken advantaged of, sexually molested.

So we can call this rape legally because the sexual acts was not a mutual consent thing. He made sex to them and he must have been having his way with many other beautiful women in his church but many of them are consensual thing. Few of them are actually raped, violated because they never expected they would fall so easily to his charm. They felt violated because they looked up to this man as a Father and spiritual figure more than a sexual partner.

My advise is that wives of pastors and GOs should start having sexual orientation lesson among themselves. Damn it. Many married do these but the worst that could happen is divorce. Pastors wives should do everything possible to become better and seriously improve on their bedmatics. Many married women becomes so boring immediately they get married. No new styles, very rigid, not creative, boring on bed, lazy and lose their beautiful and sexual personality after marriage.

An accused person remains innocent untill proven guilty by competent court of law. No if no but.

GraGra247:
1. Her story simply didn't add up. Reno Omokri logically broke it down.

2. Why did she wait this long to come out. Ese Walter saga should have emboldened her to speak if she was truly raped.

3. She claimed she was raped multiple times. This was her biggest flaw. If the first one was rape, the rest wasn't as long as she wasn't living with the man. She was at least 17 and can reason.

4. Why didn't she report to her parents. At least to her mother if she was shy.

5. How could he rape her in her own parents house with relatives present and there was no ruse.



MY CONCLUSION:

She wasn't raped. She "unwilling" allowed him to have sex with her multiple times but she was disappointed with him as a so called pastor.

It haunted her and she felt so ashamed and chose a rape claim as escape route.

She was raped and also taken advantage of by a powerful man and influential personality within her circle. She interpreting or handling it differently does not negate the fact she was sexually molested by someone she trust and look up to. She was a teenager and possibly incapable of appreciating, understanding and also acknowledging the significance and effects of what transpired between them. However, what is clear is that she didn’t like it and was taken advantage of.

maryjames9:
What I can say is this

Biodun Fagoyinbo took advantage of her innocence, her naivety, her inexperience. This man is like next to God figure in the heart of these women, married, single... And he being a sharp guy knowing fully well that he is tall, charming, handsome and very successful, knows very well that he can easily have his way into the pants of these powerless women who have been admiring secretly him all along. So in a way I won't call this a rape but I know it was not a mutual consent thing. They definitely felt used, abused, disappointed, abused, taken advantaged of, sexually molested.

So we can call this rape legally because the sexual acts was not a mutual consent thing. He made sex to them and he must have been having his way with many other beautiful women in his church but many of them are consensual thing. Few of them are actually raped, violated because they never expected they would fall so easily to his charm. They felt violated because they looked up to this man as a Father and spiritual figure more than a sexual partner.

My advise is that wives of pastors and GOs should start having sexual orientation lesson among themselves. Damn it. Many married do these but the worst that could happen is divorce. Pastors wives should do everything possible to become better and seriously improve on their bedmatics. Many married women becomes so boring immediately they get married. No new styles, very rigid, not creative, boring on bed, lazy and lose their beautiful and sexual personality after marriage.

We cannot blame the wives of these men for the actions of their partner. These men are sexual predators.

maryjames9:
What I can say is this

Biodun Fagoyinbo took advantage of her innocence, her naivety, her inexperience. This man is like next to God figure in the heart of these women, married, single... And he being a sharp guy knowing fully well that he is tall, charming, handsome and very successful, knows very well that he can easily have his way into the pants of these powerless women who have been admiring secretly him all along. So in a way I won't call this a rape but I know it was not a mutual consent thing. They definitely felt used, abused, disappointed, abused, taken advantaged of, sexually molested.

So we can call this rape legally because the sexual acts was not a mutual consent thing. He made sex to them and he must have been having his way with many other beautiful women in his church but many of them are consensual thing. Few of them are actually raped, violated because they never expected they would fall so easily to his charm. They felt violated because they looked up to this man as a Father and spiritual figure more than a sexual partner.

My advise is that wives of pastors and GOs should start having sexual orientation lesson among themselves. Damn it. Many married do these but the worst that could happen is divorce. Pastors wives should do everything possible to become better and seriously improve on their bedmatics. Many married women becomes so boring immediately they get married. No new styles, very rigid, not creative, boring on bed, lazy and lose their beautiful and sexual personality after marriage.

Gbam

I'll relax and sit back until after a week plus when the attention seekers and noise makers close their market.