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Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by EmagNig(m): 6:10pm On Nov 07, 2018
You remember Ese Walter? The lady that was allegedly involved with Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA church in a sex scandal. The new gist we have is that Ese Walter is separated from husband Benny Ark, whom she got married to less than a year after the scandal in 2013.

In a post she made on her Facebook profile, she wrote of the questions some of her fans asked her via inbox and some wanted to know if she was truly separated from her husband.

She responded in the affirmative and then went ahead to write a note on it.

Read:

Inbox message-

“Ese you look a lot better since the separation...”

At least three people have messaged me with the same content said differently and I thought to respond about that comment.

It is true.

I look a lot better than I did since coming out about the separation.

I think the first reason is because I no longer have to pretend or use silence to keep the truth of the separation.

Another thing is, while married, I felt I had to be certain ways. Sometimes, many times, I compromised even to my own discomfort.

The people pleasing part of me came out fully in marriage. I didn’t trust myself, let alone Boobdaddy. I didn’t know what a family was supposed to be and I had times where I didn’t feel like Boobdaddy and I were family. It was like there is me and this child I birth, then there’s this man responsible for the pregnancy whom is called husband and we are somehow supposed to live in this four cornered space.... forever?

I could never admit that I didn’t get that. And worse, didn’t want it. Why did I feel choked sometimes? Surely I was the only married woman who didn’t want to see her dear husband so much in a week.

I had to pretend and swallow all of these things I considered weird and wrong of me.

Now... I live alone with my compulsory tenants (Boobies. That’s short for Boobbabies

Being in this space where I can be me. Whatever that means to me, and the many changes that will rise, without worrying about pleasing another person outside myself, is very freeing. Selfish too. (I am a selfish woman)

It gets lonely sometimes but at least this lonely makes sense. The type of lonely I used to experience didn’t make sense. How can you feel lonely when you have a live-in partner?

So yes, I do look better and that’s because I FEEL better about Ese. And I no longer have to hide my uncomfortable truths.

It also helps that Boobdaddy and I have been able to build friendship. We used to be good friends before marriage tried to scatter the friendship

We ditched the marriage and kept the friendship. And family

I am happy and content on the inside. This shows on the outside as “looking better.”

Plus, I have activated my vampirism genes. I’m done aging as we know it

Sending love from here

https://lailasnews.com/ese-walter-is-separated-from-husband/

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Tenn88: 6:15pm On Nov 07, 2018
undecided I dedicate this ftc to my fuckmates

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by GOFRONT(m): 6:16pm On Nov 07, 2018
grin

Pastors and their functional preeiks

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Olalan(m): 6:17pm On Nov 07, 2018
Why tie the knot when you guys aren't ready for all the compromise, challenges and sometimes discomfort that comes along with marriage.

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Nobody: 6:17pm On Nov 07, 2018
Everything she said actually makes a lot of sense.

A lot of married women would love to do this but are not brave enough.

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Kewtt: 6:31pm On Nov 07, 2018
Hehehe I hope you didn't lie on the coza pastor.... If you did... hehehe that robust response is still coming!!




Serves the guy right though.... Weak ass man... Rushing a girl who's not even resolved who she wants to be or how she wants to live her life!!! I doubt if he has any family!! I mean who married such a conflicted woman?!

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by IamPlato(m): 6:31pm On Nov 07, 2018
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So This Is The Girl Suckin Fatoyinbo's Prick

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Nobody: 6:32pm On Nov 07, 2018
forming janded and smart all the time while the truth is - she is a gold digger pure and simple!

she was frustrated when the pastor refused dishing enuf cash to her any time she ask - so she felt short changed and tried to ruin the pastor but the smart pastor escaped her snare!

now she married these bro thinking he is made only for her to realize that all that glitters is not gold - frustration sets in and she decided to break the damned marriage and head back to the street to hunt for bigger fish!

she will still be disappointed on that too - cause men are now smarter and her market value don decrease. then she will start to work her way back to the pastor cause he is the only one that has shown her more money than others - then the pastor will finally give us her nude on the internet! cheesy


stupid olosho! cheesy

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by RTSC: 6:36pm On Nov 07, 2018
Wetin dey worry this girl?

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Tamarapetty(f): 6:43pm On Nov 07, 2018
It's not a must to marry, why marry and then divorce?? Smh

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by tstx(m): 7:03pm On Nov 07, 2018
Whenever i hear COZA.... I flash back to when the man said and i quote "if God appears to me and says sowing seeds does not work, I’d tell him seed works"

That's when i lost all respect for him... Just because of money.. He called God a liar.. And dumb Nigerians still dey go hum church... SMH



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5EdElYh2_8


Meanwhile ladies have you heard... Studiea have revealed that Women Who go to Bed Late Have a Greater Risk of Developing Breast Cancer..... Stay awake at your peril..

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Firefire(m): 7:04pm On Nov 07, 2018
Good luck on your choice. undecided
Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by HajimeSaito(m): 7:04pm On Nov 07, 2018
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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Joniboi(m): 7:05pm On Nov 07, 2018
Once an Olosho is always an Olosho...Period!

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by MARKone(m): 7:05pm On Nov 07, 2018
Yeah i remember. Still waiting for the "Robost reply" from oga COZA.

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by KhingOvie: 7:06pm On Nov 07, 2018
sometimes i wonder why women are so quick to file a divorce in a failed marriage.

if a woman divorce me, i will just faint and never wake up

pls nobody should quote me, am not feeling fine this evening.

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Nobody: 7:06pm On Nov 07, 2018
obiekunie1:
forming janded and smart all the time while the truth is - she is a gold digger pure and simple!

she was frustrated when the pastor refused dishing enuf cash to her any time she ask - so she felt short changed and tried to ruin the pastor but the smart pastor escaped her snare!

now she married these bro thinking he is made only for her to realize that all that glitters is not gold - frustration sets in and she decided to break the damned marriage and head back to the street to hunt for bigger fish!

she will still be disappointed on that too - cause men are now smarter and her market value don decrease. then she will start to work her way back to the pastor cause he is the only one that has shown her more money than others - then the pastor will finally give us her nude on the internet! cheesy


stupid olosho! cheesy
It's not just money. Most women are disappointed by marriage. They just don't say it. Women have very high expectations of marriage and their happily ever after.

Men don't have such expectations. In fact men are grounded in reality and are very aware dt they're gaining responsibility & making a sacrifice as they're getting married.

I blame Walt Disney tbh.

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by MobilityExpress: 7:06pm On Nov 07, 2018
obiekunie1:
forming janded and smart all the time while the truth is - she is a gold digger pure and simple!

she was frustrated when the pastor refused dishing enuf cash to her any time she ask - so she felt short changed and tried to ruin the pastor but the smart pastor escaped her snare!

now she married these bro thinking he is made only for her to realize that all that glitters is not gold - frustration sets in and she decided to break the damned marriage and head back to the street to hunt for bigger fish!

she will still be disappointed on that too - cause men are now smarter and her market value don decrease. then she will start to work her way back to the pastor cause he is the only one that has shown her more money than others - then the pastor will finally give us her nude on the internet! cheesy


stupid olosho! cheesy

Too much sense will not kee you grin

For any woman like her that doesn’t like to live in a four cornered space, I recommend to you to live in... the... Octagon!!! grin

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Patrioticman007(m): 7:08pm On Nov 07, 2018
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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by igbohausayoruba: 7:08pm On Nov 07, 2018
Men this boob na boby she mean abii she deh mad nii




























Because I fink she's deh mad nii















That's all

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by RedAlert08(m): 7:08pm On Nov 07, 2018
Pastor Fatoyinbo: the adulterous pastor.
May God continue to punish you for ruining the life of this young lady.

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Uyi168: 7:09pm On Nov 07, 2018
Pls someone should help me with a good 'I don't give a fvck ' meme..
Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by allanphash7(m): 7:09pm On Nov 07, 2018
I have nothing to say




Imagine what religion has caused your marriage

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by okwabayi(m): 7:09pm On Nov 07, 2018
...and so?
Marriages don’t last nowadays. I doubt they were meant to right from time.
Our parents only stayed together out of the fear of ostracization.
Nowadays society is not as judgemental as days past.

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Ogaga87(m): 7:10pm On Nov 07, 2018
Like that network; Everywhere you go Rubbish people

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by martineverest(m): 7:11pm On Nov 07, 2018
why are pastors btw ages of 30-45 always into sex scandal?
Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Pidginwhisper: 7:11pm On Nov 07, 2018
E be like say Ese Walter and Sugerbelly relate sef.

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Navalsadiq(m): 7:12pm On Nov 07, 2018
The type of woman u marry is very important and yoruba men as in afonja have made it a specialty to go after peoples wife.

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by Lexusgs430: 7:12pm On Nov 07, 2018
Marriage is not for the weak, for a week ......

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by GlobalGisting(m): 7:13pm On Nov 07, 2018
Marriage isn't for everyone. I just wish people should knw what marriage is before jumping in instead of bringing forth children to suffer in broken homes and single parents.

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by omokiri5(m): 7:13pm On Nov 07, 2018
Why are these pastors always involved in sex scandal?

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Re: Ese Walter Of COZA Sex Scandal Separates From Husband (Pics) by pawesome(m): 7:14pm On Nov 07, 2018
obiekunie1:
forming janded and smart all the time while the truth is - she is a gold digger pure and simple!

she was frustrated when the pastor refused dishing enuf cash to her any time she ask - so she felt short changed and tried to ruin the pastor but the smart pastor escaped her snare!

now she married these bro thinking he is made only for her to realize that all that glitters is not gold - frustration sets in and she decided to break the damned marriage and head back to the street to hunt for bigger fish!

she will still be disappointed on that too - cause men are now smarter and her market value don decrease. then she will start to work her way back to the pastor cause he is the only one that has shown her more money than others - then the pastor will finally give us her nude on the internet! cheesy


stupid olosho! cheesy
somebody should give guy a bottle of beer

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