Xavfra:

And dis is someone not using d person's brain! Just because she did not side with BD doesn't make biodun innocent. Just c as u jump into conclusion

LifestyleTonite:
Former Nollywood actress, Steph-Nora Okeke has become the first celebrity to find the rape allegation leveled against COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo, by Timi Dakolo’s wife, Busola Dakolo, as shady.

In a post she shared on social media, Steph-Nora Okeke wondered how a lady who claimed to have been raped multiple times was still very close to the alleged perpetrator for many years.

She shared on Facebook:



She also spoke on how she exited Nollywood because of a near rape incident.



She concluded by stating that she feels the rape allegation against the COZA pastor is being used by Busola Dakolo as a cover up for something.



https://www.kemifilani.com/2019/07/actress-steph-nora-okeke-becomes-first-celebrity-to-doubt-busola-dakolo-rape-allegation.html

Dpharisee:
Timi Dakolo is angry that the pastor ate the juicy part of his wife before him

kmcutez:
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pickatyou:


I don't want to get involved but truth be told I have not seen a abused victim get so comfortable with his or her abuser ( not including the number of years they were cool with each other). Its like someone bullying your child (if you have any) and your child still coming home to say they are best buddies. Just use your head. Don't let you hatred for someone becloud your sense of reasoning or judgement. - "Godfather"

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

They may have their sources. Is the video the story of her life? Who said everything to be known about Busola is in the video?

samstradam:
May God deliver this nation from supreme laziness and wickedness!!

Her video is only one and a half hours - it will not kill you people to watch it you know.

After watching it , please tell me where:

She said he raped her 3 times?

Where she said she married at COZA or ever saw the pastor again after his own cousin delivered her from him?

Where is a car gift mentioned?


When a people continually support wickedness directly or indirectly God will always visit x3 on you and your generations, go and ask Sodom and Gomorrah.

derecho:
kikikiki it's COZA Syndrome...
But Seriously, Busola's story doesn't add up...people are just being sentimental.
The interview seems scripted to arouse sympathy... Rape exist but Busola's case as narrated,if true,isn't rape.

samstradam:


Listening properly to one side of the story will at least let you know somethings are not possible.

Marrying in COZA and a car wedding gift are not possible as clearly Fatoyinbo was not happy with the way things ended with the girl he allegedly turned into a woman while "anointing" her simultaneously!

Also do you not think that would have been the first thing he put in his original reply? Any judge seeing that would definitely look at the woman as being compromised.

People don't want to think with their head on this matter and all they want to do is rely on the fact that the allegations have come to light late and the guy is successful and handsome to defend him.

Is he more successful than Bill Cosby or Weinstein? Rubbish.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Busola should prove her case or forever remain silent. The cowards that are being raped daily be their leader no fit protest o, in spite of overwhelming evidence, Na case wey no get proof dem dey die for. Steph-nora is bold, not like other cowardly yeyebrities that will rather roll with the band wagon. For all I care, this Fatoyinbo guy may be innocent.

alphaNomega:
After a forensic analysis, nothing can be more true...
Facts are as follows.

1. Pst Biodun did not violently r@pe Busola. He manupulated her into agreeing to open her legs after being romantic with her.
2. Busola was a virgin prior to her experience with Biodun
3. They had multiple consentual s3x as at then
4. She fell madly in love with him as at then
5. He broke her heart as a result of a promise he couldnt fulfill. Maybe she expected him to throw his wife and marry her later on I cant say what that was its between both of them.
6. She became promiscuous due to the emotional trauma Biodun placed on her at an early age.
7. She left a trail of whoredom before she met Timi.
8. They started having crisis in marriage. Timi made her talk
9. Looking back at her life over the years, and how messed up it had been, she connected the dots back to Biodun blaming him for her misery
10. she then came up with the rape story because she felt that consentual sex at that age was still rape(she didnt know at that time tho)
11. shes a pained woman living in regrets of how she ruined her youth and blames Biodun for her mysery
12. She want to see him suffer thats the only way she feels she would heal..

"Hell hath no fury than a scorned woman"


Everyone who has lived a promiscuous life will always try to escape the shame by blaming someone else. She already had in it her to be able to knack the guy on a car bonnet.

We know them. Spoilt adventurous brats. Her sister too was the same and Biodun chopped that one too.

I have seen this exact thing happen to a couple before and they did blame someone else after the husband found out after 10 years that he married an ex runz girl.The man was furious and was pushing the wife to help him file charges against the accused figure. We advised him against it because of the revelations we knew witnesses will bring which his did not know about.

After all the drama they still went their separate ways. The Dakolo guy is in something bigger than he can handle and his wife will never tell him the truth

Guys like Dakolo who place themselves at the top level in terms of moral values never recover when they stupidly start digging up their wife's past. After the anger with Biodun ends it will refocus on the wife.


Biodun 15 years ago was a young boy like Busola with both their hormones raging. The Timi guy is a disgrace to manhood. You dig up your wife's whoring history and she easily manipulated you with the most basic lie that comes naturally to a girl cheesy cheesy "I was raped when I was 15" " I lost my virginity while riding a bicycle" That babe will wake up at night, go to the bathroom open Twitter and have a good laugh at how dumb the world is. I'm starting to like her now sef

Look at this way, fine clean boy Pastor with women throwing themselves at you. His mission was none other than CHOP ONE CHOP ALL. Let's not judge him by who he is now. Times were different in Nigeria then and clearly did not rape her.

He chopped her and the sister and still chopped her again after Dakolo came into the picture. He has a right to be angry. The pastor made an error of judgement and so did the spoilt brat.

THE BIGGEST TRUTH OF IT IS THAT THE DAKOLOS ARE PAINED THAT BIODUN MOVED AHEAD TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL. IF HE WERE A POOR FARMER OR TRUCK PUSHER MRS DAKOLO WOULD HAVE HEALED YEARS AGO. THIS BEHAVIOUR OF BITTERNESS HAS REPEATED ITSELF SO MANY TIMES IN HISTORY. I AM NOT SAYING BIODUN IS CLEAN..NO HE IS SOILED TOO. BUT BUSOLA IS PAINTING HIM FAR DARKER THAN HE IS.

MirJay:
it is a pity that only you and bobrisky be the only naija celebs wey get sense. Even davido show how olodoish em be.

SageMK:


So what if she collected a car gift or got wedded by the same man? — How does that proof Biodun innocence?

In fact, that can be easily be interpreted as a bribe to buy her silence. I should be the one arguing you to use your brain because her getting pregnant outside wedlock is also no defense to proof the innocence of Biodun at all.

SageMK:


The answer to this is psychological manipulation.

It's the very same technique used in transforming both children and adults into becoming suicide bombers.

The abusers manipulate the emotions of their victims.
For rape victims, shame & denial/disbelief is at It's core.

There's no room for rationale thinking in questioning why victims didn't resist or didn't say anything earlier.

bankylan:



There are many facts she didn't talk about in the video. She got married in the church in Ilorin.

A friend who knows Busola well also spoke about her runz lifestyle in the past.

Don't let is judge anyone for now. The truth will come out soon.

SageMK:


The answer to this is psychological manipulation.

It's the very same technique used in transforming both children and adults into becoming suicide bombers.

The abusers manipulate the emotions of their victims.
For rape victims, shame & denial/disbelief is at It's core.

There's no room for rationale thinking in questioning why victims didn't resist or didn't say anything earlier.

OfficialAPCNGR:


Shut up!! I said shut up!! Yet she collected car gift, got wedded by same man.... Haiboo use your brain bro...and still got pregnant twice outside wedlock in the same church...
Busola Dakolo is hiding something!!! In fact she's hiding a lot of things and playing Timi Dakolo!!

I believe Timi Dakolo was onto some serious secret about her...hence this nonsense distraction

SageMK:


The answer to this is psychological manipulation.

It's the very same technique used in transforming both children and adults into becoming suicide bombers.

The abusers manipulate the emotions of their victims.
For rape victims, shame & denial/disbelief is at It's core.

There's no room for rationale thinking in questioning why victims didn't resist or didn't say anything earlier.

wirinet:

So how many abused victims have you seen? You talk with so much knowledge and authority.

Rape especially of minors and weak people, involves psychological and emotional manipulations, and even threats by people of power. Rape is most often a show of power by the perpetrators

Just last week, a story of a father that had been raping his 3 daughters for over a decade was trending - https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2019/06/25/55-year-old-man-raped-daughters-for-9-years-in-lagos/
The man was caught not even because the daughters reported , but because police became aware and investigated. Are you now insinuating that because the alleged rape was done multiple times over a period of a decade and because the was no physical force or violence, it should not be considered rape.
I sometimes wonder at the moral barometer of Nigerians, it's seems to be very low.

SageMK:


The answer to this is psychological manipulation.

It's the very same technique used in transforming both children and adults into becoming suicide bombers.

The abusers manipulate the emotions of their victims.
For rape victims, shame & denial/disbelief is at It's core.

There's no room for rationale thinking in questioning why victims didn't resist or didn't say anything earlier.

SageMK:


So what if she collected a car gift or got wedded by the same man? — How does that proof Biodun innocence?

In fact, that can be easily be interpreted as a bribe to buy her silence. I should be the one arguing you to use your brain because her getting pregnant outside wedlock is also no defense to proof the innocence of Biodun at all.

bankylan:



There are many facts she didn't talk about in the video. She got married in the church in Ilorin.

A friend who knows Busola well also spoke about her runz lifestyle in the past.

Don't let is judge anyone for now. The truth will come out soon.

wirinet:

OK Mr Sherlock Holmes, which part of the story doesn't add up.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Busola should prove her case or forever remain silent. The cowards that are being raped daily by their leaders no fit protest o, in spite of overwhelming evidence, Na case wey no get proof dem dey die for. Steph-nora is bold, not like other cowardly yeyebrities that will rather roll with the band wagon. For all I care, this Fatoyinbo guy may be innocent.

madjune:
Na today i respect Steph Nora full 100%.

Cos I've been thinking it.

Let's even pardon her for not voicing out since as most rape victims claim they're traumatized.

Now, how do you explain her family's closeness to same pastor over the years?
He wedded them, gave them car gifts etc and the same traumatized lady accepted.

Her story doesn't add up. True.