SageMK:


So what if she collected a car gift or got wedded by the same man? — How does that proof Biodun innocence?

In fact, that can be easily be interpreted as a bribe to buy her silence. I should be the one arguing you to use your brain because her getting pregnant outside wedlock is also no defense to proof the innocence of Biodun at all.

DameB:


On Daily Mail UK you see stories of women who married their rapist and kept on being abused until there's a watershed moment. Some married women are raped by their husbands and they stay with them for life.

samstradam:
May God deliver this nation from supreme laziness and wickedness!!

Her video is only one and a half hours - it will not kill you people to watch it you know.

After watching it , please tell me where:

She said he raped her 3 times?

Where she said she married at COZA or ever saw the pastor again after his own cousin delivered her from him?

Where is a car gift mentioned?


When a people continually support wickedness directly or indirectly God will always visit x3 on you and your generations, go and ask Sodom and Gomorrah.

Mk12:
Someone with common sense not all these bring him down people.
He may have slept with her but I think it was consensual sex and she enjoyed it.
I am waiting her to drag him to court so that we can get all the facts.
Or is there any rape victim that does not want her rapist behind bar?

Lanruze:



Very true bro....

But how many Men married thier spouses as Virgins ?

koboko69:


U people dont know anything. I just dey laugh una.
How do u explain this also? Stockholm syndrome, u need to google it. Some of u just blab and blab but are not exposed at all. How do u explain how pastor convinces his sheeples to eat grass and all those sill things.
Read about Jonestown Massacre, see how a supposed pastor sleeping with his members, impregnating members and family....and still convinced them to kill themselves before the police could get hold of him, or the other one convincing his incest children to stand off with police till death...they opened fire on the FBI who came to rescue them. Bro, pray not to fall victim of manipulations and mind games

pmc01:
Finally, one sensible "celebrity"

Guest007:


What part of that comment did you get all this from

I am not following this story but I already comment my reserve for the pastors matter.... but this thread is a mockery to rape victims by saying they shouldn't talk to their rapist IF they were raped... that's wrong and ignorant because rape doesn't work that way. Your brain will put the experience on pause until you are alone... so rape victims are able to interact with their perpetrators for years without showing any change until they are alone with their thoughts like at nights.

kense88:
He is most likely innocent of this particular rape allegation, but he is definitely a randy pastor

derecho:
Sis,you aren't totally wrong as a rape victim may decide to forgive. Of course you know that's not easy except a transformation occurs within.The same person who in her interview said she's always been a bold child just cowered by just a push,no resistance and was even willing to drink Krest..abeg what kind of rape is that?Or is rape just because she wasn't willing to lose her virginity at that time?Think about it this way,if it had been a random guy with BF body frame that wants to rape her in her house,would she just lay there because he said:just do what I say and you'll be fine

OfficialAPCNGR:
She's very correct.
The real victim when this ends will be Timi Dakolo!!!

Ikem11:
This why it's not good to side.

*The lady may be telling the truth

*The man may be innocent

What baffles me in this saga is how the celebrities rushed to conclusions that the man is guilty. It all looks suspicious even to point of 40 something lawyers volunteering to carry the case up.

This lady in question is married to a singer who I believe got money to sponsor his wife if his wife was rape, so why make it a social media sympathy when u can easily fill a law suit then the media start hearing it from court.

alphaNomega:
After a forensic analysis, nothing can be more true...
Facts are as follows.

1. Pst Biodun did not violently r@pe Busola. He manupulated her into agreeing to open her legs after being romantic with her.
2. Busola was a virgin prior to her experience with Biodun
3. They had multiple consentual s3x as at then
4. She fell madly in love with him as at then
5. He broke her heart as a result of a promise he couldnt fulfill. Maybe she expected him to throw his wife and marry her later on I cant say what that was its between both of them.
6. She became promiscuous due to the emotional trauma Biodun placed on her at an early age.
7. She left a trail of whoredom before she met Timi.
8. They started having crisis in marriage. Timi made her talk
9. Looking back at her life over the years, and how messed up it had been, she connected the dots back to Biodun blaming him for her misery
10. she then came up with the rape story because she felt that consentual sex at that age was still rape(she didnt know at that time tho)
11. shes a pained woman living in regrets of how she ruined her youth and blames Biodun for her mysery
12. She want to see him suffer thats the only way she feels she would heal..

"Hell hath no fury than a scorned woman"


Everyone who has lived a promiscuous life will always try to escape the shame by blaming someone else. She already had in it her to be able to knack the guy on a car bonnet.

We know them. Spoilt adventurous brats. Her sister too was the same and Biodun chopped that one too.

I have seen this exact thing happen to a couple before and they did blame someone else after the husband found out after 10 years that he married an ex runz girl.The man was furious and was pushing the wife to help him file charges against the accused figure. We advised him against it because of the revelations we knew witnesses will bring which his did not know about.

After all the drama they still went their separate ways. The Dakolo guy is in something bigger than he can handle and his wife will never tell him the truth

Guys like Dakolo who place themselves at the top level in terms of moral values never recover when they stupidly start digging up their wife's past. After the anger with Biodun ends it will refocus on the wife.


Biodun 15 years ago was a young boy like Busola with both their hormones raging. The Timi guy is a disgrace to manhood. You dig up your wife's whoring history and she easily manipulated you with the most basic lie that comes naturally to a girl cheesy cheesy "I was raped when I was 15" " I lost my virginity while riding a bicycle" That babe will wake up at night, go to the bathroom open Twitter and have a good laugh at how dumb the world is. I'm starting to like her now sef

Look at this way, fine clean boy Pastor with women throwing themselves at you. His mission was none other than CHOP ONE CHOP ALL. Let's not judge him by who he is now. Times were different in Nigeria then and clearly did not rape her.

He chopped her and the sister and still chopped her again after Dakolo came into the picture. He has a right to be angry. The pastor made an error of judgement and so did the spoilt brat.

THE BIGGEST TRUTH OF IT IS THAT THE DAKOLOS ARE PAINED THAT BIODUN MOVED AHEAD TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL. IF HE WERE A POOR FARMER OR TRUCK PUSHER MRS DAKOLO WOULD HAVE HEALED YEARS AGO. THIS BEHAVIOUR OF BITTERNESS HAS REPEATED ITSELF SO MANY TIMES IN HISTORY. I AM NOT SAYING BIODUN IS CLEAN..NO HE IS SOILED TOO. BUT BUSOLA IS PAINTING HIM FAR DARKER THAN HE IS.

Angelfrost:
Of course he is... Even some of his church members probably have that suspicion... That's why this will be a hard case to sell for the plaintiffs, were they to seek judicial redress.

You can't convict a man of rape based on his randy nature... That would make nearly all Nigerian men, including most of the hypocrites here on Nairaland, rapists or aspiring rapists.

wirinet:


Nigerian families being very religious holds pastors and imams in very high regards. Lots of women respects their pastors more than even their husbands.
Also remember, Bisola said she is from a disjointed polygamous family, meaning the father was not around and she was living with her mother, sister and brother.

Can you please provide the links you got the information that, it was pastor Fatoyinbo that wedded them and also gave them a car as gift?

laudate:

Innocent of having sexual relations with a minor? Innocent of manipulating and coercing a girl under 18 into bed, despite the fact that he was a married man, and her pastor?

Even having carnal relations with an underaged girl, is regarded as rape.

#SayNoToRape.

madjune:


It's on record.

Watch their wedding on YouTube.

emerged01:

If you say she is sensible,is she not sensible enough to know that Busola Dakolo was a minor when pastor fatoyinbo was having sex with her? Having sex with a minor is a case on its own.
That woman you called sensible celebrity also have a secret. Internet is not safe I would loved to speak more about her.

OfficialAPCNGR:


Shut up!! I said shut up!! Yet she collected car gift, got wedded by same man.... Haiboo use your brain bro...and still got pregnant twice outside wedlock in the same church...
Busola Dakolo is hiding something!!! In fact she's hiding a lot of things and playing Timi Dakolo!!

I believe Timi Dakolo was onto some serious secret about her...hence this nonsense distraction

SageMK:


So what if she collected a car gift or got wedded by the same man? — How does that proof Biodun innocence?

In fact, that can be easily be interpreted as a bribe to buy her silence. I should be the one arguing you to use your brain because her getting pregnant outside wedlock is also no defense to proof the innocence of Biodun at all.

Ikpongiton:
the olosho called busola is a liar and an agent of darkness sent to tarnish and pull down the humble man of God.and the holy book says this : touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm

SageMK:


So what if she collected a car gift or got wedded by the same man? — How does that proof Biodun innocence?

In fact, that can be easily be interpreted as a bribe to buy her silence. I should be the one arguing you to use your brain because her getting pregnant outside wedlock is also no defense to proof the innocence of Biodun at all.

samstradam:
May God deliver this nation from supreme laziness and wickedness!!

Her video is only one and a half hours - it will not kill you people to watch it you know.

After watching it , please tell me where:

She said he raped her 3 times?

Where she said she married at COZA or ever saw the pastor again after his own cousin delivered her from him?

Where is a car gift mentioned?


When a people continually support wickedness directly or indirectly God will always visit x3 on you and your generations, go and ask Sodom and Gomorrah.

samstradam:
May God deliver this nation from supreme laziness and wickedness!!

Her video is only one and a half hours - it will not kill you people to watch it you know.

After watching it , please tell me where:

She said he raped her 3 times?

Where she said she married at COZA or ever saw the pastor again after his own cousin delivered her from him?

[b]Where is a car gift mentioned?


When a people continually support wickedness directly or indirectly God will always visit x3 on you and your generations, go and ask Sodom and Gomorrah. [/b]

samstradam:
May God deliver this nation from supreme laziness and wickedness!!

Her video is only one and a half hours - it will not kill you people to watch it you know.

After watching it , please tell me where:

She said he raped her 3 times?

Where she said she married at COZA or ever saw the pastor again after his own cousin delivered her from him?

Where is a car gift mentioned?


When a people continually support wickedness directly or indirectly God will always visit x3 on you and your generations, go and ask Sodom and Gomorrah.

jayson87:
go bak to your comment, you were attacking someone who was being logical and weighing the matter at hand on a circular scale of logic and disposition towards critical thinking, just because the celebrities are jumping into irrational and biased conclusion of Busola's rape case, it doesn't and still doesn't make her cliams of rape an omni-conclusion of the whole story.
Second, i am thinking you are new to PM news and the Sun news... find your self the copies of this past week release and see how many reportage we have on rape and the number of person's going to jail for it

jayson87:
Minor is whaat age please

Angelfrost:
Let's get serious here, and not pretend... Does statutory rape truly exist in Nigeria? If you say yes, what instances have people been arrested or convicted for such?...

I raised that question in an earlier thread, and most people started rigmaroling... If consensual sex between a grown man, and a lady of 17 is rape (which should be in a developed country), why are most Northerners not in jail?.

Is Busola claiming statutory rape or rape in the real sense (forced act of sex against her wish)?