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emerged01:
She was 16yrs when he had sex with her. She wasnt above 18.

thought she said she was 17

SageMK:
The answer to this is psychological manipulation.

It's the very same technique used in transforming both children and adults into becoming suicide bombers.

The abusers manipulate the emotions of their victims.
For rape victims, shame & denial/disbelief is at It's core.

There's no room for rationale thinking in questioning why victims didn't resist or didn't say anything earlier.

I am really ashamed to have to read this coming from you.
You sound a if you have no brain.
What sought of psychological manipulation could keep a sixteen years old going to the same man who "raped" her?
Even common sense is not common but rare sense.

samstradam:
May God deliver this nation from supreme laziness and wickedness!!

Her video is only one and a half hours - it will not kill you people to watch it you know.

After watching it , please tell me where:

She said he raped her 3 times?

Where she said she married at COZA or ever saw the pastor again after his own cousin delivered her from him?

Where is a car gift mentioned?


When a people continually support wickedness directly or indirectly God will always visit x3 on you and your generations, go and ask Sodom and Gomorrah.

while i was in 100l in unilorin, busola was choir mistress

samstradam:
May God deliver this nation from supreme laziness and wickedness!!

Her video is only one and a half hours - it will not kill you people to watch it you know.

After watching it , please tell me where:

She said he raped her 3 times?

Where she said she married at COZA or ever saw the pastor again after his own cousin delivered her from him?

Where is a car gift mentioned?


When a people continually support wickedness directly or indirectly God will always visit x3 on you and your generations, go and ask Sodom and Gomorrah.

I am only typing this out of a need not because you are worthy of being quoted.

From what was transcribed that I read it is very clear that the story does not add up at all.

Not even an intelligent idiot will accept her narration has she claimed.
The truth is, many of you who support her version of the story her just being unnecessarily bias and blindingly emotional.

If we were to present this case before a objective judge Bosula would be sued for defamation I guarantee you that.

please, don't bring that line of thought about not knowing how rape victims react and all that.

It is just plain stupidity to believe all she said.

The only SENSIBLE celebrity with good thinking faculty i have seen since this saga started. She is making sense.

itsme01:



mumu woman

honestly many women endorse rape.. and this is why guys that rape constantly see the ones who go on date and ask a girl out as fools

Joyce Mayer an american female televangelist confessed to have been raped by her own biological father for over 200 times in her own house and she didnt have the courage to tell anyone, untill years and years later.. the father never denied after confrontation.

Am sure a foolish woman like this, her husband maybe knacking the househelp, and she would rather beat and victimise the househelp while the husband walks tall and free

......

Whichever way this ends i hope Busola and Fatoyinbo are not taking Timi Dakolo for a big fool, both Busola and Fatoyinbo seem not to be fast at taking matters up with the law, Busola could seat with an interview crew but not a lawyer or a police officer(is she not willing to get him purnished?) Fatoyinbo had issued atleast two statements and even steped down "to be investigated by Elders" yet he hasn't contacted his lawyers to force Busola to retract her defamatory statements in less than 24hrs or get sued..

I personally detaste it when people bring in false equivalence to judge a case with a different scenario.

How can a stranger come to your house in the morning rape you goes back to his car and come back with a bottle if krest and forces you to drink it.
And you still went to his house on another occasion and he almost raped you again for this second time while his wife was nursing a baby, and he also had his way with you another time and you never spoke, cough or even vomited anything for over how many year combined and you expect logical people like us to believe this tell-tale?

Sometimes some of you take us for fools thinking the amount of like you get here makes you some sort of "public intellectual" without knowing people are reading your comments and critically examining every view you put out.

I still stand firmly that from what Bosula narrated it does not LOGICALLY follow as a case of rape I suspect sexual manipulation.
This were my views heavily tilts towards.

I will be that last person on earth to believe any story because it happened to be told by one celebrity without critiquing such information.

God didn't deposit our brains in our heads for nothing but for thinking and analysing every claim.

SageMK:
The answer to this is psychological manipulation.

It's the very same technique used in transforming both children and adults into becoming suicide bombers.

The abusers manipulate the emotions of their victims.
For rape victims, shame & denial/disbelief is at It's core.

There's no room for rationale thinking in questioning why victims didn't resist or didn't say anything earlier.

Bros not once, not twice but trice from the same person and you still maintained some degree of family/spiritual r/ship with him. Wait until you hear the other side of the story.

Good questions....

derecho:
Not rape apologists but people who dare to critically consider issues.

There is no critical debate here . everyone is making a case for and giving excuse on behalf of those they support. The rape apologists come of annoying.

TempleHouse:
I am pleased you wrote all the puzzle I am going to write about.
Those people doubting Busola are gullible faithfuls of the evildoers...

Abeg keep your sympathy else where.
What she narrated with her mouth does not logically follow as rape.
You people can decide to shut down your brains while we use ours to see what is what and what is not.

laudate:
Statutory rape exists in Nigeria. Unfortunately, it is under-reported. Most victims lack the courage and understanding to report it. Most victims suffer from shame and psychological trauma, so they keep quiet about it. Counseling services for victims, are very few and most people do not know how to access it.

In the North, the men use culture and religion to mask it, even though it is totally wrong. So stop defending rapists and stop justifying rape, because others have gotten away with it.

#SayNoToRape. What you condone or defend, is a reflection of the values you hold. It says a lot about the kind of person you truly are...

Please, stop making emotional assertions... I don't support nor condone rape... I'm just as detached as a smart person should be in a case of allegations of rape with no substantial evidence or witnesses...

SageMK:
So what if she collected a car gift or got wedded by the same man? — How does that proof Biodun innocence?

In fact, that can be easily be interpreted as a bribe to buy her silence. I should be the one arguing you to use your brain because her getting pregnant outside wedlock is also no defense to proof the innocence of Biodun at all.

Getting pregnant before getting married can mean, she's a loose woman, it can mean she's promiscuous, it can mean both Timi Dakolo and wife "fornicated", the same thing the pastor is being accused of "technically".
I'm against rape, but those guys have no case against the pastor, except they have evidences that are yet to be in public domain.

Khaleell001:
I personally detaste it when people bring in false equivalence to judge a case with a different scenario.

How can a stranger come to your house in the morning rape you goes back to his car and come back with a bottle if krest and forces you to drink it.
And you still went to his house on another occasion and he almost raped you again for this second time while his wife was nursing a baby, and he also had his way with you another time and you never spoke, cough or even vomited anything for over how many year combined and you expect logical people like us to believe this tell-tale?

Sometimes some of you take us for fools thinking the amount of like you get here makes you some sort of "public intellectual" without knowing people are reading your comments and critically examining every view you put out.

I still stand firmly that from what Bosula narrated it does not LOGICALLY follow as a case of rape I suspect sexual manipulation.
This were my views heavily tilts towards.

I will be that last person on earth to believe any story because it happened to be told by one celebrity without critiquing such information.

God didn't deposit our brains in our heads for nothing but for thinking and analysing every claim.

I have no business with her opinion or yours, i dont care about who is telling the truth between Dakolo or Busola in fact my last paragraph was in that regard , i dont trust both of them right now cos they are both acting shady..

that been said ... The mind of an abused woman works differently and think this womans question of why she didnt report sooner is what i wont agree to, an abuse woman may stay decades without speaking about her abuser, she may even protect her abuser or fall in love with her abuser, some even stay with their abuser till they get murdered... its a psychological issue and she shouldnt conclude based on that

Akpacha:
This idiot, don't know even husband rapes their wives, hence she is not in d mood u are rapping her.

Husband rapes wife? Is this some sought of joke or wwhat?
You don't call forceful sex with your own wife rape
You don't!
The reason for marrying her is mostly sex and a wife denying her husband his conjugal right without any reason is close to being a witch.

You guys keep twisting words to suit your ever contrived leanings.

And she was not even report to be a virgin as the time of they claim the rape occur, which was her 16-17, does that means she lost her virginity before then?

Am confused here, someone should shed more light pls

This lady is a slowpoke. Just because u stay a
In a country that is lawlessness that is why you pour that nonsense from your mouth. Come to western world u will see how rapist continue rapping his victim for numbers of times and with mental torture without anyone knowing. Rape is evil.

alphaNomega:
After a forensic analysis, nothing can be more true...
Facts are as follows.

1. Pst Biodun did not violently r@pe Busola. He manupulated her into agreeing to open her legs after being romantic with her.
2. Busola was a virgin prior to her experience with Biodun
3. They had multiple consentual s3x as at then
4. She fell madly in love with him as at then
5. He broke her heart as a result of a promise he couldnt fulfill. Maybe she expected him to throw his wife and marry her later on I cant say what that was its between both of them.
6. She became promiscuous due to the emotional trauma Biodun placed on her at an early age.
7. She left a trail of whoredom before she met Timi.
8. They started having crisis in marriage. Timi made her talk
9. Looking back at her life over the years, and how messed up it had been, she connected the dots back to Biodun blaming him for her misery
10. she then came up with the rape story because she felt that consentual sex at that age was still rape(she didnt know at that time tho)
11. shes a pained woman living in regrets of how she ruined her youth and blames Biodun for her mysery
12. She want to see him suffer thats the only way she feels she would heal..

"Hell hath no fury than a scorned woman"


Everyone who has lived a promiscuous life will always try to escape the shame by blaming someone else. She already had in it her to be able to knack the guy on a car bonnet.

We know them. Spoilt adventurous brats. Her sister too was the same and Biodun chopped that one too.

I have seen this exact thing happen to a couple before and they did blame someone else after the husband found out after 10 years that he married an ex runz girl.The man was furious and was pushing the wife to help him file charges against the accused figure. We advised him against it because of the revelations we knew witnesses will bring which his did not know about.

After all the drama they still went their separate ways. The Dakolo guy is in something bigger than he can handle and his wife will never tell him the truth

Guys like Dakolo who place themselves at the top level in terms of moral values never recover when they stupidly start digging up their wife's past. After the anger with Biodun ends it will refocus on the wife.


Biodun 15 years ago was a young boy like Busola with both their hormones raging. The Timi guy is a disgrace to manhood. You dig up your wife's whoring history and she easily manipulated you with the most basic lie that comes naturally to a girl cheesy cheesy "I was raped when I was 15" " I lost my virginity while riding a bicycle" That babe will wake up at night, go to the bathroom open Twitter and have a good laugh at how dumb the world is. I'm starting to like her now sef

Look at this way, fine clean boy Pastor with women throwing themselves at you. His mission was none other than CHOP ONE CHOP ALL. Let's not judge him by who he is now. Times were different in Nigeria then and clearly did not rape her.

He chopped her and the sister and still chopped her again after Dakolo came into the picture. He has a right to be angry. The pastor made an error of judgement and so did the spoilt brat.

THE BIGGEST TRUTH OF IT IS THAT THE DAKOLOS ARE PAINED THAT BIODUN MOVED AHEAD TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL. IF HE WERE A POOR FARMER OR TRUCK PUSHER MRS DAKOLO WOULD HAVE HEALED YEARS AGO. THIS BEHAVIOUR OF BITTERNESS HAS REPEATED ITSELF SO MANY TIMES IN HISTORY. I AM NOT SAYING BIODUN IS CLEAN..NO HE IS SOILED TOO. BUT BUSOLA IS PAINTING HIM FAR DARKER THAN HE IS.

This yur theory make sense.

Even if you want to find faults with busola's story at least watch the video of her confession ,where did she state dat she was raped three times, she stayed back in the church but finally left the church with the help of biodun's cousin who she told her rape story to.

jayson87:
thought she said she was 17

Well,even if she was 17,she was still a minor. One can easily manipulate a minor to have sex. If you read through the text,there was a paragraph she quoted the pastor saying,"you didn't even happy that a man of God is having sex with you".
In the pastor's reply,he confirmed he had a link with Bisola in 1999 in Ilorin even with her family. What baffled was that he never denied having sex with Bisola at 17yrs as pastor then,he only denied rape. It can be a case of manipulation.





Well,we are all trying to know the truth,only God knows the truth.

sherylbakky:
A woman that finally has sense. Not surprised about guys that believe Busola's story tho, but if u are a lady, n u believe Busola's super story, then, u are exactly like her...bunch of hypocrites.

#birdsofthesamefeather

P.S- I'm a lady too and not a Christian. I don't just support evil.

Your assertions lacks basic common-sense

According to you,Ladies who believe Busola are 'hypocrites'
While men who believe her is expected .....If you were thinking straight,you would have realised that the reverse should be the case!!

Women like you who disbelief Busola are the HYPOCRITES suffering from some sort of complex issues,many of whom have been sexually molested at some point in their lives and should ordinarily be sympathetic to Busola's story...but are not.

While it is EXPECTED for men to support Biodun because some are rapist or have never been raped before or had their lovedd ones raped so would never understand what it means to be raped

The stuppidity of Biodun Fatoyinbo's supporters knows no bounds indeed.

SageMK:
So what if she collected a car gift or got wedded by the same man? — How does that proof Biodun innocence?

In fact, that can be easily be interpreted as a bribe to buy her silence. I should be the one arguing you to use your brain because her getting pregnant outside wedlock is also no defense to proof the innocence of Biodun at all.

so she collected rape and also collected bribe in form of car.
Ur funny o.

Nice one! I just dey imagine how

Sense. Common sense. So very uncommon.

Someone is thinking before talking this time around. All others have only been reacting like chemicals.

SageMK:
The answer to this is psychological manipulation.

It's the very same technique used in transforming both children and adults into becoming suicide bombers.

The abusers manipulate the emotions of their victims.
For rape victims, shame & denial/disbelief is at It's core.

There's no room for rationale thinking in questioning why victims didn't resist or didn't say anything earlier.

So you are saying Busola is suffering the Stockholm syndrome?

Haba.


The ish about majority of the people on social media is that they reason upside down.

Normally

Biodun fatoyinbo is innocent until proven guilty

But to most people on social media, he's guilty until proven innocent.

What a mentality!

In saner climes, some people would be sued, when the dust settles and if peradventure it turns out Biodun fatoyinbo was acquitted of all charges, then he could countersue many people for libelious claims and statements.


A person is "innocent until proven guilty" by a competent law court

And not

"Guilty until proven innocent"

SageMK:
So what if she collected a car gift or got wedded by the same man? — How does that proof Biodun innocence?

In fact, that can be easily be interpreted as a bribe to buy her silence. I should be the one arguing you to use your brain because her getting pregnant outside wedlock is also no defense to proof the innocence of Biodun at all.

It tells us that she isn't holy... Wayward... Glorified prostitute

Guy,u correct .abeg come b my lawyer.

alphaNomega:
After a forensic analysis, nothing can be more true...
Facts are as follows.

1. Pst Biodun did not violently r@pe Busola. He manupulated her into agreeing to open her legs after being romantic with her.
2. Busola was a virgin prior to her experience with Biodun
3. They had multiple consentual s3x as at then
4. She fell madly in love with him as at then
5. He broke her heart as a result of a promise he couldnt fulfill. Maybe she expected him to throw his wife and marry her later on I cant say what that was its between both of them.
6. She became promiscuous due to the emotional trauma Biodun placed on her at an early age.
7. She left a trail of whoredom before she met Timi.
8. They started having crisis in marriage. Timi made her talk
9. Looking back at her life over the years, and how messed up it had been, she connected the dots back to Biodun blaming him for her misery
10. she then came up with the rape story because she felt that consentual sex at that age was still rape(she didnt know at that time tho)
11. shes a pained woman living in regrets of how she ruined her youth and blames Biodun for her mysery
12. She want to see him suffer thats the only way she feels she would heal..

"Hell hath no fury than a scorned woman"


Everyone who has lived a promiscuous life will always try to escape the shame by blaming someone else. She already had in it her to be able to knack the guy on a car bonnet.

We know them. Spoilt adventurous brats. Her sister too was the same and Biodun chopped that one too.

I have seen this exact thing happen to a couple before and they did blame someone else after the husband found out after 10 years that he married an ex runz girl.The man was furious and was pushing the wife to help him file charges against the accused figure. We advised him against it because of the revelations we knew witnesses will bring which his did not know about.

After all the drama they still went their separate ways. The Dakolo guy is in something bigger than he can handle and his wife will never tell him the truth

Guys like Dakolo who place themselves at the top level in terms of moral values never recover when they stupidly start digging up their wife's past. After the anger with Biodun ends it will refocus on the wife.


Biodun 15 years ago was a young boy like Busola with both their hormones raging. The Timi guy is a disgrace to manhood. You dig up your wife's whoring history and she easily manipulated you with the most basic lie that comes naturally to a girl cheesy cheesy "I was raped when I was 15" " I lost my virginity while riding a bicycle" That babe will wake up at night, go to the bathroom open Twitter and have a good laugh at how dumb the world is. I'm starting to like her now sef

Look at this way, fine clean boy Pastor with women throwing themselves at you. His mission was none other than CHOP ONE CHOP ALL. Let's not judge him by who he is now. Times were different in Nigeria then and clearly did not rape her.

He chopped her and the sister and still chopped her again after Dakolo came into the picture. He has a right to be angry. The pastor made an error of judgement and so did the spoilt brat.

THE BIGGEST TRUTH OF IT IS THAT THE DAKOLOS ARE PAINED THAT BIODUN MOVED AHEAD TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL. IF HE WERE A POOR FARMER OR TRUCK PUSHER MRS DAKOLO WOULD HAVE HEALED YEARS AGO. THIS BEHAVIOUR OF BITTERNESS HAS REPEATED ITSELF SO MANY TIMES IN HISTORY. I AM NOT SAYING BIODUN IS CLEAN..NO HE IS SOILED TOO. BUT BUSOLA IS PAINTING HIM FAR DARKER THAN HE IS.

LifestyleTonite:
Former Nollywood actress, Steph-Nora Okeke has become the first celebrity to find the rape allegation leveled against COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo, by Timi Dakolo’s wife, Busola Dakolo, as shady.

In a post she shared on social media, Steph-Nora Okeke wondered how a lady who claimed to have been raped multiple times was still very close to the alleged perpetrator for many years.

She shared on Facebook:



She also spoke on how she exited Nollywood because of a near rape incident.



She concluded by stating that she feels the rape allegation against the COZA pastor is being used by Busola Dakolo as a cover up for something.



https://www.kemifilani.com/2019/07/actress-steph-nora-okeke-becomes-first-celebrity-to-doubt-busola-dakolo-rape-allegation.html

You are the only celebrity that I have seen that has good brain Madam, others are hypocrites who know the right thing but hiding away from the truth.

wirinet:
So how many abused victims have you seen? You talk with so much knowledge and authority.

Rape especially of minors and weak people, involves psychological and emotional manipulations, and even threats by people of power. Rape is most often a show of power by the perpetrators

Just last week, a story of a father that had been raping his 3 daughters for over a decade was trending - https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2019/06/25/55-year-old-man-raped-daughters-for-9-years-in-lagos/
The man was caught not even because the daughters reported , but because police became aware and investigated. Are you now insinuating that because the alleged rape was done multiple times over a period of a decade and because the was no physical force or violence, it should not be considered rape.
I sometimes wonder at the moral barometer of Nigerians, it's seems to be very low.

So with what u have said now, u think ur moral barometer is high. see u

Uniqueness. She drop her bomb and she no send anybody. Make we wait see how the whole parole go end

LifestyleTonite:
Former Nollywood actress, Steph-Nora Okeke has become the first celebrity to find the rape allegation leveled against COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo, by Timi Dakolo’s wife, Busola Dakolo, as shady.

In a post she shared on social media, Steph-Nora Okeke wondered how a lady who claimed to have been raped multiple times was still very close to the alleged perpetrator for many years.

She shared on Facebook:



She also spoke on how she exited Nollywood because of a near rape incident.



She concluded by stating that she feels the rape allegation against the COZA pastor is being used by Busola Dakolo as a cover up for something.



https://www.kemifilani.com/2019/07/actress-steph-nora-okeke-becomes-first-celebrity-to-doubt-busola-dakolo-rape-allegation.html

THANK GOD FOR REASONABLE PEOPLE.. NOT ALL THOSE BANDWAGGONS

THEY LL SURELY ATE AND LICK THEIR VOMIT.

I LL KEEP SAYING TJIS 'SHE WAS NOT RAPED'.. SHE IS JUST A WAYWARD LADY SLEEPING AROUND WITH MEN..