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asuustrike1:
So that is the reason for the blackmail I suppose right?

asuustrike1:
So Timi actually said his wife was a virgin yet she was raped before he meet her? Can a raped victim be virgin ? Please bring the link for all to see. This sound interesting

partnerbizz5:
I will cut to the chase; straight to the point.

There was an intercours.e. Yes there was.

But it wasn't rape. She was spellbound, star struck or hypnotized. She was stupid too even at 17.

WHY IS SHE BITTER NOW?

She feels Fatoyinbo took her virginity without sweating or spending. This is same virginity she could have auctioned even on e bay. Yes, people sell it. Check.

She felt pastor got it very cheap. That's why prostitutes will ask you:

" HOW MUCH YOU PAY ME YOU WAN TOUCH MY BRESS"?

HOW MUCH YOU PAY, YOU WAN FUC.K DOGGY?

They (women) want you to pay well, suffer or work hard to get the pusssy; let alone a virgin pusssy.

So Busola now feels cheated. She reasoned that the man is happy now after cheating her.
And she came to this realisation not too long ago.

Now, the only way of paying him back is to hurt him too. And the most effective way of hurting a pastor is through seex scandal.

If you allege he stole 2 billion dollars, it would gather no storm.

BUT WHY COME OUT NOW?

The husband Timi, heard of the "rape" lately. Maybe Busola got depressed and mood swings after the RECENT realisation that the pastor cheated her.

Timi felt bad. He felt cheated too for being served a second hand pusssy.

He could have eaten the pusssy first. So he encouraged her to hurt the pastor. That way both Timi and Busola would feel a bit better.

IT WAS NOT RAPE PEOPLE.

USE your senses.

THAT'S MY ANALYSIS as a self proclaimed behavioral therapist.


LEGAL VIEW:

Rape or even any sexual assault case cannot be proven against Fatoyinbo.

You can't prove a rape case without proving that there was a PENETRATION. See the case of Upahar vs State. See S.357 of CC etc. And it's been long. No medical evidence too.

Nothing will happen to Fatoyinbo. The only damage has happened already. And that's to his reputation.

We will soon forget it. Life goes on.



FINALLY, I DON'T SUPPORT RAPE. IT'S TRAGIC.

That's why it's considered a crime against humanity in International criminal law.

#SAYNOTORAPE.

In many countries, having sex with a minor or an under-aged person, is considered a felony and classified as rape.

daddytime:
Without a shadow of a doubt there were incoherencies and loops, but let's just attribute that to the time gone and her inability to recall events as it happened.

Sensible and very plausible submission.

Benekruku:
I knew this girl will grow up to have no sense right from the day I attended her naming ceremony

Even rice and drinks could not go round on the said date April 22 1978

sisipelebe:
olodo, it is April 22,1980.

Benekruku:
Wont you even give me kudos I could remember

sisipelebe:
You weren't even born then, you are just acting like an old man.

Benekruku:
Are you kidding me. I wish you knew you me. Privacy concern won't make me disclose my identity to you.

sisipelebe:
so you're old enough to birth us then? I'm so sorry daddy.

laudate:
Would you still say this, if Fatoyinbo had assaulted your sister or daughter who was still under the age of 18? In many countries, having sex with a minor or an under-aged person, is considered a felony and classified as rape.

And if you talk to rape victims, you would realise that there is no standard response in such a situation. Some victims of sexual assault, gain enough strength to fight back and possibly escape. While others become paralysed by fear and remain frozen, all through the encounter.

As to why she is just speaking up now many years later, kindly talk to a psychologist. Some victims live in denial trying to pretend it never happened, because that is the way they can process the trauma. But then something suddenly happens to awaken the dormant memories, and inner pain.

Others remain silent out of fear, shame and confusion. It is like being in a state of suspended animation. Until one day, when they feel sufficiently healed to confront their pain. There is no timeline, to these things.
#SayNoToRape.

Wallade:
I don't see a crime in having children out of wedlock except for moral and legal implications. The society has a good number of children born out of wedlock and that does not make them inferior, unprivileged nor their parents less humans.

It is expected that children are born into families of married parents but if not, the parents still have all the time in the world to commence and complete wedding.

The argument that Timi Dakolo may not be the biological father of his kids is not necessary because he is not complaining. It is not our or your business besides, every child needs a home so if he decides to live with the kids as their father, even if he is not the biological father, I think you don't qualify to cry or investigate their paternity.

However, you can believe whatever you choose. I think Busola was simply out to tell her story, her version of the episodes, abinitio. Unfortunately, you will have to live with the knowledge of her story even if you are not comfortable with it.

laudate:
Would you still say this, if Fatoyinbo had assaulted your sister or daughter who was still under the age of 18? In many countries, having sex with a minor or an under-aged person, is considered a felony and classified as rape.

And if you talk to rape victims, you would realise that there is no standard response in such a situation. Some victims of sexual assault, gain enough strength to fight back and possibly escape. While others become paralysed by fear and remain frozen, all through the encounter.

As to why she is just speaking up now many years later, kindly talk to a psychologist. Some victims live in denial trying to pretend it never happened, because that is the way they can process the trauma. But then something suddenly happens to awaken the dormant memories, and inner pain.

Others remain silent out of fear, shame and confusion. It is like being in a state of suspended animation. Until one day, when they feel sufficiently healed to confront their pain. There is no timeline, to these things.
#SayNoToRape.

darkelf:
I'll find it and post

So you can see the true devils

oluwalonprovide:
Now this is my take on this RAPE issue…
Please am not in support of rape but I just want us to understand something here....
Picture 2 is a young girl that was raped and the evidence is there, very clear, none of you hypocritical assess came to protest, infact it didn't trend at all, nobody consoled her, no money was raised for her, because she's not a celebrity and probably not a rich man's daughter, but a grown up woman who happens to be a celebrity told us that she was raped 20 years ago and in less than 24hrs there is a protest against the church, a Nigerian lawyer is filing for the church to be shut down, you people seriously need deliverance.
Busola said that this pastor came and raped her, she didn't scream, even her own sis wjo is upstairs never noticed anything, so who cleaned the blood? It happened in Warri and yet you still went to Abuja and be attending that same church , later you claim to be traumatized , haba !!anty easy abeg!! Second video you claimed that you later told your mum, told this one, that one, blah blah blah, so after all this shit, why did you raise this issue now?Busola and her hubby use una dey make money indirectly, go and check how many viewers the video has now and they also edited it, some ladies also came out of their holes to claim they were also raped, After 20years, why did you raise this issue now that your hubby and pastor Fatoyinbo is having problem? Have you forgotten that he contributed 90% towards your marriage to Timi? He did the connection, there is something you are not telling us here, he raped you first time, 2nd time and 3rd time, without your consent??all this new era church that dress as they like and all sorts of immortality, what do you expect? Recently Busola was accused of eating church money abi choir money and also sleeping around, you didn't tackle that one, na rape of 20yrs ago you want to use and gain sympathy right?you still open your mouth said your hubby encouraged you to speak up bah? Now that he's not in good terms with pastor Fatoyinbo,..HYPOCRITES
May God forgive you all
I SAY NO TO RAPE BUT
AM NOT STANDING WITH BUSOLA
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partnerbizz5:
Bringing in -- if my sister was raped blah blah blah... is lame.
Address the issue and avoid ad hominem.
Which rape victim would associate with his assailant for years. Someone raped you and you still went to his house to attend to the wife?

You still joined him in his car?

He got you out, did it at the car trunk then took you to the bonnet to gain more access? Yes "gain more access" Those were her exact words.

My 12 year old niece wouldn't be that stupid.

Your rant about in many countries is hollow.
For in many countries too watching porn alone attracts death sentence. Example is South Korea.

WHAT I analysed above is exactly what transpired. You can take that to the bank.

1984och:
I think she was only trying to save her marriage cos timi heard stuffs from the church gossip about his wife and fatoyinbo.. If not, one would ask: you were still cool with the pastor after the incident. You enjoyed the luxury. You were given a car. You never told the church elders that you were raped all these while. Why now after 3 kids? I think timi would even be the one to regret this later.

If I were in his shoes:

Busola: honey, that stuff u heard is not true. He raped me and bla bla bla bla.

Me: let it slide. Let sleeping dogs lye. We can change church if u want. I'll love you more. It won't change anything. God will pay him back someday.


Anyways, let's just watch and see how it ends!

itsme01:


I won't bother myself on who is telling the truth between Busola and Fatoyinbo but Timi Dakolo's stupidity as a man and head of the family

Timi Dakolo ti je efo riro,

Timi Dakolo braged on several occassions of marrying busola a virgin and how pure she was..... Alas!!! Aparently She had been disvirgined at the age of 16 by the Spiritual head of the Church they both attend with their kids....

This is what happens when a Dunce weakling is the head of a family, the woman starts manipulating him, and using him to fight her past battles, appearing in his music video as video vixen (his career/workplace), and calling all shots

The main reason Rape victims get their face blured in news, and their names protected with the judiciary opting for a secret trial is because, humans are judgemental, and sometimes some stigmatize (even their children would be part of this embarasement and future cyberbully).
Now Timi Dakolo as the head of Busola's family had two options, as a man charged to protect the diginity of his family

1: Confront the alleged rapist of your wife mano o mano (just as Busola's elder brother reportedly did) and get Fatoyinbos facts.

or

2: Instantly call your Family Lawyers and relay all what your wife told you in their confidence and seek legal guadiance to forestall, embaracing lawsuits and get your story properly vetted and interogated before going public.

But Instead they contacted an hungry Journalist/ Vlogger/ Blogger with a.badly packaged story of a rape that happened four different time at four different location to a teenager without use of force , threat with weapon or coersion.



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1984och:
I think she was only trying to save her marriage cos timi heard stuffs from the church gossip about his wife and fatoyinbo.. If not, one would ask: you were still cool with the pastor after the incident. You enjoyed the luxury. You were given a car. You never told the church elders that you were raped all these while. Why now after 3 kids? I think timi would even be the one to regret this later.

If I were in his shoes:

Busola: honey, that stuff u heard is not true. He raped me and bla bla bla bla.

Me: let it slide. Let sleeping dogs lye. We can change church if u want. I'll love you more. It won't change anything. God will pay him back someday.


Anyways, let's just watch and see how it ends!

1984och:
I think she was only trying to save her marriage cos timi heard stuffs from the church gossip about his wife and fatoyinbo.. If not, one would ask: you were still cool with the pastor after the incident. You enjoyed the luxury. You were given a car. You never told the church elders that you were raped all these while. Why now after 3 kids? I think timi would even be the one to regret this later.

If I were in his shoes:

Busola: honey, that stuff u heard is not true. He raped me and bla bla bla bla.

Me: let it slide. Let sleeping dogs lye. We can change church if u want. I'll love you more. It won't change anything. God will pay him back someday.


Anyways, let's just watch and see how it ends!

Wallade:
Busola must have shared the information with her husband. They left that church long time ago but perhaps they were still hearing stories of his escapades with other ladies.

Maybe that is the reason the husband has been questioning COZA mgt, for allowing this to thrive, on social media with cryptic messages some 2 - 3 months before now.

The mgt of COZA probably know what Timi was talking even though the public didn't know, sense crisis if the Dakolos speak and chose to stifle the information by getting church people and it's members to circulate information capable of assassinating Busola's character so that no one will believe her - discredit the accuser.

She indicated in the interview that she started hearing stories about her, several versions and of course people calling her describing her negatively.

So, she decided to tell her story, put the truth into perspective. I believe her story - 99%

I think Busola was simply out to tell her story, her version of the episodes, abinitio. Unfortunately, you will have to live with the knowledge of her story even if you are not comfortable with it.