Yes it is very possible.

nrexzy:

Ur a lady I believe..
So let's put in that position u were raped by a man, u still remain close to that man for 20yrs then u speak up to say u were raped...

Dumbass

seanwilliam:
think before u respond and nt otherwise!. .it is for ur benefit

favinvest:
See I am against rape.. and will like rapists to be jailed/ castrated..


But kindly knw ur environment, what will happen in the USA/Canada &Western Europe and will make one a star over night (like Kim Kardashian); if u try it in eastern Europe & Mexico, south America, Africa, middle east.. can destroy a woman's life forever..

See I have seen people that are married to rape victims, what they did as the new man in the woman's life, were to try and make their wives life stable emotionally and forget the past...

because immediately the story is out in the public, the immediate nuclear family reputation maybe at risk. Especially if they are based in any of these countries eastern Europe, Africa, middle east...

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

God bless you.

Neither were you there to know it didn’t happen

Give the case space for justice to prevail instead of trying to shut down the accuser

wiconse:



Then maybe what? Spiritual what? Were u there during d rape?

stanliwise:
Bro I don't want to sound insulting.
"Should rape victims not speak out publicly because of fear of stigmatization"
Stop avoiding the questions

This isn't a matter of stigmatization...
How come most rape victims are always raped by prominent men

cococandy:
Yes it is very possible.

Oh that's great

Sainthommes:
Who is this idiot? So who told you your opinion will make public change their mind about how they react to the issue? Rapist supporting rapists. ONE HIT WONDER!

Mumu. Wetin u hit for life? Nairaland hitmaker

ScotMisile:


Silently indeed... And who says the court proceedings won't go viral?

If it goes viral good, if it doesn't fine. All he is seeking is real justice not somebody coming out to create noise

If anyone does that to your daughter or wife,cover up you hear...mumu.

cococandy:
Dumbass

i give kuddos to ur husband

thorpido:
This one knows nothing about rape,it's effects on the victims and how letting it out is the greatest path to healing.

Perhaps,he is a rapist himself.

Silence enables rapists.

This rapist raped her three times, no struggles, no shouts no prosecution. Then she was wedded by this rapist and her children dedicated in his church. Her rapist gave her 5m and a car gift as wedding present, she accepted. She continued to attend his church, she and her husband and children. She became a chorister in his church. Haba nau? The kpekus was consensual.

wiconse:


Speak up ke. D one that Timi said about deflowering her is what? Abeg make we hear word. No investigation yet, everybody is giving quick judgement.

So after reading my comment you still went ahead to streamline it to Timi dakolo and fatoyinbo. shior
My own is that is there anything wrong with publicly speak out to sensitize the public about rape in 21st century. Why should we educated men stigmaze someone because of he/she was raped? why?

He is simply saying that no one should report any rape case to avoid being stigmatized. I just saw one pro-rape musician...

wiconse:


If it goes viral good, if it doesn't fine. All he is seeking is real justice not somebody coming out to create noise

.

Are you not merry go rounding?

cococandy:
Neither were you there to know it didn’t happen

Give the case space for justice to prevail instead of trying to shut down the accuser

She doesn't want justice, all she seeks is to bring d guy down. If not am sure we all know where d court of law is

Thastie:


Says an idiot, who is too stupid to seek knowledge. Evildoer oshi

What if the man comes out and say they met when she was 20 like one guy pointed out. What if he tells you the sex was consentual and she even made the next appointment. Who do you believe.

This is why we live things for court. There are good detective that have been doing this for yrs. They know how and we're to start their investigations. Me and you insulting ourselves will not take us to the truth.

Aside experience has though me not to take side when it come to women men issue expecially women and fine rich guys. You will be shock what they keep to themselves and why.

nrexzy:

This isn't a matter of stigmatization... How come most rape victims are always raped by prominent men

God another avoidance again! please re read the topic of the thread. after you will say I am forming wise. mtchew

Adakintroy2:




What if the man comes out and say they met when she was 20 like one guy pointed out. What if he tells you the sex was consentual and she even made the next appointment. Who do you believe.

This is why we live things for court. There are good detective that have been doing this for yrs. They know how and we're to start their investigations. Me and you insulting ourselves will not take us to the truth.

Aside experience has though me not to take side when it come to women men issue expecially women and fine rich guys. You will be shock what they keep to themselves and why.

Sense will not kee you

Waconzy please next time if you don't know what to say shut your mouth, you have insulted and disgraced your self, i don't know why you are supporting evil. Timi is the real man.

Benekruku:
Who is this dead beat!

And what has he himself done to his family?

With a career that got him to spotlight before he became a modern day failure.

Am disappointed about a Waconzy who musical gibberish got him to spotlight, had the effrontery to call the word "Disgrace". A definition of the word he is using and still trying to stamp it on others.

You are wailing too hard on every issue. How do you do it?

stanliwise:
So after reading my comment you still went ahead to streamline it to Timi dakolo and fatoyinbo. shior
My own is that is there anything wrong with publicly speak out to sensitize the public about rape in 21st century. Why should we edicated men stigmaze someone because of rape? why?

No one is stigmatizing anyone.

Who's this idiott, in saner society, the pastor would be prosecuted, if found guilty will be sentenced or the law will take due course... Ask bill cosby, ask rkelly ...but we are in nigeria so u can always do as u like n still go scot free. She didnt disgrace herself, u foool. She will heal, do u knw wat it takes to get married and give birth to 2kids or so.

Wacomzy is a cultist. Fatoyinbo and Wacomzy belong to the same group. Moreover, all cultists are rapists, so I'm not surprised.


Too busy to give a fck about the opinion of a known cultist.

What a beautiful family... I wish Timi was wiser though... This is bad for their personality..


By the way, analqueenluci this will be us soon. Be prepared

frankyychiji:
You are wailing too hard on every issue. How do you do it?

Have you eaten today?

Thastie:
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You are very very stupid and senseless. It shows you lack knowledge. I won't be surprised that this comment comes from a low life.
Tell a rape victims to forget about it? Have you heard of psychological pain? I doubt it. Your likes thrive on PDP vs APC.
It's your type that endorsed stigma associated with rape victims and people suffering from mental disorder.

A pained feminist spotted

You can insult me for all I care I have already stated my opinion

I guess you are a rape victim ,my dear God will see you through ,after all I am not the one that raped you

Should I also remind you that she was wedded in church by the same rapist ?

Anybody can come online and claim to be rich and call anybody low life ,I will never come online to brag about that

Today is your lucky day ,you would have gotten the insult of your life

Peace

wiconse:


No one is stigmatizing anyone.

So why are rape cases not been reported in Africa. why are people like waconzy saying Timi Dakolo has disgraced himself.

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stanliwise:
God another avoidance again!
please re read the topic of the thread.
after you will say I am forming wise.
mtchew

Help me read it please sir

Silence encourages evil to thrive. .rape or not..,why would a general overseer married at that be sampling his anointed preek to a fresh secondary school leaver#endtimepastor

U AND OTHERS THAT LIKED UR COMMENT ARE THE REASON WHY NIGERIA CAN NEVER BE GREAT.
UR MYOPIC VIEW IS A SHAME TO UR EDUCATION.

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.