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The UGLY
I was disengaged from my previous place of work, it was a private university in Enugu and situated around Thinkers Corner. While i was there, i worked as an IT support Staff and later became a lecturer.

The BAD
As an IT staff in 2012 with Salary of 23k per month, it wasn't so bad for me then cause i was serving in the mentioned University as at that time. So when i finally finished serving there i was retained, two years later the salary was increased to 56k and i go with 52k after their deductions. I worked there until 2017 before my unfortunate disengagement. Why was i disengaged?...It's actually a long story but i would try to cut it short. After a seminar organised by the IT department of the University for the lecturers, as a facilitator, i wowed the Lecturers who were our pariticipants, they were overwhelmed by my performance and decided that i should be in the class room because i got so much knowledge. They were like I shouldn't be in the IT Unit alone, that i got a filled brain and the information i have is actually looking for were to escape to ...(i'm not being proud tho, just giving you my CV subtly), plus i got a very good communication skill.

After that seminar i was given a GST course to take 100lvl stds on Use of Computer. Eventhough some lecturers i mean those who where handling the course before i was asked to take it were not happy cos i took away their source of side hustle (you know what i mean), but it was finally concluded that i take the course as the VC got to hear about the whole gist and gave the final order. Fast forward 2016 i felt i was being under utilized so i decided to look elsewhere perhaps add up a side hussle as the money i earned wasn't solving all my needs. Ok I finally got a Job with NCC (but in DBI) as a facilitator for a program they give all tertiary institutions in the country code named ADAPTI. The side hustle paid a mouth watering wage, but this side hussle was not steady and was a parttime job. You would only be paid for the weeks you are engaged. So i took it, did the job couple of times. I messed up couple of times too, i admit, cos i missed classes due to the fact that the colleagues i asked to cover me(take my class) defaulted. So lastly i missed an invigilation as a result of thesame reason and i was disengaged. I begged oo, that i will not do it again , for were, them no gree. So after a year of joblessness and hunger...

The GOOD
God answered my prayers. I got a new job in Port Harcout in the Oil and Gas sector with 3times my monthly salary in the said University with so many benefits...lols. Eventhough i got the job since last year, i have not been able to forgive those people especially their Registrar and VC. Infact i feel like writing a letter to them thanking them for not have harkened to my plea while i was crying and begging them.

Your ADVICE
Should i write them that letter or just forget, to be honest i have written the letter of Thank you and explained politely that i'm finally where i should be in the letter but need peoples opinions before sending it.

if u continue to reply everybody who didn't wish u well den it's because u gat nofin serious doing wit ursef.
if na me I no go even remember d matter except somtin serious prompts it..

Move on mehn..u no be woman

Merimental:
if u continue to reply everybody who didn't wish u well den it's because u gat nofin serious doing wit ursef.
if na me I no go even remember d matter except somtin serious prompts it..

Move on mehn..u no be woman

Bros you no go understand. How i suffered after that sack. For one full year i was crying and hustling. My pain was that people who committed gravier crimes weren't even talked to, highest them go suspend them. I even begged them for suspension dem no gree.

hesilo:
Bros you no go understand. How i suffered after that sack. For one full year i was crying and hustling. My pain was that people who committed gravier crimes weren't even talked to, highest them go suspend them. I even begged them for suspension dem no gree.

dats why u have platforms like Facebook,instagram.enjoy ur new job n live life.flex wit cute pix posted steady about ur new life.dem go surprise.
sometimes SILENCE is truly golden.

hesilo:
Bros you no go understand. How i suffered after that sack. For one full year i was crying and hustling. My pain was that people who committed gravier crimes weren't even talked to, highest them go suspend them. I even begged them for suspension dem no gree.

Im assuming that you are a Christian, God gave u a better chance and u should be able to see the hands of God in passing u through that one year experience to prepare u for where u are now.... Now if u still feel hurt by the humiliation u suffered in ur last place, it looks like u learnt nothing trusting God while u hustled.
Finally bro, don't burn bridges unnecessarily.. Those guys retained u after service, promoted u to the classrooms, u hardly blame urself for abdicating ur duties which led to ur sacking... And u probably should find out how Joseph in d Bible treated his brothers in Egypt.
Give Glory to God at all times... It's God's will for u at the moment

Thanks guys. It hurts so bad but i would hold it.