victorian:








She said all those lies all to save her marriage but unfortunately the lies is taking another dimension.

Spot on dear... I perfectly agree with you . Obviously his wife has been inlove with the Pastor... I will not even be surprised if Timi decides to divorce his wife in the future...

AntiWailer:


All these Ur assumptions are empty.

I have counselled several rape victims and they dnt have to behave the way u read it in the book or the way one girl u know behaved.

The most common I av seen is silence, lost sense value and depression. They can keep quiet about it for a very long time until they see some one who is ready to listen.

A friend narrated au she was raped multiple times by several uncles as a child.

I am the only person she ever told and until she narrated and cried several times, she could not heal.

So once again, SHUT UP.

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Overtime i have come to realised logical reason & emotions are two parrallel lines, i can shut up but please GROW UP
Even if you listen to rape victim 365days in a year ,48hrs in a day you can never understand what you don't feel, keep fooling yourself ,
you need to so know not all rape victims are traumatized.

victorian:









Some Nigerians have selective forgetful brains.

They choose to remember what they like to remember and forget what is so glaring.

The main reason politicians use them for fun every 4 years.
They are always ranting without proper reasoning.
SMH

This idiot still get mouth ?

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

So you mean if your mother gets raped your father will keep quiet?
You must be from a very twisted and hideous family.

SenorFax:
Nobody knew anything about the rape before ooo,

Now the whole Nigerians home and abroad knew how she was disvirgined. Be careful how you seek justice, you might end up humiliating yourself. Especially when you are know by celebrities.

If you see her in 10years time, the first thing that will come to ones mind is "that's the lady that was raped". She just completely stigmatized herself, with the help of Nigerians.

God bless you sir. I even have Timi's songs on my phone but since this event I barely play them, because whenever I see them, I just see husband of a raped wife.

SenorFax:

If she gets raped, which I don't pray for, I won't be on social media to spread my dirty sheets. I would seek justice silently if I have the connection Dakolo's wife hav[b][/b]e.

[b][/b]HAS

SageMK:


When a woman in your life gets raped and want to pursue justice, refer back to this comment and read it.

pursuing justice on social media? Disgracing his family? Instead of gathering all the fact and Sue the PST?. I weep for u.

I just pray she has all the evidence and Sue the PST in the court of law, else she can't be able to walk free anymore due to excessive shame.

AnalQueenluci:





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U will be d wife ,i d husband ...cos am nt bending to ur literary ass ...

Deal

All these Soldier Girls Sha... Open You Legs Let Me Calm Your Adrenaline

IamPlato:
All these Soldier Girls Sha... Open You Legs Let Me Calm Your Adrenaline

Show me some respect will you!

popooladayo:

[b][/b]HAS

thanks, "Has"

AnalQueenluci:







Show me some respect will you!

Ok... You Don See Something Abi... Okay Na, Oya Pack Your Load And Come And Be Going, I No Marry Again

cococandy:
How does her being raped make her the bad person here and not the person who did it?

If you see her in 10 years time and the first thing you think of is her virginity or lack of it, it shows you still have a million years of growing up to do. Who cursed you folks like this?

How’s it more important than the bad fellow allowed to be in power?

So y’all have gone from “he didn’t do it. She’s lying” to acknowledging that he might have done it but the. She’s the one to be ashamed for what he did?

May it never be well for anyone who lets evil thrive in the way that you all do. Including you.

We're you raped too, put it social media so we can help you spread it. Idiot.

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

God bless you bro

Typical

SenorFax:

We're you raped too, put it social media so we can help you spread it. Idiot.

thorpido:
Because it never goes away.

What r u saying is very unscientific.
That it doesn't go away doesn't mean it interferes.
Does the fact that a lecturer once failed me twice necessarily mean that it should come back to wreck my life 15 years after(with me married and enjoying the good life)?
And if it ever does, why don't I go and confront the person physically?
The moment u guys start understand what marriage is, the better.
This case is different from the ones that abound whereby the victim is very obviously in shambles.

lexy2014:


That's not true. They are witness testimony. If she claims a meeting took place between her family and some coza pastors, then that's good ground 4d prosecution to lay a case. Whether or not d said pastors would deny is conjecture & speculation. Do u no if all these pastors are still in coza? If they are, aren't they d same people who took part in advising Fatoyinbo to step down?

The 2 pastors mentioned: Pastor Flo and Pastor Wole are still COZA Pastors, pastoring Lagos and PH chapters respectively. They are under Pastor Biodun, so can be bullied by the ministry to deny the allegations (if a legal action is instituted), except they choose to resign their positions.

My knowledge of legal proceedings is actually deficient, but I believe that witness accounts of family members are insufficient in bringing about a conviction, in cases like this.

cococandy:
Typical

I'm sorry then.

Does he have a reasonable family before..

His wife was known since d days of ilorin..she might be a Dog

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!


Common sense my grandfather said is not common!

kingkakaone:

I hope you remember Timi boasted years ago that he married his wife a virgin?
Most of you Nigerians are always so quick to forget.

In 12months time I believe the same people would crucify Timi and applaud the same pastor they are crucifying right now.

Now I know why politicians don't care about the nation.e

If as people are saying that he had two of his kids with her out of wedluck before he eventually married her then how on earth did he marry her a virgin. Am just trying to be rational here.

Kennydoc:


The 2 pastors mentioned: Pastor Flo and Pastor Wole are still COZA Pastors, pastoring Lagos and PH chapters respectively. They are under Pastor Biodun, so can be bullied by "the ministry" to deny the allegations (if a legal action is instituted), except they choose to resign their positions.

My knowledge of legal proceedings is actually deficient, but I believe that witness accounts of family members are insufficient in bringing about a conviction, in cases like this.

Even if they are still there, u saying that they will b bullied not to corroborate busolas story is mere conjecture & speculation. So if all u have is speculation & conjecture, then how's d rape accusation not d same thing? U have living witnesses 2 this case and all u can offer is speculation? Then there's no case

kingkakaone:

The main reason politicians use them for fun every 4 years.
They are always ranting without proper reasoning.
SMH

Don't mind them, with another 4years of added suffering again.

They will just keep quiet like mouse! Grumbling, suffering and smiling

Anyways I jump such stupid mentality pass!

You get sense.

AntiWailer:
F00lish idiot.

This is why the environment kept enabling rapists

The disgrace, the shame

The victim's life end up being messed up.

As for rapist and rape apologists, I know u want to fight for Ur pastor, please free me.

I am talking about you guys shutting up and listening to victims before u dismiss them with all your dumb comments and questions.

The foolish story of rape doesn't add up....I understand how desperate you want to believe the story but it only makes you look foolish. If cases are decided just because someone came to the media without proof then I can assure you that so many life's will just be destroyed for free. Media trial is not justice for anyone...it is more of defamation

ericsmith:
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Overtime i have come to realised logical reason & emotions are two parrallel lines, i can shut up but please GROW UP
Even if you listen to rape victim 365days in a year ,48hrs in a day you can never understand what you don't feel, keep fooling yourself ,
you need to so know not all rape victims are traumatized .

Where do these fools crawl out from?
We have many people with low IQ in this continent and it's saddening.

To everyone who might have read this comment and nodded in agreement, may the good Lord save you from foolishness.

Every true rape victim experiences a psychological trauma( could be acute or chronic. Could be for a short term or long term) and no rape victim ever healed on their own without a good support system.

Victims respond to trauma differently, there's no one way to it.

Brightology2:
God bless you sir. I even have Timi's songs on my phone but since this event I barely play them, because whenever I see them, I just see husband of a raped wife.

Goat! You must be from a dysfunctional family for you to think this way.
Who give these fools access to social media sef?

You people are bunch of goats. You're all rapist who long for fame but afraid your victims will expose you and deflate your popularity.

When good men keep quiet, evil thrives.

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

Thastie:


Goat! You must be from a dysfunctional family for you to think this way.
Who give these fools access to social media sef?

acknowledged.

EkperemoEgbabi:


Boss. I go like move over to Abidjan. Abeg. Which business I can do there?

it depends on you and your pocket....

Bars and clubs are good businesses
tho the market is somewhat saturated now

Selling of Agric produce is also another you can do (wholesale /retail)

It really depends on you

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

Keep your mouth quiet. I pray you get raped and sodomized one day by common criminals. And you see the suspects day in day out and keep your mouth quiet. I won't direct the wish to females around you because you made that senseless comment yourself.