thorpido:
You obviously have not been raped and do not understand it
You can't even compare it to your example,failing an exam.
There are people who never recover from it.It alters their lives completely.It changed their perspectives about life,their relationships and their sel-esteem.Some have even taken their lives.

@bolded,many people act like it's all rosy outside but weep in their closets.You can't be sure about that good life.
What if she has not been getting regular sleep?What of she has mood swings that affect her relationship with her husband?

Graduateacher:




This woman how many monikers are you using? I know what I'm saying that pix and a different moniker be selling something else, I'll expose you soon

tintingz:


Should I repost what you said from your premise? Ode

blowjohn:




So the victim weeps, goes to parties, gets married, goes on instagram, etc and u believe she's still not over it?

stdammis:


Wait what?

Thastie:


Your foolishness deserves a round of applause!
You judged from the beautiful pictures when you don't know what happened behind the scene.

You're a fool. Ever heard of confidentiality? I doubt it.
Whoever helped Busola (especially a professional) has no right to tell the public about it except if she grants him/her the permission.

blowjohn:




I mean u believe she hasn't gotten over it?

victorian:


Goat!

ericsmith:




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I guess FOOL is ya chorus miss rapper you must be proud not to consider i deserve a standing oviation. are you not fascinated
So now its a professional that fixed her , its no longer anybody or someone she found solace in ... see how unstable your reasoning as been within the last few hours just becos you let emotion hibernate ur brain.
Me wey get F9 horinzontally 4 junior waec you dey ask confidentiality.. i know you are confident i.e not afraid of rape, but how exactly did you know busola seek a professional, where you there ? e shele 4 ur eye, did she or her hubby even say a thing about healing. you just wana argue to win ..ok you won[/s]

stdammis:



Yes bro, even people that had their entire family killed in front of them still go about their normal lives. do you think they got over it? its not easy when your will is taken away by such events.

esdeemiami:




You guys are actually part of the problem why abused people don't speak out just imagine your sense of reasoning now you are stigmatizing her what a world

TANID:
Oh! My Brother What Can I Used Now To Thank You,
For This Your Opinion

May God bless You For This.

Amanstailored:


If as people are saying that he had two of his kids with her out of wedluck before he eventually married her then how on earth did he marry her a virgin. Am just trying to be rational here.

Graduateacher:


Rape stories don't add up that's why it's rape. The way you're defending rape you should know how it works from past experiences

victorian:


Lmao.... This girl u really get curse full mouth ooo... U be benin or delta girl.. See the way u just dey finish the guy with insult. Abeg take am easy now, atleast just like u he is entitled to an opinion even to disagree with so abeg nor call am ekpa again....













Then if that's the case, why call her a rape victim?


Did I mention all rape victims are hoes?


Simple English u can't even read and understand.


Ekpa!


Infact Village Ekpa!!!!

cococandy:


Because someone posted it on social media doesn’t mean it’s true. Y’all jumping on that wagon beer so eager to discredit her story because of your bias for the alleged rapist.

And even if he did say it, it might hold some personal truth to them.
If she didn’t have an sexual intercourse with anyone after the rape incident then maybe she still viewed her virginity (which is a spiritual thing to some people) as intact because she refused to give power to the rapist.

victorian:









It's alright.

I'm done with his matter.


You don't know some Nairalanders , if the troublesome ones check your profile and feel u look calm and decent, they will start stepping on your toes by insulting one first. He started wit the insults and I followed suit!
I don't take rubbish! Respect is reciprocal. He can't insult me and think I will be quiet.
No Sir! I won't.

Naturally I'm a calm lady but I won't seat back and be trampled upon with words or anything . I wil not.

I'm from delta not Benin.

Next time, he go look face and move on to the next thread.

Just like Lagos agbero was trying to obtain money from a bus filled with men and women wearing suits and all. The agbero guys taught they could intimidate one of the suited guy who is their conductor. It's seems they are from a corporate body or so going for seminar. So the guy who is the conductor in the midst of the well suited guys already told the agbero In holdup that they are not carrying passengers. They are from a company or so. The agbero didn't listen, two agbero came and pulled out the wiper, and also hit the conductor who wore suit as well, with a whip.

Come as see how the clean suited conductor and other men who wore suits in the bus came down and where boxing and fighting agberos with their suits and tie from the door of the bus. The bus stopped. See heavy blows .Lol

It was a very interesting scene. I was like wow!
When the agberos notice the men in suit, are not as calm as they thought! They ran away after receiving some heavy blows from the men in suits. Lol .
Then they quickly entered their bus and zoomed off

Passerbys were cheering the men in the bus. Lol.


That's exactly how Nairaland is! They look your profile Pic and feel they can say rubbish and get away with it!

Amanstailored:



Lol.... Dats d tin wit pple like us wey com from south south especially a typical delta or edo person we nor they sabi all this yoruba holiganism wey dem go they threaten and yet dem nor get liver that na one problem wey i get with dem during my years with dem for school in akure dem go open mouth wide dey shout ma ma ma fo ori eehh. Na so so mamama u go dey hear. Nai i tell one one day say oboy look my eye well i be warri pikin wey grow for benin ooo, from were i come if tell u say i go burst dis bottle for ur eye i go shook u ehn, we go die here as in i don crase i begin fine bottle wey i wan scatter before i look my guy gbaga, me wey quiet like cold water(lol). One yoruba guy wey be my friend come dey fear me(lol) d guy say oboy u dey vex like this i nor no say u sabi vex oooo... I tell d guy say u nor fit intimidate warri pikin ooo, we hate intimidation and i no fit tell u say i go slap u because if u make me vex rich bone i don slap u. So na una wey be youruba dey waist person time dey shout mamamamamamam fo ori en. If u no say u wan break my head u for don do am since instead u dey shout mamamamamama u nor get livee be that. Make u come benin wey i dey stay u go no say our agbero nor they stay for park, all of us carry agbero from house go park

victorian:

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Hahahahahahahahh



Yes o!

As in ehn? We hate intimidation like mad!

Intimidation drives me nuts!!!

Lemme not talk, people know me already but I don't lie low when intimidated or threatened.

A lady from benue was jumping up and down shouting like a possessed demon, I look her. Then just bang my door on her face. I was already fuming controlling myself, then her elder sister, dragged her away, then came knocked on my door was begging me not to get angry with the younger sister. And she's very sorry for the disturbance. I look the sister. I said tell your sister say she get luck! If not for my relationship with you and your husband.
She will be incapacitated right there on the ground.

I don't have time to shout and be jumping and screaming.

Wetin go hit her ehn? She go shock. Within 2mins I'm done with her
Na you and your husband go pay hospital bill.

I don't take nonsense . I don't even have the patience for drama. . U can see that's why I walk alone everytime . She says she knows and I asked her do you think it's normal for a lady to be like that? She said no it's not normal and she understands.. I replied good.

So please I have anger sleeping deep inside of me.. It's calm always . But if she tries me? She go regret. And no say, my case is different. So warn her to stay clear from me. I'm not like other people. Just warn her!

She begged again then left. The younger sister stay clear, she didn't come near me again.
I'm jovial and a comedian at work, lol.
I'm quiet when I'm walking and I like walking alone, nothing Dey happen.
Then I'm quiet at home. I love peace and quiet.

Lol @ the bolded.


Do you stay in Benin?

Amanstailored:


Lol.... Thats y i always kip my cool. Natuarally u fit match na me i go tell u sorry. U fit curse me and i will look the other way, bt i just noticed that pple misconstrue gentle for being a mumu, like if u choose to be quiet dem go treat u like mugu and its bad. Am quiet because dats who i am, like not everyone is meant to be hyper active now, i nor get dat energy nowww.... But no, instead of pple to respect ur personality dem go assume say u be mugu hence dey want to ride on u. So as u tink say i be mugu ehn!! I go show u wetin mugu fit do. Lol
Well am based in benin ooooo, i never wan live bside for now, make God do am make tins pure den we fit begin dey look oda options, how abt u? Are u based in lagos?

Sainthommes:
Who is this idiot? So who told you your opinion will make public change their mind about how they react to the issue? Rapist supporting rapists. ONE HIT WONDER!

Sainthommes:
Who is this idiot? So who told you your opinion will make public change their mind about how they react to the issue? Rapist supporting rapists. ONE HIT WONDER!

Ugosample:


it depends on you and your pocket....

Bars and clubs are good businesses
tho the market is somewhat saturated now

Selling of Agric produce is also another you can do (wholesale /retail)

It really depends on you

Kennydoc:


God forbid my wife will be a rape victim. If in my dream that situation happens, and I know going public will put an end to the evil and protect other innocent young girls, I will do it.

What's d big deal with the public knowing the point in bold? Wizkid, Davido and other celebrities have baby mamas that Nigerians have turned to celebrities. Dem no knack them? People have sex without hiding it, porn actors and actresses have sex live and yet some of them are almost seen as celebrities.

Let me also let you know that millions of Nigerian ladies are rape victims, so it isn't a big deal. I would rather marry a girl who has been raped before but has healed fully and isn't affected by it anymore, than marry a girl who has committed an abortion. Infact, I will even chose a rape victim with no emotional or psychological baggage than a lady who has had consensual sex multiple times before. A girl whose only sexual encounter was a rape has far more decency than the regular girls you guys sleep with.

iamjavadem:
I will tell my sister to go to court after consulting a lawyer to see if we can win the case, not tell her to announce it on social media.

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.