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I need urgent answer to know how to handle an issue now.

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Theglobalman:
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Meaning what?

Is it palatable? No. Is it inevitable? Yes. Citing these answers, whether it's justifiable or not shouldn't be your concern at this material time, because reaction is always a product of something - no form of abuse is good or justifiable. You should be looking towards avoidance. Maybe you can tell us in detail what happened.

Personally, it's inevitable if I have a close relationship with a contriver - opinionated people, just like parasitic people, and contrive are inseparable, because they gain their energy and resources from being expedient. Only a parasitic person can rival an unconquered opinionated person (self-conquest is important) in draining energy from any sane person around him/her, either in the short or long run - unreliability will always remain their hallmark.

LordKO:
Is it palatable? No. Is it inevitable? Yes. Citing these answers, whether it's justifiable or not shouldn't be your concern at this material time, because reaction is always a product of something - no form of abuse is good or justifiable. You should be looking towards avoidance. Maybe you can tell us in detail what happened.

Personally, it's inevitable if I have a close relationship with a contriver - opinionated people and contrive are inseparable, because they gain their energy from being expedient. Only a parasitic person can rival an unconquered (self-conquered) opinionated person in draining energy from any sane person around him/her, either in the short or long run - unreliability will always remain their hallmark.

lol, i will try avoidance as you said. thanks

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PrincessNZ:
Meaning what?

No vex.

Theglobalman:
No vex.

OK

PrincessNZ:
I need urgent answer to know how to handle an issue now.

What we sometimes call verbal abuse is an angry reaction to one's actions.

Tell us what really transpired to be of any help.

bukatyne:
What we sometimes call verbal abuse is an angry reaction to one's actions.

Tell us what really transpired to be of any help.

Thank you. From Lordko's comment I have been able to see the cause of the problem between me and my partner so I will try and adjust.

Yes!!!
Right, done by a woman ...

Wrong, done by a man...

sefini...

Truthsbitter:

Yes!!!
Right, done by a woman ...

Wrong, done by a man...

sefini...

Sarcasm of a misogynist, lol

PrincessNZ:
Sarcasm of a misogynist, lol

Sorry princess I love my kind of women...and they are not lower to me....they are my friends and not bitter (verbally) abusive women.

ok. seriously verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse but when one makes reasonable and gentle scolding it's a good way to correct, criticize and complain and not abusive

Verbal abuse is a no no, control your anger and be slow to speak when provoked.

PrincessNZ:
I need urgent answer to know how to handle an issue now.

.hmm