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My friend just stumbled on a whatsapp chat between his wife and her ex. The wife was accusing the ex of 3 abortions that did in the past and she is currently finding it to get pregnant at the moment. My guy is battling serious depression as a result of the discovery.

Wahala dey o

Is not everything your friend tells you that you tell the world, you are a man for God sake, can’t one confide in you?

Did i mention his name.... Moreso he wants advice on what to do and i just can't figure out what to say to him . meeting him later this evening

Eveezy:
Is not everything your friend tells you that you tell the world, you are a man for God sake, can’t one confide in you?

Technically, he did not tell anyone.

Do we know his friend?


Lastly, Op might be the "friend" he is referring to.

czarina:
Technically, he did not tell anyone.

Do we know his friend?


Lastly, Op might be the "friend" he is referring to.

Technically he told the world.

Just like confessing to a pastor and on the pulpit, the pastor says “there is a member here..” preaching

Eveezy:
Technically he told the world.

Just like confessing to a pastor and on the pulpit, the pastor says “there is a member here..” preaching

Keyword: "technically".

My question is befor he married her did thy attending any marriage counselling class?
Thy dey talk about there pass in there courtship?

Because marriage counseling class open my eyes oh......
Has you take fear God fear woman too..

Lastly if you fiance or fiancee can open up about his/her pass.... You guys should pray about it together befor marriage. Nd see hw tins work fast
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czarina:
Keyword: "technically".

Lol, so how does that makes it all better
? Using technically in dis context simply means “in a way” he is telling the world

The only thing that can make the whole situation better is if he says he is the one in question. If I confide in u, it’s because I trust u to give me good advice and keep it between us. Sometimes I will not need the advice, I will just need someone to talk to about it.

Fine this is a faceless forum, but I can bet u that this guy must have told atleast 3 other people physically what is happening to his friend