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Was she forced to marry him? Did she not know he had other wives? If she felt cheated, how come she is not the one filing for dirvorce? How una dey think self?

Noblefirstlady:
Men are selfish and heartless.
The old fool has other wives and he sleeps with them, but he still expect the woman to wait for him even when she is in need.

Sometimes I get angry that I came out a woman.
Men would cheat and expect women not to cheat back.
Muslims are entitled to four wife. Imagine a woman waiting patiently for her own turn. What if she is really in the mood she has to wait for him to go round first, is this not wickedness!
Women are been cheated !!!!

SageMK:
Dissapointed.

I was expecting to read something like, “I slipped on a banana peel, somersaulted 3times & landed on his ....”

As in... Very unintelligent, poorly thought out lie.

So if he officially married them then he’s not unfaithful to any of them?
They can each claim that he is faithful to each of them alone?

Because I got a got order to kill someone doesn’t mean I didn’t kill him. It’s official doesn’t make him any less dead.

Please swerve

somehow:
He's officially married to her and the other wives
So where did you pull out the ynfaithfulness mantra from?

Cantonese:
Na waoh! Who opened the door when the man got there? The woman opened the door. Did her husband ever wear a mask on his face when he visited? No. Did her husband's younger brother wear a mask hiding his face? No. Who removed her clothes? She abi the man? Ok fake husband. The body weight na the same? No. So there was no discussion? greeting, etc? So the man just mounted and started riding? If she did not identify the man before he climbed, how did she identify him when
he disclimbed? By the way na the same rod and staff the two men get? Sotay she could not differentiate between the two instruments of work.

I put it to that woman that she is a PATHOLOGICAL LIAR! She was always emjoying herself with her husband's younger brother. She needs flogging.

The husband too, haba! Na only am be man? How many wives. If 5 women gather one man e fit survive? Just give them 3 hours.

Ok what about the fearless and cursed younger brother? His rod and staff must be sanctioned and decommissioned. He's.a very useless and worthless person.

Didn't process it like this.

Seahawk:
So if he officially married them then he’s not unfaithful to any of them?
They can each claim that he is faithful to each of them alone?

Because I got a got order to kill someone doesn’t mean I didn’t kill him. It’s official doesn’t make him any less dead.

Please swerve

Stop importing assumptions into this issue.. where did you read that he was infaithful?

Why does the woman not want to part ways with him?

Noblefirstlady:
Men are selfish and heartless.
The old fool has other wives and he sleeps with them, but he still expect the woman to wait for him even when she is in need.

Sometimes I get angry that I came out a woman.
Men would cheat and expect women not to cheat back.
Muslims are entitled to four wife. Imagine a woman waiting patiently for her own turn. What if she is really in the mood she has to wait for him to go round first, is this not wickedness!
Women are been cheated !!!!

Only the first wife is wronged in this scenario.

Other women are willing participants.

hanty no sabi lie sef

Imagine the stupid accusation of an old man, you married multiple wives yet you don't want betrayal around you. How do you please a woman that you allowed to be sleeping alone in a rented apartment while you were filamdering with other women . Some men are wicked oo! I beg carry your cross and stop rabble raising

Houseofglam7:
Judges gotta be the most entertained people in the world

Clowns everywhere.

donprinyo:
Eiyaa, laziness don cage women like slaves. Because u have refused to get sense and work out ur life from bondage dats why a man can treat u like his cows. It's beta u r single and be free dan to be married and be someone else's slave. Young girls learn from dis lesson, u dat believe a man is dere to do everything for u, one day dis is going to be ur life. Wake up and get sense.

Them don come again

Professor dickhead

aanuoluwami14:
Stupid talk! Don't you know your husband again Radarada

Rederede!!!
Basubasu!!!

Houseofglam7:
Judges gotta be the most entertained people in the world

Honestly, I agree absolutely with you.
With the kinda stories they hear everytime.

Tajbol4splend:
Don't judge her until you are in her shoes

And she did not see another person to sleep with, na her husband brother she come see. This is a tabu.

It is true. One can have sex by accident just as dis mentally deranged cheap LovePeddler of a woman have just vomited. Afonjas and infidelity is just like bread and butter. Let me just run for my dear life oooo.

August? That's the time for judge's vacation

Deepfeel:
Polygamy itself is stupid why will a man marry those many wife's if he can't satisfy them sexually, a 70 yr old man for that matter

The important question is NOT why grandpas want to marry multiple wives (they don't force women to marry them) BUT INSTEAD, why would a sane woman with a sound brain accept to marry into such polygamous Union (let alone turn around and then cheat)?!

Charly68:
Imagine the stupid accusation of an old man, you married multiple wives yet you don't want betrayal around you. How do you please a woman that you allowed to be sleeping alone in a rented apartment while you were filamdering with other women . Some men are wicked oo! I beg carry your cross and stop rabble raising

I guess that insane woman was forced against her will into that union, abi?! Wrong is wrong, no matter how you are trying to shift the blame on irrelevant arrant nonsense.

MrBrownJay1:
The important question is NOT why grandpas want to marry multiple wives (they don't force women to marry them) BUT INSTEAD, why would a sane woman with a sound brain accept to marry into such polygamous Union (let alone turn around and then cheat)?!

Thanks jare

Tired of reading illogical comments

MrBrownJay1:
I guess that insane woman was forced against her will into that union, abi?! Wrong is wrong, no matter how you are trying to shift the blame on irrelevant arrant nonsense.

This is a public domain,you are entitled to your own personal opinion..

There’s no assumption here. The fact that he is married to more than one woman means he’s not faithful to one woman. He deserves no faithfulness.

somehow:
Stop importing assumptions into this issue.. where did you read that he was infaithful?

Why does the woman not want to part ways with him?

MrBrownJay1:
The important question is NOT why grandpas want to marry multiple wives (they don't force women to marry them) BUT INSTEAD, why would a sane woman with a sound brain accept to marry into such polygamous Union (let alone turn around and then cheat)?!

A sane woman with sound brain will accept to marry into a polygamy union to enrich herself and her family simple, example Regina Daniel, they are not married for love or good sex they cheat

SageMK:
Dissapointed.

I was expecting to read something like, “I slipped on a banana peel, somersaulted 3times & landed on his ....”

Hahahahahahahha.

In another words, it was intentional.

The only way forward is divorce. They should go their separate ways.

So, basically
You MISTAKENLY took off your clothes, laid down had sex, moaned, cried and did whatever the fvck you wanted to do.. .

UNKNOWINGLY

donprinyo:
Eiyaa, laziness don cage women like slaves. Because u have refused to get sense and work out ur life from bondage dats why a man can treat u like his cows. It's beta u r single and be free dan to be married and be someone else's slave. Young girls learn from dis lesson, u dat believe a man is dere to do everything for u, one day dis is going to be ur life. Wake up and get sense.

For ur mind u are sensible. What has the story got to do with what u said?

Charly68:
This is a public domain,you are entitled to your own personal opinion..

Duh!!!!

Deepfeel:
A sane woman with sound brain will accept to marry into a polygamy union to enrich herself and her family simple, example Regina Daniel, they are not married for love or good sex they cheat

Then, these women with a "supposedly" sound brain, who knowingly goes into these polygamous Union (to enrich themselves/family), should keep quiet and accept anything/everything they get from these old men. You certainly can't go into these BS Union willingly and then turn around and blame the setup of the same Union as a reason for cheating.

somehow:
Thanks jare

Tired of reading illogical comments

Bro, sadly, some people are so focused on the money, they lose their common sense. Next we will hear stories of women being fukced by strangers in their sleep, and saying that she thought it was a dream, bwaaaah!

Seahawk:
There’s no assumption here. The fact that he is married to more than one woman means he’s not faithful to one woman. He deserves no faithfulness.

Are you claiming that a polygamous man shouldn't get the respect/faithfulness that any other man deserves (from his wife), simply because he has more than one wife?!
Are you saying that the woman (who he is married to) that knew fully well he had other spouse, and willingly went into this polygamous Union, shouldn't be faithful to her lawful husband, because he has sex with his lawful other wives?!

MrBrownJay1:
Duh!!!!



Then, these women with a "supposedly" sound brain, who knowingly goes into these polygamous Union (to enrich themselves/family), should keep quiet and accept anything/everything they get from these old men. You certainly can't go into these BS Union willingly and then turn around and blame the setup of the same Union as a reason for cheating.



Bro, sadly, some people are so focused on the money, they lose their common sense. Next we will hear stories of women being fukced by strangers in their sleep, and saying that she thought it was a dream, bwaaaah!



Are you claiming that a polygamous man shouldn't get the respect/faithfulness that any other man deserves (from his wife), simply because he has more than one wife?!
Are you saying that the woman (who he is married to) that knew fully well he had other spouse, and willingly went into this polygamous Union, shouldn't be faithful to her lawful husband, because he has sex with his lawful other wives?!

The man married many women but he can't satisfy them so they look for the satisfaction elsewhere they married him for money not sex

Are you claiming that a polygamous man shouldn't get the respect/faithfulness that any other man deserves (from his wife), simply because he has more than one wife?!
Are you saying that the woman (who he is married to) that knew fully well he had other spouse, and willingly went into this polygamous Union, shouldn't be faithful to her lawful husband, because he has sex with his lawful other wives?

@mrbrownjay

Please miss me with the lawful argument. Because something is lawful doesn’t make it right. When white people made laws that made it okay to take black people from their homes and own them and their lands but also had laws that made it punishable by death for a black man to steal from them, it was lawful. It didn’t mean it was right.

Men made laws that make it okay for them wife multiple women regardless of how their current wife/wives felt about it but want it to be punishable for the same treatment to be given to them. Yea I’ll take the lawful argument with a pinch of salt.

Yes he has no right to expect faithfulness. The nerve.
It shows a deep lack of common sense and gargantuan self aggrandizement for one man to think that he’s enough for multiple women. If such a person doesn’t have the sense to know that such an arrangement can’t work out, he deserves whatever comes of it.

Talking about how they knowingly went into the marriage like they have better options. I know I personally wouldn’t but you’re smarter than that and you know they usually don’t have any or better options because of cultural and religious oppression. What’s lawful depends on makes the laws. You use it when it favors you. I see that.

I PERSONALLY think he deserves to have half of his children belong to other men. And that he should only find out after he’s done raising them. Justify greed and lustfulness with law.

Deepfeel:
The man married many women but he can't satisfy them so they look for the satisfaction elsewhere they married him for money not sex

Are you saying that if a man can't satisfy his wife (or a wife can't satisfy her husband), instead of communicating with one another OR seeking for divorce, they should simply cheat on their partner? What's next?! If your husband can't satisfy your dream of flying in private jet, you should go sleep with senators and ogas at the top, in order to be flown on private jets?!?!?! Is that really what you want your wife/husband to do, if you can't satisfy them?!

Is money so much on people's mind that they are willing to degrade themselves, and possibly dying in the same process, just to attain or achieve BS?!

MrBrownJay1:
Are you saying that if a man can't satisfy his wife (or a wife can't satisfy her husband), instead of communicating with one another OR seeking for divorce, they should simply cheat on their partner? What's next?! If your husband can't satisfy your dream of flying in private jet, you should go sleep with senators and ogas at the top, in order to be flown on private jets?!?!?! Is that really what you want your wife/husband to do, if you can't satisfy them?!

Is money so much on people's mind that they are willing to degrade themselves, and possibly dying in the same process, just to attain or achieve BS?!

People kill for money don't they? People marry for money don't they, young ladies marry old men with weak dead d*cks for money they know these men can't f*ck but they marry them for their wealth they satisfy their sexual urge elsewhere, young men marry irritating old woman for their money they know they can't give birth and this old women irritate them but they go ahead and marry then they satisfy their sexual urge with young women, it's part of life

Slimsly100:
Honestly, I agree absolutely with you.
With the kinda stories they hear everytime.

It's so damn funny

Seahawk:
@mrbrownjay

Please miss me with the lawful argument. Because something is lawful doesn’t make it right. When white people made laws that made it okay to take black people from their homes and own them and their lands but also had laws that made it punishable by death for a black man to steal from them, it was lawful. It didn’t mean it was right.

Get your facts right.... Polygamy is much more an African way of life than it is a western one. If you wanna blame polygamy on anyone, blame it on yourself. This is our history, and so far as I know, polygamy is legal in Nigeria, while it is illegal in the west.

Men made laws that make it okay for them wife multiple women regardless of how their current wife/wives felt about it but want it to be punishable for the same treatment to be given to them. Yea I’ll take the lawful argument with a pinch of salt.

Are we talking of human being with a sound mind here OR puppets....?! You are talking as if anyone forces these women to join into these polygamous unions. Come on, you must be a comedian.

Yes he has no right to expect faithfulness. The nerve.
It shows a deep lack of common sense and gargantuan self aggrandizement for one man to think that he’s enough for multiple women. If such a person doesn’t have the sense to know that such an arrangement can’t work out, he deserves whatever comes of it.

Bro, in the world that we live in today, we are only responsible for OUR OWN ACTIONS/DECISIONS... You (or I) can't come in here and expect everyone to do what you feel is the right way to live, BUT, if you willingly accept to go into any type of Union, then you should abide by it.... Aka by marriage law, by your religious law and, more importantly, by your COMMON SENSE law.

Talking about how they knowingly went into the marriage like they have better options. I know I personally wouldn’t but you’re smarter than that and you know they usually don’t have any or better options because of cultural and religious oppression. What’s lawful depends on makes the laws. You use it when it favors you. I see that.

Now you are talking about the REAL issue here:
- women who are seeking to attain what they don't deserve...
- women who want to be who they are not, in order to please the joneses...
- women who want to copy-copy follow-follow what they see on social media and be trending with bling-bling and nonsense.
- Women who have NO education, NO value whatsoever but a warm Coochie between their legs but expect to be treated like they bring anything of value to the table....
- women of today who would gladly marry and fukc a donkey, if it has money, then turn around and blame the donkey for being a donkey.... And men like you would Have the audacity to blame the DONKEY?!
- women who, due to pressure (social/family/religious/friends), gladly go into these unions, and want to blame these old men, instead of blaming the real culprits here: their mother/father/pastor/imam/friends or simply THEMSELVES....

What's next?! I sign a contract to work as a farmers, working 18hs a day under the sun for 30K Naira monthly, then turn around and blame the employer for giving me such a shitty contract (that I willingly read/accepted and signed), expecting by to be paid like a CEO, yet I am uneducated?!

I PERSONALLY think he deserves to have half of his children belong to other men. And that he should only find out after he’s done raising them. Justify greed and lustfulness with law.

Expecting a man to have his wife cheating on him, simply because he is FULLY HONEST about his marital desires, shows us all how you are not thinking straight on this issue and using misplaced sentiments instead.

Abi. some women and irrational thought process.

MrBrownJay1:
Duh!!!!



Then, these women with a "supposedly" sound brain, who knowingly goes into these polygamous Union (to enrich themselves/family), should keep quiet and accept anything/everything they get from these old men. You certainly can't go into these BS Union willingly and then turn around and blame the setup of the same Union as a reason for cheating.



Bro, sadly, some people are so focused on the money, they lose their common sense. Next we will hear stories of women being fukced by strangers in their sleep, and saying that she thought it was a dream, bwaaaah!



Are you claiming that a polygamous man shouldn't get the respect/faithfulness that any other man deserves (from his wife), simply because he has more than one wife?!
Are you saying that the woman (who he is married to) that knew fully well he had other spouse, and willingly went into this polygamous Union, shouldn't be faithful to her lawful husband, because he has sex with his lawful other wives?!