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Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by NkemChukwudi: 5:02pm On Jul 17, 2019
olumalcolm:
My broda its not like i am emotional about it but this woman gave birth to 3kids for him, he shuld have seen the whatever behaviour she is exhibiting now long ago and let her leave after a kid but make sure he is responsible for the childs welfare but how does d woman fend for 3kids? I understand some women are animals in human skin but he shuld consider d kids b4 embarking on smtin like dis. You don't know d adverse effect of a broken home on children, my broda if dey r not lucky enof, it is devastating i swear. Dont let me go more dan dis, d effect is what we are experiencing mostly in Nigeria today. We have too many broken homes and the children don't usually get the parental care they ought to have thereby leading them to illicit acts. Its painful bro. cry

Hmmm, I hear you.....it is so hard I tell you. In the western world the women hustle and contribute nearly as much or more than the men. They are so busy which also means they have less unnecessary children.

In this case if the wife had contributed heavily to the building of that house the man will NEVER have the effrontery to ask her to pack out like that!
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by bigiyaro(m): 5:28pm On Jul 17, 2019
fvck all-ya blaming the man without hearing his own part of the story.

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Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by Omudia11: 5:29pm On Jul 17, 2019
Who even wants to get on her nerves?
Lol
pcguru1:
And dem say make woman no rich pass the husband, lol funny people. mke your money mehn , who wants to tell madam Alakija to pack out

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Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by UnusualJhay(m): 5:46pm On Jul 17, 2019
Inside life cool cool
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by bigfish3k: 5:46pm On Jul 17, 2019
1x2x3:
I've learned never to assume without hearing the full story. There are many possible events that could have lead to that.

1. What if he found out the kids weren't his and he wants to resolve the issue without the public notice so he went ahead and rented a place for her to move into but she refused?

2. What if he caught her cheating and decided taking another wife?

Yeah I'm not going to be in the position of a lawyer I'd rather hear the full story and be in position of a judge.
this is heart breaking
even if he is not their father, for the sake of the children who have known him as their dad from childhood he shouldnt have done what he did, he shouldnt transfer their mothers sin to them, they didnt beg to be born, and they are not the ones who blinded you to have their mother as ur choice for marriage. you shouldnt just suffer the innocent children. they are ur responsibility no matter what. the man must find a solution to the children's plight even if u dont want their mother again
u are just been deceived by ur new wife. i pity you, because in ur old age this new wife will leave u and u will live and die as a lonely man in ur big mansion. i have seen it happen severally
i have seen a white man from Holland who doesnt even believe in God who willed his belongings including houses to the Somali refugees in Africa, i was shocked. talkless of someone u once fvcked and had 3 children with that u are chasing out together with the children. mtcheew
much ado about property

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Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by bigfish3k: 5:48pm On Jul 17, 2019
bigiyaro:
fvck all-ya blaming the man without hearing his own part of the story.

whats the sin of the children? thats my anger
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by bigfish3k: 5:51pm On Jul 17, 2019
NkemChukwudi:


Hmmm, I hear you.....it is so hard I tell you. In the western world the women hustle and contribute nearly as much or more than the men. They are so busy which also means they have less unnecessary children.

In this case if the wife had contributed heavily to the building of that house the man will NEVER have the effrontery to ask her to pack out like that!
do u think getting work in nigeria is easy both for women and men. even illiterates in the west gets work easily
the man knows all these and still Fvcked her till 3 children came out. please what is the sin of the children

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Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by bigiyaro(m): 7:12pm On Jul 17, 2019
bigfish3k:


whats the sin of the children? thats my anger
somehow children pay for the sins of their fathers, that's the way of the world, am sure the man did not just wake up one morning and got married, the woman contributed to his furstration
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by bigfish3k: 7:16pm On Jul 17, 2019
bigiyaro:
somehow children pay for the sins of their fathers, that's the way of the world, am sure the man did not just wake up one morning and got married, the woman contributed to his furstration

agreed, but it shouldnt come from a father deliberately

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Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by James4424: 8:05pm On Jul 17, 2019
moderatorr:
hmmm whatever made a man to spend his whole money, build a house, marry and give birth to 3 children.
Then abandon everything, marry another wife, then destroy the house.

She must have offended him to the highest offence.

Or rather .the new wife is a better seduction
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by Yemisi87: 8:41pm On Jul 17, 2019
Before I judge,, the husband side of the story is required.
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by Sundaybukkie(m): 8:45pm On Jul 17, 2019
Nice one...
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by atiku07(m): 8:57pm On Jul 17, 2019
tchidi066:
Why are men this insensitive, what stops him from renting an apartment with his new bride...
why not this way rent an apartment forthe first wife sentiments oshi do u even know what she might have done judging de man already yeye
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by 10elly: 9:43pm On Jul 17, 2019
atiku07:
why not this way rent an apartment forthe first wife sentiments oshi do u even know what she might have done judging de man already yeye

Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by NkemChukwudi: 5:26am On Jul 18, 2019
bigfish3k:

do u think getting work in nigeria is easy both for women and men. even illiterates in the west gets work easily
the man knows all these and still Fvcked her till 3 children came out. please what is the sin of the children

Women must take responsibility and stop getting pregnant anyhow jare, nonsense!
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by olumalcolm(m): 7:57am On Jul 18, 2019
NkemChukwudi:


Hmmm, I hear you.....it is so hard I tell you. In the western world the women hustle and contribute nearly as much or more than the men. They are so busy which also means they have less unnecessary children.

In this case if the wife had contributed heavily to the building of that house the man will NEVER have the effrontery to ask her to pack out like that!
yesoo my broda but ladies of nowadays wnt equal right but dey dnt want equal responsibility. they want ready made and d ready made might one day act like d ready made he is grin
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by blindjustice13(m): 9:55am On Jul 18, 2019
NkemChukwudi:


Hmmm, I hear you.....it is so hard I tell you. In the western world the women hustle and contribute nearly as much or more than the men. They are so busy which also means they have less unnecessary children.

In this case if the wife had contributed heavily to the building of that house the man will NEVER have the effrontery to ask her to pack out like that!
you are so ignorant, its obvious you have never stepped out of that your yoruba village before. Go and learn about child support and spousal support before bringing the west into this conversation and spew your ignorance everywhere,ode.

You nitwits are quick to pull the "if it were in the west " card when you know next to nothing ,i hope all the women in your family are the only "useless Nigerian women " you are referring to ,cos if your own mother and females in your family are useless ,that is your family issue.

The bolded statement shows you are either stupid, or delusional or you have been living under a rock.The Nigerian culture permits men sending their wives out even if they both contributed to building the house, it is only the customary laws that has an exception.Stop being stupidly ignorant . olodo

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Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by NkemChukwudi: 11:02am On Jul 18, 2019
blindjustice13:
you are so ignorant, its obvious you have never stepped out of that your yoruba village before. Go and learn about child support and spousal support before bringing the west into this conversation and spew your ignorance everywhere,ode.

You nitwits are quick to pull the "if it were in the west " card when you know next to nothing ,i hope all the women in your family are the only "useless Nigerian women " you are referring to ,cos if your own mother and females in your family are useless ,that is your family issue.

The bolded statement shows you are either stupid, or delusional or you have been living under a rock.The Nigerian culture permits men sending their wives out even if they both contributed to building the house, it is only the customary laws that has an exception.Stop being stupidly ignorant . olodo


Haba! This is too much na. Is the woman your sister? What exactly did I say to you to warrant this vernom?

Let me emphasis something called natural justice. When a woman truly and very clearly contribute to the advancement of her husband, that husband will NEVER, I repeat NEVER ask the woman to leave his house in this manner. And if out of madness, or pussy whipping by another woman, he asked such a wife to leave his house, he will sooner or later realise the big mistake and will go begging that woman to return to the same house.

To find a woman to CONTRIBUTE to a man's life in Nigeria of today is a very difficult prospect.

With all due respect, you are an idiot.
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by blindjustice13(m): 11:50am On Jul 18, 2019
NkemChukwudi:


Haba! This is too much na. Is the woman your sister? What exactly did I say to you to warrant this vernom?

Let me emphasis something called natural justice. When a woman truly and very clearly contribute to the advancement of her husband, that husband will NEVER, I repeat NEVER ask the woman to leave his house in this manner. And if out of madness, or pussy whipping by another woman, he asked such a wife to leave his house, he will sooner or later realise the big mistake and will go begging that woman to return to the same house.

To find a woman to CONTRIBUTE to a man's life in Nigeria of today is a very difficult prospect.

With all due respect, you are an idiot.
And you an ignorant fool. Go and ask how the west operates when it comes to marriage ode. Just the same way your mother and sisters are leeches. That the women in your family are free loaders doesn't mean you should generalise. My wife and mother ,even my sister are the most supportive women i have seen . That you grew up with bad female mentors doesnt mean you come here and bad mouth every female out there.

And yes, this has been happening for years ,every Nigerian culture accepts women being thrown out by their husband.

The bolded shows you watch too much nollywood. Lol. Natural justice ke, lol stop being delusional ,most times they move on to the next woman instead of begging her to come back ,lol ,i am tempted to ask how old you are ,you sound like a millennial who has not seen much of life,that is probably why you have enough time on your hands to open an ibo moniker and troll with it. Issa ode grin

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Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by blindjustice13(m): 11:59am On Jul 18, 2019
adanny01:


They may not be his. Even if they are his and decided they will not have their mother move out, i believe the father can throw all of them out with her if they made their choice to not stay with him.

The possibility is endless so lets drop it.

mr possibility ,has it crossed your mind that there is a more legal way to go about it than this madness?

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Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by NkemChukwudi: 12:00pm On Jul 18, 2019
blindjustice13:
And you an ignorant fool. Go and ask how the west operates when it comes to marriage ode. Just the same way your mother and sisters are leeches. That the women in your family are free loaders doesn't mean you should generalise. My wife and mother ,even my sister are the most supportive women i have seen . That you grew up with bad female mentors doesnt mean you come here and bad mouth every female out there.

And yes, this has been happening for years ,every Nigerian culture accepts women being thrown out by their husband.

The bolded shows you watch too much nollywood. Lol. Natural justice ke, lol stop being delusional ,most times they move on to the next woman instead of begging her to come back ,lol ,i am tempted to ask how old you are ,you sound like a millennial who has not seen much of life,that is probably why you have enough time on your hands to open an ibo moniker and troll with it. Issa ode grin

It must have happened to your mother, sister or someone close to you. You are worse than an idiot. Surely a raw nerve has been touched. No Nigerian man will eject a woman who contributed to his advancement even when they move on to the next woman.

You have an abusive personality because you have no respect for yourself.
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by blindjustice13(m): 12:06pm On Jul 18, 2019
NkemChukwudi:


It must have happened to your mother, sister or someone close to you. You are worse than an idiot. Surely a raw nerve has been touched. No Nigerian man will eject a woman who contributed to his advancement even when they move on to the next woman.

You have an abusive personality because you have no respect for yourself.
on the contrary, i have respect for women in my life and myself.But you and your minions take every single opportunity to throw jabs at Nigerian women transferring the hatred you have for your mothers to every other women out there.

That you are still sticking the same delusional statement shows how idiotic you are ,go out ,leave the corner of your face me i face room ,maybe then you will see more realistic cases ,not this your nollywood tale you keep reciting like a brainwashed imbec1le grin grin
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by NkemChukwudi: 12:20pm On Jul 18, 2019
blindjustice13:
on the contrary, i have respect for women in my life and myself.But you and your minions take every single opportunity to throw jabs at Nigerian women transferring the hatred you have for your mothers to every other women out there.

That you are still sticking the same delusional statement shows how idiotic you are ,go out ,leave the corner of your face me i face room ,maybe then you will see more realistic cases ,not this your nollywood tale you keep reciting like a brainwashed imbec1le grin grin

Your mama!
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by blindjustice13(m): 12:24pm On Jul 18, 2019
NkemChukwudi:


Your mama!
nah, my mother is a virtous woman who is enjoying the fruit of her labor ,i can't say the same for your mother judging by the type of hate filled son she raised. Not only do you hate women who are a reflection of your mother ,you are tribalistic too ,that you will pretend to be ibo just to perpertrate hate . what a miserable soul you must be.smh

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Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by NkemChukwudi: 12:46pm On Jul 18, 2019
blindjustice13:
nah, my mother is a virtous woman who is enjoying the fruit of her labor ,i can't say the same for your mother judging by the type of hate filled son she raised. Not only do you hate women who are a reflection of your mother ,you are tribalistic too ,that you will pretend to be ibo just to perpertrate hate . what a miserable soul you must be.smh

Oloruburuku swerve! F off!
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by adanny01(m): 5:45pm On Jul 18, 2019
blindjustice13:
mr possibility ,has it crossed your mind that there is a more legal way to go about it than this madness?

Destroying ones own property is completely legal.

Its it illegal to bring a bulldozer to demolish my own property.
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by blindjustice13(m): 5:48pm On Jul 18, 2019
adanny01:


Destroying ones own property is completely legal.

Its it illegal to bring a bulldozer to demolish my own property.
Did you read the assault part? Or you ran with the headline like you people always do?

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Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by FlutterDollar99(m): 7:30pm On Jul 18, 2019
Lexusgs430:
Poor man..... She don frustrate am finish........
seems like jazz to me o
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by Lexusgs430: 7:32pm On Jul 18, 2019
FlutterDollar99:
seems like jazz to me o

E go get how woman go take frustrate man....... Brain go just disconnect.........
Re: Man Destroys His Own House Because His First Wife Refused To Pack Out by FlutterDollar99(m): 7:32pm On Jul 18, 2019
ladilawal82:
Wickedness of the highest order. That man must have been given strong vegetable.
I tell you... Confirm vegetable...

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