Starlight10:
who told you your argument is intelligent??
Haha. You cant even own up to your initial statement of advising men to have Multiple partners so they will be desirable by their wives. I guess you are ashamed of yourself now hence the denial.

This is obviously getting interesting!
You leave the issue of discus and you start vacillating....the next barefaced gameplan of urs was to heap accusations on me when you are apparently having a serious discernment deficiency!
Please quote where i encouraged op to have multiple partners!
In deed common sense is not common!

NkayStory:



Your rants mean nothing and only ends in nairaland archives..As long as you NIGERIAN MALES stick to harmful cultures and tradition which gives you undo advantages over women because you believe you are superior,then 'success objects' are what you all will continue to be..no apologies.

You lots always use the 'tradition mantra' to subjugate women in Nigeria, criminalsing any form of feminism even when its laudable and can address issues like the ones you lots love to whine about the most....FINANCE.

When it suits your selfish self especially in finances you will want to act all Western..not going to work dude not by a long shot

Deal with or die trying.

Another load of claptrap from an obviously pained drama queen!
Take your audacious rants else where!

openmine:


This is obviously getting interesting!
You leave the issue of discus and you start vacillating....the next barefaced gameplan of urs was to heap accusations on me when you are apparently having a serious discernment deficiency!
Please quote where i encouraged op to have multiple partners!
In deed common sense is not common!

keep denying it. Shamless serial cheater. You not even a role model to give marrital advice. Lol if you have little self respect you will shut up. But i doubt that. I await your next show of gross stupidity***

openmine:


Another load of claptrap from an obviously pained drama queen!
Take your audacious rants else where!

You have been been trashed and dusted..now go lick your wounds in a corner as you lament about why you are seen as 'success objects'...Self-cetered clowns everywhere.

Yeye.

Starlight10:
keep denying it. Shamless serial cheater. You not even a role model to give marrital advice. Lol if you have little self respect you will shut up. But i doubt that. I await your next show of gross stupidity***

Oh so the clown is even a cheat?...smh!

NkayStory:



You have been been trashed and dusted..now go lick your wounds in a corner as you lament about why you are seen as 'success objects'...Self-cetered clowns everywhere.

Yeye.

i dont see any wounds to lick here!
all i see are submissions of a pained and hurt drama queen who is allowing her emotions control her uncut fingers!
Your unnecessary and unsubstantiated submissions could have been adequately responded by me but its quite obvious that i cant engage an unblushing and implausible puerile in a simplified discus!
Like i have said before,go and take your doltish ramblings else where!
I cant waste my time engaging a slow-witted drama queen...park well jare!

Mstick:
You're jobless but you can afford data to come online and bash your wife. If she comes back home what's the plan YOU have for your family? How will they eat and pay bills? Am really trying my best to be civil here but you're a joke.

Loosen yourself from your mother's apron string and get a life. You're coming online to look for sympathy hope those supporting you credit your bank account.

He is a joke? He should get a life? He is tied to his mother's apron string? All because he lost his job and still wants his family together?

openmine:


i dont see any wounds to lick here!
all i see are submissions of a pained and hurt drama queen who is allowing her emotions control her uncut fingers!
Your unnecessary and unsubstantiated submissions could have been adequately responded by me but its quite obvious that i cant engage an unblushing and implausible puerile in a simplified discus!
Like i have said before,go and take your doltish ramblings else where!
I cant waste my time engaging a slow-witted drama queen...park well jare!

I am a drama queen because i called your hypocrisy and bias yet a sod like you regurgitated your insane poo against women earlier on,what doe that make you?..Comedy clown i guess..

Boy carry your huge 'L' card and bounce of like the clown you are....Reeling out meaningless words to cover your idiosyncrasies will not suffice.

By the way,deal with your cheating self before pointing leprous fingers at women...

Yeye.

Starlight10:
keep denying it. Shamless serial cheater. You not even a role model to give marrital advice. Lol if you have little self respect you will shut up. But i doubt that. I await your next show of gross stupidity***

shameless cheat?
Thats a new one!
Have i dated you before to deserve such tag?
Maybe i look like the guy who cheated on you in your last relationship!
I have asked you to show where i advised OP to engage in multiple relationship and you still haven't responded!
Its either you are a liar or a barefaced liar!
I would have said you bear resemblance to a numbskull however,you are far worse!
A better word is still yet to be made!

openmine:


shameless cheat?
Thats a new one!
Have i dated you before to deserve such tag?
Maybe i look like the guy who cheated on you in your last relationship!
I have asked you to show where i advised OP to engage in multiple relationship and you are still haven't responded!
Its either you are a liar or a barefaced liar!
I would have said you bear resemblance to a numbskull however,you are far worse!
A better word is still yet to be made!

keep lieing to yourself. You go down the mentions. I'll wait. I feel sad for the women that die in silence in the name of a relationship with you. Sicko

NkayStory:



I am a drama queen because i called your hypocrisy and bias yet a sod like you regurgitated your insane poo against women earlier on,what doe that make you?..Comedy clown i guess..

Boy carry your huge 'L' card and bounce of like the clown you are....Reeling out meaningless words to cover your idiosyncrasies will not suffice.

I laugh in tongues!
Hilarious to say the least!
A pot calling a kettle black!
A pea-headed clown witlessly tagging one a clown!
Its obvious the words i say are meaningless to an empty-headed cerebral like yours!
How would you expect to comprehend when your encephalon is totally occupied slay-queen inspired ramblings

Starlight10:
keep lieing to yourself. You go down the mentions. I'll wait. I feel sad for the women that die in silence in the name of a relationship with you. Sicko

Please prove me wrong by mentioning where i said so instead of acting like a barefaced fabulist!
Ohh you wish!
My darling is a personification of an amazing and sweet lady....You no reach!
Go and cry me a river with your other partner in crime!
Sicko?
You are the one who is terribly sick....go and forgive yourself!
Pained drama queens!

openmine:


I laugh in tongues!
Hilarious to say the least!
A pot calling a kettle black!
A pea-headed clown witlessly tagging one a clown!
Its obvious the words i say are meaningless to an empty-headed cerebral like yours!
How would you expect to comprehend when your encephalon is totally occupied slay-queen inspired ramblings

You are sod boy and a poorly-paid comedy clown...You have notjing going for you other than wasting away on Nairaland spitting out junk from your mal-functtioning system..

Ofcourse you are a insane,no doubt about that...Your forte is fooling around on this forum with your fellow gang of woman-hating low-lives and frustrated under-achievers..

Outside this space,you are notthing and you know it.

lefulefu:
cmon mercy aigbe is in her 40s but guys still crush on her and she flirts around too .there have been cases of much older women who leave their husbands house for that of their lover.say a woman dey older no mean say she no go fit get lover and 40 is even young sef .

True

openmine:


shameless cheat?
Thats a new one!
Have i dated you before to deserve such tag?
Maybe i look like the guy who cheated on you in your last relationship!
I have asked you to show where i advised OP to engage in multiple relationship and you are still haven't responded!
Its either you are a liar or a barefaced liar!
I would have said you bear resemblance to a numbskull however,you are far worse!
A better word is still yet to be made!

i wont give you any audience from now on. Your Negative Enegy should be kept to yourself.

Starlight10:
i wont give you any audience from now on. Your Negative Enegy should be kept to yourself.

After brazenly accusing me,you have become shamelessly mute!
negative kor energy ni

NkayStory:



You are sod boy and a poorly-paid comedy clown...You have notjing going for you other than wasting away on Nairaland spitting out junk from your mal-functtioning system..

Ofcourse you are a insane,no doubt about that...Your forte is fooling around on this forum with your fellow gang of woman-hating low-lives and frustrated under-achievers..

Outside this space,you are notthing and you know it.

Can you quit yapping like an over fed puerile!
Am i your ex bf or have i at any time dated you?
You keep spewing trash like i was the one who dumped you when your were in a relationship!
Its either you direct your pained and disconcerted regurgitation on your irresponsible and fake ex or you forgive yourself and move forward with your life!
Relationship or marriage isn't a force majeure!
If you dont want it stay single and live your life to the fullest!
Not to turn into a vacuous sore loser and engage in irrational ramblings!

openmine:


After brazenly accusing me,you have become shamelessly mute!
negative kor energy ni

openmine:

Can you quit yapping like an over fed puerile!
Am i your ex bf or have i at any time dated you?
You keep spewing trash like i was the one who dumped you when your were in a relationship!
Its either you direct your pained and disconcerted regurgitation on your irresponsible and fake ex or you forgive yourself and move forward with your life!
Relationship or marriage isn't a force majeure!
If you dont want it stay single and live your life to the fullest!
Not to turn into a vacuous sore loser and engage in irrational ramblings!

only u jus dey fight two babes...baba nii

NkayStory:



Oh so the clown is even a cheat?...smh!

To think you ignorantly and pathetically believed what the other birdbrained queen churned out from her fingers shows your reasoning is quite benighted and ludicrous!

lefulefu:
only u jus dey fight two babes...baba nii

I no go surprise if nah the same person!
Some ladies are seriously and sadly deficient in their reasoning!

openmine:

Can you quit yapping like an over fed puerile!
Am i your ex bf or have i at any time dated you?
You keep spewing trash like i was the one who dumped you when your were in a relationship!
Its either you direct your pained and disconcerted regurgitation on your irresponsible and fake ex or you forgive yourself and move forward with your life!
Relationship or marriage isn't a force majeure!
If you dont want it stay single and live your life to the fullest!
Not to turn into a vacuous sore loser and engage in irrational ramblings!

Typical nairaland male rants....Your pea-brains destroyed by eternal frustrations cannot process anything but regurgitating the rubbish the voices in your heads regale you with 24/7..

I guees you have dated every women in Nigeria reason why you lots resort to blanket verbal garbage against female on nairaland..

Like i said, earlier,you are nothing but a confused hypocrite who can not tell his left from right...

openmine:


To think you ignorantly and pathetically believed what the other birdbrained queen churned out from her fingers shows your reasoning is quite benighted and ludicrous!

Your penchant for using laughing emojis simply validates my view that you are a pea-brianed clown with the personality of an egg-lifter..

NkayStory:




Typical nairaland male rants....Your pea-brains destroyed by eternal frustrations cannot process anything but regurgitating the rubbish the voices in your heads regale you with 24/7..

I guees you have dated every women in Nigeria reason why you lots resort to blanket verbal garbage against female on nairaland..

Like i said, earlier,you are nothing but a confused hypocrite who can not tell his left from right...

I feel your obvious pain in your writings but look me well...am not your ex!

....and please check your iterated sheep-like bleats...they are pestiferous and daft!

...and before you gleefully borrow my words,first try to discern their usage in your maladroit statements so that you dont humiliate the combined institutions that you walked out from! Thank You!

NkayStory:



Your penchant for using laughing emojis simply validates my view that you are a pea-brianed clown with the personality of an egg-lifter..

This lady's pestiferous reasoning is like zee-world!
No dear!
Not pea-brianed but pea-brained!
You should know the spelling and meaning of words before using them!
You believed someone who said am a cheat when you dont even know me!
That lady just played you and has zoomed off which makes you worst than a pea-brain!

openmine:


This lady's pestiferous reasoning is like zee-world!
No dear!
Not pea-brianed but pea-brained!
You should know the spelling and meaning of words before using them!
You believed someone who said am a cheat when you dont even know me!
That lady just played you and has zoomed off which makes you worst than a pea-brain!

I can't spell,but at least i have an 'hintellectual frsud' like you having an orgasmic session on my mentions..replying me feverishly even after he had said he wont cos i am not 'worth it'

There you have it,i am sure a soulless,frusrtated dude like you will spend the whole Friday night regurgitating absolute trash on a faceless forum cos you are empty and unwanted by females,only appreciated by your fellow gay-lords here....

Your road is far and cloudy,you can have fun here cos i kmow your life means nothing otherwise..but i have made my point,exposed you for what you are and what you stand for...an empty,frustrated,inferiority-complexed excuse of a male who cant deal with the garbage he dishes out and imagines women are the cause of your depression...

I am done with you boy tor today till further notice.

NkayStory:




I can't spell,but at least i have an 'hintellectual frsud' like you having an orgasmic session on my mentions..replying me feverishly even after he had said he wont cos i am not 'worth it'

There you have it,i am sure a soulless,frusrtated dude like you will spend the whole Friday night regurgitating absolute trash on a faceless forum cos you are empty and unwanted by females,only appreciated by your fellow gay-lords here..

Your road is far and cloudy,you can have fun here cos i kmow your life means nothing otherwise..but i have made my point,exposed you for what you are and what you stand for...an empty,frustrated,inferiority-complexed excuse of a male who cant deal with the garbage he dishes out and imagines women are the cause of your depression...

I am done with you boy tor tiday till further notice.

Jesus wept!
What did your vapid-inspired fingers heavily assisted by your obtuse cerebrum concoct?
...these load of outlandish hogwash can only be contrived by a mind that is far from being sane!
Abeg go rest before you use your apparently angry fingers to squash and annihilate English language from the face of the planet!
No be by force to write English language!

Tunagee:


We are both Yoruba's. Na your papa born u bro

Now I see

VRDroid:


It is commendable that you have the courage to speak out. But have you noticed that you are addicted to the thought of your wife?

To get your wife back, you must first of all, forget about her totally. Both you and your wife are now entangled, totally connected on a quantum level and to break through your addiction to the pain of the love, you must become a new creature, which means the things you do now, you wll no longer do them and the things you do not do, you must begin to do them. So, when your brain wave changes to a different resonance frequency, you will be psychically disconnected from your wife and that is when magic happens.

Unfortunately, you will not believe and will not take the following advice, but here lies the solution;

The things you do, that you should not do;
1. Disconnect your mind from the thought of your wife, kill the thoughts once it comes into your head.
2. Delete her number from your phone and any location you can find it. And do not call her even if you have the number in your mind.
3. Do not pick her calls even if she calls, and never pick at all except she returns, which will certainly happen if you follow this advice.
4. Do not talk to any of her relatives and do not answer their calls. And if you eventually do, tell them you are no longer interested in her.
5. Remove all her cloths and accessories from site and store them in boxes so you do not see them.

The things you do not do, which you must do;
1. A little alcoholic red wine, just very little to change your brainwave. Jesus turned water to wine.
2. Get green Cannabis (the one created by God, for healing of nations ) and make tea for yourself with it every morning to deprogram your subconscious mind and nervous system and alter wife's addiction pattern.
3. Get a lady friend, and I mean a great beauty that can actually mentally replace your wife, what you do with her about from loving friendship is up to you, if I was the one, she wll be my companion on bed.


With these strategies, within months your thoughts pattern will change and the addiction to your wife and the thoughts of her will break and connection to her will be deactivated and both of you will no longer be entangled.

Once that happens, your wife will return as a prodigal son, and you will give her condition for forgiveness.

The above is practically the solution, the other alternative is Meditation and I do not mean prayer, I mean meditating till you connect to the Unified field, until your sub-conscious mind resets. And she must also do same, if she does it and you do it, you will see your dreams begin to change and the energy vampire destroying your marriage will not be able to handle the new vibration.

After this you will equally get a job. It is magic. A practical way to get your desires.

Those are the two ways, and I recommend you do both. You are over 40 and have nothing to loose.

Bro you are just like me, I meditate everyday and positive things are happening to me. I see goodness and abundance . Something miraculous happened to me this week through the power of meditation, Thank you mother nature for blessing me.

Saw this post; was sent to me by my brother who saw similarity with my situation. You must have put in lots of effort and sent lots of representations to her. I guess ur FIL is late. The real problem is with ur MIL. She wields a strong influence over ur wife throughout the duration of u marriage. She's been all ears for ur wife during times of differences with ur wife. Besides your wife may not hv any other friend she confides in aside from ur MIL.
You can't kill Ur MIL. She remains ur MIL.
Your wife has become Unreachable since her mother blocks approach to her.
She is now a sales girl to her aunt( she prefers to be a servant to her mother than enjoy freedom in ur house).
You've not said if u have children so far and where they are now, if yes.
U said well when u considered ur age and the process of divorce which is unthinkable (fine).
You are a GOOD man like me. And that's the problem.
Good men go to hell while Bad boys go to heaven.
Being Good man has not helped us. But becoming a bad boy is easy but not at old age. We've become calcified(completely formed as good boys).
Have u been screwing women this past 10 months. If yes. Then how would the good GIRL cope. Something must be amis (except for rare few).
You have done what u outh to have done.
My Suggestion, not mine but the LORD'S. I know I have his spirit.:
IT IS REAL THAT UR WIFE WILL NEVER SUFFER WITH U BUT EAT WITH U. She will only return when u've got the money. So, let her exercise her freedom as long as her mother lives. God forbids, something really bad happens to the mother, then her eyes will open. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF n LOOK GOOD. TRAVEL Stay with ur good-distant friend n GET a JOB. Stay off the grid of social media for 3 months n bar off calls to ur real line. Operate with a new sim. God, our God of Good men will bless ur loving heart.

OKOATA:
Bro you are just like me, I meditate everyday and positive things are happening to me. I see goodness and abundance . Something miraculous happened to me this week through the power of meditation, Thank you mother nature for blessing me.

You are collapsing wave functions . Also learn to use Quantum entanglement to hack the matrix. It is the world of magic.

I am going all in. I want it all.

pansophist:
Like the old saying "no one can make you a slave without your consent", and that rings ever true in the situation at hand. She has left, disrespected the integrity of your shared matrimony, and as far she is concerned, released herself from the obligation to commit to you. She has proven that the marital oath of "for better for worse" is void, a symbolic rehearsal instead of a qualitative virtue. My friend, you've done your best, leave her to her vices and play your cards to exhibit strength.

In every human relationship, the one that needs the other most has all the power. The power dynamic is favoring her since you're the one begging for her resumption to the union, she has all the cards, hence, you're emasculating yourself by being the party who needs her. She is cashing on your desperation and ignorance of game dynamics.

Hopefully, you should have learned by now that just as women accuse men of seeing them as a sex object, they themselves see men as a success object. Your value to her (and women generally) is not intrinsic, but extrinsic, she likes you based on the man you've built yourself to be. Women do not love the male (a biological prerequisite), but the man (self-built). It's sad that you have to lose your financial capability to reach this timeless truism, albeit, it is never too late for you to get a better, younger, more beautiful woman because unlike her, she has already depreciated in sexual market value, while yours is sharply on its peak. Go make money, improve your life and have fun with other ladies. You're under no obligation to be faithful to a union when the other party has broken it. Live a life worth admiring and I guarantee, as I've seen over and over, she will come begging but then remember, a leopard can not change its spots.

Women values relationship more than men, men value short flings more than women. You probably married her young, and she is under the illusion that there will be unlimited amount of men queuing to wife her up if she signifies her availability status, well, she will learn a bitter lesson, and when she does, do not be the "captain save a hoe", in life, there are consequences, and she must live it. If there is such a thing like to man-up, it is now.

All the best mate.

My goodness. What did i just read . You’re good

VRDroid:


You are collapsing wave functions . Also learn to use Quantum entanglement to hack the matrix. It is the world of magic.

I am going all in. I want it all.

I only do visualization with deep believe, I needed some money urgently and I had no finances at all, I did visualization meditation and prayed for 1 week straight every midnight. Can you believe I got the money out of no where, I also needed to buy something of about 7k someone just called and I gave him 1k for it. I will try yours or enlighten me more, is it about hacking the universe??