₦airaland Forum

Bizibi:
you have forgotten the world you live in.....the things we never thought would happen in Nigeria is already happening right before our eyes.

You haven't heard about some men that have mansions but their family doesn't know.

dasparrow:
You have spoken well but unfortunately, most Nigerian marriages are scam. Just look at the responses on this thread. It goes to show that most Nigerian bred men don't love their wives. There is no love, trust, togetherness in most Nigerian marriages and that is why most Nigerian married folks are miserable and want to pressure single people into getting married so they can join them in their misery club called marriage.

Reading this thread explains why Nigerian widows are so poverty stricken. Their deceased husbands leave nothing for them and the children. And since it is obvious that the average Nigerian male hates women, I wonder why he goes ahead to get married.

Nigerian society is filled with mysogynist men getting married and then raising families where domestic violence, infidelity, hatred for spouse, etc is the order of the day. And then you wonder why Nigeria as a country is so messed up.

cenaman:
so you ladies are praying for our early death?

MrBONE2:

Nyamuriflathead:
How is that anybody's business? Na ur mansion? Abi na u give am money take build am? I tire for una oh

aanuoluwami14:
Noo, it's normal for a man to die before his wife

cenaman:
Are you a he or a she or he/she or she/he?

Sterope:
Everyone making excuses for these men should remember there will be a special hello for these men.

needful:
My dear, the simply truth of the whole thing is, men in naija doesnt value women at all and these goes along way to show u the reason why they do not like female child, once only a female child is involved, they simply start pregnanting every girl on the street so as to have a male child. I took my time to go thru all the comments here and the only thing I figured out was the fact that this men married this ladies to give them kid. They do not value u one bit. Alot of women are suffering while their husbands are enjoying with their side chicks outside. I pity ladies who haven't realise this fact. I already knew about this fact, so even before I married, I let my hubby knew that am not in for any housewive, so I husssle to spend my own money as I do not care how much he has got. I had 3kids all girls and am not bothered. Even if he decides to marry 200% wives to have a male child, I do not care because I already knew my position and can comfortably take care of my pretty girls with or without any man. I blame ladies who rely on all this ass holes called men. Naija law will always favour them any time any day. Naija as a country will never ever get better because of the mentality of this men ruling us.

Katier00:
A win to the Bank and the bankers

Sofistcatdmoron:
I can't make my wife a Co owner of my account, women are thieves, I can let my trusted brother but not my wife jor oh

Omudia11:
Do you know that more men than women kill their spouses?

eddy1234:
what of as in my own case where the lawyer said my mum didn't leave any will while she discretely told me on her sick bed that her will is with the lawyer....

dasparrow:
Then you must be a devil too for wanting to marry a woman. With this type of mindset, you will never have a successful marriage. Staying forever single is what I wish for you. May you never attract a wife in your life. May God shut every door that will make it possible for you to get married. Amen!

dasparrow:
Then you must be a devil too for wanting to marry a woman. With this type of mindset, you will never have a successful marriage. Staying forever single is what I wish for you. May you never attract a wife in your life. May God shut every door that will make it possible for you to get married. Amen!

Nyamuriflathead:
Aunty, make ur money, open a secret account and hide it from your spouse. You will never see us open a useless thread on "how banks are cashing out on foolish wives". It only Reeks of entitlement mentality

Bafemi:
This is untrue. I say this because I am in the system and I understand how it works. All the family needs is to visit the court probate office. In cases of uncertainty, the court can write the banks to furnish them with any bank details of the deceased in that particular name and more easily these days, BVN.

Mind you, this information is not difficult to come by these days, even details of deceased assets in investment houses other than banks can also be retrieved much more banks.

dasparrow:
You have spoken well but unfortunately, most Nigerian marriages are scam. Just look at the responses on this thread. It goes to show that most Nigerian bred men don't love their wives. There is no love, trust, togetherness in most Nigerian marriages and that is why most Nigerian married folks are miserable and want to pressure single people into getting married so they can join them in their misery club called marriage.

Reading this thread explains why Nigerian widows are so poverty stricken. Their deceased husbands leave nothing for them and the children. And since it is obvious that the average Nigerian male hates women, I wonder why he goes ahead to get married.

Nigerian society is filled with mysogynist men getting married and then raising families where domestic violence, infidelity, hatred for spouse, etc is the order of the day. And then you wonder why Nigeria as a country is so messed up.

babyfaceafrica:
he or she can kill one and withdraw ur money

obembet:
I was privilege to chat with a female bank manager, she made a scary revelation to me. She told me how Nigerian bank vaults are filled with monies of dead men who kept their bank accounts secret from their wives.

She explained it was against bank ethics or policies for an account officer to inform the relatives of a deceased customer of his account (without his permission). And since the man is dead, without giving his permission, the bank dubiously keeps silent about the money. She told me it is rampant among many businessmen.

She revealed many instances of dead men whose families are still suffering, while they have millions stashed in their secret accounts.

She mentioned one that happened few months back. The man died and the wife was crying all over the place, looking for money to bury him. Whereas the man had nothing less than 60 million naira in his accounts. The banker said it got to a stage that she could no longer bear it, her conscience was pummelling her. She had to go against her bank rules, and got in contact with the widow and revealed to the woman how much her husband had in his accounts and how to claim them.

She also told of another story of one man who escaped death, but his right hand got paralysed. He couldn't sign his chequebook with his left hand and he was in a desperate situation that needed him to sign papers and cheques. That was how he learnt his lesson the hard way. As soon as he got better, he immediately made his wife co-signatory to all his accounts and involved her in all his businesses. What if he had died? That was how his family would have suffered in the midst of plenty.

This stupid behaviour is not reserved for wealthy men alone, even paupers who earn little have their own complex issues.

I just read on the wall of one of our groups where a man complained of how his friend refused to release his ATM pin number to his wife even though there was an emergency at home, and his ATM was at home.

Many orphans and widows suffering today are put in that condition by their stupid dead father.

Women and Retirees are not left out. Someone told me how a relative of hers died and none of her relatives knew that her properties were scattered all over the world. Not even one house. Not even a dime in any of her accounts... If you knew billions unclaimed in banks belong to selfish dead people, you would weep.

Banks and Bankers grow fat on these oafs.

Please do the needful now that you still have the breath to do so. Of course tomorrow is pregnant and only God knows what it will deliver.

A word is enough for the wise

Source: obembet

PrecisionFx:
I don't think people are allowed to open a bank account in Nigeria without a next of kin.

Educate me further

SocialJustice:
Stick to the point and stop being defensive. Which banking system are you in??

After 2 years of my dad's death, we are still trying to access some of his accounts. What if we didn't know they were there, Oga teller?

nototribalist:
My popsi left only N126k and his N120k monthly pension is still going in for the past 5 years now. Union bank don frustrates us to the point we don't bother about the account anymore.


In addition, we got the whole court documentation until we were told by the bank that the pension money paid into the account from when he died will be refunded back to the pension people. At that point we lost appetite for the millions in the account by now.

Bafemi:
I am not responsible for your misfortunes in life, kid.

One advice for your uncouth self: perhaps if you put in as much effort in trying to chart a course for yourself in life as much as you do to insulting strangers on the internet, you wouldn't be so bitter and frustrated over trying to claim your dead folk's wealth that you did nothing to help gather.

Peace.

kelvine:
Many are not happy in their marriage so they wonder.
Why will this woman inherit my hard labour and still roll with a strange man

elkharpone:

I swear
Except abacha tho

Bafemi:
I am not responsible for your misfortunes in life, kid.

One advice for your uncouth self: perhaps if you put in as much effort in trying to chart a course for yourself in life as much as you do to insulting strangers on the internet, you wouldn't be so bitter and frustrated over trying to claim your dead folk's wealth that you did nothing to help gather.

Peace.

OLAADEGBU:
You mean the guy TB Joshua cheated of his charms?

elkharpone:
lol
Bro calm down jor

salt1:
Please don't marry yet. This mindset is crazy