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Hello mature minds,

A married woman shared her story and she needs urgent help.

HERE IS THE SUMMARY...

She is been happily married to her husband for five (5) years with two blessed children, male and female, as evidence.

Just last month, July 2019, her husband told her that five years before they got wedded, he already had three (3) children, 2 males (living) and 1 female (who passed on recently), from another woman.

Besides, he disclosed to her that he still takes care of that woman (the mother of his children) and also caters for the two children that are currently alive.

The woman said she was awe-stricken as she got the shocking news, heart-broken and confused till date, not knowing what to do. She also said she cannot believe that his husband hid such a delicate matter from her before wedding...and for for 10 years after wedding.

Objectively, she said that a major weakness of hers was jealousy...she cannot see someone share what solely belongs to her...that is her kind of person...

At this juncture, please counsel constructively...as it would go a long way to healing her and/or someone somewhere in similar circumstance

Thanks Great NLanders!.

Hidding such delicate matter from someone you said you love is wickedness and UNFORGIVABLE

They've been married for 5 yeasrs and her husband hid the truth for 10 years after their marriage??

chiommy123:
Hidding such delicate matter from someone you said you love is wickedness and UNFORGIVABLE

U were asked to give advice not commentary

PoliteActivist:
They've been married for 5 years and her husband hid the truth for 10 years after their marriage??

Kindly advice...This is someone's true-life narrative...that I just summarized!

Besides, you can deduce that they courted for about 5 years...and so she said elaborately...

Hence, 5-year-courtship + 5-years-in-marriage = 10-year Relationship

Let her continue with the marriage, let us assume the man do not unravel the secet to her, would she be worried,

Let past things be past things, shape the good future, and face the present, as long the man is equal to the task.

GLYMAN:
Kindly advice...This is someone's true-life narrative...that I just summarized!

Besides, you can deduce that they courted for 8about 5 years...and so she said elaborately...

Hence, 5-year-courtship + 5-years-in-marriage = 10-year Relationship

Here's what u wrote VERBATIM:

"She is been happily married to her husband for five (5) years with two blessed children, male and female, as evidence...
She also said she cannot believe that his husband hid such a delicate matter from her before wedding...and for for 10 years after wedding."

Understand that 95% of these type of stories on NL are made up. So any inconsistency like this is a big red flag
the story is probably fake.