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nwanneni:
so you knew all these and carried on with the marriage?
Gold digging gone wrong

JEE CHUBA EGO

AngelicBeing:
JEE CHUBA EGO

n o be small thing o baba...

nwanneni:
so you knew all these and carried on with the marriage?
Gold digging gone wrong

I wish there was gold to dig, but that man ain’t got NOTHING. Go ask

Lol! Liar. Esther, you KNEW exactly what Siena was like but you married him because you're exactly the same. Can you swear you didn't know Siena was violent? Has Siena not bragged openly about terrible things he has done? He deliberately smashed someone's leg in a car door; you heard that but you didn't run! Instead, you allowed him father your kids cos you're greedy and wicked. Ahhhhh, you thought he can do bad to others but not to you; what are you, God? No good woman can be with a man who's polite to her but rude to a waiter. You gauge a man's character from how he treats others, not just you!

This bad marriage was the beginning of your karma for the evil you do/did behind closed doors. You lie against others and think it can be well with you. God isn't asleep after all; it's just that He's patient. Your juju expired or did you forget to top up? SMH. Some of you desperately evil women do all sorts to travel out to marry while claiming to serve God; they do work for you but don't tell you the other side. Don't sit in one place, oh. Keep jumping from pillar to post, mixing and matching, thinking you're mocking God. See now? Has God not shown you He's more crafty than you? I'm sure when your marriage seemed to be working, you thought you had gotten away with evil and were concentrating on peppering your so-called haters. Not knowing God was giving you opportunity to repent.

People like to say how women are queens, forgetting that Jezebel was also a queen! Before you talk about how you want a good man, ask if you DESERVE a good man. Esther, would you even know what to do or how to interact with a good man? You were damaged before Siena met you; that's why he was drawn to you. He recognized his soulmate. Soulmate isn't just about Hollywood and happily ever after. Those who have encountered and tried to love you learn with time that you're just a violent, mean-spirited, envious, abusive person who is angry at life and has no morals, empathy or self-esteem. You cover your issues up well with church. But if a sane, good man had ended up with you, you'd have killed him after breaking him. I don't know if you're naturally like that or it's your idea of defending yourself cos of the abuse YOU SAY you suffered when you were a child. I make it a point to say "you say" cos the narrative of the evil stepmother and weak father always makes people pity you. But your character is so bad and you're such a good actress, that nobody knows when you're lying. So after all you claim you went through in Nigeria, you gave a man your ALL while refusing to develop yourself and you want applause? Even some call girls don't do what you did. Is there noodles where your brain should be? In the UK where you had all the opportunities! Are you not a fool?

So, yes dear, you got what/who you truly deserve in Siena. The only people to pity in this are your children who don't deserve either of you as parents. Now on top of all your nonsense, you're also BITTER, saying you won't give anybody else opportunity to damage you. You'll look for an innocent man to punish, become a misandry champion and say it's feminism.

Esther Emeobume or whatever you call yourself, go and repent! Getting your papers isn't the end of it. UK government is not God. Papers get revoked everyday, you just don't hear of it. You think your problems are over, but you're mistaken. The so-called friends you think you have, or attending church cannot save you cos you're a bad person. You cannot make other people cry, yet think smiling is for you. This relief you think you have, is temporary. And the next wave that will hit you will wipe you out and make people know that God cannot be mocked. When you do bad to people and they keep you quiet, it's not cos they're weak or stupid. Some don't answer you cos they know where to carry your matter. The more time that passes, the worse your losses will be. Esther, look for the people you grievously offended (especially those that didn't talk back), KNEEL DOWN, apologise and make restitution. If not, you'll return to Nigeria with nothing but the clothes on your back.

Coolesther:
Let me tell you he not only did quarter he did the whole lot, a man who wanted kids so he could be collecting their benefits. He took their money right from when they were babies up until some months ago, my first daughter would be 9 in July so please do the calculations, up till now he is still being chased for Child Maintenance. He left his job all because he didn’t want to pay for his children and ran from England to Scotland, well he is still in the UK and I know the law of the land will definitely catch him soon. As for saying I contributed, to him being who he is that’s a big FAT lie, if you want to talk about a loyal, hardworking, respectful woman you don’t have to look by further. Like I mentioned earlier on my only offence was to LOVE him just was it was supposed to be.

You are saying I contributed up him sleeping with a friend in our house who came on vacation, what about him having an online affair with other nairalander, who he sent to insult and humiliate me both online and offline, or you want to talk about his girlfriend buying my children’s Christmas gifts, pls don’t let me start.

Or I contributed to the fact that he refused paying rent for months and we were kicked out of our home, we had to go stay in a hotel before he abandoned me and my children to go to Uganda to go meet another woman.

So, you knew a man was having children to collect benefits but you kept contributing your body to help him? He was taking their money from when they were babies, what were you doing ma? Enabling him! Mother of the year, I hail. Other mothers fight for their children's rights but your own is different. You don't even love your children, so who can you love? He used them for benefits, you used them to look married! Evil woman. You see why I said your children don't deserve either of you as parents?

Coolesther:
I wish there was gold to dig, but that man ain’t got NOTHING. Go ask

If you're telling the truth about being beaten, it's probably talking like this (to someone who is much bigger than you) that got you slapped and beaten silly. Silly girl.

here comes the oko iyawo that just registered today

So what’s your stake in this story?

TuthDoesntHide:
She had no choice and was thinking of the pitiful lies to tell.

Siena take am easy now....... it is either both of you makeup and come back together again cause ....


Why una still dey drag if una no still like una selfs?

Kai just beg the chic and dat it.

No make anoda Nigger they leak ur grease o

ladycomfort:
here comes the oko iyawo that just registered today

I don't know what oko means but I know iyawo means wife. If you're insinuating that I'm married to Siena, sorry to disappoint you. Someone doesn't have to be married to the man to state that the woman is lying. Then, seriously even if I was interested (which I'm not), a man that has touched Esther? Please, don't make me laugh.

There's nobody who encounters Esther who doesn't eventually see her for what she is, and pray for God to punish her thoroughly. Cos the kind of punishment Esther deserves is not the kind that is delivered by human hands! Ask her to confess the messes she created in Nigeria and the places she went before she got married, thinking she's gotten away with her evil - so that she can be free and her deliverance can start for real. Lying against people (including church members) who discovered she's not clean, so that she can discredit them before they talk has been her lifestyle right from Nigeria. If she's the good person she wants to portray here, not even one of her people or in-laws took her in or called Siena to order? But you're believing the stupid witch whose plans backfired.

Esther, I know you will read this. Know I am praying for you that Siena will ask you to take him back and you must do so. You must stay married to the father of your children oh!

TuthDoesntHide:
I don't know what oko means but I know iyawo means wife. If you're insinuating that I'm married to Siena, sorry to disappoint you. Someone doesn't have to be married to the man to state that the woman is lying. Then, seriously even if I was interested (which I'm not), a man that has touched Esther? Please, don't make me laugh.

There's nobody who encounters Esther who doesn't eventually see her for what she is, and pray for God to punish her thoroughly. Cos the kind of punishment Esther deserves is not the kind that is delivered by human hands! Ask her to confess the messes she created in Nigeria and the places she went before she got married, thinking she's gotten away with her evil - so that she can be free and her deliverance can start for real. Lying against people (including church members) who discovered she's not clean, so that she can discredit them before they talk has been her lifestyle right from Nigeria. If she's the good person she wants to portray here, not even one of her people or in-laws took her in or called Siena to order? But you're believing the stupid witch whose plans backfired.

Esther, I know you will read this. Know I am praying for you that Siena will ask you to take him back and you must do so. You must stay married to the father of your children oh!

I get what you saying madam but what are trying to achieve here......??

When the man tells his own side now una go shock... the way these women can lie sha. I can never believe a one sided story. No man willingly abandons kids he once cared for. I stand to be corrected. If he did in the I'm the past .. what changed him?

zeb04:
I am happy you are okay. I follow you on Instagram and I see you having fun. Pls keep it up

It will be better if you do not reply anyone on here. nobody really cares and they are just after Gossip.

Goodluck.

pls can u give me her Instagram or you tube handle? Thanks

Coolesther:
Hi everyone, hope you guys are doing great? It’s been a year since the unfortunate breakdown of my marriage (to be honest it was broken down way before that) not going to take too much of your time, I just read what ‘Freshvine’ said on the other thread opened by my close friend/sister. I think I know who ‘Freshvine’ is was just wondering if she lived with us when all that happened cow they way she was narrating how ‘I ran away with my kids - my own kids’. I just need for him/her to answer some questions for me since she feels or thinks she knew what happened.

I am doing great, my kids are doing great I, in a much better place. For those who said my marriage wasn’t legal ‘ I got proof to show it was legal- we got married at Church of England and there is a marriage certificate in regards to that. Don’t know why anyone would think I left Nigeria to come to the UK to be with a man and not get married legally ��‍♀️

So let’s just say I have moved on with my life, and for those asking or who said I stopped him from seeing his children, if you communicate with him, pls ask him when was the last time he saw his kids or wait when was the last time he paid child maintenance for his kids.

I didn’t bring my life after marriage on NL, he did, I never wanted that reality thingy, told him I wasn’t interested, he wouldn’t listen, everything that was written on that reality tv was done by him. I was busy taking care of my kids.

I got married to him because I LOVED him then, I gave him my ALL didn’t withhold anything back, cos that is what you do when you are in love.

Some people said oh she should have left him when it started and as you were all aware I didn’t have my papers then (Thank God my story has changed) God is so good, what he thought he meant for evil, God turned it to be GOOD. Anytime I brought the issue of him renewing my papers, I get screamed at and shouted upon, I get threats all the time, I knelt down, begged and cried for him to do it he blatantly told me he would NEVER

GOD is good, He did it when I least expected it, I didn’t pay a dime. Just to show you when God decides to favour you, He doesn’t need any man’s permission to do so.

Thanks for all those who could see thru his lies.

Anyway, I am FREE, I am HAPPY

I had left nairaland only to return and read the sad story of what Siena did to you .I wondered what became of you and wished I knew how to reach you.
Glad to know you are well.
God bless

TuthDoesntHide:
Lol! Liar. Esther, you KNEW exactly what Siena was like but you married him because you're exactly the same. Can you swear you didn't know Siena was violent? Has Siena not bragged openly about terrible things he has done? He deliberately smashed someone's leg in a car door; you heard that but you didn't run! Instead, you allowed him father your kids cos you're greedy and wicked. Ahhhhh, you thought he can do bad to others but not to you; what are you, God? No good woman can be with a man who's polite to her but rude to a waiter. You gauge a man's character from how he treats others, not just you!

This bad marriage was the beginning of your karma for the evil you do/did behind closed doors. You lie against others and think it can be well with you. God isn't asleep after all; it's just that He's patient. Your juju expired or did you forget to top up? SMH. Some of you desperately evil women do all sorts to travel out to marry while claiming to serve God; they do work for you but don't tell you the other side. Don't sit in one place, oh. Keep jumping from pillar to post, mixing and matching, thinking you're mocking God. See now? Has God not shown you He's more crafty than you? I'm sure when your marriage seemed to be working, you thought you had gotten away with evil and were concentrating on peppering your so-called haters. Not knowing God was giving you opportunity to repent.

People like to say how women are queens, forgetting that Jezebel was also a queen! Before you talk about how you want a good man, ask if you DESERVE a good man. Esther, would you even know what to do or how to interact with a good man? You were damaged before Siena met you; that's why he was drawn to you. He recognized his soulmate. Soulmate isn't just about Hollywood and happily ever after. Those who have encountered and tried to love you learn with time that you're just a violent, mean-spirited, envious, abusive person who is angry at life and has no morals, empathy or self-esteem. You cover your issues up well with church. But if a sane, good man had ended up with you, you'd have killed him after breaking him. I don't know if you're naturally like that or it's your idea of defending yourself cos of the abuse YOU SAY you suffered when you were a child. I make it a point to say "you say" cos the narrative of the evil stepmother and weak father always makes people pity you. But your character is so bad and you're such a good actress, that nobody knows when you're lying. So after all you claim you went through in Nigeria, you gave a man your ALL while refusing to develop yourself and you want applause? Even some call girls don't do what you did. Is there noodles where your brain should be? In the UK where you had all the opportunities! Are you not a fool?

So, yes dear, you got what/who you truly deserve in Siena. The only people to pity in this are your children who don't deserve either of you as parents. Now on top of all your nonsense, you're also BITTER, saying you won't give anybody else opportunity to damage you. You'll look for an innocent man to punish, become a misandry champion and say it's feminism.

Esther Emeobume or whatever you call yourself, go and repent! Getting your papers isn't the end of it. UK government is not God. Papers get revoked everyday, you just don't hear of it. You think your problems are over, but you're mistaken. The so-called friends you think you have, or attending church cannot save you cos you're a bad person. You cannot make other people cry, yet think smiling is for you. This relief you think you have, is temporary. And the next wave that will hit you will wipe you out and make people know that God cannot be mocked. When you do bad to people and they keep you quiet, it's not cos they're weak or stupid. Some don't answer you cos they know where to carry your matter. The more time that passes, the worse your losses will be. Esther, look for the people you grievously offended (especially those that didn't talk back), KNEEL DOWN, apologise and make restitution. If not, you'll return to Nigeria with nothing but the clothes on your back.

Who is this piece of trash?

I tire oh

cococandy:
So what’s your stake in this story?

nwanneni:
I wonder where you got all that crap from.maybe that is something you would do,I wouldn't!
You just don't come and start nagging me,insulting me,making me feel less human and so forth in the name of "independent woman"....I won't take that!that is what I meant.
And Yeah,it happens all the time,that is why brothers don't bring women over here no more!
You ain't smarter than all of the guy d here na even doctors here and well to do guys no longer import women from home in the name of marriage,check the stats!

import women? That's very funny.

This girl came to update us?

TuthDoesntHide:
I don't know what oko means but I know iyawo means wife. If you're insinuating that I'm married to Siena, sorry to disappoint you. Someone doesn't have to be married to the man to state that the woman is lying. Then, seriously even if I was interested (which I'm not), a man that has touched Esther? Please, don't make me laugh.

There's nobody who encounters Esther who doesn't eventually see her for what she is, and pray for God to punish her thoroughly. Cos the kind of punishment Esther deserves is not the kind that is delivered by human hands! Ask her to confess the messes she created in Nigeria and the places she went before she got married, thinking she's gotten away with her evil - so that she can be free and her deliverance can start for real. Lying against people (including church members) who discovered she's not clean, so that she can discredit them before they talk has been her lifestyle right from Nigeria. If she's the good person she wants to portray here, not even one of her people or in-laws took her in or called Siena to order? But you're believing the stupid witch whose plans backfired.

Esther, I know you will read this. Know I am praying for you that Siena will ask you to take him back and you must do so. You must stay married to the father of your children oh!

I will be back for this soap... damn that thing called 'havin a life'

So how far... Have you guys reconciled

ladycomfort:
So how far... Have you guys reconciled

Nope and we will never will, no going back there. Thanks

babeosisi:
Who is this piece of trash?

I wonder oh, I think it is Wunmi embittered ex-girlfriend

TuthDoesntHide:
Lol! Liar. Esther, you KNEW exactly what Siena was like but you married him because you're exactly the same. Can you swear you didn't know Siena was violent? Has Siena not bragged openly about terrible things he has done? He deliberately smashed someone's leg in a car door; you heard that but you didn't run! Instead, you allowed him father your kids cos you're greedy and wicked. Ahhhhh, you thought he can do bad to others but not to you; what are you, God? No good woman can be with a man who's polite to her but rude to a waiter. You gauge a man's character from how he treats others, not just you!

This bad marriage was the beginning of your karma for the evil you do/did behind closed doors. You lie against others and think it can be well with you. God isn't asleep after all; it's just that He's patient. Your juju expired or did you forget to top up? SMH. Some of you desperately evil women do all sorts to travel out to marry while claiming to serve God; they do work for you but don't tell you the other side. Don't sit in one place, oh. Keep jumping from pillar to post, mixing and matching, thinking you're mocking God. See now? Has God not shown you He's more crafty than you? I'm sure when your marriage seemed to be working, you thought you had gotten away with evil and were concentrating on peppering your so-called haters. Not knowing God was giving you opportunity to repent.

People like to say how women are queens, forgetting that Jezebel was also a queen! Before you talk about how you want a good man, ask if you DESERVE a good man. Esther, would you even know what to do or how to interact with a good man? You were damaged before Siena met you; that's why he was drawn to you. He recognized his soulmate. Soulmate isn't just about Hollywood and happily ever after. Those who have encountered and tried to love you learn with time that you're just a violent, mean-spirited, envious, abusive person who is angry at life and has no morals, empathy or self-esteem. You cover your issues up well with church. But if a sane, good man had ended up with you, you'd have killed him after breaking him. I don't know if you're naturally like that or it's your idea of defending yourself cos of the abuse YOU SAY you suffered when you were a child. I make it a point to say "you say" cos the narrative of the evil stepmother and weak father always makes people pity you. But your character is so bad and you're such a good actress, that nobody knows when you're lying. So after all you claim you went through in Nigeria, you gave a man your ALL while refusing to develop yourself and you want applause? Even some call girls don't do what you did. Is there noodles where your brain should be? In the UK where you had all the opportunities! Are you not a fool?

So, yes dear, you got what/who you truly deserve in Siena. The only people to pity in this are your children who don't deserve either of you as parents. Now on top of all your nonsense, you're also BITTER, saying you won't give anybody else opportunity to damage you. You'll look for an innocent man to punish, become a misandry champion and say it's feminism.

Esther Emeobume or whatever you call yourself, go and repent! Getting your papers isn't the end of it. UK government is not God. Papers get revoked everyday, you just don't hear of it. You think your problems are over, but you're mistaken. The so-called friends you think you have, or attending church cannot save you cos you're a bad person. You cannot make other people cry, yet think smiling is for you. This relief you think you have, is temporary. And the next wave that will hit you will wipe you out and make people know that God cannot be mocked. When you do bad to people and they keep you quiet, it's not cos they're weak or stupid. Some don't answer you cos they know where to carry your matter. The more time that passes, the worse your losses will be. Esther, look for the people you grievously offended (especially those that didn't talk back), KNEEL DOWN, apologise and make restitution. If not, you'll return to Nigeria with nothing but the clothes on your back.

Please mention those people in Nigeria I wronged, anyway it’s been a long time now, I am sure you were very PAINED when he didn’t marry you, you should be grateful instead you are still bitter.
I pray God touches your heart so you can learn to love yourself. God bless you