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GeneralPula:
Lol haha & women nko?

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can I be elected to any political position (president and governor) without been married?

Nbote:
Stop weeping and do something now U are in a position to do something about it in ur own little way..

There is little or nothing she can do, one of the solution's is for every girl child to be educated to university level

Most of the women passing through what she is trying to explain are illiterates, when you acquire western education, you will know your left from your right

You will know when to say yes or know

Then people will not treat you like an option

How many gallons of weeping have you wepth madam......

Profkenny1:
You saw the plights of underprivileged women, what of plights of underprivileged men?? Men are far more oppressed by the society than women. Men have no one to cry to when oppressed hence the rate of suicide in men is four times that of women.

The specie called man has also being faced with challenges that helped him in helping the woman to survive on this cold planet.

Caring about empowering women while forgetting about men is detrimental to the development of the society.

Caring about the girl child while ignoring the boy child will lead to a dysfunctional society.

Oppressed by who?
That is the most important question.

Who do women cry to? a god?

Stillthebest:



Women are always known selfish ones both in the home fronts and public spaces.

When a man is married he takes up the responsibilities of both himself, the kids, running of a home and that of the woman totally. Even during weddings, a man must take care of certain things relating to the woman personally apart from the bills that would come from her family.

A man have se.x with a woman, cu.m in her, be on top to do the jerking, still gives her money to take care of herself... Who really needs Milk and maltina here...eeh eeh?

People talk about how women are the real deals In children's lives. But quick to forget sacrifices men take too.. A man can come home last night with the last 5k, and a child comes to him in the morning for school bills of #4500. A father gives the Child the money.. meanwhile,he had planned to fuel his car with 2k prior... Can he now?

At home, a woman will prefer to come back and ask for her #1000 she added to the groceries money because what u gave her isnt enough. Imagine! Won't she or her kids eat from it? This n more.


This has transcended. A man impregnates a woman, takes care of the resultant kids from day one to securing Jobs for them after versities, what next... "A ti gbe baba rele"(the man died) leaving the woman to reap the fruit of his labours

In a public office, a man takes up the responsibilities of both men and women, old and young. But their wives create special programs for women empowerment and girl child alone. Starting NGOs relating to women alone, supporting only woman... So men should leave the Earth for them Abi?


Society hasn't been fair to men and boys. Women are to be pampered, but they are already misusing the opportunities. Sometimes, I want to attribute their issues to lack of self esteem. Let them too think out of the box and have all encompass programs once they have the forum to do so.. being a first lady doesn't mean the wife of a governor should be liable to women alone. Or aren't their husbands not first man too?

Deep

So you don't know men are the most oppressed, most stereotyped and underapreciated specie on earth?

Women are oppressed by whom?

Xisnin:
Oppressed by who?
That is the most important question.

Who do women cry to? a god?

What about the boy child and what's so important about the girl child that we will no longer hear word?
The way women Focus on only the female gender if men do /did the same do you have any idea how your lives would look like today? Selfish gender.

frozen70:
There is little or nothing she can do, one of the solution's is for every girl child to be educated to university level

Most of the women passing through what she is trying to explain are illiterates, when you acquire western education, you will know your left from your right

You will know when to say yes or know

Then people will not treat you like an option

lilbest4:
What about the boy child and what's so important about the girl child that we will no longer hear word?
The way women Focus on only the female gender if men do /did the same do you have any idea how your lives would look like today? Selfish gender.

Just as selfish as you and your thinking

that's why i hated oby for dropping her ambition, I'm sure she was intimidated by the men but she should've carried on to the end...

lilbest4:
So you don't know men are the most oppressed, most stereotyped and underapreciated specie on earth?

Women are oppressed by whom?

Why don't you answer my question first?
Why the deflection?

Perhaps the answer is too uncomfortable for you.

Xisnin:
Why don't you answer my question first?
Why the deflection?

Perhaps the answer is too uncomfortable for you.

which answer is uncomfortable?
You are sounding like a girl.
The society as a whole oppress men if 10 girls and 3 boys are in bus traveling and police stop the bus what will happen to the boys and girls?
If men and women are in the same room and something goes missing who will be the prime suspect?
If a woman shout and accuse a man of something who will be automatically believed? Who slap the opposite gender in public and gets cheered on?
Mention one way women are stereotyped and oppressed in the society.
A man, right from birth knows that nobody gives a fúck about him so he hustle and society brainwash him to spend the money on women but the minute a woman is able to do a little thing herself she becomes a feminist and start talking down men and accusing them of oppression.
The way these fools shout girl child nonsense you'd think that schools don't admit girls whereas most universities have far more girls than boys.
The fool, Hillary Clinton based all her presidential campaign and manifesto on girl child and women right forgetting that USA is made up of both males and females. Imagine if Donald Trump as a man now decide to gear all his policies towards only the progress of men. All female politicians only talk about the female gender, now imagine if all male politicians focused on men.
Women are too selfish, they don't deserve any form of political power. The West started regressing the moment women entered their politics

Nbote:
Stop weeping and do something now U are in a position to do something about it in ur own little way..

let her weep all she wants, I am an advocate for women right but I hate it when they make women look like handicaps, women are not weak, they don't have physical strength but they have strong minds. orientate a girl as you would a boy and watch her blossom. we have brainwashed the female generation to think they are less than men, that they can't hustle like men. you don't see people crying for men right and all that but men struggle and break grounds but the woman wants someone to fight for her and present her with opportunities, not until women understand that they can also fight for opportunities and active it without much propagander, men will continue to treat them like underlings

lilbest4:
which answer is uncomfortable?
You are sounding like a girl.
The society as a whole oppress men if 10 girls and 3 boys are in bus traveling and police stop the bus what will happen to the boys and girls?

I don't deal with emotional stunts. stick to the topic.
I don't know what will happen.
It depends on what the police are looking for. Guns or cultists? the men
will be targeted but if they are looking for prostitutes, only the women are targeted.
I am sure you already know why.

It is the same thing that happens to black suspects in the US.
But in their case, their oppressors are mostly whites and they can point fingers.
However

You see nothing is really black and white as you think it is.

If men and women are in the same room and something goes missing who will be the prime suspect?

I don't know really. For a neutral object, it is the men because it is common
sense to suspect risk takers in such situation.
But if it is a gendered item. The right gender will be targeted first
before others.

You see if I go to a farm and found all the crops destroyed, I won't suspect cheese hawkers, it is herdsmen
with cows that will be my primary suspect.

Do I really need to explain how this work?
Don't you do something similar every day?

If a woman shout and accuse a man of something who will be automatically believed?

Stop using generic examples.
In Nigeria, the accuser is mostly believed by the mob.
If someone shouts "thief" in the market, you will be lynched regardless
of the accuser's gender. That is how it works.
Perhaps, you have a specific example in mind?

Who slap the opposite gender in public and gets cheered on?

So many missing information.
Who cheers such a person?
What is their relationship?

You may protest that is how things are. Humans operate based on hierarchy even if
we pretend not to. It is this hierarchy that determines primal reaction to conflict judgment.
If a senator slaps a fellow, very few will care but the case will be different if a laborer was
abused.

Mention one way women are stereotyped and oppressed in the society.

This is getting ridiculous. Asking this question is itself a big problem because it shows you cannot see what
it is in front of you.
You don't know about the
slut/olosho tag
weak
Too emotional
irrational
dumb
and so on.

A man, right from birth knows that nobody gives a fúck about him so he hustle and society brainwash him to spend the money on women but the minute a woman is able to do a little thing herself she becomes a feminist and start talking down men and accusing them of oppression.

I don't know if you are raised in a family or on the street but I know from birth that
several people care about me but society doesn't owe me anything aside normal social
behaviors from others.
Your problem may be that you cherish people's approval too much and have become
slave to it in the process.
Nobody is brainwashed to spend on women. They willingly do it to get what they want.
When it happens, it is pure capitalism.
If I may ask, how were you brainwashed to spend on women and who did the brainwashing?

The way these fools shout girl child nonsense you'd think that schools don't admit girls whereas most universities have far more girls than boys.
The fool Hillary Clinton, based all her presidential campaign and manifesto on girl child and women right forgetting that USA is made up of both males and females. Imagine if Donald Trump as a man now decide to gear all his policies towards only the progress of men. All female politicians only talk about the female gender, now imagine if all male politicians focused on men.
Women are too selfish, they don't deserve any form of political power. The West started regressing the moment women entered their politics

This is enough
So many lies and distortion in one post.
The man who claimed men are more oppressed is also angry that women are
entering politics. What an irony!

Let us assume you normally pick people along the way to work to help them.
Now picture yourself driving along a narrow path at night in the rain and you spot 4 people waving
you down.
Who are you more likely to stop and pick 4 men or 4 women?
How about your friends, who are they more likely to wait for?
Do you think they are stupid for weighing their risks?

For me, I see nothing wrong with most stereotypes and I won't cry about them because it is what it is.

True oppression involves unreasonable deprivation from what others get from similar scenario
or forcing someone to do what they don't want.
He didn't allow me to play with his bike is not oppression, it is an individual choice.
Any stereotype that doesn't limit finance, freedom or power should be trivial matter
in this part of the world.

In some parts of Igbo land, women cannot inherit their father's land.
That is oppression.
Would you want a female king in your village?
We already know the answer.

Not. Hey SARS raided our house took all the men and left the women.
Or some religious police arresting only women in some Kano streets for prostitution.
Claiming geder-based oppression in such scenarios is foolishness.
Of course, the problem needs to be solved but it won't happen through misplaced gender war
but the sweeping ban of such actions.


I understand why you hold these erroneous beliefs. Most people who live in the shadows
usually think their ideas are a reality because they have never been challenged but when
they go outside their comfort zones, they are usually shocked.

olu77:
Marginalized to za other room. Weep no more. I believe that women have power and men only have authority. It's fair enough.

funny enough, a wise woman will use her power to manipulate the authority of a man

Xisnin:
I don't deal with emotional stunts. stick to the topic.
I don't know what will happen.
It depends on what the police are looking for. Guns or cultists? the men
will be targeted but if they are looking for prostitutes, only the women are targeted.
I am sure you already know why.

It is the same thing that happens to black suspects in the US.
But in their case, their oppressors are mostly whites and they can point fingers.
However

You see nothing is really black and white as you think it is.


I don't know really. For a neutral object, it is the men because it is common
sense to suspect risk takers in such situation.
But if it is a gendered item. The right gender will be targeted first
before others.

You see if I go to a farm and found all the crops destroyed, I won't suspect cheese hawkers, it is herdsmen
with cows that will be my primary suspect.

Do I really need to explain how this work?
Don't you do something similar every day?


Stop using generic examples.
In Nigeria, the accuser is mostly believed by the mob.
If someone shouts "thief" in the market, you will be lynched regardless
of the accuser's gender. That is how it works.
Perhaps, you have a specific example in mind?


So many missing information.
Who cheers such a person?
What is their relationship?

You may protest that is how things are. Humans operate based on hierarchy even if
we pretend not to. It is this hierarchy that determines primal reaction to conflict judgment.
If a senator slaps a fellow, very few will care but the case will be different if a laborer was
abused.


This is getting ridiculous. Asking this question is itself a big problem because it shows you cannot see what
it is in front of you.
You don't know about the
slut/olosho tag
weak
Too emotional
irrational
dumb
and so on.


I don't know if you are raised in a family or on the street but I know from birth that
several people care about me but society doesn't owe me anything aside normal social
behaviors from others.
Your problem may be that you cherish people's approval too much and have become
slave to it in the process.
Nobody is brainwashed to spend on women. They willingly do it to get what they want.
When it happens, it is pure capitalism.
If I may ask, how were you brainwashed to spend on women and who did the brainwashing?



This is enough
So many lies and distortion in one post.
The man who claimed men are more oppressed is also angry that women are
entering politics. What an irony!

Let us assume you normally pick people along the way to work to help them.
Now picture yourself driving along a narrow path at night in the rain and you spot 4 people waving
you down.
Who are you more likely to stop and pick 4 men or 4 women?
How about your friends, who are they more likely to wait for?
Do you think they are stupid for weighing their risks?

For me, I see nothing wrong with most stereotypes and I won't cry about them because it is what it is.

True oppression involves unreasonable deprivation from what others get from similar scenario
or forcing someone to do what they don't want.
He didn't allow me to play with his bike is not oppression, it is an individual choice.
Any stereotype that doesn't limit finance, freedom or power should be trivial matter
in this part of the world.

In some parts of Igbo land, women cannot inherit their father's land.
That is oppression.
Would you want a female king in your village?
We already know the answer.

Not. Hey SARS raided our house took all the men and left the women.
Or some religious police arresting only women in some Kano streets for prostitution.
Claiming geder-based oppression in such scenarios is foolishness.
Of course, the problem needs to be solved but it won't happen through misplaced gender war
but the sweeping ban of such actions.


I understand why you hold these erroneous beliefs. Most people who live in the shadows
usually think their ideas are a reality because they have never been challenged but when
they go outside their comfort zones, they are usually shocked.

this is why I love nairaland, you have explained it all, if he doesn't get it after this post, just forget the guy

chachanga:
Who voted in the current women in power, foreigners or Nigerians?

Is it not the same Nigerian women who'd usually vote in men and guys over fellow women except where stipulations are sacrosanct and specifications explicit?

Women should cease being their sisters' killers while blaming men for every little one of their phuck-ups pls.

thumbs up

Profkenny1:
You saw the plights of underprivileged women, what of plights of underprivileged men?? Men are far more oppressed by the society than women. Men have no one to cry to when oppressed hence the rate of suicide in men is four times that of women.

The specie called man has also being faced with challenges that helped him in helping the woman to survive on this cold planet.

Caring about empowering women while forgetting about men is detrimental to the development of the society.

Caring about the girl child while ignoring the boy child will lead to a dysfunctional society.

this is a woman calling for empowerment of female child, let the men in power call for empowerment of the male child na, who is stopping them? women are forming different NGOs for the female child, you are a man oya start your own

traihit:
You wrote as if you read it from my mind! I'm tired of people shouting girl-child, marginalization and those similar terms. What about thousands of homeless uneducated boys on the road who have no one to care for them, no activist to invent a mantra to help them, no foundation to secure their future. Yet, the number of thugs and kidnappers are increasing.
I'm an advocate of education for both genders but when we weigh the consequences of illiteracy for the two genders, it's more terrible for the boys than the girls because a lot of social nuisance and political thuggery today is caused by these illiterate folks. So let them tell us something else. We've already seen what women can do in power.

why not start one for the boys, women are doing it for the girl child, men should wake up also.

omoadeleye:
No be your fault na, when you are also holding first lady office which is illegal you can also talk... Mumu womna

if you don't agree with her speech, criticize without sentiments and insults. you are just angry and envious of her position

Ryan03:
why not start one for the boys, women are doing it for the girl child, men should wake up also.

You're very correct. What I have in mind is far greater than my reach now. I like this challenge, so I'm going to work on it. Thanks.

Stillthebest:



Women are always known selfish ones both in the home fronts and public spaces.

When a man is married he takes up the responsibilities of both himself, the kids, running of a home and that of the woman totally. Even during weddings, a man must take care of certain things relating to the woman personally apart from the bills that would come from her family.

A man have se.x with a woman, cu.m in her, be on top to do the jerking, still gives her money to take care of herself... Who really needs Milk and maltina here...eeh eeh?

People talk about how women are the real deals In children's lives. But quick to forget sacrifices men take too.. A man can come home last night with the last 5k, and a child comes to him in the morning for school bills of #4500. A father gives the Child the money.. meanwhile,he had planned to fuel his car with 2k prior... Can he now?

At home, a woman will prefer to come back and ask for her #1000 she added to the groceries money because what u gave her isnt enough. Imagine! Won't she or her kids eat from it? This n more.


This has transcended. A man impregnates a woman, takes care of the resultant kids from day one to securing Jobs for them after versities, what next... "A ti gbe baba rele"(the man died) leaving the woman to reap the fruit of his labours

In a public office, a man takes up the responsibilities of both men and women, old and young. But their wives create special programs for women empowerment and girl child alone. Starting NGOs relating to women alone, supporting only woman... So men should leave the Earth for them Abi?


Society hasn't been fair to men and boys. Women are to be pampered, but they are already misusing the opportunities. Sometimes, I want to attribute their issues to lack of self esteem. Let them too think out of the box and have all encompass programs once they have the forum to do so.. being a first lady doesn't mean the wife of a governor should be liable to women alone. Or aren't their husbands not first man too?

i am also tired of the girl child thing but you have turned this to a gender war, we still have some funny things here in Nigeria that is a no no especially when it comes to women. I believe both gender is to be treated equally in all things, given same opportunities, no pampering of any body. the way a woman is treated when her husband dies is different from that of a man, in some issues especially in the northern part of our country, a man is seen to be superior to a woman, the women are raised that way and behave that way. not until children are brought up with the right mentality, these stereotypes will continue.

traihit:
You're very correct. What I have in mind is far greater than my reach now. I like this challenge, so I'm going to work on it. Thanks.

my brother, the way women are pushing for right of the female child have increased the productivity of the girls in our society (only the sensible ones sha) I believe if same effort is put in for the male child too, our society will be close to perfection. just come to Benin and see for your self, most of the boys (10-20years) are bus conductors and their dream is to own their bus and become drivers one day. they steal from passengers, join cult groups, carry out robbery at night etc. it's a shame, I just wish I can also do something

Ryan03:
i am also tired of the girl child thing but you have turned this to a gender war, we still have some funny things here in Nigeria that is a no no especially when it comes to women. I believe both gender is to be treated equally in all things, given same opportunities, no pampering of any body. the way a woman is treated when her husband dies is different from that of a man, in some issues especially in the northern part of our country, a man is seen to be superior to a woman, the women are raised that way and behave that way. not until children are brought up with the right mentality, these stereotypes will continue.

Never a war. I don't hide what I feel. This is exactly how it appears to me. I only ask for women not to Harbour "complex" but to see any opportunity they have as leaders as a vehicle to help both men and women, boys and girls. Not just for girls n women as regards the content of the discourse..

As per the death, never talking about how any gender is being treated. I only cited how nature has favoured women already!

Stillthebest:
Never a war. I don't hide what I feel. This is exactly how it appears to me. I only ask for women not to Harbour "complex" but to see any opportunity they have as leaders as a vehicle to help both men and women, boys and girls. Not just for girls n women as regards the content of the discourse..

As per the death, never talking about how any gender is being treated. I only cited how nature has favoured women already!

no my dear, nature have never favoured women only except you are not exposed. go ahead and read what lead to the rise of feminism, it was our fathers that pushed women into this. now they are over doing it and we are crying, we just have to tame them and try make things right.

Ryan03:
no my dear, nature have never favoured women only except you are not exposed. go ahead and read what lead to the rise of feminism, it was our fathers that pushed women into this. now they are over doing it and we are crying, we just have to tame them and try make things right.

How did our father pushed them to it?? Mind you feminism started In the western world not in Africa. And the most empowered women championed it thinking what men can do, they too can. Meanwhile nature has placed them to be fend for not otherwise. And what men use to fend for them is what they crave for.

Ryan03:
if you don't agree with her speech, criticize without sentiments and insults. you are just angry and envious of her position

Wtf? Envious of first lady position?

Stillthebest:
How did our father pushed them to it?? Mind you feminism started In the western world not in Africa. And the most empowered women championed it thinking what men can do, they too can. Meanwhile nature has placed them to be fend for not otherwise. And what men use to fend for them is what they crave for.

its obvious you really don't know. plz go and read, books don't bite, google is your friend

Ryan03:
its[b] obvious you really don't know.[/b] plz go and read, books don't bite, google is your friend

Doubtful. But may be u also need to seek for more.

Dear Ma,

Do not weep for women there are far greater issues which affects the quality of life of both men and women in Lagos. This issues can be best resolved by your husband who is the chief security officer of the state.

(1) Apapa gridlock; the state of that road has become more worrisome to both the residents and the commuter of the road. Pls help us fast track the road project that his currently going along that axis while we implore you to cry on the shoulders of your husband to help mitigate the toll collection being perpetuated by security agency.

(2) Street urchin/Agbero/ NURTW Operative menace; Ma'am as a matter of fact I cannot differentiate between all this group all I know is that most of them are just plain nuisance to the society. They extort motorist at will and and even constitute nuisance while trying to collect their illegal toll without respect for other road users. Complete removal of these group of urchin will help reduce the cost of road transportation which will be helpful to most market women are at the receiving end.

(3) LSG contract Opacity: Ma pls hinge it upon your husband to open up the books of Lagos State as this will help reduce corruption. Corruption they say thrives under opacity and the Lagos State Government has being covering its book. A typical example is the lekki toll free gate and the ikoyi link bridge, as we speak most lagosians don't know how much is being generated and how it's being spend.

(4) Minimum Wage; Ma implore your husband to pay his workers the new minimum wage. A worker deserve it's pay.

Ma'am i will rest my case here, crying for women won't solve any issues but you can use your position to advise and impinge it upon your husband to take the welfare of the people into consideration has the last women who cried about state of the Lagos-ibadan express way ended up being a kleptomaniac.

Ryan03:
funny enough, a wise woman will use her power to manipulate the authority of a man

Very true...and still act like the victim