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what will you do if you found out that the woman you want to marry is an OSU and she is also pregnant for you?
this is the current situation I found myself in now. this lady is beautiful to the core and she love me to the extend that she is now thinking of committing suicide because my people don't marry OSU. this lady is a type of woman you will marry and you will never regret it. she is so loving, caring, she can share whatever she have just to make you happy. this lady is pregnant for me. you guys should advise me please.

Odiegwu . . . You are obviously not ready to marry her.

My broda go ahead and find out about her family history and health history.. So long as there's no family history of any medical conditions and medically both of U are a match , bros go marry her... I asked my uncles why marrying an Osu is wrong and d reasons dey gave me were laughable.. One said their marriages wouldn't work out, anoda said dey'll have issues bearing children and anoda mentioned stillbirth and untimely death... D funny thing is dat most of d ppl giving me these reasons all have children who have suffered d exact same fate despite marrying non osus

Fake story. Stop deceiving yourself. So caste system is outdated and I doubt there's any region that still practices this.

Nsiehi:
Fake story. Stop deceiving yourself. So caste system is outdated and I doubt there's any region that still practices this.

There's nothing fake about d story and most villages in d East still bring it up.. It is left for U to decide if U want to or not.. I personally find all d reasons and excuses dey give laughable and made up

I wonder the kind of religion some of you carry on your head. Every Sunday morning, you wake up, head towards the church for mass, listen to messages about sanctification, new birth, rebirth, etc., yet hang on to some deity beliefs.

For your own good, discard that deity and forge ahead with your life (but ensure you're a partaker and a believer of Christ). If you don't hold on to the new covenant, the past will ALWAYS come back to visit you, whether she's OSU or not. Your forefathers have terrible history so you need to disconnect yourself and your family. This is not about OSU, it's about the past (filthy history with rituals) you do not know.

Mr man, go ahead and marry your wife joor.
F!uck those extended family members that are never of any good worth or value.
It's all about your happiness and sanity first.

Oga from your story I don't believe you.

What State, LGA, Town and Village is the lady from?

The same with you too?

If you can't provide that then you're probably an Afonja trying to stir trouble.

Provided that the interest is mutually altruistic (from you and your woman), go ahead and marry her. If you value your inner peace, you need to start living life on the periphery of culture and/or conventionalism - of course, always strive doing so conscientiously. Besides, it (the osu of a thing) has been abolished by the constituted authorities.

One of my kinsmen was in a condition almost similar to yours (that was before the abolishment), he was even ostracized by majority after going ahead with the marriage rites without their consent. Today he's living in peace with his wife and the offspring.

Obataosu:
what will you do if you found out that the woman you want to marry is an OSU and she is also pregnant for you?
this is the current situation I found myself in now. this lady is beautiful to the core and she love me to the extend that she is now thinking of committing suicide because my people don't marry OSU. this lady is a type of woman you will marry and you will never regret it. she is so loving, caring, she can share whatever she have just to make you happy. this lady is pregnant for me. you guys should advise me please.

"THIS LADY IS A TYPE OF WOMAN YOU WILL MARRY AND YOU WILL NEVER REGRET IT"


Hehe i laff in ping pong....most nairaland married men said thé same shit up there



And guess what?

They still regreting

OSU bawo? I thought they have abolished this OSU thing in Igbo land? Oga, marry your madam with or without your people's approval. One would think you would have kept your kini to yourself knowing that your people might kick against marrying her eventually o. Anyways, now the deed a has been done, do right by her biko.

Obataosu:
what will you do if you found out that the woman you want to marry is an OSU and she is also pregnant for you?
this is the current situation I found myself in now. this lady is beautiful to the core and she love me to the extend that she is now thinking of committing suicide because my people don't marry OSU. this lady is a type of woman you will marry and you will never regret it. she is so loving, caring, she can share whatever she have just to make you happy. this lady is pregnant for me. you guys should advise me please.

Bros this is 21st century. Such myopic practices have been abolished.

Tell your immediate family. Go ahead and marry her after repentance and prayers.

You shouldn't have slept with her before marriage.

If you don't marry her, what will she do with the baby in her tummy Some people will just wake up and post thrash on Nairaland

Illiteracy is indeed a big problem.

UjuJoan2:
Odiegwu . . . You are obviously not ready to marry her.

I'm ready, I have taken drink to the family in Aba to inform them of my intention and they accepted and she have equally met my family too.

Nbote:
My broda go ahead and find out about her family history and health history.. So long as there's no family history of any medical conditions and medically both of U are a match , bros go marry her... I asked my uncles why marrying an Osu is wrong and d reasons dey gave me were laughable.. One said their marriages wouldn't work out, anoda said dey'll have issues bearing children and anoda mentioned stillbirth and untimely death... D funny thing is dat most of d ppl giving me these reasons all have children who have suffered d exact same fate despite marrying non osus

they don't have any family issues

Nsiehi:
Fake story. Stop deceiving yourself. So caste system is outdated and I doubt there's any region that still practices this.

sir/ma'am, I'm too responsible to fake this type of information. is still in practice in my village. I'm not begging you to believe me.

Acidosis:
I wonder the kind of religion some of you carry on your head. Every Sunday morning, you wake up, head towards the church for mass, listen to messages about sanctification, new birth, rebirth, etc., yet hang on to some deity beliefs.

For your own good, discard that deity and forge ahead with your life (but ensure you're a partaker and a believer of Christ). If you don't hold on to the new covenant, the past will ALWAYS come back to visit you, whether she's OSU or not. Your forefathers have terrible history so you need to disconnect yourself and your family. This is not about OSU, it's about the past (filthy history with rituals) you do not know.

thanks for the advice

[quote author=Oche211 post=81438204]Mr man, go ahead and marry your wife joor. F!uck those extended family members that are never of any good worth or value. It's all about your happiness and sanity first[/que] thanks for the advice

Fatherofdragons:
Oga from your story I don't believe you.

What State, LGA, Town and Village is the lady from?

The same with you too?

If you can't provide that then you're probably an Afonja trying to stir trouble.

sorry sir/ma'am I cannot review any information regarding to that to you, and you have your right to decide what to believe.

LordKO:
Provided that the interest is mutually altruistic from both sides (from you and your woman), go ahead and marry her. If you value your inner peace, you need to start living life on the periphery of culture and/or conventionalism - of course, always strive doing so conscientiously. Besides, it (the osu of a thing) has been abolished by the constituted authorities.

One of my kinsmen was in a condition almost similar to yours (that was before the abolishment), he was even ostracized by majority after going ahead with the marriage rites without their consent. Today he's living in peace with his wife and the offspring.

thanks for the advice

FlutterDollar99:
If you don't marry her, what will she do with the baby in her tummy Some people will just wake up and post thrash on Nairaland

is that what you think?

Obataosu:
sir/ma'am, I'm too responsible to fake this type of information. is still in practice in my village. I'm not begging you to believe me.

Tell us your village and I will school you on the traditional practices there. I repeat, Osu caste system is extinct and no longer practiced.

Its laughable, cos Igbos marry other tribes without asking or knowing if they are osu. So it's only your igbo brothers and sisters that can be osu? This division among igbos is very very bad. That's why they are disunited. Cos with this segregation, why will the so called osu people be happy with their fellow igbos with this stereotype.

Obataosu:
your comment is highly appreciated

Your reply shows 100% that you are not Igbo but looking for trouble where there is none.

You choose obataosu as your moniker because you felt it's connected to your fake thread because of the osu but as a non Igbo, you don't know what it means, you heard your Igbo friend using it and decided it's about osu people.

Stop derailing the thread if you're out of meaningful contribution. The OP is a member of this honorable platform since 2010 and you're here disturbing him with a moniker of less than 2 years old.

Fatherofdragons:
Your reply shows 100% that you are not Igbo but looking for trouble where there is none.

You choose obataosu as your moniker because you felt it's connected to your fake thread because of the osu but as a non Igbo, you don't know what it means, you heard your Igbo friend using it and decided it's about osu people.

madridguy:
Stop derailing the thread if you're out of meaningful contribution. The OP is a member of this honorable platform since 2010 and you're here disturbing him with a moniker of less than 2 years old.

I believe this thread doesn't concern you aboki but being an Igbo hater that you are, anything against Igbos draws you in like flies to sh.it

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meezynetwork:
Its laughable, cos Igbos marry other tribes without asking or knowing if they are osu. So it's only your igbo brothers and sisters that can be osu? This division among igbos is very very bad. That's why they are disunited. Cos with this segregation, why will the so called osu people be happy with their fellow igbos with this stereotype.

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meezynetwork:
Its laughable, cos Igbos marry other tribes without asking or knowing if they are osu. So it's only your igbo brothers and sisters that can be osu? This division among igbos is very very bad. That's why they are disunited. Cos with this segregation, why will the so called osu people be happy with their fellow igbos with this stereotype.

Afonja what's your business with Igbos?

You're talking about disunity, have you forgotten ife vs modokeke saga? Or

Yoruba Moslems vs Yoruba Christians or

Yoruba Moslems vs Yoruba traditionalists etc that we see on nairaland?

Dey there and be mumuing your self.

This is matter if heart and not politics so stop derailing.

Fatherofdragons:
I believe this thread doesn't concern you aboki but being an Igbo hater that you are, anything against Igbos draws you in like flies to sh.it