dfrost:


And nobody was close to her to pull her out of depression?

And you had the time to tell the story but never had time to spend with her and help her?

honestly. This twitter user is indirectly complicit here. Imagine the eloquence in her tweets, as if she awaited the demise of her aunty so she can give a public service announcement, whereas ignoring her to a tragic fate in reality. Social Media has turned us to monsters!

I'm saddened by the story, but more saddened by the insensitive breaking news on Twitter.
Like your folks (not even acquaintance or enemy) are just waiting for evil to befall you so they can tweet? C'mon!

Nigerian youths need to have sense

Seriously I feel for some ladies cos they are always at loss in any relationship. I have about four of them hovering around me with the hope of ending up with me as their husband and am confused cos I don't want to be responsible for any shabby ending of a lady.

Octobertwentysix:
[s]My sister is doing it, her husband is jobless, she is the bread winner, she brought him a van of about two million so that he can drive for transportation, last week my younger bro told me on phone that he refused to drive saying that the weather is too cold for him, she is pregnant for their second child now and still goes to work all he does is to stay at home, all my brothers stopped talking to her cos she called them home breakers, she is on her own now , we pray her eyes open, she is madly in love.[/s]

Lol. Abeg commot jare. Lies lies lies. If your conscience is not at rest because of what I said, it's okay and you don't have to build up lies to disprove me to calm your conscience or keep your game running. You know you are like that. Just don't shove lies in my face.

Kenturkey048:
Bro calm down ...av you ever been with a depressed person...??men it takes the grace of God.

I have bro and I helped the person pull out.

funmisticqueen:
If someone had taken her to a psychiatric hospital instead of praying for her, she wouldn't be dead now.

Thank you sis.

naturefellow:
honestly. This twitter lady (or kin) is complicit here. Imagine the eloquence in her tweets, as if she awaited the demise of the lady so she can do a public service announce, whereas ignoring her to a tragic fate in reality. Social Media has turned us to monsters!

I'm saddened by the story, but more saddened by the insensitive breaking news on Twitter.
Like your folks (not even friend or enemy) are just waiting for evil to befall you so they can tweet. C'mon!

Youths need to have sense

Don't mind the silly storyteller. Wickedness at the highest order. No family member that I know is depressed will commit suicide by God's grace.

[i][/i]that's too gross

Bruno3000:
This is for all the guys' hearts she messed with, and for ignoring that one guy that truly loved her.
HER ABODE IN THE AFTER LIFE IS HELL FIRE...

I don't have time to argue o.

akinblog:
My aunt just committed suicide all because of marriage without love.

She got married to this guy 4 years ago after dating him for as long i remember. He does nothing substantial, she pays the rent bought the car for him, funded the wedding and gives him money.

https://all-gists..com/2019/08/lady-commits-suicide-because-of-her-loveless-marriage.html

That's too gross... Doesn't really make sense

Itz a lie

kingkakaone:

As intelligent as you are you didn't read the post?
Babe you fall my hand o, I look at you differently in this forum.

How? Wasn't the man's action responsible for her committing suicide?

Bruno3000:
This is for all the guys' hearts she messed with, and for ignoring that one guy that truly loved her.
HER ABODE IN THE AFTER LIFE IS HELL FIRE...

I don't have time to argue o.

Even though your comment makes some sense. You are still a muderfucker for not saying RIP to the dead.

Na wa ooo

Bruno3000:
This is for all the guys' hearts she messed with, and for ignoring that one guy that truly loved her.
HER ABODE IN THE AFTER LIFE IS HELL FIRE...

I don't have time to argue o.

no one is arguing with you, you're right

dfrost:


And nobody was close to her to pull her out of depression?

And you had the time to tell the story but never had time to spend with her and help her?

Mr Fault Finder, where did you read that she did not spend time with the sister? You just drew conclusion from a post that summarised over 5 years of event.

To start with, please list 5 people you have "pulled out of depression" Mr Depression Pulley.

ednut1:
those ones need companionship. Loneliness don wire dem

Still the same thing

AwkaetitiBabe:
How? Wasn't the man's action responsible for her committing suicide?

Yes.
I made my comment based on how emotional your comment was.
You went out of the normal way.
It is ok though, I'm even angry at the man and his likes.

Fake story the intention is simple

kingkakaone:

Yes.
I made my comment based on how emotional your comment was.
You went out of the normal way.
It is ok though, I'm even angry at the man and his likes.

ok

EkunKekere:
A lesson for all those who want to use marriage to cover up their failures in other aspects of their lives or to fulfill societal expectations
What really amuses me are those married illiterate women who look down on single, well educated women.
I know a case of a married primary school dropout who can barely read and write, looking down on a single woman with a Masters degree.
Africans are truly nature's joke for humanity.

I wonder why people are misinterpreting what you said..
And you said the perfect truth, cos a lot of people really marry just to meet societal norms, to get a legal cash cow or hide their inadequacies

Wait, I don't understand that part where she said the man made an attempt on her AUNT'S 18 yo sister. If she was her aunt, and her sister is 18, how old would she (the poster) be? I'm confused.

unadeymadkwa:


Even though your comment makes some sense. You are still a muderfucker for not saying RIP to the dead.

And what effect will his RIP and yours have on the dead?

Xcelinteriors:
She should have just walk away. There's a man for every woman on earth

my sister such stereotypes no longer hold in this dispensation given the number of females to male ratio globally not to mention males susceptibility to death. The numbers do not lie!

R.I.P. The story is not all doom and gloom. The man will get to marry another person. The worst na if the two of them die throway.

They're just acting like typical Nigerians my sister.
Anyone who read that story could see very clearly that this poor woman was making progress with her own life until she went into that disastrous marriage.
By her hardwork and sweat, she was able to buy a car and rent a home, but unfortunately she wasted it on a totally undeserving ingrate.
Anyone can read between the lines and see that the poor woman was agonisingly desperate, instead of being grateful for what she has. Only societal pressure can have that effect on a human being.

DameB:


I wonder why people are misinterpreting what you said..
And you said the perfect truth, cos a lot of people really marry just to meet societal norms, to get a legal cash cow or hide their inadequacies

GeniusWannabe:

And what effect will his RIP and yours have on the dead?

Same thing I said earlier.. his comments makes some sense even yours too. RIP won't do shiii . He/she who commits suicide would probably rot in hell. That's if there is hell. My point is why stray from the norm? Every other dumb human will say RIP. Are you trying to say you/he is smarter? Abeg people that think have no place here ( nairaland)

Bruno3000:
This is for all the guys' hearts she messed with, and for ignoring that one guy that truly loved her.
HER ABODE IN THE AFTER LIFE IS HELL FIRE...

I don't have time to argue o.

I believe at one point in time you thought you had that organic grey matter organ inside your skull well I can tell you it's nowhere to be found after reading your garbage.

Some Nigerians can be very distant. They'll prefer to "pray" for you or advise you. Especially family. Only true friends can go all out to get positive results.

dfrost:


And nobody was close to her to pull her out of depression?

And you had the time to tell the story but never had time to spend with her and help her?

cooooooks:
Some Nigerians can be very distant. They'll prefer to "pray" for you or advise you. Especially family. Only true friends can go all out to get positive results.

I tell you. Don't we all have a friend that only remembers you when he/she needs something from you? Else when you call the person, he will say "I just wanted to call you now sef"

Like I always say: it is the perceived hard man or hard woman that dies of depression faster.

koyyes:
Very foolish female.

Let all the lebelebe fish head females kill themselves finish so we can move on to better, greater things.

We don't need negroe worshippers in this era.

is this one okay

davidkingrichie:


If you r@pe a girl for 5 minutes and you are caught. What will be the sentence? Life right?

Your logic is flawed.

so religion is man made? Projecting your feelings and ideas onto a higher being?

Great logic