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valentineuwakwe:
I was a victim of Masturbation and I can tell you the most important thing it will cost you is low sperm count, which may lead to your inability to get a woman pregnant. ..forget what you read online or what your pastors tells you about it, trust only your senses and ask yourself sincerely if this practice is worth it in your life!

So oga uwakwe, have you finally been able to impregnate your woman?

Okay, now, I think I have read enough about masturbation, especially guys.
How about the health effect on ladies, is it same with guys?

"Masturbation will make you unproductive in life"

Sigh... So, you have irrefutable proof that the following have never masturbated:

Isaac Newton

Barack Obama

Bill Gates

Elon Musk

Warren Buffet

Charles Darwin

Wole Soyinka

Charles Soludo

Mark Zuckerberg

Etc...

...And, are you saying the following masturbate or masturbated daily:

Rashidi Yekini

Paul Gascoigne

Emmanuel Eboué

Mario Ballotelli

Gabriel Agbonlahor

Kelechi Iheanancho

Etc..

... Next time, do proper research before churning out so called "Facts"!!!

Seriously it drains individuals who practice it. It gives low self esteem, it might nt necessarily mk u less productive but there is dis funny feeling u get afta d act, its mks u feel ashamed. i dnt knw but dats my take.

[quote author= post=82346648]The problem with masturbation, is that it is contrary to the purposes of the act of sex.
Sex is intended to be an expression of love between a married man and woman.
They express this love through a complete self-giving to one another in the act.
Love never takes or is selfish. It should always be about the other person, not me.

Masturbation is an exact opposite act – it is all about the selfish feelings one derives from the act. By the very nature of the act, it turns one in on oneself. This is the opposite of love, because it isn’t about another person

While many young people suffer from compulsive self-gratification, it is not impossible to stop.
The temporary relief and feelings quickly lead to emptiness and in many cases shame.
It is like being thirsty and trying to quench your thirst by drinking water from the ocean, which only hurts you and makes you need good clean water.

A few practical tips for those that struggle with this sin:

Try to understand what makes you want to indulge sexually.
Is it boredom, self-hate, stress, etc.
Then try to prepare yourself to battle during theses times.
You must fill up the negative thoughts and lustful images with positive ones.
Sacred Scripture and holy images can help.
Stay away from moments of temptation, the computer,
being alone, watching movies with sex, etc.
Have a battle plan to combat these problems.
You MUST work on your spiritual life.
The closer you draw to Jesus in prayer and the Sacrament the more you will conquer this problem.
Most people need some kind of accountability to stop once they acquire this habit.

As for whether it is healthy or not.
Some studies show that masturbation might help with a healthier prostate for men and have a few other small health benefits. But, these are negligible. There are some reports of problems in sex with their spouses for men who masturbate frequently, especially premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction at early ages, etc.
So, health-wise, there is no good reason to have a habit of masturbation.
Remember:

In Conclusion,
“You were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” -1 Cor 6:20
I strongly agree[/quote]

Madibah:
Pls tell which is bad?

Fucking ashawo and masturbating??

the answer to your question is fucking asewo

If sars/police catch you for ashewo hotel,na cell be that oo!!

The worse is if you use an iPhone while dem catch you,to make matters worse you come have vpn for phone,you go regret am!!


To me,masturbation is better.

Lies....
I even masturbate at work

godwinstringed1:
I am Godwin Oluponmile

this is very funny. I wonder how you guys post your view about a thing and always tend to believe it's fact!.

Like seriously "if you masturbate you can't be productive" that's the stupidest thing I've ever read this year.

What is the poster trying to say, or maybe I should ask where is he coming from and where is he going, cos I'm confused than I was before I opened the thread.

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godwinstringed1:
I am Godwin Oluponmile

Rubbish masturbation has nothing to do with failure or success of anyone's career. Pure trash.

What's your fixation with masturbation ?

You guys are just annoying.

olumalcolm:
Seriously it drains individuals who practice it. It gives low self esteem, it might nt necessarily mk u less productive but there is dis funny feeling u get afta d act, its mks u feel ashamed. i dnt knw but dats my take.

Sorry bro

Nostradamus:
the answer to your question is fucking asewo

If sars/police catch you for ashewo hotel,na cell be that oo!!

The worse is if you use an iPhone while dem catch you,to make matters worse you come have vpn for phone,you go regret am!!

To me,masturbation is better.

so na for only ashewo hotel pesin dey fvck ashewo?

Mcdaniels06:
Thanks for revealing this deep secret. That very health side effect of it. I'm not in particularly whether it's a sin or not, what I'm interested in is the side effect of it when eventually one finds a partner or ready to settle down. The weakens of the genital veins especially should be a source of concern for every Man especially, because it is mainly because of this particular problem. that men losses their female partners to capable men out there. when you cannot satisfy her, she goes out, simple. Nevertheless , i believe whatever act or activity of life we engage in and our spirit deep inside us feels somewhat weird or downcasted or feels remorseful of, then it means that thing is not good, there's no 2 name for it, but then, whether it's a sin or not, that one is left for God himself to judge when we appear before him at the end.

Are you saying those capable men have not masturbated before?

Sufisunni:
I masturbated for 20years and I have left it Finally.
It's a wedge btw you and progress.
I discovered more than 20 effects disappeared from my body.

how were u able to stop,been doing it for 5 years now nd I really want to stop

If you're here to read comments and laugh like me please come and stay under this umbrella its raining heavily

[s][quote author= post=82346648]The problem with masturbation, is that it is contrary to the purposes of the act of sex.
Sex is intended to be an expression of love between a married man and woman.
They express this love through a complete self-giving to one another in the act.
Love never takes or is selfish. It should always be about the other person, not me.

Masturbation is an exact opposite act – it is all about the selfish feelings one derives from the act. By the very nature of the act, it turns one in on oneself. This is the opposite of love, because it isn’t about another person

While many young people suffer from compulsive self-gratification, it is not impossible to stop.
The temporary relief and feelings quickly lead to emptiness and in many cases shame.
It is like being thirsty and trying to quench your thirst by drinking water from the ocean, which only hurts you and makes you need good clean water.

A few practical tips for those that struggle with this sin:

Try to understand what makes you want to indulge sexually.
Is it boredom, self-hate, stress, etc.
Then try to prepare yourself to battle during theses times.
You must fill up the negative thoughts and lustful images with positive ones.
Sacred Scripture and holy images can help.
Stay away from moments of temptation, the computer,
being alone, watching movies with sex, etc.
Have a battle plan to combat these problems.
You MUST work on your spiritual life.
The closer you draw to Jesus in prayer and the Sacrament the more you will conquer this problem.
Most people need some kind of accountability to stop once they acquire this habit.

As for whether it is healthy or not.
Some studies show that masturbation might help with a healthier prostate for men and have a few other small health benefits. But, these are negligible. There are some reports of problems in sex with their spouses for men who masturbate frequently, especially premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction at early ages, etc.
So, health-wise, there is no good reason to have a habit of masturbation.
Remember:

In Conclusion,
“You were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” -1 Cor 6:20[/quote][/s]

Now I conclude that Nairaland is funnier than twitter

madgoat:
Lies....
I even masturbate at work

godwinstringed1:
I am Godwin Oluponmile

Godwin, you need help.

You sound like you just masturbated yesterday too.

Your write up is between quasi religious and pseudo scientific crap.

Get out of your shrink zone and go get a life.

.

Hmmm! It's alright!

zimdante:
Opposite sex, their dirty mind no be here

If I had failed that test, Jesus. I thank my star I passed it is all I can say. My reputation would have been dead down. As the chick was connected to all the females around all of us

deedondavi:
Such a Foolish Empty Write up

nawa Bros how the write up take empty, u clearly can't understand English then

madgoat:
Lies....
I even masturbate at work

Omg. Not mad goat again

There is a lot of misconceptions about masturbation.

Masturbation is no different from sex apart from that fact that it is done by just one person. This means that one person owns both the penis and the vagina and this is where the problem lies.

The hands do the same thing the vagina does and that is stimulating the penis to the point of orgasm.

The dangers lies in addiction which will make the person over do it because they don't need a woman.

In normal sex, you need the co-operation of a woman and it doesn't come all the time even for married people so in a way it curtails your sexual activities and it doesn't become excess.

Too much of everything is bad even too much of normal sex. But because in masturbation, you don't need the co-operation of anybody to do it, the tendency of doing it all the time and it becomes excess to cause harm is high and this is the problem of masturbation.

So there is no difference between excessive masturbation and excessive sex, they will produce the same effect

[quote author= post=82346648]The problem with masturbation, is that it is contrary to the purposes of the act of sex.
Sex is intended to be an expression of love between a married man and woman.
They express this love through a complete self-giving to one another in the act.
Love never takes or is selfish. It should always be about the other person, not me.

Masturbation is an exact opposite act – it is all about the selfish feelings one derives from the act. By the very nature of the act, it turns one in on oneself. This is the opposite of love, because it isn’t about another person

While many young people suffer from compulsive self-gratification, it is not impossible to stop.
The temporary relief and feelings quickly lead to emptiness and in many cases shame.
It is like being thirsty and trying to quench your thirst by drinking water from the ocean, which only hurts you and makes you need good clean water.

A few practical tips for those that struggle with this sin:

Try to understand what makes you want to indulge sexually.
Is it boredom, self-hate, stress, etc.
Then try to prepare yourself to battle during theses times.
You must fill up the negative thoughts and lustful images with positive ones.
Sacred Scripture and holy images can help.
Stay away from moments of temptation, the computer,
being alone, watching movies with sex, etc.
Have a battle plan to combat these problems.
You MUST work on your spiritual life.
The closer you draw to Jesus in prayer and the Sacrament the more you will conquer this problem.
Most people need some kind of accountability to stop once they acquire this habit.

As for whether it is healthy or not.
Some studies show that masturbation might help with a healthier prostate for men and have a few other small health benefits. But, these are negligible. There are some reports of problems in sex with their spouses for men who masturbate frequently, especially premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction at early ages, etc.
So, health-wise, there is no good reason to have a habit of masturbation.
Remember:

In Conclusion,
“You were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” -1 Cor 6:20[/quote]I support you in totality on this one.
How much is even kulikuli in the market?
The way women flooded the face of earth like sands, I don't know any sane man should be part of the unclean act.

What is bad is bad.
Masturbation is extremely bad.


Meanwhile, you're welcome back. Hope you enjoyed your leave?
What do you bring for me?

You have my email, why don't you send a message that you wouldn't come on Saturday?

I hope they listen

The op is a superstitious id¡ot

If care is not taken he is one of those religious dolts that think it is bad and so are struggling to stop masturbation

Masturbation has no side effects, is healthy and who is the dummy that even thought of connecting it to ones success in life?

Nairaland is indeed home to some deluded fools

explosiveskull:
Hehehehe


Your write up made no sense at all.
What exactly are you saying?
You'll smoke weed and will come and be wasting internet ink spewing trash.




Unlike you, this guy made sense

hahahahahahha, him smoke weed?

flowx:
I support you in totality on this one.
How much is even kulikuli in the market?
The way women flooded the face of earth like sands, I don't know any sane man should be part of the unclean act.

What is bad is bad.
Masturbation is extremely bad.


Meanwhile, you're welcome back. Hope you enjoyed your leave?
What do you bring for me?

You have my email, why don't you send a message that you wouldn't come on Saturday?

I pity for human beings like you who believe in such bullsh¡t

I never knew people like you still existed
No wonder the highly educated look down on people like you. Nothing to offer except stupid concepts and theories about talking donkeys, and walking dead.
And of course masturbation affecting ones success in life

*spits on your destiny*

healthserve:
Omg. Not mad goat again

Nmezor:
I hope they listen

If I say make we have sex, you go disagree.

Now, I masturbate in peace, you still complain.

Wetin man for do for this world wey people no go complain?