₦airaland Forum

chii8:
Some women can brag shaa...

That's how my stylist told me she doesn't make friends with married young mothers.Due to the fact that her married friend told her that she's in total control of her husband and her home,that anytime her husband maltreats her in any way,she should just pack her things and leave, little did she know that her friend was bragging. Not until, she visited her friend unannounced and caught her kneeling down with her hands up like the way a child is punished. She even eavesdropped and got to know that her friend's husband gave her punishment with curses to spice it up.She opened their curtain and made sure her friend saw her,the later was totally ashamed and humiliated. Since that day,their friendship ended.
So forget it,when it comes to what goes on in people's marriage,some women can over exaggerate and tell lies.
One of the reasons I don't Facebook or do Instagram ish is because of so much fakeness some women exhibit there.It's even seen in nairaland but at least, this one is a bit of a faceless forum.

Very funny.

On all sides.

I find women who exaggerate funny.

I also find women who think all other women are exagerrating when they have nothing bad to say funny.

genq:
What kind of senseless post is this.
Of course it's normal! It's only natural that she had a househelp growing up and now that she's married, her dustband has resumed the duties of the househelp.
What a lucky man.

Let's clap for simp.....that man is as useless as a goat.

J111333:
So yesterday at a coffee shop, I met a married Nigerian mother of three from Imo state who said that she had never done grocery shopping for her household, cooked, done any house cleaning, bathed her kids or changed their diapers. Not only did she not know how to do those, she wasn't interested and didn't see them as shortcoming.
Actually, she hadn't done any domestic work all her life obviously because she had househelp growing up back home and as at the time of filing this report hahaha, she wasn't ready for any domestic work brouhaha(in her words).

All those according to her, were being done by her husband and she didn't see any problems with that. I thought she was kidding but the seriousness on her face and from what I observed in her during the coffee break made me believe every single word she said.

....ehmmm before I forget, she was a practicing nurse who was there for a job opening in the military. All these started when I asked how her family would cope if she became a military nurse possibly traveling around the world.
The fun and shock from listening to her was however cut short when a colleague walked into us and she realized she was talking or should I say boasting to the wrong person.

I now ask, is this normal?

Lalasticlala, please come and share your thoughts as a married man.

Lot of " nurses" are enslaving their husband
the husband is likely 53 year old why she about 35 year
Lot of nurses think that they are the shit because they make more money than their husband
Nonsense set of people
some of this nurses are doing 7 day a week
likely doing 16 hour 5 of the seven days
The nurse now become the breadwinner
so the man became the wife

theButterfly:
Normal can be relative.

If it is true, then this is THEIR normal.

Well thought of

J111333:
So yesterday at a coffee shop, I met a married Nigerian mother of three from Imo state who said that she had never done grocery shopping for her household, cooked, done any house cleaning, bathed her kids or changed their diapers. Not only did she not know how to do those, she wasn't interested and didn't see them as shortcoming.
Actually, she hadn't done any domestic work all her life obviously because she had househelp growing up back home and as at the time of filing this report hahaha, she wasn't ready for any domestic work brouhaha(in her words).

All those according to her, were being done by her husband and she didn't see any problems with that. I thought she was kidding but the seriousness on her face and from what I observed in her during the coffee break made me believe every single word she said.

....ehmmm before I forget, she was a practicing nurse who was there for a job opening in the military. All these started when I asked how her family would cope if she became a military nurse possibly traveling around the world.
The fun and shock from listening to her was however cut short when a colleague walked into us and she realized she was talking or should I say boasting to the wrong person.

I now ask, is this normal?

Lalasticlala, please come and share your thoughts as a married man.

she is a wicked woman and not properly brought up. and I want to believe her hubby is not an igbo man, if he is, then he is an iberibe man. see, if my man proves to be a weakling doing all the women job. then am sorry, i cannot respect such a man. if he is chanced, he can help me to do some household work and we will do it together with love but for my man to be my house boy, it's a no no. I won't even tolerate such if he turns himself to one. everything has a limit biko

Zikora1000:
she is a wicked woman and not properly brought up. and I want to believe her hubby is not an igbo man, if he is, then he is an iberibe man. see, if my man proves to be a weakling doing all the women job. then am sorry, i cannot respect such a man. if he is chanced, he can help me to do some household work and we will do it together with love but for my man to be my house boy, it's a no no. I won't even tolerate such if he turns himself to one. everything has a limit biko

Easy ma'am.
I envy your man though for having such a decisive woman.

J111333:
Easy ma'am.
I envy your man though for having such a decisive woman.

lol. check my profile. did u see my mail

Zikora1000:
lol. check my profile. did u see my mail

Sure I did.

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