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Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Osanoghodua1: 9:32am On Sep 28, 2019
It happens, I suggest you see a Urologist for expert attention. This thing is not voluntary. Ask God to heal him, and he will be healed. God did it again and again. There is a miracle in your tongue. God bless you.
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by chinchonglee(m): 9:37am On Sep 28, 2019
mperornero:
Na Natural something, I get close friend wey bedwet reach 18yrs before he stop, .
Guy!!! U sure say nor be me u dey talk abt??

I stopped bedwetting at 18

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Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by kachiz(m): 9:37am On Sep 28, 2019
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Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by nnadychuks(m): 9:39am On Sep 28, 2019
Shibaraba:
Simplest thing jare. Una never get the system.
That food own dey work but because he is grown he can always work around it.
Just buy am very fine and bright digital watch with solid alarm went be like siren. Set it at 2 hours. It might not work at first but soon the alarm go soon dey disturb him sleep. E go learn to wake. Also you sef wake up at intervals. He wan piss o, he Don piss ooo e no concern you. Drag him to toilet. This simple things dey work. That university own will only work in a hostel and it takes guts.

During my year one one professor Pikin wey dey year three we gather dey hostel. The guy na pissanthus weeweebuchi. As in even if he piss 5 minutes ago once he sleeps he go open the floodgates of heaven. Every body left room for the guy but me. Na here you go see patience. Though I dey lower level I was older than him by far. I started by making him feel very uncomfortable in his sleep. If no be music na game. He go just dey hiss. I no send. Even when he thinks he is not sleeping which he actually is I dey penetrate him subconciousness.He go get up, hiss go piss come go sleep. Next if he mistakenly piss, before anyone wake up I Don wake am, we Don clean the bed and room sharp sharp wash sheets before anyone soji. That piss stigma Don comot be that. Before you know it T Don forget say he dey piss. I noticed but didn't tell him. The mama cry come the day he slept over their house for the weekend. See tears. On top piss wey stop. E no reach one month na US the guy go start school afresh. Because of piss he no fit travel.
Bottom line.. Buy the alarm. You too be the alarm. Don't pressure him. E go change. Piss be unto you
youre funny and at the same time you made sense
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by TVTKOKO(m): 9:40am On Sep 28, 2019
darichlife:
This might sound very odd but it was saved many families from this same problem.

Let him pee on hot charcoal fire before going to bed at night.

He will feel very hot anytime he wants pee on himself this will prompt him to wake up automatically and that is the end of the story
recommended! Works like magic
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Lukasman: 9:41am On Sep 28, 2019
There's no point seeing any doctor. It's absolutely natural. And maybe either of your parents had similar problem when they were around his age. He'll stop soon, and it'll be like a miracle.
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by mamotalk: 9:44am On Sep 28, 2019
Leave the guy, he go overcome the matter. Na nature no worry
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Opexzy: 9:46am On Sep 28, 2019
johnjay4u2u:


More of psychological. i did till I was 17years thou by then the frequency had reduced.
see me now, last bed wetting episode is over 13 years now. just ensure the psychological stressor is dealt with.
Glory to God, I am a licensed medical doctor today.
Other things he can do.
avoid drinking water after dinner.
ensure using the toilet immediately he starts feeling sleepy.
Have a wake up and urinate alarm via any of the smart devices say at 2 am.
God be with him.

Amen... Thanks for your positive input
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by aspiring44: 9:46am On Sep 28, 2019
Katier00:
Let him see a doctor. It is a disorder
.

You cannot really put it as a disorder,but can be controlled and managed

It is called incontinence .Nocturnal enuresis.

When the bladder is so full and the urethra is at ease nocturnal enuresis occur.
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by dejt4u(m): 9:48am On Sep 28, 2019
Check his diet and activities.. Place him under close observation for 2-3days.. Note the quantity of water he takes per day.. Let him reduce the quantity by 50 to 60%.. He will surely stop bedwetting..
If this doesn't work, then you need to take him to a doctor
Opexzy:
Good day fellow nairalanders, i will try to keep this as short as possible.

I have a sixteen years old brother that is still bed-wetting. Dad and Mom has done everything humanly possible, but all their efforts ends in futility.... So many methods have been devised to just help him but non worked.

Initially we thought it was because of late dinner, he was stopped from eating when it is after 7pm

There was a time that dad use to whip him, but he stopped when he realized he's not getting any better.

We have bought some medicines, but it is still the same story.

Currently everyone is tired and no one is talking about it anymore... my parents believes that when he gets to uni he will change after a single inglorious display of this act.. He is currently in ss3.

what baffles me is that, my bro doesn't show any sign of remorse. He is always unapologetic and doesn't really give a damn...

Please nairalanders, is there anything else we aren't doing...?
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Opexzy: 9:48am On Sep 28, 2019
Osanoghodua1:
It happens, I suggest you see a Urologist for expert attention. This thing is not voluntary. Ask God to heal him, and he will be healed. God did it again and again. There is a miracle in your tongue. God bless you.

Thanks very much....

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Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Opexzy: 9:50am On Sep 28, 2019
dejt4u:
Check his diet and activities.. Place him under close observation for 2-3days.. Note the quantity of water he takes per day.. Let him reduce the quantity by 50 to 60%.. He will surely stop bedwetting..
If this doesn't work, then you need to take him to a doctor

I really appreciate your input...
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by eagleonearth(m): 9:52am On Sep 28, 2019
Artzdanielsz:
Chai I remembered when I dey piss like him but stop after sec school .make una chill he go soon stop. I dont even know how I stopped it.
My own was worse ,I dey bedwet around 5 am self ,if u see embarrassment ehhhh.I suffer for my people hand then.make una show him love nd relax for him biko I go soon stop it.it seems like ur bros plays a lot cos for me if I dey play dey piss for dream na so I dey piss for bed, and at times I go remember say na dream and jumped up to see fresh urine chai.I bedwet ehhhhhhhhh.
just like me that year
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Opexzy: 9:53am On Sep 28, 2019
tommy589:


Your dad thought he enjoyed bed wetting. My mum was disgracing me in the presence of visitors before I turned 14,when she realised it was getting out of the ordinary she stopped and started feeling my shame and worried. This a depressing period for your brother and you all should show him love with prayers.

It affected me in several ways.I never stopped blaming God for abandoning me,stopped going to church when I was 14 and finally stopped believing his existence by 16.And couldn't further my education because of the shame.

The people I lived with after leaving home acknowledged I had a problem and never treated me like an outcast. They helped in finally finding a trado cure for me when I was 22.

My son is going through same problem and I can't find a solution to it.But I have not stopped letting him know I understand what he is going through.

I don't know if it is hereditary or bewitchment but it is not something I wish for any kid.

Wow... This is so serious... This is an eye opener...
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by sisisioge: 9:54am On Sep 28, 2019
Hian! Since he's not remorseful and willing to help himself, nothing will work until he has a change of heart. I guess being too lazy to get up and pee during the night is a contributor grin.

By the way, your patent's thought is a nice solution, he will surely adjust once he sees the shame in the act grin
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by tuneryblue(m): 9:56am On Sep 28, 2019
let him wear condom sleep now..... abi blomblom
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by bolux95: 9:56am On Sep 28, 2019
the blood of the lamp will heal him,amen.call me so that i can pray for him.
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Nobody: 9:56am On Sep 28, 2019
Opexzy:
Good day fellow nairalanders, i will try to keep this as short as possible.

I have a sixteen years old brother that is still bed-wetting. Dad and Mom has done everything humanly possible, but all their efforts ends in futility.... So many methods have been devised to just help him but non worked.

Initially we thought it was because of late dinner, he was stopped from eating when it is after 7pm

There was a time that dad use to whip him, but he stopped when he realized he's not getting any better.

We have bought some medicines, but it is still the same story.

Currently everyone is tired and no one is talking about it anymore... my parents believes that when he gets to uni he will change after a single inglorious display of this act.. He is currently in ss3.

what baffles me is that, my bro doesn't show any sign of remorse. He is always unapologetic and doesn't really give a damn...

Please nairalanders, is there anything else we aren't doing...?
Me stopped at 21,when it's time he will stop. Its natural

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Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Opexzy: 9:57am On Sep 28, 2019
babra19:


I have a cousin like that too, all through his secondary school he was a bedwetter, during that period he felt it was his right to be bed-wetting. There is nothing that we did not do then.
When he gained admission into the university and he started seeing small small girls, no be person tell am to buckle up.
As per your brother he will stop once he have a girlfriend.

Very funny grin i remembered using this line of words to joke with him sometimes ago
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by NaijaTushboy(m): 9:58am On Sep 28, 2019
Very simple,just take a mold of fufu and wrap am for the small hole wer dey untop the cap,i swear you will come back to thank me.
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by kindmman(m): 10:00am On Sep 28, 2019
I don't believe it's any disorder or spiritual problem. Bed wetting was a part of me till I was 21.

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Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Opexzy: 10:01am On Sep 28, 2019
Gwagone:


Does he play a lot?

He should stop playing rough, that might cause it at times

Not really... Perhaps while in school... But at home.. He his restricted...
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Lilswaghanxum(m): 10:02am On Sep 28, 2019
Not only you, I have a roommate, a year one student who bed wets , the problem with him is, he eats a lot and drink Palm wine. After all this, he wets the bed. I keep waking him up at night to go and urinate.

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Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by kindmman(m): 10:02am On Sep 28, 2019
Charlescobi:

Me stopped at 21,when it's time he will stop. Its natural
I stopped at 21 too. How it stopped remains a mirage to me till date. I believe it's natural too

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Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by darthv: 10:04am On Sep 28, 2019
Opexzy:
Good day fellow nairalanders, i will try to keep this as short as possible.

I have a sixteen years old brother that is still bed-wetting. Dad and Mom has done everything humanly possible, but all their efforts ends in futility.... So many methods have been devised to just help him but non worked.

Initially we thought it was because of late dinner, he was stopped from eating when it is after 7pm

There was a time that dad use to whip him, but he stopped when he realized he's not getting any better.

We have bought some medicines, but it is still the same story.

Currently everyone is tired and no one is talking about it anymore... my parents believes that when he gets to uni he will change after a single inglorious display of this act.. He is currently in ss3.

what baffles me is that, my bro doesn't show any sign of remorse. He is always unapologetic and doesn't really give a damn...

Please nairalanders, is there anything else we aren't doing...?
Go and buy spasmex...
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Awesomeking: 10:06am On Sep 28, 2019
I advise you guys to try herbal medicine,i stopped bedwetting at a late age too,they tried everything for me too,las las,na one local hausa medicine i drink,i only took one cup and up till this day i dont bedwet anymore
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Opexzy: 10:07am On Sep 28, 2019
Shibaraba:
Simplest thing jare. Una never get the system.
That food own dey work but because he is grown he can always work around it.
Just buy am very fine and bright digital watch with solid alarm went be like siren. Set it at 2 hours. It might not work at first but soon the alarm go soon dey disturb him sleep. E go learn to wake. Also you sef wake up at intervals. He wan piss o, he Don piss ooo e no concern you. Drag him to toilet. This simple things dey work. That university own will only work in a hostel and it takes guts.

During my year one one professor Pikin wey dey year three we gather dey hostel. The guy na pissanthus weeweebuchi. As in even if he piss 5 minutes ago once he sleeps he go open the floodgates of heaven. Every body left room for the guy but me. Na here you go see patience. Though I dey lower level I was older than him by far. I started by making him feel very uncomfortable in his sleep. If no be music na game. He go just dey hiss. I no send. Even when he thinks he is not sleeping which he actually is I dey penetrate him subconciousness.He go get up, hiss go piss come go sleep. Next if he mistakenly piss, before anyone wake up I Don wake am, we Don clean the bed and room sharp sharp wash sheets before anyone soji. That piss stigma Don comot be that. Before you know it T Don forget say he dey piss. I noticed but didn't tell him. The mama cry come the day he slept over their house for the weekend. See tears. On top piss wey stop. E no reach one month na US the guy go start school afresh. Because of piss he no fit travel.
Bottom line.. Buy the alarm. You too be the alarm. Don't pressure him. E go change. Piss be unto you

Lol.. I so much appreciate your inputs.
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Nobody: 10:09am On Sep 28, 2019
kindmman:

I stopped at 21 too. How it stopped remains a mirage to me till date. I believe it's natural too
Same here, but the thing disgraced me tire

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Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Reucy(f): 10:13am On Sep 28, 2019
It's a normal thing, my kid bro of 17 years of age still does it till today. Though is reducing, it's no longer a regular thing but just once in a while.. With time he's going to stop it.

Though over feeding is the main course, is nothing spiritual biko

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Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by bolux95: 10:18am On Sep 28, 2019
less i forget, this is my contact 08168312911,any body can also call me for any problem,great GOD will surly heal u,n u will be free.amen
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Opexzy: 10:20am On Sep 28, 2019
RealityShot:
taa!
I still bedwet whenever I drink too much water before sleeping and there is cold due to fan, ac or rain/open windows.

Take care of the problem, it's not spiritual or about age!
It's scientific.

Tell him to stop drinking lots of water from 6pm,
Make sure he sleeps with full thick clothes,
Make sure he's room is never cold, (
Turn off the fan and close the windows)

Good luck

Thanks so much...
Re: My 16 Year Old Brother Still Bed-wetting by Opexzy: 10:22am On Sep 28, 2019
Awesomeking:
I advise you guys to try herbal medicine,i stopped bedwetting at a late age too,they tried everything for me too,las las,na one local hausa medicine i drink,i only took one cup and up till this day i dont bedwet anymore

Please where can i get this medicine u are talking about...?

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