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Before I say anything more, let me start by saying I’m not here to judge you—your decisions are your own to make. Love isn’t black and white, and often we end up falling for people who aren’t available. If you do find yourself in the situation where you’re in love with a married man, it’s important to know what you’re signing up for, and the truth about what lies ahead of you if this relationship continues.


All relationships are challenging at the best of times, but being the other woman can bring a whole new set of problems with it. Here’s what you need to know:

1. He will not leave his wife. Did you know that less than five percent of men actually leave their wives for the woman they’re having an affair with? Even if he tells you he’s desperately unhappy, he doesn’t love her, or he’s going to leave—chances are he won’t.
This might be because of the financial implications related to divorce, his religious beliefs, his desire to maintain his family man image, or because he still actually cares for his wife—even though he might protest against this.
So it doesn’t matter how many times he says he’s going to leave—you need to know that it’s just words. Actions speak far louder.

2. If he wanted to be with you, he would be. At the end of the day, people will go to the end of the earth for the things they truly want. If a man wanted to be with you, and share the rest of his life with you, he would do it. If he truly loved you, it wouldn’t matter what the costs or implications were.
However, if he’s content just sleeping with you on the side, while staying married to his wife, it’s because you’re not so important to him, that he’s willing to change his life for you. If you decided to leave him, he would simply go on or replace you with someone else.
You might not want to hear this, but put yourself in his shoes for a moment. Imagine you were married to a man you didn’t really love anymore, and you weren’t having sex with. Then you meet an amazing new man who you share a beautiful connection with. Would you stay with the man you’re married to, or would you leave so you could be with the man you really wanted?
It’s as simple as that. A man who really wants you will want you all to himself. If he values you, he’ll know that other men are also interested in you, and he’ll make sure he makes you his as soon as he can, before someone else swoops in...Continue@ https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng/2019/09/things-to-consider-when-you-are-dating-a-married-man.html

Karma is a bitch

Donalben:
Karma is a bitch

Sure

Oleije22:
Hmmm

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Boring