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Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by Nobody: 2:28pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
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Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by saucecode(m): 2:31pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
Breaststroke:How will you find them when you're on nairaland fighting battles that have no bearing to your life? Someone who is so insulting, elevates herself and talks down on people is looking for a godly man, mucheche mucheche God cannot be mocked 2 Likes |
Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by Nobody: 2:47pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
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Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by saucecode(m): 3:03pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
Breaststroke:Me I don't understand all this talk, na advise I just give you. Godly people attract Godly spouses, Jehovah Jireh cannot be mocked. 2 Likes |
Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by Nobody: 3:46pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
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Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by bukatyne(f): 5:33pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
Breaststroke: What is the code of sisterhood? |
Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by saucecode(m): 5:38pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
bukatyne:Color the truth |
Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by Nobody: 5:53pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
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Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by bukatyne(f): 8:34pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
Breaststroke: First off, I went back to the post you are referring to which was a question to the babe. Ideally, men find women and if you want a particular type of man, you position yourself to be attractive to him. I am not questioning her worthiness of a good man, that was even the first time I noticed her moniker. My point is I had/have no impression about her. It might even be a 50yr old married grandpa sef. @Sisterhood code: if you observe more, you could say I do not have a peoplehood code. I would not support wrongdoing because it is a female neither do I believe in Quota system. That said, I hold men to same standards too and my posts here would confirm that. I think the average 'Nigerian' man is unmarriageable (I am sure that's no news). Now, when the women complain, the general consensus is to cuss the men and conclude how they are all same. My stance is to hold the woman accountable for her choice. You say Mr. A is bad? Good. End the relationship, look inward to see what attracted you to A and vice versa, clean up and position yourself to be found by Mr. Z. Don't keep choosing the Mr. As and expect me to support you. You say you think you deserve better from life, work at it and grace would find you. You might wonder why most of my threads are geared towards marriage or relationships. Once a woman has the right man beside her, her life will be beautiful. Every other thing she is running after would be added to her. If it takes tough love to achieve that, so be it. So dear, I don't hate women o. 6 Likes |
Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by Nobody: 8:40pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
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Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by bukatyne(f): 8:43pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
Breaststroke: Grasias |
Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by TYglobal: 6:40am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Breaststroke: I was really anticipating a reply to this , most men this days just want sex or nothing , it's exhausting. |
Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by Chapter1vs6(m): 7:42am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Wow first time I have been patient enough to read a thread |
Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by Nobody: 8:55am On Nov 22, 2019 |
LewsTherin may God continue to bless your marriage. The devil and his agents will never come near it in Jesus name. Amen. You made some very crucial points, especially about in laws, my ex's mother could do no wrong in his eyes. I was always bad and she was always good. Throughout the entire marriage, he stood up for me only once and just as I expected, it was short-lived. By the time she was done with her theatrics, he was running back to her side. On meeting good men, I think I'm one of those women who used to find the easygoing guys boring. I was young then (I was 22 when we got married, after dating for about 4 years) and I would like to think I know better now, I know exactly what I want in a man. Even though I was upset when the marriage crashed, I was kinda relieved too. I just could not resign myself to a marriage with a man I could never trust, even now i never know when he's lying or saying the truth. That's not the way to live. Marriages like yours give me hope and I have been praying to God that my next marriage should be heaven on earth and my last. I have been on my own for 3 years now and I'm not in a hurry to jump back in, I'm letting God lead. It is well with us all. 4 Likes |
Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by LewsTherin: 6:49pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Thanks SBL28 Hearing sad stories about marriages can be depressing. I'm not saying I have a perfect marriage or that I am perfect or married to a perfect woman. But I always feel bad seeing this wonderful institution called marriage being potrayed in bad light. Thanks for still believing in it girl. You'll get yours too. No doubt. 3 Likes |
Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by Nobody: 7:06pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
LewsTherin: Thanks |
Re: 16 Years With The Same Woman by Saintmary(f): 8:09pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
SBL28:May God answer your prayers 1 Like |
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