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she is 27 and her bf is 28 they both just graduated and will soon go for nysc. Many men have come with proposals but she rejected in the name of i dont like them.. now she met this guy working in nestoil they have been talking for a month now on phone and she finally met him in person yesterday and he was proposing marriage to her. she met him through her friend( brother) . now her bf is begging for her to wait for him.

She should wait for her.bf nh, maybe he's washing plates inside, he will soon come outm

What kind of advice are you looking for? The female mind is programmed to want free things without suffering much. There’s a chance she’d go for the nestoil guy, which is quite rational, but bluntly stupid based on the fact that she’s been rejecting previous suitors.

Let her use her mind n head, which will normally deceive her, since she’s been programmed to deceive herself.

Myzzyfrazzy:
she is 27 and her bf is 28 they both nust graduated and will soon go for nysc. Many men have come with proposals but she rejected in the name of i dont like them.. now she met this guy working in nestoil they have been talking for a month now on phone and she finally met him in person yesterday and her was proposing marriage to her. she met him through her friend( brother) . now her bf is begging for her to wait for him.

They met just yesterday and he is already proposing? Either the guy is naive or he is trying to con her.
Wait till he has his fill or her then she will realise her folly.
The bf should move on and forget about her, she's not sincere.

Psalm2423:
What kind of advice are you looking for? The female mind is programmed to want free things without suffering much. There’s a chance she’d go for the nestoil guy, which is quite rational, but bluntly stupid based on the fact that she’s been rejecting previous suitors.

Let her use her mind n head, which will normally deceive her, since she’s been programmed to deceive herself.

she is relying on me for advice and she really respects my opinion i dont want to be be in a rush let hear from a lot of you guys b4 i talk to her.

Life's too short, if a girl meets a new guy and wanna lemme for him.. she's free to pack her load and go.

Whoever the universe programmed for me, will be mine.

No headaches

Myzzyfrazzy:
she is 27 and her bf is 28 they both just graduated and will soon go for nysc. Many men have come with proposals but she rejected in the name of i dont like them.. now she met this guy working in nestoil they have been talking for a month now on phone and she finally met him in person yesterday and he was proposing marriage to her. she met him through her friend( brother) . now her bf is begging for her to wait for him.

You just met... marriage isn't a walk in the park...so she gats to slow down with the new guy.......she doesn't even him yet.... because he is rich doesn't mean he is a good person....so study him..... spend sometime with him

That's why I don't like boyfriend and girlfriend relationship...... imagine if the nestoil turned out to be a gentleman and this her boyfriend who will probably be starting his life after Nysc is telling her to wait for him....then there will surely be confusion...

And that's also why I like the holy spirit...he tells you what to do..for those who know what I mean

Let me advice her

So what advice re u seeking

Man wants to marry after just one month?

Anyways, stranger things have happened.

What does she like or even love about this new guy? What are the prospects of her bf? What are her own prospects?

If she wants to marry someone she already loves, she knows what to do. If she believes she will grow to love someone who is ready to settle down NOW, she knows what to do.

Another note of warning, some guys use this marriage request thing to tie babes down. They will say they want to marry within one month of meeting you. They can even get an accommodation for the two of you (1 month's salary) for 6 months or a year. In the end nothing.

Be wise. Marry for love.

Myzzyfrazzy:
she is 27 and her bf is 28 they both just graduated and will soon go for nysc. Many men have come with proposals but she rejected in the name of i dont like them.. now she met this guy working in nestoil they have been talking for a month now on phone and she finally met him in person yesterday and he was proposing marriage to her. she met him through her friend( brother) . now her bf is begging for her to wait for him.

Myzzyfrazzy:
she is relying on me for advice and she really respects my opinion i dont want to be be in a rush let hear from a lot of you guys b4 i talk to her.

As sad and untrue as it may sound, she’d still do what she wants to do. From a man’s mentality, I’d say it’s pure foolishness not to marry someone you don’t love cause he isn’t rich yet. Heck she went to school, the both of them can start hustling together and get something doing.

However, the female world is different. From that perspective, it’s better she stick to the new guy she just found, but she needs to know what baba has been waiting for that prevented him from wedding or even having a fiancé all that time.

So, code red, code red; she better stick to her previous boyfriend if he’s been faithful. If not, she should accept the new one. Regret is normal in life; “why” is way better than “what if?”

Myzzyfrazzy:
she is 27 and her bf is 28 they both just graduated and will soon go for nysc. Many men have come with proposals but she rejected in the name of i dont like them.. now she met this guy working in nestoil they have been talking for a month now on phone and she finally met him in person yesterday and he was proposing marriage to her. she met him through her friend( brother) . now her bf is begging for her to wait for him.

Nothing to advise here, she should marry who is ready and move on as far as her mind approves.