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Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Samsonklin(m): 1:33am On Oct 14, 2019 |
I’m not married but... I won’t justify his words asking you to leave each time. From my small experience I get angry when I’m broke, when I feel I’m not doing enough for my spouse. She feels, it’s about her. It’s not, it’s about the money that was supposed to come and didn’t come due to one constraint or the other. Solution; you guys need to see a counselor and he must let it out. I don’t think it’s about you. Something is eating your hubby up. All the best! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by JADEK01(m): 1:38am On Oct 14, 2019 |
The man has tired of the relationship u just care to know, he tired because you only produce children’s and sex no other value you had to his life, like idea and money.....that’s genesis of the problem |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by phillipsadeojo(m): 1:41am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Madam, am sorry to say this. I feel you have done something that hurts him in the past and secondly, dont argue with him and respect him more. Try this and feed us back with good news. God will bless your home 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by quickly: 1:42am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Na wah b like say d man don Dey chop kitten for outside. Money issues It seems |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Nobody: 2:08am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Midas01:Na from sampling ya mama anoos na im I take know..ya mama tautau dey smell veli bad |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Prompto: 2:11am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat:I am sorry if am not concerned about how you feel pr how you are being treated, I rather ask why you allow arguement btw you two degenerate to the lever where he ask you to leave 5 times now. Is it that you lack the intelligence to back down from an argument till he is provoked to the extent he make those comment ? He as also proven he regret his actions judging from your write up, he now decide it beta to leave the house for you since he doesn't always want to tell you to leave his house. Finally, I will tell you what I tell couples that are too foolish to resolve their differences without outside help " break up the union" if you can't cope. Every adult should own a working brain capable of determining what is acceptable n not acceptable to you in a relationship. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by demoBaba: 2:12am On Oct 14, 2019 |
You guys don't understand the issue. That woman talk too much, must you have to argue with your husband? Tell him your feelings and don't argue with him when his start his own argument. secondly, we men don't like collecting from our In-law especially when you're okay to take care of your family, because of future issue, cos wife will still rembr. you that it was my family that was feeding you so so year, cos you have small change now, you are feeling on top of the world. You can collect anything from your parent in your own use only not for the entire family. Try this and thanks me later. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Nobody: 2:15am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat:the same thing my mum is facing 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by OROSUNBOLB(m): 2:24am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat: i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else You already have a solution ! Why do you need anybody's opinion again madam? Good luck! 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Unclesamo(m): 2:25am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat:. wen d Foundation is destroyed, even d righteous becomes confuse. u saw all this during courtship but decided to ignore it, saying "he'll Change". . make Ur marriage work. u don't have to reply him every time arguments ensued Btwn both of U. watch him rants & control ur lips. Above all commit ur marriage into God's hands. make it work. . Bring down ur pride . 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Nobody: 2:26am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat: Think about that one thing he always complains about. That one thing that always gets his goat. That should be the trigger for the 'leave my house' rant. hint: it's probably an attitude thing on your part. not saying it's your fault, or that he's right always telling you to leave though. but if he meant it he wouldn't always apologize to you afterward. it's crazy how we're all wired so differently but am sure there's a trigger for this somewhere within your relationship dynamic. Since it's not money, sex maybe? Identify that trigger, do away with it & voila! problem solved. |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Nobody: 2:28am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Kokaine: Ill advise u bcom gay because u see the thing of a woman enh, no be here. For instance as this op dey run mouth so, do you know there are a number of things she deliberately may not divulge to make her appear right in the eyes of the jury? Oga, no be by black or white jare. Women will always be women. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by na2016: 2:31am On Oct 14, 2019 |
If I may react based on what you have written, you have brought you extended family into your new home and there will be "war" as long as that remains. Try and respect your husband and ignore certain things if you want your marriage to work. Marriage is not a competition between a man and a woman, you are supposed to complement your husband. If he came back and didnt buy baby food, nothing stopped you from going to buy it without quarrel. Doing this two or three times alone can even change the man. Your family that is urging you to come back, would be the same asking youto go and find a man and move out. Be wise and build your home! 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by GasAndOilTheory(m): 2:31am On Oct 14, 2019 |
olabrinks:a 23 year old baby mama. Please take several seats. Adults are talking .. Don't bother to quote me. You won't get a response 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Prompto: 2:34am On Oct 14, 2019 |
You can be all you want to be but once you decide to can't cope being a wife to your husband by all pleasure divorce him. It silly of anyone to convince a woman like you whose mind is already made up to stay in a union. Zhuhilat: |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Lionpikin(m): 2:37am On Oct 14, 2019 |
midnighter:That's what I thought too, probably the guy isn't ready for marriage but the op used pregnancy to force him ...they are both sounding like kids |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by InvertedHammer: 2:38am On Oct 14, 2019 |
/ You chose him and he chose you. He is your problem. Stop bothering people with your problems. / 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by AfroKnight: 2:44am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Now I understand why people would call a story one sided. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by BRATISLAVA: 2:46am On Oct 14, 2019 |
omonikiba:no wise men? How can heads not be able to build a home? So why don't women just build theirs alone after collecting their children? The problem with you religious types is that you've exonerated men from doing anything in their homes. They've been made tin gods and worshipped as heads, but at the end of the day still cannot be wise. All the seminars held are for women. Women should clean, have children, hold the family, cook, please the in-laws, be industrious, be sexy. What are men taught to be? The exact opposite of them, or worse still, they are encouraged to do nothing. The problem is that women are their own enemy. Women advising women to remain in toxic relationship, to salvage what their husbands have trashed and destroyed, to apologize even when they are right. Why would men ever be good when they make mistakes and the advice is always to apologize to them so as to keep them; and they cheat but women are instead told they were not good enough for their husbands? Are they God? The worst excuse for men is that wise women build their houses. If so, who is destroying it? Must be the men who do nothing and have no responsibility in homes except to be men and demand help from their wives, but turn around to destroy the homes. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Rejoice5000(f): 2:52am On Oct 14, 2019 |
1 Both of u has anger issue 2 Must u talk when he is talking to u remember men has Ego 3 Just 2yrs you have already thinking of looking outside WATCH URSELF VERY WELL U MIGHT BE THE CAUSE OF UR PAIN IN DAT MARRIAGE. 4 if u can send him to get a baby milk for u meaning he is a cool guy u just need a little work on him STOP GIVING DAT MAN STRESS PLEASE,ALLOW HIM TO HAVE PEACE@HIS OWN HOME I PUT ALL DIS BLAME ON U because OF UR STATEMENT ABOVE DAT U WILL START LOOKING OUTSIDE WHILE WETIN DEY LAGOS STILL DEY ABUJA TOO. 6 if he is talking or trying to correct u just keep calm don't try to rub shudder with him he is the man of the house ad u always push him to say things out of anger like leave the house etc. 7 Woman build ur home noting dey outside abi u neva tire for runs? 8 Above all pray more. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by dayleke: 2:57am On Oct 14, 2019 |
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Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by ekitimanalways(m): 2:59am On Oct 14, 2019 |
setobaba: Pleas do not hesitate to mention the very tribes that are naturally endowed with anger issues... I strongly believe that tribe(s) has or have got nothing to do with marital problems. |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by BRATISLAVA: 3:00am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Dpaulie:it's pretty clear that men are the architect of their family problems. They are always looking for ways to destroy homes. After you will want your wife to apologize to you, after your home destruction, so that you will feel like a man again, right? Why should anyone have to endure what you did, telling her to pack out? If done to you, you couldn't stand it. Women must endure, but what must men do It's because she was rich you listened. Otherwise you would've divorced her and been here ranting full of MGTOW about gold diggers when you were the problem in the relationship. The only people who destroy relationships are men. Just look at the above. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by seanjy4konji: 3:00am On Oct 14, 2019 |
We all are hypocrites with our comments. A Yoruba adage aye any one who hears a once sided story and gives judgement is the father said mother of all wickedness.. The same way you heard a part of dakolo rape case ND gave your judgement. Always a sided story.. In this case. We don't need the other side.. Woman... You seem too be the one who can't be totally submissive or willing to asap down from an argument..housewife does not need that. What happened to dropping your opinion and backing of but seems you always have to have the2 ast say. Seems you enjoy the argument and when. A man is broke or going through issues that you don't help them with? They nag. You should thread carefully This times. I'd you have your mind made up about finding love Ellie where them you don't need any advice..its part of the reason why instead of backing down on an argument to let peace rain, you be willing to Provoke the more. You have hurt that man in the past with an action he can't say out or doing something at the moment he doesn't like,using style to tell you to stop but you are proving stubborn.. He likkrssbyou. That's for sure.. You need to know what you are triggering. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by sexyyoyo(m): 3:02am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat: Madam you really need to calm down , I have been married for twelve years now so don't think I have no experience. You have to submit yourself totally, both of you can't be a goat , one has to be a sheep while the other is a goat . if your man call you names and asked you to leave his house and you also left, then something is wrong with you . do you really think its a good thing packing your stuffs and leaving your matrimonial home ? So long he is not beating you , why must you pack out ? All the names he call you, is it a true reflection of your character ?if not , why are you bothered ? One of you have to sacrifice for the marriage to work . As you both grow , you tend to understand each other the other . The worst mistake of your life is to start giving attentions or thinking there are better men out there . Don't fool yourself or make yourself a subject of ridicule . Sit down and stop packing out . stay put in your marriage and make it work . Your only complain is the names he do call you . Do you go hungry in his house ? Are you lacking any other thing ? No marriage is perfect but please make yours work . I beg you in the name of whatever you believe in and it shall end in praise . 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by BRATISLAVA: 3:06am On Oct 14, 2019 |
kevotek1000:if a man misbehaves the first thing to do is that the woman should check herself? Who did this to Nigerian men? Remorse means love? Who told you people that? No wonder women cheat. Too many excuses from men. If it were a woman what would you advice? 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by sexyyoyo(m): 3:08am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Rejoice5000: You nailed it . kudos 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Nooneonline(m): 3:08am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Prayer is the key |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by olabrinks(f): 3:09am On Oct 14, 2019 |
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Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by BRATISLAVA: 3:09am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Pavarottii:do you even believe him? |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by BRATISLAVA: 3:15am On Oct 14, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:how can you believe him? One moment he understands women, the next he is their worst nightmare. Giving loads of hogwash stories. I pity females who get with on-and-off guys. Perhaps he's one of those men who women use in real life, but come online to drill the rest to be "men"and how to be red pilled |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by etoete77: 3:16am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Madam Relax a little. Let's use the next option. 1. Have you heard him use such hash words during your dating. Then it may be part of his life. 2. If it is not normal, or he didn't use abusive words during your dating, then scoop down investigate, something is wrong. 3. He may proud, or something is making him to say those things. For example having a particular notion about you or something 4. Use one his friend to trace things out. 5. Watch yourself too on one area or the other. 6. Something is pissing him off. 7. Do your best first and see the rest would work out 1 Like |
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