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I don't care attitude, everyone complains about it.

Not helping the guy that was lying dead at Muritala mohammed airport last Saturday..

^ are you a trained health professional?

Fountainofyouth:
I don't care attitude, everyone complains about it.

Haven't you jumped on a few of my posts here, perhaps there are some things you don't care about but which everyone expects you to, you mean?

nairalandposter:
Haven't you jumped on a few of my posts here, perhaps there are some things you don't care about but which everyone expects you to, you mean?

Yes, mostly emotional.

Fountainofyouth:
Yes, mostly emotional.

ok

I think I like sex too much.

Are you afraid of her?

Hanks0000:
I love a lady and I can't tell her how much I do...

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madridguy:
Are you afraid of her?

I guess... That how I am...
I just dunno how to..

You need to man up and tell her straight how you're feeling towards her.

Hanks0000:
I guess... That how I am...
I just dunno how to..

I eat too much biscuits at night (I actually do steal them from my cupboard)

When someone hurt me,because of Christ, I do forgive but after that,I kind of lock up my inner man from that person(keep my fragile heart away from that person or situation, so I don't get hurt again)....sometimes, I will be asking myself if I have truly forgiven or I'm just been human.

Hanks0000:
I love a lady and I can't tell her how much I do...

Young man!
Use wisdom not emotions because emotional sentiments are deceptive.

I keep malice with someone for years.

If someone does something I don't like, I can'tt tell the person, I will just keep it in my mind.

It's bad but I don't know how to stop it.

MissOffpoint:
I keep malice with someone for years

I think this is a Nigerian thing.

If someone does something I don't like, I can'tt tell the person, I will just keep it in my mind

Also a Nigerian thing.

It's bad but I don't know how to stop it.

You can't necessarily stop it if it's your nature, probably learning how to forgive might be important.

Katier00:
I trust very easily and i don't learn from my mistakes

same with me, and I hate hurting people, I feel bad more than the people I hurt, the reason I don't have much friends.

MissOffpoint:
I keep malice with someone for years.

If someone does something I don't like, I can'tt tell the person, I will just keep it in my mind.

It's bad but I don't know how to stop it.

that attitude affects relationship

I am too ohnest and find it hard to forgive trusted offender.
I need help on the forgiving ish before I turn to a bitter woman.

I talk so fast

nigeriagospel:
same with me, and I hate hurting people, I feel bad more than the people I hurt, the reason I don't have much friends.

how come we are of a kind

I'm a bad spender, I'm too considerate(took someone to tell me before I noticed this) too trusting, get Unnecessarily annoyed when people don't keep up to their end of an agreement And I resumed drinking after 2 years break.

I am the most evasive piece of shitt you can ever meet(I never admit but yea). Stubborn to say the least. Too trusting which is detrimental. I relish in my own solitude and want everything to go my way, most times. I also pride myself to be independent which sometimes , I wish I could be the opposite.
I over analyze things and a perfectionist and that has created an imbalance in my life. I can only pursue one thing, not two. If I do, I fail at it. The ways I show affection are not affectionate. I hate chit chats(idle conversations) ...e.t.c

I have a lot to say but I will let it go and before I go....we did a test at work sometime ago and I found out by MBTI personality test that I am INTJ, (choleric melancholy for some other test). By the way, Y’all may want to look it up and then research on your personality type as it affects your behavior and accounts largely for your life style.

NLposter, what's even the purpose of this thread if all you do is to read the "bad attitudes" and even ask JAMB questions about them, but never proffer any solution or advice?