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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Amiee99(f): 9:46am On Oct 22, 2019
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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by midnighter(f): 10:01am On Oct 22, 2019
dazzlingd:


Welcome to a nation infested with people who lacks logic

As in, most people didnt even read what he wrote but they will be saying whatever they feel like

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by olawalesammy(m): 10:03am On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.
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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by olawalesammy(m): 10:06am On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Abolajihowells2: 10:13am On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.




If u don't mind contact me for cheap agbo (herb)
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by litaninja(m): 10:17am On Oct 22, 2019
One question sir....
HAVE YOU ACTUALLY TRIED TO HAVE SEX WITH SAID PE*IS??


Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Kvngwitty(m): 10:20am On Oct 22, 2019
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked




In other words, your pendulum only gets erect when lying down but it goes limp if you stand up?
That's not impotency neither is it a gravitational problem in your preek.

It is a divine sign from God that you were born to be a missionary but you've run away from your calling like Jonah.
I'd just advice you stick to missionary position or just marry a cowgirl.
But stop worrying over irrelevant things.

Some people have preek but no pubic hairs, others have big balls and small sticks while some don't even have a preek that can spit out akamu.

But here you are with a functional preek and can eat freely from a spoon, yet you want to commit suicide just because you can't doggie.



Mad ooooo �
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Gbengageorge: 11:01am On Oct 22, 2019
A very good advice, I have another suggestion for you, remove the fear of your condition, and you will pass over it.

johnmattew:
eat more fruits, vegetables,dark chocolate, walnuts,tiger nuts and ginseng

*stop masturbating
*stop taking alcohol, sugary and energy drinks...replace them with herbal tea
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Destiblack(m): 11:08am On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.



My guy u r the one destroying ur generation with ur thoughts . Do this, always eat water melon, Cucumber, ginger juice and eat less sugar. Do it for a month,invite ur girl and see the wonders. Always be happy,never let the thought destroy ur future today.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by maasoap(m): 11:08am On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:
There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue

How? What happened?
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by imustsaymymindo: 11:15am On Oct 22, 2019
okomogo:

I had similar issue but I realized later it was all in my brain. I started sexual activity when I was a teenager, all through my teenage year till I was 26, I never ejaculated for one day no matter how long I had sex. I spent money going from one hospital to another, they keep telling me it was psychological but I did my research just like you and I was sure I had a condition. After some years, I gave up and decided to use my gift of lasting as long as possible to enjoy myself. I made several promise of huge sum for any one that can make me cum. It didn't happen until one fateful day.my girlfriend seduced me, I didn't think about cumming when we started and just after few minutes, I felt this sensation from all part of my body. Bros I used sperm design our room, I was out of control but I felt very free and pleasured. That was the change of my story till date...God will help you discover your cure. I know nothing is wrong with you, it's just in your head and you need to get it out.

Did this condition ever re-occur in subsequent sexual encounters after your first ejaculation?

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by deyongprof01: 11:19am On Oct 22, 2019
OP, It’s a good thing you’ve identified the problem. Believe you me, there are solutions to it. Only that we do not know about them. Message me or call me on +2348100258866 if you don’t mind.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Kingpele(m): 11:19am On Oct 22, 2019
[quote author=Hope777 post=83336834]Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. [ don't give up, continue to seek both medical and spiritual solutions to your health problems, u might be alright again yet never kill your self cos it won't solve your problems... Tomorrow is always better than our today... Hope is essential ingredient of life, without it, we lose ourselves to today's ugly experiences
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Elsy40: 11:20am On Oct 22, 2019
I strongly advise you go to dunamis Glory Doom Abuja this Friday night. God still heals only if u believe.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by JerryJJZ(m): 11:23am On Oct 22, 2019
Bro, you are not alone. Many are working in thesame line as yours, just the story line is different but thesame results thereof. Lets hook up on Whatsapp @08165578856.... I will be visiting Osun next month as well, we can as well meet physically. Lets chase it together, I repeat "YOU ARE NOT ALONE"
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by shomutuski(m): 12:00pm On Oct 22, 2019
You're are not impotent! You have a medical condition that can be corrected but not in nigeria. YOur sperm is fertile! Seek other methods like ivf
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by zakkxx: 12:10pm On Oct 22, 2019
My brother u are in your twenties don’t worry may be God is protecting u from Stds like hiv, staph, Gono etc. just pray for a Godly wife; once she goes on her feet and pray, my brother your lost glory will be from story to glory. Chilux my Niga. Or more soo go for penis check up, if anything like that exist.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Bauer1: 12:17pm On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:


I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.

I'm sorry about what you are passing through bro... And I wish I could help you in that regard, but I can't... What I can help you with, though, is the answer to your question...

https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/questions/why-did-the-holocaust-happen/

I implore you to keep seeking a solution to your problems and answers to your questions... But don't ever let suicide be an option...

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by JerryJude(m): 12:23pm On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:


How do you explain people that get cured from illness by prayers? I know God exists but why he allows bad things happen to people is what i don't understand.

Thanks though
God doesn't allow bad thing happen to people, but satan bring bad things to your way to create fear in you and enable you question the existence of God. but if your faith is strong in God you dont need to fear bc he owns the future...it doesn't take God a second to get ur problem resolve.but the questions is how do you trust in God ? what is the level of faith in God ? do you believe on the absolute totality of God's power ?do u easily doubt God most esp. in a circumstance like this..? Read James 1:13. my advice to you when try all possible medical intervention and it fails.. don't hesitate to surrender all to him..he has the spare parts to all the anatomy of our body and organs..
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Ayiibobo(m): 12:35pm On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:


This is a physical/organic issue. Like I said I manage to get average erections when not standing (50%) but as soon as I stand its gone. I hear this is because of where the leak occurs and how gravity affects the drain. You can picture a bottle that has a leak on top; there won't be any water draining until it is turned over (change of gravity).

I am in the south west so I have seen a lot of these herbals that claim to work.. Many in Osun State here.
i feel ur pain bro,but since u are not sexually active,u can't come to conclusion yet,the internet is a messed up place most times to check for health issues,i would suggest u try to have sex with a woman,and observe to be sure,..cos it might be ur brain playing tricks like the doctors said
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by tiziano(m): 12:39pm On Oct 22, 2019
[quote author=SoNature post=83350375]

Have you had some common sense, you would have known it was a typo.

The first word is "words"

U wan teach your papa English[/q]

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Goddys(m): 12:56pm On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:


This is a physical/organic issue. Like I said I manage to get average erections when not standing (50%) but as soon as I stand its gone. I hear this is because of where the leak occurs and how gravity affects the drain. You can picture a bottle that has a leak on top; there won't be any water draining until it is turned over (change of gravity).

I am in the south west so I have seen a lot of these herbals that claim to work.. Many in Osun State here.

Meet a strong man of God for a prayer. If you don't know any, come to Ijesha Lagos and ask for Lord's Chosen Church, tell the pastor you meet your problem. Watch out will happen if you heed to this. Miracles still happen in this generation like in the olden days. Goodluck

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Mologi(m): 12:56pm On Oct 22, 2019
You can preserve your sperm now.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by TheGreatIYANU: 1:09pm On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future....

Bro, you're of all men most blessed! God (Nature) has removed from you, the biggest trap any man can ever face. The energy you would have used to frolic, chase women, waste money, etc should now be channeled into becoming the greatest man you can be.

Bros, channel your energy now into becoming GREAT!

Once you achieve it and all the perks of greatness lie at your behest, you can channel most of your resources to finding a cure... for yourself and mankind!

Who knows, you may even have RECONSTRUCTIVE SURGERY on your penile organ.

Bro, see your cup half-full. Time to make some money, then find a SOLUTION!

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by ugotex85: 1:10pm On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:


This is a physical/organic issue. Like I said I manage to get average erections when not standing (50%) but as soon as I stand its gone. I hear this is because of where the leak occurs and how gravity affects the drain. You can picture a bottle that has a leak on top; there won't be any water draining until it is turned over (change of gravity).

I am in the south west so I have seen a lot of these herbals that claim to work.. Many in Osun State here.
Have you tried the impossibility specialist? His name is Jesus Christ, turn to Him and He will change your story.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by TheSourcerer: 1:33pm On Oct 22, 2019
Bigflamie:
Shits happen in this life, how can someone not be able to have sex. I can't even imagine it.

The part where you asked why God allow bad things happen to people, well I don't think God exists cos I've seen so many things that prove that he's not existing.

Don't give up in pursuit for cure.
True � he, God doesn't exist .

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by mrmachine: 1:36pm On Oct 22, 2019
Please don't kill yourself. I hope your parents are aware of this! They shouldn't just put unnecessary pressure on you to get married for now while you intensify the quest for cure. I believe God can do all things, just give your life totally, be close to him and beg him for help. He is not wicked

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by sladimeji(m): 1:52pm On Oct 22, 2019
Get married sooner and dont keep this from your spouse...Most importantly dont stop praying about it

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by slimderek(m): 1:57pm On Oct 22, 2019
And when it finally falls, You can apply to become a Catholic Priest. At least Knowledge is a turn on
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Nobody: 2:06pm On Oct 22, 2019
Perhaps you should try to learn how to do pelvis floor and pen*s massages for yourself. That can help heal damaged nerves and tissue, as well as strengthen muscles. Pelvic floor stretches and exercises that increase blood flow to your thighs are also helpful. No problem is without a solution. As you said, this happened as a result of trauma. The solution is in finding a way to heal the injuries. Jut because the doctors say there is no way don't mean that is true. Modern medicine is very limited in its knowledge. Cheers.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 3:48pm On Oct 22, 2019
uchmann:
Perhaps you should try to learn how to do pelvis floor and pen*s massages for yourself. That can help heal damaged nerves and tissue, as well as strengthen muscles. Pelvic floor stretches and exercises that increase blood flow to your thighs are also helpful. No problem is without a solution. As you said, this happened as a result of trauma. The solution is in finding a way to heal the injuries. Jut because the doctors say there is no way don't mean that is true. Modern medicine is very limited in its knowledge. Cheers.

Apart from doctors and prayers is there any other.option?

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